11: Drifting Shower Schedule
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Hello, and welcome to episode 11 of Upgrade on Relay FM.
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This episode of Upgrade is brought to you
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by Studio NEAT, makers of the Glyph, the Cosmonaut,
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And Mailroute, a secure, hosted email service
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for protection from viruses and spam, which you don't want.
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My name is Myke Hurley, and I'm joined, as always,
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by your host and mine, Mr. Jason Snell.
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- Hey Myke, how's it going?
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- Very well, sir, how are you?
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- I'm doing great.
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How's your Thanksgiving week going?
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- Oh, so good.
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I have so many thanks to give.
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I don't even know where I'll start.
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- Well, we'll cover that later then.
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I, in our episode where we had Scott McNulty on
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went so well that I've invited somebody to join us
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on this episode too.
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- I'm not gonna make you guess because you know who it is.
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It is my friend Greg Noss.
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- Greg and I went to college together.
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Greg knows everybody on the internet,
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or at least knew everybody on the internet
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in the early to mid 90s.
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Would that be accurate?
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- Literally everybody.
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- I think actually.
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- There were like three dozen of us.
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- A lot of the people who were early website creators
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and bloggers and the like in the 90s,
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that was, believe it or not, a very tight knit community.
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There were not that many of them and Greg,
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every now and then I would run into somebody
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and they would know Greg.
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It was very funny.
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And I would say, you know, I went to college with Greg.
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It was just, 'cause we, Greg was a common bond
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in a lot of conversations.
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There was a day where John Gruber mentioned Greg
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on "Daring Fireball" and I was like, what is happening?
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Just completely-- - Welcome to Upgrade,
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Mr. Neistat. - All around the other way.
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Yeah. - Thank you very much.
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Greg is here for a very good reason, which we'll get to,
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which is that he, like Myke and me,
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is somebody who no longer has a big company
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employing him as a full-time employee.
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Is that still accurate, Greg?
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You didn't take a job last week when we set this up,
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did you? - No.
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- Okay. - No.
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- But we'll talk about it. - Couldn't if I wanted to.
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- But we should do follow-up first.
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- Indeed, we should.
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- Follow-up. - Follow-up.
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Sorry, I'm used to that sound effect
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from a totally different podcast that doesn't exist anymore.
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Just a little bit of follow-up this week
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from previous episodes.
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We talked about podcasting
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and I wrote about podcasting today on six colors.
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Enough talk about podcasters.
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Talking about podcasting on podcasts is boring
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and we shouldn't do too much of it,
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but I have a couple little bits.
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One, oh my God, I lost who this is from.
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Now I feel really terrible.
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I'm gonna see if I can figure that out.
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It's a, this person wrote in.
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- I can find this, I can do this.
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- Unnamed, oh no, it's listener Russ.
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- Good work.
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- Listener Russ, I just got it in time.
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Listener Russ wrote in just talking about how,
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when we were talking about the uptake of podcasts
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and having them break out into a broader audience
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that he wanted to point out that many churches
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have podcasts of their sermons
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and there's actually a white label app
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called the Church app that lets you
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basically I think build an app version for your church with a podcast feed and they actually do
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like drives to donate old phones or iPod touches that they can put the app on and take to people
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who can't make it to the service to shut-ins so that they can get the sermons every week instead
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of like sending them CDs or something like that. And he says that the company he works for does
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web and app platforms for agriculture companies and one of their customers has a podcast player
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built into their app. So it's an interesting idea that there are some closed platforms
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that are basically podcasts, but they're tied into one organization and it's sort of hardwired,
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which actually kind of makes sense if you want people to listen to what you have to
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say and you don't want to say, "Oh, go get a podcast app and search for us in iTunes."
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If you just build it into your app and just say, "You've got our app, right? Well, you
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can go to this screen of this app and just listen to what we have to say," which is an
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interesting perspective. I hadn't really thought about hardwiring podcasts into other apps.
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So that's neat. So Myke, there's a future for you in agriculture-related podcasting.
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It's kind of all I've ever really wanted, so I'm happy for it.
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I figured. You seem like an agriculture kind of guy.
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Good old farm boy. Yeah. I guess technically I would be the one
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who should be doing agriculture related farmcasts.
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- That's very true actually. - Farmcast.
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Oh my God, I said farmcast, farmcast.
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It's a thing, copyright, trademark,
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R with a circle in it, farmcast.
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It's gonna happen.
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I'm gonna do one about sheep.
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I'm gonna do one about horses.
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Do one about horses and buggies,
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which is totally different vertical from horses.
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We may talk about barn maintenance.
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These are all things that I actually did grow up with.
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So I could totally do it. - All the important things
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really. - Farmcast.
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Look out, see a relay FM.
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The Farmcast network is on the air right now.
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I did grow up.
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We weren't really as much a farm as a ranch, but yeah,
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we had cows and barns and stuff.
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I'll do a podcast about that one day.
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Nobody will listen.
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Lister and Jeff also wrote in with a definition of podcast.
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He said it's like a radio talk show that's
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distributed over the internet instead of over the air.
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That's not a bad way to define it.
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And I actually just had somebody today on Twitter
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argue with me a little bit about my definition.
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Listener, Ash Doyle, who said,
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"Well, is it really a medium?
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"Isn't just spoken word a medium?"
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And you could argue whether it's a medium
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or a format or whatever.
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I think podcasting is very different
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from what we think of as radio.
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And I just wanted to mention that Tim Goodman
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from The Hollywood Reporter,
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who I do a podcast with called TV Talk Machine,
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he's always described podcasting as radio
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without the listeners, which I think is a lovely description.
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That's how I tell my mother what I'm doing.
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It's like radio except nobody listens.
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So there you go.
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Nobody but us people.
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That's a podcast followup.
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Listener Sebastian wrote in via Twitter
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to talk about app store pricing.
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And basically he says,
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I paid $15 for an iOS game, Civilization Revelation 2, and I think it's fairly priced.
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I hate in-app purchases for games. I prefer to pay more and have the whole thing right there.
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Which I agree with. I think I might have mentioned this on a previous show. Like, I really like Super
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Stickman Golf, and I felt like when Super Stickman Golf 2 came out, they had calibrated it so much for
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buying coins and tokens and unlocking things piecemeal.
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And Rob Griffiths did this analysis and figured out it would take several hundred dollars
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to unlock everything in Super Stickman Golf 2.
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And like Lister Sebastian, I feel like if I really like a game, I would like to pay
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one reasonable price and just unlock it and be done with the...
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Even if they...
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I'll pay upfront, but if they want to do some sort of nickel and diming kind of thing, I'd
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like the option to say, "Look, I want to go all in."
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Can I just buy this now?
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So many times I wish this.
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Like okay, I get it, but just let me pay like $10 if that's what it takes so I don't have
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to keep jumping round and round through these hoops of purchasing things.
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Right, because some people will just keep paying 99 cents for everything.
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And that's fine, that's fine, but I'm not going to do that.
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So they have two choices.
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Either I can just abandon their game and maybe that's fine with them, or give me the option
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to pay them a reasonable price to unlock their game.
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I would like to do that.
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I wish more game developers would do that.
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So if they're not gonna make me pay upfront,
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could they make me unlock later?
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I don't know.
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App store dynamics are difficult.
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Greg, you released an app for $2, is that right?
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- And how'd that go?
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- Publicity was terrific.
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Economically, it hasn't been like great.
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I could have freelanced with that time
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and made quite a bit more money.
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My thinking with the $2 was,
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if you're gonna spend a buck, you're gonna spend two.
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And the one year anniversary is coming up
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and I'm toying about whether just to make it free
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and with or without ads,
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just because it's selling like three or four copies
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a week now and that doesn't mean anything to me.
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And I'd rather have my code out there and in use
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than have it not be in use because it's a couple of bucks.
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I don't want to disappoint the people who forked over
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the $2 anytime in the past year.
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I am officially now cannibalizing all sales I'm going to make
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between now and the one year anniversary.
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But it wasn't frustrating because I did it for fun.
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But if I had to make a living building apps,
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I have no idea what the line is between being reasonable
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and exploitative in order to make enough money to get by,
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the app economy just seems like a disaster area to me.
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That in order to be successful,
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you either have to get really, really lucky,
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or you have to exploit your users in some way.
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And neither of those seem like viable options.
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- Yeah, Myke was talking on "Inquisitive" this week
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with the executive producer is the title that he invented
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so that people would not ask for his manager,
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who did Monument Valley from US2Games.
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And that was really interesting to hear Myke walk
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through that and people out there who haven't listened
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to that interview, you should go listen to it.
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It's really interesting, but they invested a lot in it.
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They took a risk, they had some luck and,
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but they've been successful with that.
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But I feel like the game,
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you take the game economy out of the App Store
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and the rest of the app economy is more problematic.
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And then you look at somebody like Marco Arment,
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who I think if you asked him a year or two ago,
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if he would do a freemium app,
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he would be like, no, that's crazy.
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And that's what he did.
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Overcast is free with an upgrade.
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- I think Overcast is a pretty good model.
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It's not exploitative because you can just buy it
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once you've tried the app out.
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- Well, it's a demo, right?
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It's using an app purchase for demo purposes.
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But if, I mean, I don't know how many copies Marco has sold,
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but is having a single app or two
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with a reasonable price point in the app store
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a way to make a living long-term?
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- I don't know. - No.
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I mean, I just don't see it.
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- Some people do it, but they seem to have a spread of,
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they seem to have a spread of,
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like James Thompson has Pcalc for iOS
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and Pcalc for Mac and DragThing for Mac.
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And he's got a spread.
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And I think iOS is doing better for him than the Mac is.
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But you know, it's not-
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- But Peacock is also the very best app of its kind.
