28: Wear Your Own T-Shirt
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Welcome to Under the Radar, a show about independent iOS app development. I'm Marco Arment.
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And I'm David Smith. Under the Radar is never longer than 30 minutes, so let's get started.
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So today what I wanted to talk through is the broader concepts, but something that started from a
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sort of my initial planning for getting ready to go and attend WWDC this year.
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where one of the things that I was thinking about is the interactions that I tend to have
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at the actual convention on the floor. And something that has happened several times
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is I'll be walking around and I'll just randomly bump into somebody and start chatting, and
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it's like as we start talking, eventually we get to a point where they're like, "Oh,
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wait, you're the guy who did pedometer++? I love that app," or something like that,
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where you have this interaction where it's like eventually
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they do sort of, there's this discovery of a common ground.
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- It's almost an accident.
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- Yeah, and that accidental nature of it
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is the problem that I wanted to talk about today.
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Because what I've been thinking about is,
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well, what do most companies do
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when they encounter this kind of a thing?
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It's like, if you walk around WWDC,
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you will see people wearing like 1Password shirts,
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and you know they work for AgileBits.
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or you'll see companies with Omni shirts on or whatever,
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and you'll know they work for Omni.
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And so if you like Omni and want to talk to someone
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who works there, you know how to go about doing that.
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But it feels weird in some ways,
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or at least initially it started feeling weird,
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and I was like, should I make shirts that say,
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it's like my apps and have like pedometer plus plus
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or C plus plus or under the radar even,
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or even just my name put on it.
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And it's weird because it feels a bit like self-promotion
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in that way, it feels a bit odd.
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And the more I've thought about this,
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I need to probably not think about it in those ways,
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but it seemed like an interesting topic to talk about
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because I struggle with this weird tension of,
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it's like if I was working for a bigger company
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and I was going to a convention and that company said,
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"Hey, here's five t-shirts that have various products on it.
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"We'd love it if you could wear them during the thing."
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and see if that can start a conversation,
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help a conversation along.
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I wouldn't feel weird about doing that.
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It'd be like, "Yeah, totally, I'm a team player,
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"let's do this."
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But when it's me promoting myself, it feels a bit weird.
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And that tension is a strange thing.
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I think in some ways it's unique to being an indie,
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but I think a lot of people probably struggle
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with this type of thing when your brand is more personal
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rather than more corporate.
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- Yeah, I mean, this is, I think a lot of this plays into
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what I think would probably be like the stereotypical
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geek personality that many people in our industry,
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I think us included, have, which is,
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you know, it's hard for people with this personality type
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to self-promote.
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It's hard for them to like brag about themselves
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and promote their work a lot of times.
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And this is something I had to just get over
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over the years, honestly, and I'm still not great at it, but it's really hard for
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certain personality types to be willing to do that. And I think what helps to distinguish
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here between times you should and shouldn't do that or when or where you should and shouldn't
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do that is to recognize that there are lots of situations in which, like walking around
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WWDC, tons of people there are wearing their own t-shirts. If there's ever a time and
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place to wear your own t-shirt of the app you make or the company you work for, it's
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at a conference full of other people doing the exact same thing. The cost of you doing
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that, the risk of you doing that is absolutely lowest there during that week. There's also
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situations like if you are at a tech meetup or any place where you know you're going
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to be surrounded by other software developers or other people in your business who are probably
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going to also be doing the same thing, that's totally fine. And in fact, not only will the
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world tolerate your self-promotion during that time, but as you mentioned, for purposes
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like starting up conversations or trying to meet people who make the apps you like, it's
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It's actually helpful.
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You're actually helping people find you
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who want to find you or who are interested in your app
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or who know who you are or who want to know who you are.
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So you're actually helping out by being self-promotional
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in certain contexts, such as those kind of real life
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gatherings of similar types of people.
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And it's just one of those things where
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you just kind of have to think of it
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from the other person's perspective of like,
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if I wear a shirt that identifies me as the maker of this app or that or as the host of
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the show or whatever is the other person more likely to think I'm being like an arrogant
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jerk or more likely to recognize that for people who want to who are who are who are
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interested in saying hi to me and and will and that'll make their job actually easier
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and they will appreciate that rather than trying to guess wait is that underscore there's
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just a line on a shirt, but that could be an underscore, or it could just be a line,
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'cause it's kind of hard to put your name on a shirt. So there are so many contexts
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like that in which you're actually helping the other people by doing that.
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Yeah, and it's
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It's an interesting thing too because I think about the tension you so like an example of a similar example
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That's also a bit of attention is like the degree to which you talk about
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Or like mention when people say nice things about your products, right?
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It's like similar in this way where there's this strange tension around
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You know, it's like if someone writes a nice review of one of one of my apps do I like, you know
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put that on Twitter, put it on my blog.
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But it's like, that feels a little weird.
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Like retweeting when people say nice things about you,
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like that's a little gauche, I guess.
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Like it's not great.
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But I think what I've been trying to work through
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is why it feels weird versus what I'm increasingly
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coming to grips with about being fine with,
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of the like, it's good for people to know who you are
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and to know what you're associated with.
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And like that's just building a brand versus being,
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it's like what kind, it's like then you start
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get to the question of what kind of brand do you want to be? And that's, I think,
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the more interesting place to—where I need to get comfortable with the first step. I
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am a brand. I have a following online. I do things in a public way. I make apps that are
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used by hundreds of thousands of people. That's an important thing, and I need to just be
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okay with that. And then it's like, "Okay, well, what kind of brand do I want to be?"