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- That's true.
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That's definitely true.
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- And it's got a wide audience and universal acclaim.
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And to stand out in the app store,
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you need to have basically all of those things.
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It's a challenge.
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I mean, it's a challenge for game developers too.
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- Oh, absolutely.
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I think game developers have it even worse,
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just because if you don't get noticed
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in your first like eight hours,
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you are rolled under the avalanche
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of what's coming behind you.
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- Talking about games, can I just recommend Crossy Road
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to anybody that hasn't played it?
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- No, no, stop it.
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- So good. - You're spreading the disease.
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- I think my high score is 129.
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- Nice, that's a good score.
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- What's yours, Myke?
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- I think I got into 200.
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- Wow. - Let me double check.
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I wanna double check now.
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- I'm at one point impressed by the fact that I've got 129
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and another point I felt like it was doable to the point
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where I could go a lot further.
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That if I really put my mind to it and took a day off
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and just played Crossy Road all day.
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- I have stopped seeing anybody's name.
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I can reach my high score and not pass anybody.
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- 236 is my top score.
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- Oh my God, well that's good.
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- I'm pretty proud of that one.
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- I got 128 as my high score
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and the next day I played it some more
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and I got 128 again and then I was like, this is it.
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I'm gonna break it and I died.
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I was like, no, but I got the same.
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And then I got 129 another time,
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just one more and then died.
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But it's a good game.
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- You clearly understand and achieve your peak.
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You know, you've got your level there.
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- You know, I took the SAT, the college exams twice
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because I wanted to improve on my score.
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And the component scores changed slightly,
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but in opposite directions.
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So my score was the same the second time.
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And I had friends who were like,
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"Well, are you gonna take the SAT again?"
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And I said, "Nope, I think I found my level."
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I got the same score twice, we're done.
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- I did exactly the same thing.
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- Huh, it's like, this was accurate.
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I don't know if this is an accurate depiction
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of whether I'll be successful in college or not,
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but whatever score I get is the score I'm gonna get.
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letters what we call we've ruined we've ruined college yeah sats sure okay
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well I just want to explain crossy road is a game it's like Frogger except it's
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infinite there aren't levels it is in the style of you know pixelated art I
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I suppose it's in the style of Flappy Bird,
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who's on the internet, tweeted about it and said, basically,
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I played Flappy Bird all day, got 70
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and threw my phone across the room.
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Andy's son, Elliot, is a video game savant,
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and he has like a 384 high score now.
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- Oh my God.
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- Yes, you're being humiliated by a 10 year old Jason.
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Andy's super good for stuff like that.
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- Yeah, oh yeah, Andy spots everything before it's big.
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He's a cool finder in the term of the 90s.
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Let's talk about a friend, Myke.
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- Good idea.
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divergences, which he says are committed with great frequency on this very show, fair enough.
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Here in the US, things that are not alike are different from each other, whereas in
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the UK these things are different to each other. Is that accurate, Myke? Would you say
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Yeah, I would say it's different to this rather than different from this.
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it is that Myke gets to expose all the strange things that Americans say and all the strange
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things that English people say.
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Which brings me to my topic, which is Thanksgiving.
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And I wanted, it is Thanksgiving week,
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and I wanted to ask you,
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what do you know of Thanksgiving, Myke?
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What is your, as an English person,
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what is your perspective on what this holiday is,
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and what we do for Thanksgiving?
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- So my understanding of Thanksgiving
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is that it's celebrating the pilgrims
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coming from Europe somewhere to the shores of America.
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- Your place, your place actually, but yes.
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- And it was when, I mean, I think like the story goes,
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like you arrived and worked with the Native Americans
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to build a new beautiful land,
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but it's probably more like arrived, killed them,
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stole the land.
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- And how-- - Totally assumed.
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- It's not, in fact, the story of Thanksgiving
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is about the first settlers in New England having--
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I hope I don't get this wrong--
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actually having a hard winter and having difficulty
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feeding themselves, and that the Indians brought them food.
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And it was a sort of like a celebration and a bonding
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and things, which I'm not going to talk about what
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happened in the long run, but that it's
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this nice sort of moment.
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And obviously, it's a harvest celebration.
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Canadians have Thanksgiving and they have it about a month earlier because the harvest
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is earlier that much further north. But it really is sort of in the tradition of a fall
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harvest holiday. So what do you think, what do you know of what we do for Thanksgiving?
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So, everybody gets together, the families all come together for like holiday times.
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So in effect like a Christmas dinner or something like that, everybody gets together, you have
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a big family meal, I know that cranberry sauce is part of it, there is some sort of dish
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which has marshmallows in it, like a casserole or something. This feels like that show, like
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one of those shows where you ask a child to explain like what is this item. There's the
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Macy's parade thing with the big inflatables and there tends to be a big American football
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game that day. These are things that I've mainly picked up from Friends.
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You mean the TV show Friends or Friends on the Internet?
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A bit of both, but mainly the TV show. Okay, that's what I thought you meant. The
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one with the Thanksgiving parade. Oh, and there's Turkey. Turkey is a big thing.
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Turkey. Well, I was going to say, I feel like in some ways your conception of Christmas
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in the UK, you could just kind of like take that and make it Thanksgiving, because it's
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kind of like that. It's a big meal, families get together, have a turkey. The dish with
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marshmallows, I wouldn't say, this is not like Passover where they're like very specific
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things that everybody does. It's not quite as regimented as something like that. It's
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a, there, people do have a marshmallowy candied yam kind of thing. Greg, what was the, what
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were the main Thanksgiving things that you'd have at Thanksgiving or that you have now?
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absolutely classic Thanksgiving. Turkey, stuffing. Stuffing. Yams? Do you have the can?
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Cranberry sauce in the shape of the can. Yes, for sure. Oh, I know that one from the Simpsons.
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Yeah, yeah. See, that's it. That's about right. I mean, it is families, people travel to do it.
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One of the nice things about it, one of the things I like about Thanksgiving is that it's
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kind of a firewall against Christmas. Really the Christmas season doesn't start.
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Oh god, if only that were true.
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And no way, really. Well, I consider that Thanksgiving is like a firewall that holds
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back most of the tide of Christmas and Christmas music and Christmas displays until after
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Thanksgiving. It's not entirely true, but I'm telling you, I was at, coming back from
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Uhl last year, I was at the, oh no, it was, that was spring, coming back from Ireland
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when I was there with IDG last fall. It was mid-October and the entire Dublin airport was
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full of Christmas stuff. And I asked somebody why that was, and they theorized that there's no—you
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could really do it anytime, whereas I think in the US we've got Thanksgiving as at least a little bit
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of a dividing line, like this is when the holidays start. And so that's nice. And you get a second
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feast day basically. You've got this big meal day, there are, there used to be two, now there are three
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American football games on that day, so you turn on the usual, often terrible, so you usually turn
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that on and it's in the background and the Dallas Cowboys are winning by 50 points or whatever, or
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losing by 50 points. It's really a good game, and but it's a feast day like Christmas except there
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are no presents really, it's just about the family and the feast part. And my mom always made candy
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yams. So that was the weird super soft sweet potatoes with melted like marshmallowy goo
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on the top, which I never really liked. They were weird and sweet and all that. We're having
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people over. I think we're having like 10 or 11 people this year and we're having it
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here. We usually go to my wife's parents house for Thanksgiving and last year we went to
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my mom's house. This year we're having people here so we have to write a table because our
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our table only seats six and we've got like 10, 11, 12 people coming. I'm cooking a turkey
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using Alton Brown's brine, turkey brine recipe. We're gonna have, my son has insisted that
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we have rolls, we have crescent rolls, so we're gonna do that and my wife makes a cornbread
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dressing that's again an Alton Brown recipe and there'll be some sort of vegetable and
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I won't eat it. And that's pretty much been a constant in my life since my first Thanksgiving.
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makes vegetables and I go, "Nope. Not gonna eat that."
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You also forgot having the relatives that you avoid on Facebook come over to your house
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and spend eight hours. Oh yeah. Well, before Facebook, that weird cousin
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or uncle that would say impolitic things at the table, that was like a Thanksgiving thing,
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right? And now you can just go on Facebook and they're doing that all the time.
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Thanksgiving has gotten a lot easier since my in-laws died.
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- Well, on that happy note.
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- Well, you got it now?
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Are you clear now, Myke?
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You got Thanksgiving?
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- It really is the beginning of the holiday season.
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I like Thanksgiving a lot.
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I feel like it is not only a firewall against Christmas,
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so it doesn't spill too far into November and October,
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but I also love that it's a kickoff.
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That it's like this is the beginning of this period
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where there are so many different kind of holiday things
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going on ending at New Year's.
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So I like that about it too.
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So it's a lot of fun.
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And is there anything, so my last question before,
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this is the US-UK divide vertical we're doing here.
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Is there anything like this some other time of year
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in England where there's a feast day like this
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or is it really just for Easter and Christmas
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and that's about it?
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- To my knowledge right now,
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I can't think of any specific meal
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that we don't share with you guys.
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We also don't have something
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that's kind of like the 4th of July.
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We don't have a celebration like that.
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I mean, the only other thing that we do
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that you guys don't do is fireworks night
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on the 5th of November,
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which is about Guy Fawkes night.
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Guy Fawkes tried to blow up parliament,
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and we celebrated.
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- I've seen V for Vendetta.
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- There you go, V for Vendetta.
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- You have a documentary?
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Yeah, it's a very historically accurate movie about Guy Fawkes.
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That's kind of the only thing that I can think of.
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I feel like I'm forgetting something glaringly obvious, like Britain's Day or something,
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but I can't think of anything.
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And my last question is, has U.S. culture infiltrated to the point where people in the
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UK are actually like, some people do something for Thanksgiving, like we've infiltrated you
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with Halloween?
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Or has that not happened?
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Because Halloween you can kind of get away with, but like Thanksgiving like what we're giving...
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It doesn't make any... It can't translate. Like what are we giving thanks for?
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I mean things like Black Friday exists here now.
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So we have Black Friday.
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That's okay. It's not like the Black Friday sort of sales that happen in the States.
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People aren't trampling each other.
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But there are just that... It's not even really called Black Friday.
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It's just a day that there are sales because there are a lot of American companies that just carry the sale over so like
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Apple for example, they have a sale day on that Friday
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So the Friday after Thanksgiving
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Okay, I feel like we've we've worked this out and
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Joe Steele in the chat room is pointing out that he's looking forward to you quizzing me about Boxing Day come
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Whenever Boxing Day is I know where it is. It's the day after
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It's the day after Christmas and that's a day that Britain celebrates its most famous boxers
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Including I can't name an English boxer. Sorry. It's really it's really for Muhammad Ali though. I mean, it's not for the dogs. Oh
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Hmm good question. I actually can never remember what Boxing Day is about there's so many like conflicting things
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It's just it's just a day after Christmas
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Lost to history, yeah, exactly.
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Many families like mine kind of celebrate it by having a repeat of Christmas dinner.
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So we have another one.
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So that's when we have our Thanksgiving dinner, is on Boxing Day.
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I was talking to somebody who's doing just that. They have two Thanksgivings.
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They're at one person's house on the Wednesday and then on the Thursday they're doing their own.
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It's like double turkey, double shot of turkey.
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We used to have three Christmases, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and then the 26th afterwards,
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depending on who we had to service with our presents.
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Wow. Well, happy holidays, everybody.
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Hey, Myke. Is it time to talk about another friend?
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It is. This is actually a good friend to talk about in regards to the holiday season. This
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episode of Upgrade is brought to you by Studio Neat. Studio Neat is a design company with just
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Those two employees, Tom and Dan, make cool stuff with the aim of making your life a little
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The Glyph is a perfect companion.
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It's just one of those little things that ends up being super useful in a ton of situations,
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especially of all the photo and video apps that are out there nowadays.
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Tom and Dan have a couple of ideas of some things that you can do with your iPhone over
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the holidays and I really thought they'd be cool to share with you.
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So these are some things that you can do when you pair your iPhone and the Glyph together.
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So maybe you're being a super cool parent and helping your kids build their Lego sets
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this holiday season.
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Of course they're just for the children, not for you at all.
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Wait, if they are, you can make a cool stop motion video with them.
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So maybe you could make a stop motion of you building the set, or maybe make a little video
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of Lego Batman coming to life and catching the Joker or something like that.
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So it'd be pretty cool to do.
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Maybe you want to be in those family portraits for once, so you could use your glyph to mount
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your iPhone to a tripod and use the new timer feature in the camera app to do that.
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Or maybe you want to make a much calmer opening gifs time-lapse.
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All right, we have two topics
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and the big one is the fun employment topic.
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But before we get there,
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I wanted to cover a really mini topic, which is,
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and I think Greg might have opinions about this too.
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So I'm glad Greg's here.
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And if you don't have opinions about it, Greg,
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then you know, it's fine.
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Don't read the comments is what my notes say.
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Recode this week, Walt Mossberg and Kara Swisher's website
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with news and reviews and things like that,
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turned off comments.
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They shut down, they did a site redesign
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and they got rid of article comments.
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And there was a varied reaction to this.
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There were some people saying, yes, yes, it's about time.
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And there were other people saying, boo, Recode
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doesn't care what their audience has to say.
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And people who have big commenting communities
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like The Verge made sort of snide comments
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about how their comments are great
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and so they're much cooler than sites that don't have them.
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And other people have made it a policy
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never to read the comments and have said,
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comments are a cesspool and good riddance.
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Chris Breen at Macworld, my former colleague over there,
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wrote a nice piece, I think,
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where he went into the reasons why you'd want to kill
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comments and why you'd want to keep comments.
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And in the end, his point was comments can be good
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if you've got a good community with clear rules.
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And, you know, in fact, at one point at IDG,
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we had a community manager whose job full time
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was to patrol the forums and set the rules
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and work with the community.
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and that was great. These days, as you might imagine, I think there's, you know, Chris
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Breen basically is patrolling the Macworld forums himself, the story comment threads
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himself, but he feels that it's valuable to do that because you get a much higher quality
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of comment if you bring down the ban hammer on bad behavior and make it clear what's okay
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and what's not okay. And that can have some value that just sort of diffusely saying,
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about this on social media, which is what Rico had said, might not be able to let you
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do. So, do you guys have any thoughts about this story and about comments on the internet
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and whether they should be on or off?
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I like never find a situation in which comments on most articles are useful. So much that
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I never even bother to read them. The only time that I ever look in comments is when,
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say I'm looking at an instructional article, like for example how to flash an Android phone
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to put a new ROM on it. Yes, I've done this, it's a horrible thing. If I'm having some
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sort of bug or problem with the process, then I may look in the comments to see if anybody
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else is having the same issue. I never look in comments of articles for thoughtful opinion
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because 90% of the time most of the stuff that I've ever seen is kind of useless. I
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feel like if comments are the type of thing that you're looking for, communities like
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Reddit are a lot better for that type of thing. I genuinely feel like myself that comments
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on an article on the page in which the article is written tend to trend towards uselessness.
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Yeah. Greg, do you have any thoughts about commenting?
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Neil Dash, I think, wrote a couple of years ago the definitive opinion on comments,
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which is you get the community that you work towards. That if you decide to just leave your
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comments open, you're going to get every foul-mouthed little jerk out there who can,
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you know, manage to create an account and leave horrific profanity, that's what you're going to
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be stuck with unless you actually actively work towards patrolling your community and cleaning up
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your comments. And that takes time and that takes money and it can be very expensive, but when it
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works it can really work. You can have a vibrant community, but if you're not willing to put in
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the effort I would not provide the trolls with the platform. Yeah, I... It just seems as simple as
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is that to me and so many people open up comments because they think it's going to increase
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the number of views they have or it's going to increase participation but your community
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becomes how people recognize your site and if you're not willing to patrol your community
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with the same attention you give your content then they will override it and make everything
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else you do moot.
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I mean there's a reason why newspaper, so many newspaper sites the comments are terrible
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as the newspapers didn't put the comments there because they value your comments.
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They put them there because, and I know this from my time at IDG,
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forums don't make money, right?
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Like advertisers don't want to be on forums.
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If you put ad rotations on forum pages, nobody clicks on them,
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nobody's looking at them, they're there to be in a conversation.
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So instead, what you do is you stick them on a story page.
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And then it's a page view.
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Every time people come back to comment, it's a page view for the story.
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and stories have value, right?
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Even though these people are not really reading the story,
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they're just going there to argue.
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And so there is one aspect of it from some publishers
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that is completely cynical, which is, you know,
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we're only doing this because it improves our traffic.
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And most of those publishers do not have very much of an,
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are not making much of an investment
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into having it be a real community.
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I know at Macworld, we had for a long time,
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Lisa Schmeiser did it for a long time.
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and then Kelly Parker did it for a long time,
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but we had moderation and we had volunteer moderators
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and the community was better.
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I would say you can do that.
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And if you have really strict rules, it's a lot of work,
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but you can eventually cultivate a community
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that knows the rules and knows how to behave
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and recognizes one another and cares about
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what that community is like.
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- But it's a long hike to get there.
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- It's a long way to go there.
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And that said, I gotta say, a community of people
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is still people and it is very difficult.
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Well, it is very difficult.
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And this is, I don't have comments on six colors
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and I've had people ask me, why don't you have comments?
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Or are you gonna add comments?
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And my answer is no.
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And it's very much the Gruber answer,
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which is this is a place for my stuff
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and stuff that I want to approve
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and opening a box where anybody can say anything.
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I'm not comfortable with that,
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not because they're gonna challenge me,
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but because this is my place and I want the conversation to be--
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the conversation can happen around what I write,
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but I want this to be a place where my words come out
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and this is where I say what I feel.
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And one of the problems that I observed at Macworld
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with the comments was even if you police them really well,
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you've got people who have pet issues
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who are gonna come into threads about a pet issue
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and they're gonna grind their ax.
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And at some point it becomes very difficult to say,
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"Well, just because you're pissing on this story,
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I'm gonna delete what you said,
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because you understand the rules
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and you're within the rules,
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you're just hijacking it to take it on a different tangent,
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or you're asking about something minor.
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We've seen that when we talked about
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Gamergate a few weeks ago.
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There's so many different rhetorical tricks you can do
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to push people off of the subject
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or to question something that's irrelevant.
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And people do that in the forums.
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And I decided with "Six Colors"
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that I just didn't wanna deal with it.
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And when I did that,
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I also discovered that I had a little forum commenter troll
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on my shoulder when I was writing articles.
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That I would literally, there were sentences
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that I would pause and be like, oh geez,
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I need to rewrite this or not mention this,
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even if it adds to the story,
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because somebody's going to use this for their pet topic,
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or they're going to try to split hairs
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about something that I think is very clear,
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but they're gonna use it to go in a different direction.
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And it was actually really freeing for me to say,
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basically if they wanna talk to me about it
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or post about it somewhere else, that's great.
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But here, I'm gonna say this
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and I'm gonna feel free to say it
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because I'm not writing to avoid a stupid comment
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at the bottom of my article anymore.
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- And that's the thing is 10 years ago,
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it was much more difficult to get your own content
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onto the internet.
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Now, I mean, between Facebook and between Twitter
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and between, it's hard not to post.
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And so anybody can participate by posting their own content to a different system and
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pointing to your article.
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It's not like the only way they can react to it is in comments.
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And if you talk about something like Reddit, if you talk about something like even Hacker
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News, which I know like that's sort of the de facto Marco Arment system because they
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always post his links in there.
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And that I think that's a corrosive awful environment actually generally, but it's theirs
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and they can talk about it.
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I think Twitter and Facebook would be well served to make better linkages between web
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content and commenting, so it was easier for publishers to say, "You can talk about this
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on Twitter," and round up a list of what people are saying on Twitter. And I like how Ars
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Technica does it, they have a forum, and they'll actually show you how many comments are on
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an article, but the comments are not on the page with the article, you have to choose
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to go see them. You have to choose to be a part of that community and have a conversation
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about the article. It's not people writing their own stuff on top of what you wrote.
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It's like literally if somebody wrote in the margins of a book you wrote and it appeared
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on all the books that were published. It's just not, you know, and I didn't want to deal
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with it. Plus it's just me and I don't want to have those fights and police that and have
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angry people who are feeling like I'm abridging their rights, which they don't have on my
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website by telling them what they can or can't say. I'd really just let them say whatever
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they want somewhere else, write their own blog, post it on Tumblr, put it on social
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media, and that's not the right choice for everyone. And you can have, if you put in
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the effort, have a good community. That said, I think I'm very happy to, I get lots of feedback
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on Twitter, I'm happy to get it, and it's not all positive, but I'm happy to have my
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words be the words on my site and have and not have that moment where I'm reverse engineering,
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literally reverse engineering what I write in order to avoid specific trolls or forum
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members in at NAC world, valued members of the community, valued community members. So
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I get what Recode's doing. Recode's saying, look, this isn't important to us. We're not
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going to invest in the community. We're just going to go on. So Joe Steele in the chat
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room is going to follow up because there are comments. Greg, you and I put "discuss comments"
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on the incomparable site. And Joe's like, "Well, any second thoughts about that?" I don't have
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second thoughts about that. Only, well, okay, I have had second thoughts about it, but I'm
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actually kind of happy that there are comments on the incomparable site, mostly because we,
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podcasting, it's a little harder to close the loop. I mean, you get comments on Twitter.
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Also, it's harder for people to see those comments unless I retweet them.
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In the past when we did comments on The Incomparable back when we started it, the first year we
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did it, before we went on 5x5, there was actually a little bit of a community there.
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The fact is most episodes get no comments, and every now and then there's an episode
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where there are some comments.
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You would not want to hear what everybody shouts back at the podcast while they're listening
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Right, but people can add things and there are great ways.
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have to seek out it's the same as the comments not being on the page with the article.
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Comments are not on the broadcast with the podcast.
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Right, they're attached to the show notes.
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And so the people who care enough to seek out the comments are going to have something
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that they care about saying.
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They're not going to immediately react.
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Because I shout back at the incomparable all the time and you wouldn't want to hear that.
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Definitely not.
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So, would I implement comments on the incomparable site today?
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But I'm okay that they're there.
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That's not, like Greg says, that's not the canonical bit of content, it's the podcast.
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This is supplemental material, show notes are supplemental material.
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Whereas when I write something on six colors, that's the canonical content, that's what
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And then if I've got some jackass making a point that is not technically in violation
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of any of the rules but is completely distracting from my primary point, I have to make a decision
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about just deleting it because I don't want it to be there because artistically it's distracting
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and then getting in an argument with that guy because he thought it was a perfectly
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valid point or I can just not have them and that's the decision that I've made. But I
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don't think it's wrong to have them and I don't think it's wrong to not have them. I
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think this is a and I think social works for me. We have great feedback about this podcast
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Myke from people on Twitter and people send in emails too. There are lots of ways and
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people can write blog posts and Tumblr posts about it. There are so many different ways
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to do it and I love, like The Incomparable has this whole collection of people around
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it on Twitter and that's hugely fun to get that kind of feedback too. So there's plenty
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of ways to give people feedback and it's not like we don't interact with the people who
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write in. I think, in fact, when people write to the Upgrade FM Twitter account, you'll
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and I almost always write back and thank them for saying a nice thing about us.
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So there are plenty of places to do it.
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Jason, I'm interested on a couple of things with how you work in this world now.
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Because I mean, you've probably had comments on the stuff that you've written for your
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entire career up until Six Colors.
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So you said it changed the way that you worked in that way.
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Well, we actually added them to Macworld in the, I'm going to say like 2000, 2001.
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Before that we didn't have them, but it's been a long time.
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Nearly 15 years, basically.
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So obviously it's changed your writing style because you mentioned about the comment troll
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on your shoulder.
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Do you still not feel that though, like with people going to be upset at you on Twitter
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or something like that?
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It's different.
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You're always anticipating what an audience's reaction to what you write is going to be,
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and you always try to...
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It's like if a writer writes something and everybody misunderstands them and they get
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angry at the people for misunderstanding them, that's problematic because they wrote it in
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a way that it could be misunderstood.
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It's really on them.
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However, there are limits to that.
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So what I would say is if I'm writing to reverse engineer so that a commenter doesn't post
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something really annoying and make my article weaker, that's bad.
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But sure, I know that some stuff is going to maybe engender a response on Twitter, and
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it doesn't bother me as much.
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Maybe I've got a thicker skin on Twitter, maybe not, but I don't know.
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Throwaway accounts, the fact is people who are on Twitter are generally invested in being
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on Twitter, and they're much less likely to be trolls.
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They may disagree, but they're much less likely to do a throwaway account.
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or Gate may be accepted, but annoying comments I get from people with egg avatars, those
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people are drive-by people and you can just ignore them or block them and move on with
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your life. But there aren't as many of those on Twitter, I would say, as you see in these
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comment threads where it could just, you know, you register for account, it could literally
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be anybody. But it does, so yeah, I mean, you're always anticipating what your audience's
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responses to what you write. But it's just a little bit different when you're--like I
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said, I feel like I worked on a story and until the end of time, this asinine post that
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takes us completely off topic is going to be right below what I wrote. Then you start--I
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mean, that's problematic in the extreme. Then you start asking yourself, "How do I avoid
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that guy?" Because I know if I mentioned this one thing, that guy's going to come in there.
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And I, you know, with the comments gone, I don't do that anymore.
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Ah, well, that's that topic.
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How do you feel?
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Summing up, people are awful, avoid them.
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Well, the line is from Seinfeld, right?
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Which is people, oh, they're the worst, right?
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That's the fundamental misanthropy.
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Happy Thanksgiving, everyone, anyone and someone.
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Happy Thanksgiving.
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Should we move on?
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Yeah, I think we should.
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Should we hear from a friend, or should we wait and hear from a friend in a little bit?
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No, let's talk about a friend now.
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Jason, why don't you tell us about a friend?
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I would be happy to, Myke.
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This is what friends do.
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Friends let other friends...
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Talk about friends.
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...occasionally talk about friends.
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Now, one of our friends this week is MailRoute.
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I asked specifically, "Are they MailRoute or MailRoute?"
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And I believe they're mail route, but they're happy if you call them mail route.
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It doesn't matter.
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And I don't think that's a US-UK thing.
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I think that's just a word that can be-- is it always route in the UK, Myke?
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No, it's route.
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It's always route in the UK.
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Yeah, but I don't say mail route, because that's not--
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That's weird.
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That's not their name.
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It's never how I've heard it said, you know?
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It's mail route.
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They should have a little accent somewhere, but we'll let them work that out.
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Anyway, mail route is a really great service that I've been using for more than a year
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It's an email filtering service.
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So if you can imagine a world where there is no spam,
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there are no viruses, and there's no bounced email,
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if you can imagine opening your inbox
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and seeing only real mail and not spam,
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this is a world that mail route can make happen.
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And I've seen it happen myself.
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You set up mail route, it basically sits in between
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your incoming mail and you.
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It receives your mail, it cleans it of spam,
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and then it passes it on to your existing mail server.
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There's no hardware to install,
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there's no software to install.
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They get your mail, they sort it, and they deliver it.
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It's super easy to set up.
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It took me about five minutes to set it up.
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You have to tick a couple of boxes
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and change a couple of things
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depending on your mail provider,
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but they make it easy, they let you walk it through.
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And then my favorite thing about mail route is that,
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or mail route. Now I'm saying it backward. Wow, Myke, you've destroyed me with your British
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I'm so sorry.
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The mail route, you can set it up to send you a notification every day with what it's
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filtered out. And I always worry about filtering out legitimate mail. And so every day I get
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a mail route notice, which lists all the mail that was filtered out. There are links in
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this email so you can immediately whitelist a sender, you can deliver the message, or
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you can do both. You can deliver the message and whitelist the sender so that from this
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point on, they will always get through and not be viewed as spam. Very convenient. What
00:50:48
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I've really learned in the last six to nine months is that mail route is really efficient.
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That report is almost always entirely spam, and I'm not seeing spam in my inbox. So it's
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It's really a great service.
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If you're an email administrator or an IT professional, the tools are built with you
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They've got an API, they support you name it, LDAP, Active Directory, TLS, Outbound
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Relay, everything you'd want.
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And if you're a regular person like me, it's super easy to set up and easy to use.
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And I set it up for my whole domain because I have a Google Apps domain and so I'm filtering
00:51:27
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mail for me and for my wife and for my mom and for my kids and it's really great.
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So if you want spam out of your life, you don't have to fiddle around with plugins and
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extra software or hardware or anything like that.
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You can just get MailRoute and it will do all of the work for you and that spam will
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never even hit your inbox.
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So here's what you need to do.
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Myke, are you listening?
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I'm ready listening.
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I'm ready for your instructions.
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This is what you need to do.
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You need to go to MailRoute or mailroot if you like, .net.
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Mailroute.net/upgrade.
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Easy to remember.
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you get a free trial and 10% off, and this is not a one-time 10% off for the first month
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or something, 10% off for the lifetime of your mail route account if you go to mailroute.net/upgrade.
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And thank you so much to our friends at MailRoute for filtering the spam out of my mailbox every
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day for more than a year now and for sponsoring Upgrade. How'd it do, Myke?
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Oh, it was perfect. Top notch. I couldn't have done any better, so you did a fantastic
00:52:26
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job and I'm jealous of your incredible mail route skills.
00:52:30
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than calling it mail route a couple of times. Other than that.
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Ah, don't worry about it.
00:52:36
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Yeah. All right. So, Fun Employment. This is, this is, now that we've done an hour, we've
00:52:41
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come to the real topic. We are, we are three gentlemen of leisure in a certain sense, which
00:52:47
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is we are no longer employed by big companies. Greg, do you want to talk a little bit? I
00:52:52
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mean, Myke and I are recent, recent members of this class. You, you've been doing this
00:52:56
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for a while. Do you want to tell people a little bit about your story of where you were
00:53:03
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and what happened? What the heck happened?
00:53:10
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So like 20 years ago, I entered the workforce, a little over 20 years ago, and I held dreams
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of always being able to go off and do my own thing, have my own little business, make my
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my own products, but you know, the first thing you do
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after you get out of school is start applying for jobs,
00:53:27
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and I got a job and it was with a massive corporation,
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and then I just kind of spent 20 years almost
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being inside massive corporations, just as the next thing.
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I got married, I had kids, I had a mortgage,
00:53:40
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I have car payments, all the kind of stuff
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that goes into making the modern American middle class life.
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And then, the next thing that goes into making
00:53:49
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the modern American middle class life was
00:53:51
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the company decided to move their headquarters
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to Austin, Texas.
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- And I would rather sever a limb than move to Texas.
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And so I took the buyout and I thought,
00:54:01
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okay, here I have a little chunk of money
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and I can go off and start doing my own thing.
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And so three years ago, I set up a business,
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I started contracting,
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and my plan was to start producing all of the products
00:54:13
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that I've had in my head for a couple of decades.
00:54:15
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All sorts of crazy stuff on the web and in apps
00:54:18
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and the opportunities are endless.
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So what happened?
00:54:24
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This is where you insert the sad trombone sound.
00:54:30
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Because my ambition didn't account for a lot of what goes into actually running a business
00:54:37
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I have technical skills, but I don't have managerial skills and I don't have accounting
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skills and I don't have all sorts of other things that actually are done semi invisibly
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when you're working for someone else.
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You go in, you do the technical work,
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they give you a paycheck.
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It's a nice, simple transaction.
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When you're working for yourself,
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you sit down and you realize
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that somebody's behind on an invoice
00:54:58
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and you actually need to invoice this other client
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and oh my god, taxes are due
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and all sorts of other things that continually pile up
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and it's awfully easy,
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since there's nobody looking over your shoulder,
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to just end up watching Netflix the whole day
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instead of dealing with all that stuff.
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And so now three years later, I'm in a comfortable groove.
00:55:17
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I've got contracting clients that I like
00:55:20
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and that I think I've done really good work for,
00:55:23
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but I have never kind of executed on my original plan,
00:55:26
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which was to produce my own products, to own my own thing.
00:55:29
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And I've gotten part of the way through some of them,
00:55:34
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and I've actually shipped one,
00:55:36
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but that's a pretty poor track record for three years.
00:55:38
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And I've been struggling lately with why that is
00:55:42
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and how I can correct it or if I really wanna correct it.
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because when I started,
00:55:47
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I was dealing with 20 year old dreams,
00:55:48
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you know, the startupy thing, the mid 90s,
00:55:51
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wired San Francisco web 1.0.
00:55:53
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And is that still a realistic goal for a man
00:55:56
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who is now edging into his late 40s,
00:55:58
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who still has all the obligations
00:56:00
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that he built up over the past 20 years.
00:56:02
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I'm at this weird place where
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I don't know if my dreams are still relevant
00:56:08
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to my current life.
00:56:10
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And I certainly haven't executed on them.
00:56:14
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One of my favorite aphorisms from Merlin Mann is
00:56:17
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that priorities are discovered, they're not assigned.
00:56:21
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And so if truly shipping my own apps were my priority,
00:56:25
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then I would be doing it.
00:56:26
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But I don't have the conscious realization of,
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or an explanation of why I'm not.
00:56:33
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And so I'm doing okay, I'm not making my corporate salary,
00:56:38
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but I am also not sitting in all day meetings,
00:56:41
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which seems like a totally fair trade to me.
00:56:43
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And I'm doing work that I enjoy with people I like, but it's not what I thought it would be.
00:56:49
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So it's interesting to me that for you, quitting the corporate job and staying at home was not,
00:56:57
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you, there's this dichotomy to what you're saying. There's the, there's the doing,
00:57:02
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doing what you want, working on your projects and there's building a business basically as
00:57:08
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consultant and a contractor and supporting yourself and your family by doing that.
00:57:15
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And the second one you are doing, you are doing that and yet I sense some disappointment that
00:57:21
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was your dream more about quitting to work on your own projects than it was about escaping the man?
00:57:28
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I had a very good job for the most part. Let's say it was insanely maddening only like
00:57:36
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a third of the time. I wanted to create my own stuff. I wanted to own my own stuff.
00:57:45
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I felt like I'd spent a couple of decades creating value and then leaving that for my employers to
00:57:54
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enjoy the rewards of. They paid me very well, but obviously I thought that the value I was
00:58:00
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creating was worth more than what I was getting paid. And the, you know, the makeup in that,
00:58:05
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the kind of gap in that is made up in for insecurity and consistency and you know if
00:58:11
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I decide I'm just going to be brain dead for a couple of days nobody notices that's kind of
00:58:15
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the way corporate America works and that's just not the case when you're working for yourself.
00:58:22
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So that I'm not shipping my own products is my failure now and there's no place to hide from that.
00:58:29
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I think it's interesting that, you know, you are the, we talked about this at XOXO,
00:58:35
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you are the voice of our future, or at least the cautionary voice from our future,
00:58:41
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because Myke and I both are— Haven't I demonstrated relentless optimism at this point in the podcast?
00:58:46
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Myke and I both left our jobs and wanted to set out on our own to build our own things, right?
00:58:55
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- Yes, exactly.
00:58:56
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- And I wonder about this too.
00:58:59
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When I talk to people about me doing this,
00:59:01
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I say, well, look, my plan is to do the website
00:59:04
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and podcasting and maybe some freelance and stuff like that,
00:59:07
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but really to do this as my primary job
00:59:10
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and make a living doing it.
00:59:12
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And I had that conversation where I say,
00:59:15
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well, in the end, we'll see how it works.
00:59:17
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Maybe I'll need to do more freelance.
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Maybe if it doesn't work out, I'll have to look for a job.
00:59:22
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If I do that, I would really prefer it be something
00:59:24
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that I could do from home and be similar
00:59:26
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to what I'm doing now.
00:59:27
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And it's weird when I have that conversation too,
00:59:30
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because that's not my intent.
00:59:32
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My intent is to do my own things primarily
00:59:35
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and have those projects be what I do.
00:59:37
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But there's also this kind of knowledge
00:59:39
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that that may or may not work.
00:59:42
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And that part of the components of this life
00:59:45
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may be what you're describing as,
00:59:48
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mostly what you do now,
00:59:49
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which is working with clients on projects.
00:59:53
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And it's not your stuff,
00:59:54
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but you are still working out of your house
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and not commuting and not sitting in meetings all day.
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So there's like a couple things going on.
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- In every aspect, other than financially,
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than just the straight up money, it's better.
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- All right.
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- I have a much more flexible time for my kids.
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I can coach Little League,
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'cause I'm not gonna be at the office until six every day.
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If I feel like blowing off a morning,
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I can blow off a morning.
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And so, and now my wife has gone back to working,
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now that the kids are old enough
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to get themselves in trouble all by themselves.
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And so our income has remained fairly stable
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between me working a corporate job,
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me going independent and her returning to work.
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- So Myke, how do you view this in terms of,
01:00:43
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of doing your own thing versus making it work
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so that you don't have to go back to a,
01:00:48
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to a job like the one that you had?
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I kind of don't even see it as a possibility,
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like going back now.
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I feel like I couldn't and I really don't want to,
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so it's just not gonna happen.
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It's just like this feeling that I have in my mind,
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it's like this will work because I'm going to make it work,
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because I won't give myself even the safety net of,
01:01:14
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oh, I'm sure you could still get a job somewhere else.
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It's really not what I wanna do, you know?
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So it's kind of like for me right now,
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It's like, well, this is what's happening,
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this is what I do now, this is my job and it's going to work
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and I have this idea, I mean, things are going really well.
01:01:28
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Like Relay is, well, it became my full-time employment
01:01:33
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much faster than I thought it would
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and I'm making more money now than I did before currently,
01:01:43
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which is fantastic.
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And I'm sure it won't last forever,
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But I was quite underpaid in my corporate role
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because I was loyal to my company
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and was there for eight years,
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which strangely means that I get paid
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a lot less than my colleagues.
01:02:01
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However, that was a great thing though,
01:02:03
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that worked out well for me
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because it meant that I was able to quit sooner
01:02:07
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because I only needed X amount of money, right?
01:02:09
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So I could just quit quicker.
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But I mean, the finance thing is horrible.
01:02:16
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I spoke about this on analog with Casey Liss.
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My final paycheck from my employer
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was a lot lower than I expected it to be.
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So it was kind of like a wake up call.
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So it's like, oh, you have to look after your money now.
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You have to think about these things and budget better
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because who knows if the money's gonna be in
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and when it's gonna be in and how much it's gonna be.
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So it's like the finance thing is something
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that I never really paid too much attention to
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but now I kind of don't have a choice.
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But I also, I kind of take some,
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I don't even know what the right emotion would be,
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but I take a feeling in the fact that it's up to me
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how much money I make, you know?
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I can work really hard, or I can maybe not work as much hard
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and then as much hard apparently
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is a phrase that I'm gonna use now.
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And-- - That's UK phrase, right?
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- It's UK, it's UK English.
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- It's different to how we would say it, Craig.
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- I can choose how hard I want to work
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and from that will be an amount of money
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that is equivalent to that.
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And I am very much enjoying the balance I'm having
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and trying to settle into some sort of schedule
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which makes sense for me now.
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And I'm trying to not feel guilty
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about taking long lunches with friends
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if I really want to and stuff like that, yeah.
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- Yeah, I mean, how much you work
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is one of the questions that I wanted to ask both of you,
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because this is something that I've struggled with
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in the two months that I've been doing this,
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is how do you structure your time?
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And you have the flexibility to walk your kids to school
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or whatever, but there also is a job to be done.
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And then what I find too is that
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literally I could do it forever.
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I could be working all day, every day, forever.
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I could certainly create that kind of work for myself.
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My wife was talking to her parents
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who were coming for Thanksgiving on the phone last night.
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And I could intuit from the conversation
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that what my mother-in-law was asking was,
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am I working on Wednesday when they're gonna get here?
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And my wife said, well, his boss is really mean,
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he makes him work all the time.
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(both laughing)
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And there's something to that,
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'cause she was like, well, what about Wednesday?
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And I said, well, I don't know, I got a lot of,
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I got some deadlines, I got some stories
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I need to turn in for other people.
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And then I've got, you know, I don't want the site
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to be just tumbleweeds blowing through the whole week.
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And so I've been struggling with that.
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Like, when do I shut it down?
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When do I say I'm gonna step out of the office
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and not work on Six Colors or not work on podcasts anymore?
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And it's coupled with the extra complexity
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that back when I was working at IDG,
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I would work in the office and I would come home
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and we'd have dinner
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and then I would go and do "Incomparable," right?
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We would record a podcast or I'd have to edit an episode
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in order to get it live.
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And so it was my nighttime job.
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So I was used to putting in that extra time
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and I'm struggling with that too of like,
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do I balance, do I keep doing some of that
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or do I really owe it to myself and my family
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to not put in that extra time and schedule that time
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into my regular day?
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And I don't have any answers here.
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It's just, it's interesting to have that moment
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of trying to be able to decide,
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well, I could do more work, but I need to stop.
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Even though, yes, if I don't do it,
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it isn't gonna get done.
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But at some point I need to just call it and say,
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I need to not do this now.
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- I hardly ever work after 2 a.m.
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- That's good.
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It's important to have barriers, some boundaries.
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- So like I currently put in more hours
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than like an eight hour work day,
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but I work less than I did two months ago.
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Because-- - Because you were doing relay
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you were doing your job. Yeah, like at the moment I'm not doing like an
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exponentially large, you know, amount more work. Like I'm not doing two times the
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amount of work on Relay as I was before. I'm working more, I'm putting more time
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into things, but I am doing less work in total because I don't have to put in
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eight hours in an office as well as doing everything else and it's nice
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because I'm able to actually do things, social things, or play video games or
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watch movies. Like I can find that time in my day but the weird thing for me is
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my work day is extremely long. Like I wake up, say I wake up at like 10 a.m.
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or something, I will be working until like 2 in the morning because I
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work in sort of chunks throughout the day because I still need to record in
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the evenings. So my work days is very long but it's just my whole day can be
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filled with work stuff in like with little gaps in between where I'm doing
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things for myself and that's that's been the biggest change in my life over the
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last few weeks is being able to actually find some of my own time. But Jason I
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I think that for you, with the incomparable, you should start counting that into your work
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day, I think.
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Oh, I'm trying to, other than the fact that we record at night.
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But I've actually put something on my calendar for Fridays now, that is edit the incomparable
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on Friday, during the day.
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I've scheduled in the time for that, because I do feel like that should be something that's
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in my day, and I should get my Saturday morning back, if at all possible.
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And every now and then that may shift, but that should be the plan to do that.
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And some of this is getting started with something new.
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It's a very big change from the kind of work I was doing the last couple of years at IDG
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because I was much less involved in writing things and I wasn't doing as many podcasts.
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So some of it is adjusting to it being different work.
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It's very hard for me to compare it to the work I was doing before where it was sitting
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in meetings and managing things and not being able to write, which was frustrating.
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That said, I got Destiny for Xbox the day that the Apple event happened, which was the
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day before the layoff, and it's still in its shrink wrap.
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And that says something because I was really excited to pre-order that game.
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And I pre-ordered it like last year, and I still haven't opened the box two months later,
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and it's really down to the fact that I have not had time, nor have I scheduled time in
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to my life to play a video game.
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I also don't have a video game podcast like Myke does, which is a really good excuse to
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play video games. Amazing excuse to play video games. Although I have a great excuse to watch movies and TV shows
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and read books, which I do, and that's great. But, so, yeah, I'm trying to structure it.
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I'm trying to do things. My wife and I have scheduled walks in the morning where we drop
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my son off at school and then we go for a walk for an hour. And if it's on the calendar
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it happens and if it's not on the calendar it doesn't happen. Oh yeah, that's something
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focus but... Like I have noticed so much is my like calendar is king right now
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like if something's on my calendar it's getting done I mean and I always used a
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calendar for things but it feels like now my calendar has become so much more
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important than than it was previously because everything's going in there you
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know like for example if I put swimming on the calendar swimming will happen if
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It's not on the calendar, it's not happening.
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- Yeah, that's--
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- Do you guys have any regrets at this point?
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I mean, it sounds like you're both doing
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exactly what you wanted and it's going very well.
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- I love the Greg, "Ooh, bring out your regrets."
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- I'm curious, I'm curious.
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I don't have any, I do not regret what I've done.
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I regret my inability to pursue what my original intent was.
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- I don't have regrets.
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I have a huge list of things that I thought I would try
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that I haven't even gotten to yet.
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And Destiny, I'm not even saying like playing Destiny.
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I'm saying like content things that I wanted to do.
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I wanted to do, this is funny
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'cause Dave Whiskus did his video
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about people doing more than just podcasts,
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like for example, videos like Dave Whiskus does.
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And I talked to him about that at Singleton
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and I was already on my list of things to do
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when I left IDG was gonna be like a video series
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of some sort and I wanna do it
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and I have not had any time to do that.
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So I've got a list, I've got like a to-do list of things.
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It's like, boy, I didn't realize that I was going to be able
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to pack my schedule as full as I've been able to pack it
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without even doing some of those things.
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So some of it is that, and some of it is just being open.
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Like I did a little consulting and I'm working
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on a couple of freelance articles.
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And I said yes to those assignments
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because I wanted to see what it was like
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and to work with some people
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who I thought were really interesting
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and get a sense of how you balance freelance
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versus doing your own thing.
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But I've got a whole list of things
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that I want to do that I just haven't gotten to yet.
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I wouldn't say those are regrets.
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I didn't have, unlike Myke,
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my timing was not a choice that I made.
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I spent eight months between trying to leave
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and having this layoff,
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and then my timing was tied to the layoff.
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So it had to happen on that day.
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And I'm not sure I, well, if I have any regrets,
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it's that I realized the other week
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that I probably could have gone to my boss
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when I tried to resign last December and said,
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"You should lay me off."
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And they probably would have done that
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instead of just offering to leave with no money.
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And then I could have started this in January
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instead of in September.
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But so maybe I regret that, but at the same time,
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I'm eight months more prepared to do this on my own than I would have been back then.
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So are there any business aspects that have taken you by surprise?
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Any things that the corporation was handling previously?
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Well, so the the incomparable was training wheels for me because we set up, not only did we start taking ads last year,
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but we incorporated and
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we got an accountant and we set up a bank account.
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And so that was good because I'm still using that corporation and Six Colors is in the
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incomparable corporation.
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It's the same thing.
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And so I feel like everything I was doing for the last year and a half was set up to
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It was totally set up to go out on my own.
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That was always part of the idea was to try this stuff out.
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I'm fortunate that my wife has an MBA and is only a part-time librarian, so she's got
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a little bit of time to do some of the business stuff for me and I'm really grateful for that
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because if I had to do more of the business stuff that would be more problematic but she's
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been able to take on some of that stuff and that's been really helpful.
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I feel like there doesn't exist a, oh I'm sorry Myke go ahead.
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Regrets, regrets Myke.
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I don't have regrets yet or any and I don't think, like it's interesting to look at regrets.
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You mean you don't regret making more money and working less with greater freedom?
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Funnily enough I'm not sure how I feel about that.
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But I get the idea that there are things that I want to do that I haven't done, but I don't
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look at that as a concern because in my mind I have another 50, 60 years to do them.
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So it's not a concern of mine, you know?
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Because my plan is just to do this forever, for as long as the internet will have me.
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And to echo Jason's point in the business stuff,
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it is tricky.
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I mean, luckily I have Steven, my wife, I suppose.
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And we work on this stuff together
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and it's great to have a co-founder
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because we're able to balance a lot of things.
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And there are things that either I don't want to do
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or I don't know how to do and it's the same for him
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and we're able to balance that stuff.
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And even when it comes to working out how we pay people,
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and when we pay people, and going through
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all of the invoices and stuff like that,
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we can just jump on a call together
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and cry about it for an hour and get it done.
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And that has been a great thing.
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I don't think I could do this without him,
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and I think he would feel the same about me too.
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And that's a real great thing to have in a business.
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And it's one of the main reasons why
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I know we both wanted to do this together,
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because we would be able to have each other and that makes it--it feels much
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nicer doing this as a partnership than on your own.
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I have some other key questions that I wanted to ask you and share my
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experience as well. What about getting out and doing things?
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Do you have those issues where you're like, "Oh my god, I didn't go
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outside today"?
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I've been trying to go outside a lot. I actually think I spend more
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time outside the house now than I did before and that's simply because I know that if I
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don't leave the house, I'll stay in the house.
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Like I know that sounds stupid but like I if I don't make an effort to go out then I'm
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just not going to.
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So I try and work outside now so like I go to a coffee shop or something and do stuff
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in the daytime or I go out meet a friend or I just go out for a long nice walk or something
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like that because I genuinely had a fear that it would get to the point where it'd be like
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six days passed and I realized that I'm still at home eating Cheerios.
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Your fingernails are five inches long, you've got a beard.
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And that was the same thing, like there were people in my family and important people in
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my real life that were saying, "You need to go outside."
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And like, "Would you really be concerned?"
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When I was telling them I was going to do this, that I would just sit at home all the
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So it's also part for me and part for them to show them that I can actually be a member
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of society and not a crazy person, you know?
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What about you, Jason?
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Do you go outside?
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I know you've got -- obviously you take your kids out and stuff, but do you make an effort
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to do other things?
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Well, that's -- being in the suburbs, it's a little bit more of a challenge where it's
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not like I've got a big vibrant -- if I could step out my front door and be south of Market
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where my old job was, it would be different, but I step out my front door and I'm in a
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quiet neighborhood.
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And so it's a challenge we do.
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My son's elementary school is within walking distance, so we walk him every morning, and
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I do that some mornings.
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And like I said, my wife and I try to schedule it so that we walk him and then just take
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I try, but I would say I don't get out as much as I would like, and I'm trying to figure
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out how to do it.
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Like I said, I'm busier than I thought I would be.
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I thought I would have moments where I'd be like on my work from home days back when I
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worked at IDG where I'd say, "Oh, I'm going to go to a cafe and write for a little bit.
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Won't that be nice?" And instead, I just, you know, my office is comfortable enough that I sit here
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and I'm like, "All right, I'm just going to keep on grinding. I got another thing to do, and then
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I got another thing to do." And so it's a challenge. I'm trying to be more receptive to
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if there are, you know, if somebody's going over to somebody's house in the afternoon because the
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kids are going to be there and, you know, various kids are going to be there and we can, you know,
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know, we'll have a beer and talk for a little while while the kids hang out and then, you
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know, on Friday afternoon or something. I'm trying to be more aware that those things
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are going on that I never used to be able to go to. And I keep telling my wife that,
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you know, I'm going to ruin all of her social engagements now by showing up for them, but
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she's been really supportive of that. So, of me ruining her social engagements. So it's
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a work in progress. I keep telling myself I need to get out more. I need to ride my
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bike or go for a walk or something but right now the fact that I'm walking my
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son to school a bunch and picking him up from school a bunch that sort of at
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least gets me fresh air and some Sun if not a lot of human interaction so it's a
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it's a work in progress I wouldn't say that I'm happy about that
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Greg you're in a you're in a suburb or do you get out of the house I actually
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started renting office space to give me an excuse to shower and leave the house
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I feel like since I'm paying for it, I have to use it.
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And the first year I was working just from home
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and you sit down and you start working
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and you work with people on the East Coast.
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And so by the time you sit down,
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it's already 11 o'clock where they are.
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And suddenly the whole day has gone by
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and you're still in your pajamas
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and you're unshaven and unchowered.
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And you can only do that for so long.
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And usually it's just the freshman year of college.
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And so my wife and I, she also works for herself,
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we got some office space and so we use that as an excuse
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to actually leave the house.
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- Oh, that's good.
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- And it's worked out pretty well.
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I mean, I'm sitting in it now, it's not fancy,
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but it's a place, it is an other,
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it is a place to go and work.
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Now too often I'll leave to go pick up the kids
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and then sit down when I get home and start working again.
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And so I haven't completely separated my home and work lives
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but it has helped.
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- And it's given you some structure.
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- Yeah, and certainly that is lacking.
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I mean, I can't believe that there used to be a time
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where I was actually 45 minutes away
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wearing a shirt and a tie at eight o'clock in the morning.
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You guys both worked in financial related industries too.
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Oh my God, you have that in common.
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For me, I have to say the whole blogger
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in their pajamas thing.
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I mean, I've discovered that sort of kind of true.
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Today, I was very proud of myself.
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I took a shower in the morning and am wearing pants.
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I'm wearing pants, not shorts or flannel pajamas,
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but actual pants.
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I am wearing slippers because it's kind of cold out here
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and they keep my feet warmer.
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But there are days, I have a drifting shower schedule.
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There are days where it's 11 o'clock and I'm like,
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okay, I'll jump in the shower now, I've done some work.
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And on one level, that's kind of great
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'cause I just sort of like started working
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at eight in the morning or 7.30 in the morning
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and was at a full, I was kind of feeling it,
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I was in the flow, I was really busy doing stuff.
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And then it's 11, I'm like, okay, well, I'm smelly.
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I need to go take a shower now.
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But I've also had days where I've taken a shower
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at like three or four in the afternoon.
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And on one level it's like, hey, freedom.
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And on another level, that's not good.
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- I disgust myself.
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- Yeah, well, you start to think, hey,
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if I shower in the afternoon every other day,
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then I can just move to a day and a half schedule,
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- No, that's not good.
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Nobody wants that.
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- I now work a 40 hour day,
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so I only need to shower twice a week.
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- That's right, I'll see you tomorrow at 4ZM.
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- The biggest problem I have with structure
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is that I find inertia to be way more powerful
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than it did when somebody else
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was basically setting my schedule.
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So that if I start working in my pajamas,
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I will keep working in my pajamas.
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And then if I finally take a break and shower,
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I will just want to stand in the shower
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for an hour and a half.
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And if I take a break to go out to lunch,
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there's not a real pressing reason to go back to work.
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That's just a matter of discipline, I think,
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something that I haven't mastered yet.
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- Yeah, I'm not having problems with that.
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For me, I mean, I think mine is the discipline to be,
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the discipline to allow myself a little bit less discipline.
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I don't know, like I said, you know.
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I thought I would be seeing like a movie a week.
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- Well, yeah, you know, I keep thinking,
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well, Interstellar, you know,
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I don't wanna take my kids to see it.
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I'm not sure my wife really wants to see it.
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She'd probably be up for seeing it,
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but it's like one of those things where I thought,
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I could just go in the day to see it,
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but it's three hours long and there's podcasts
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and I haven't done it.
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And I haven't played Destiny, right?
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And I could plan it.
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And so I'm like, no, no, no, I'm just gonna work more.
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So some of that is, I think, in there
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that I need to be better at turning it on and off
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little bit more and putting it on like Myke said calendar is king put in the
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calendar maybe then it will happen basically like I love I spent the first
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week I mean I know I'm only like three or four weeks into this but like so this
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is pretty condensed recent but I spent my first week panicking that I wasn't
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working enough but forcing myself to do things that I wanted to do and now as
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I'm as I am getting into that rhythm I feel better about it but about playing a
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video game for a week or two because when I did that, not a week or two, an
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hour or two, I played video games for a week, I played video games or whatever or I
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went and had lunch with a friend today for a couple of hours, you know, going
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to London and it takes like 45 minutes to get to London and we're having lunch
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so I lose like four hours of my day doing that but the thing is the business
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has not fallen apart and I think once, and I feel silly giving you
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advice about this stuff but like once you get to the once you do that stuff
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and you make time for yourself and you see that the site doesn't cease to exist
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I think you might feel better about it. Some of that too is a reaction to what I
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want my job was before and I realized this and it and it's like literally oh
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you get to write things now and so part of me is like we write things and so
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then I'm like writing like if you factored in like how much money I hope to
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to make from the site and from podcasts and all of that. I'm probably spending way too
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much time on Six Colors, honestly. I think it's good because more content is good, it's
01:23:56
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building it up, it's hopefully growing the traffic. There's an investment aspect to it,
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but there's also a release of like, "Yay, I get to do this, and it's so much fun that
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I'm just going to do it because I wasn't able to do it at my previous employer." And like
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what was with the podcast, it's like, "Finally, I can do that podcast with Myke," and then
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we're still doing Clockwise, and I added the thing with Tim Goodman. So some of it is just
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the glee of being able to do these things
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that I've wanted to do for two years.
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And so I'm just doing them because it's fun
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and I wanna do them.
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And so I don't mind, but I am also trying to not overdo it
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where these things I'm gonna get tired of
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because I'm not giving myself breaks.
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So there's a little bit of both in there, I think.
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- As down as I may sound on what my original goals were,
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I still have survived for three years.
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Taking the jobs I wanna take
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and working with the people I want to work with
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and blowing off an hour and a half
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in the middle of the afternoon
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to do a podcast with some friends.
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- On the whole, yeah, it seems to be working.
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- So, and that was my, the last question I wanted to ask,
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which for you, Greg, can you envision,
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can you envision going back to a job
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where you had to get in your car and drive for 45 minutes
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and wear a tie and be there at 8 a.m.?
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Can you imagine that?
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Or are you pretty much spoiled for doing contract work
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and stuff for yourself and charting your own course?
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- I can see the possibility of a company
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that impresses me so much that's doing something
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that is both important and interesting
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that could lure me back to a full-time job,
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but it would have to be amazing.
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- That would be special, special situation.
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- Yeah, well, I think there are some companies out there
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that I see and they just look like
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they are doing things right.
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And I'm not seeking employment because there's a lot
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of constraints with that too.
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I live in Los Angeles, they have to be within driving
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distance of Los Angeles because this is where my home is.
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I have a ton more freedom doing what I do now
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and so it would be a big hill to climb.
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It's not an impossibility but I can't imagine
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the set of circumstances coming together in a way
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that would require that I pursue them. And Myke you said earlier you forget it.
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It's not even like a it feels like it's not even an option like I definitely couldn't do anything
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like I did before like if one day I had to try and find a job again like I would try and find
01:26:29
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it something else but if I felt like Relay was failing I would try and find some other creative
01:26:35
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of work to do, you know?
01:26:37
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Or try and get the audience to save me or something.
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Like, please help!
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Because I just, it's just not something
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that I'm interested in.
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And I think I'm best placed doing this rather than that.
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I think I add more to this world,
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creating podcasts than I do in financial services marketing.
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- Well, I think that's almost certainly the case.
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I mean, I don't know how wonderful you were
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at financial services marketing.
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- Pretty great, Jason.
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- Possibly awesome.
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- Yes, you can apply a 10,000 multiplier
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to a 0.001% world benefit.
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- Still not have it come out on the right side.
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- So, I mean, I sort of feel this way too.
01:27:26
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People are asking this now,
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and it's early days for you and me, Myke,
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But I fully accept that after a year away
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from 20 years of commuting every day to an office,
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that I might say, "Oh, you know, it wasn't so bad
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and there are benefits and teamwork and all of that."
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So I'm not shutting the door to that either.
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But I mean, I have spent the last few years
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looking at this and saying,
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"Well, you know what I really ought to do
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is something like that.
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And I want to build something
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and maybe grow it to the point where that can be my thing
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and that can be my business.
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and I can have a team that's my team
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and work with a lot of interesting people
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and do podcasts and do websites and things like that.
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When I think about ways that I could be induced
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to come back, it is definitely that slippery slope
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of there's the stuff, well, it's not a slippery slope,
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it's like a hierarchy.
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There's the stuff that I'm doing that's my stuff.
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And then there's the stuff that I'm doing for other people
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like freelance and consulting, but it's their stuff,
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but it's my stuff that I'm choosing to work on with them.
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And then below that, there would be like working hourly
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for somebody, but from my house, from my desk.
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It's a job, but it's a job here.
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And then, or whether it was like 20 hours a week
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or full time even from here though,
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doing the stuff that I like to do from my office here
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instead of commuting.
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And then below that is the commute job.
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And some of that I think is just having not had
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get on a bus an hour each way every day. I don't miss it and I don't really want to go back to doing
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that. That's not a life that I would choose. I'm fully aware that I may need to choose it
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at some point. If that's the difference between my kids eating or not, then I'm going to choose it,
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but it's low down on the list. And right now I'm trying to focus on the things that are in box
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number one and maybe and learn a little bit about what's in box number two.
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When I first started and I every once in a while would have doubts you know you
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get hooked up with a bad client or you're worried about how much income
01:29:35
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you're gonna bring in a month I would schedule a lunch with my old co-workers
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and I would just listen to them complain about politics and corporate stupidity
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for an hour and then I would feel much better about the choice I had made.
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Yeah. Though I do miss listening to podcasts on the commute. Me too, me too.
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It's actually really hard to find time to listen to podcasts now. I've taken all that time and it's housework put it
01:29:57
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Yeah, I I do
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That's what I do when I'm making dinner or doing the dishes or anything like that or if I'm taking a walk by myself
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To get out of the house and be and get some exercise if my wife doesn't come with me
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Then I am doing podcasts then because that is the one thing that I had a I had some mandated
01:30:14
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Podcast time that was the only thing that kept me saying I'm not I'm not 100% sure what I'm doing
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But I listen to more podcasts now than I ever have.
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And I don't know how I'm doing that, because it seems to fly in the face of
01:30:30
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basically everybody else that doesn't have a commute anymore.
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I don't know what I'm doing. But I listen to podcasts all the time
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at home, as well as when I'm traveling around.
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So, like, I might, like, when I'm
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in my morning routine of trying to wake up and make coffee
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and breakfast and check email. I just put a podcast on then. Total Party Kill was a
01:30:54
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great show and it's very nice for my morning wake-up ritual so thank you for
01:30:58
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that Jason. Yay! It's long shows where it's like you can kind of just leave
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them on and enjoy them because they're more like entertainment they work really
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well for that kind of stuff I think. Yeah that's good to hear. I you know when I'm
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sitting at my computer writing I can't listen to podcasts. That's the only thing.
01:31:16
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- I also can't listen to them whilst I'm podcasting.
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- Indeed, or editing podcasts.
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- Yes, especially.
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- Well, you can listen to the one that you're editing,
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but that's really the limit is the one.
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- By the time you finish editing it, you hate it.
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- Every now and then I cue up music to play
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while I'm working and then I open up Logic
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and I'm like, wait, I can't do that.
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I can't listen to music while I'm editing a podcast.
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It doesn't work that way.
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But for other things, I'm trying to do that.
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I've got a little Bluetooth connector to the speaker
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that's in my kitchen and so I can put it on there.
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When my kids are around and my wife is around,
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I end up putting in the headphones
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and it's a little antisocial,
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but I do that sometimes when I'm cleaning up or whatever.
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But I admit that there are different kinds of podcasts too.
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And they're the ones that are more kind of entertainment
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based that are telling you a story or something.
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And then they're the ones where you're listening
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'cause it's, you know, that's with ATP.
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I can't really tune out ATP
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'cause I really wanna listen to ATP
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and the technical details of everything that they're saying.
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Whereas, you know, as something that's a more entertainmenty podcast, I can just listen and it's fun and I'm not taking notes mentally.
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When I'm doing yard work or housework with a podcast in, I ask my kids to text me rather than try and get my attention audibly.
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When I'm doing podcasts, that's what I tell my son.
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He's in the other room right now.
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They have Thanksgiving week off and I just said, I said, he's got an iPad.
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Send me a text if you need me.
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I'm podcasting now.
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That's the future.
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have to hear from your kids anymore. Just like my dad did for me. Yeah, exactly. And my daughter's
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a teenager now, so she's happy to not speak to me. So it's beautiful. Well, that exhausts all my
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questions about this funny world that we're living in. But I think it's really interesting. I always
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listened when Dan Benjamin would do Quit and Merlin would talk about the JOB jobs and all of
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all that stuff. I would always listen and be like, "Oh, that's interesting." And now,
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especially when you've got the perspective of people who mostly... I've known so many
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people who are like freelancers and that's what they've always been, that it's different
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when you are used to the job life and then you're not in it anymore. And it's not like
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I'm not working. I think we've all said, we're all... Other than Myke, who is working less
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and making more. We're all working pretty hard.
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I don't like that summary, by the way. I would like to point that out that I am not on board
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with that. He plays video games.
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Your objection is noted. He takes four hour lunches.
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And we'll save you a turkey leg. But it's different. The contrast is kind of breathtaking
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in some ways of being out on your own and having no more support structure, but also
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no more meetings and control structure, and having to make those decisions yourself. But
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my fear, which is that I would not have enough to do and would be like, "Oh crap, what do
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I do now?" It hasn't been borne out. So that's a good start. And hopefully, that'll continue
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because I'm enjoying it.
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And as I've said on previous shows,
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although I am in my garage,
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it has been converted almost to the point,
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there's still a garage door and there's some bikes parked,
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but they're like, I got curtains and carpet
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and it's all insulated and there are new windows.
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And it's other than the fact that the washer and dryer
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is over here threatening to spill out
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and flood me at any moment,
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I am otherwise in a pretty comfy spot
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that I had a year or more to set up.
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And so I'm pretty happy being able to execute a plan
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that I sort of like, okay, I'll say it,
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I'm living the dream because for two years,
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this was the dream and now I get to actually do it.
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So that's pretty great.
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- Don't mess it up.
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- Thanks, Greg.
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Voice of, ooh, regret, later.
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But it's good to have the voice of warning out there
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'cause I know that's why I wanted you on.
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That's why I asked you to be our guest today
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is I wanted you to say, look, I lived through this
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and you have the positives of it
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and also the things that you expected that didn't come to pass.
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And I thought that was worth talking about for young Myke and for me,
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both of whom are out on our own now.
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And I think that's it, Myke.
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- So this ends the group therapy of the home workers on the internet.
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We will reconvene at another point and check in to see how these guys are doing.
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And what regrets... - Via Skype.
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- Yeah, via Skype. - Not in person.
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And what regrets myself and Jason have about
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our new pajama lifestyle.
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Um, if you'd like to find the show notes for
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this week's episode of upgrade, you want to
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point your web browser at relay.fm/upgrade/11.
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Narsway, can people find you if they would
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like to do so?
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How about that three letter domain?
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End of days.
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Though I, I, I think the post that's there is
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almost exactly a year old.
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How about GNOS at Twitter?
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There you go.
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And that will of course both be in the show notes too.
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If you'd like to find me online I am @imike on Twitter and Mr. Jason Snow is @jsnell and
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he of course writes the fantastic sixcolors.com.
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We'll be back next week with another episode of Upgrade.
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Thanks again to our sponsors this week, Drafts, Studio Neat and Mailer Out.
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Until next time, say goodbye everybody.
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Goodbye everybody!