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even big companies have different brands that have different personalities to them. There's
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ones that are very casual or very formal or very inviting. And even down to the things
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like I'm thinking about, I'm working on the new one, what design should I have for
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my shirt? And it's like, well, it's probably going to be kind of geeky. I'm going to
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make something that's a little bit, that's not just a picture of an app icon. It's
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going to be a little bit silly, and that probably speaks more to the personality of my company
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and my own personality, and I think that works. But it's an important thing that I really
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– it's kind of bad in some ways. I've been doing this for so long, but I still have
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these basic elements of marketing that I'm just not really comfortable with or have really
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thought through.
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- I think it really does have a lot to do with the context.
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As I said earlier, there are some contexts in which
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people actually are being helped by your marketing.
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And your example of do you retweet things
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that are complimentary, in the context of people
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who follow you on Twitter, who are going to see this,
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they don't need that.
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That is not really helping them to hear how awesome you are
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because they already follow you,
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they already think you're awesome.
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They don't need to see everyone else thinking you're awesome
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and you retweeting that and it just makes you look arrogant.
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But if you have a page for your product,
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like a webpage or even people who just use
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the description field on the App Store for this purpose,
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put endorsements there, put positive reviews,
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like the way people pull out call quotes,
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like people do on movie posters,
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and put in the ellipsis so everything sounds good.
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If prominent people or publications or anybody really
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says something nice about you, maybe don't retweet it, but put it on your marketing page.
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Because in that kind of context, that is not only appropriate, but can be helpful to people
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who are visiting. To kind of see who else has vetted this app, are there any big publications
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or names that I've heard of who have said nice things about this? That's actually
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useful information in that context. So I think it's tempting to just step back and say,
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"Well, I don't feel comfortable doing any of this, so I'm just gonna let people find my stuff."
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But people won't find your stuff. Like that's not how this works and
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that's that's kind of
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It's it's almost a naive view of like how how this world works now
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That it's very tempting to to think it's a very appealing notion
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to think that you know, I can just put something good out there and it'll it'll get found people will find it and
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Sometimes that does really happen,
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but it really helps a lot if you can grease the wheels
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a little bit, if you can get a lot more people
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to look at it first.
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And the way you do that is some kind of promotion,
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some kind of telling people what you're about.
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And I think the line that has to be drawn
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is figuring out when such promotion
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would be considered inappropriate
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and not doing it in those places,
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but then finding the opportunities where it is appropriate
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or where it is even helpful,
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and trying to focus your efforts there.
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And that isn't always an easy line
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for a lot of people to find,
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and certain products make it easier or harder,
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certain personality types make that easier or harder
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to figure out where that line is,
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but there are places where it is totally appropriate
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to market yourself and to market your app.
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And it isn't really, if you think about it,
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it isn't even really that hard to think about
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what those places might be.
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Obviously there's conferences, there's in-person things.
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And I would say anywhere where you're going to a meeting
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and everybody passes out business cards,
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that's not what I'm talking about.
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That's just a waste of paper.
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But-- (laughs)
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- That is actually a thing I've been wondering.
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It's like, should I have business cards?
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I haven't had business cards in years.
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- I think in our business, the answer generally is no.
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- Yeah, but every now and then I'm like,
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I wonder if at some point, I'll run into somebody
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who would be important to be able to,
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for them to reach back out to me,
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and I was like, I have nothing to give you.
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I can write my name on your hand, that's all I've got.
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It's not great, but it's the same kind of thing
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'cause there are opportunities like that.
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What you're just saying, it's like having those contexts
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where it's completely appropriate to interact
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in a marketing way and say, it's like, I'm this person,
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here's my app, and I have something to hand to them.
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If you went to a trade show and had a booth,
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you'll have things to hand out to people
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because it's a context where if someone wants
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to receive that, you wanna be able to give it to them, right?
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Exactly. And that's like, there are so many contexts like that in which your self-promotion
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is welcome or helpful. And so, for instance, we talked in the past about pitching the press
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on your app. This is a great example of this kind of thing where, you know, a website that
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posts links to things and reviews things every day like Daring Fireball or Mac Stories or
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iMore, these sites need things to post every day. You're not putting them out by suggesting,
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hey, maybe check this out that I just made,
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it solves this problem.
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Like, that, you're not like, you know,
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I mean you can do it badly in a way that seems spammy,
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but if you just do it like a human in a respectful way,
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it tends to be welcome.
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And that isn't to say that they are guaranteed
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to link to you, to cover you,
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to give you a positive review,
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but you have to at least do the first step
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of like letting people know about your app,
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because sites like that need things to post every day.
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So by you promoting your app to them, you are not annoying them, you are helping them do their job.
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So find places where hearing about your app will help people do a job in a way that is not spammy
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or annoying. So for me, blind email blasts when people blast email all over me. I don't appreciate
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that very much. And one of the main reasons is because the lists that people tend to,
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I assume, buy often include bad addresses, things like overcast support address. That's not an
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appropriate place to send promotional stuff about your service to make developers lives easier.
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But if people run websites that review apps and there's a contact form there or there's an email
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address there for like, "Hey, send your PR inquiries or whatever here." That is the
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appropriate place for that. They're asking you to do that there. So find places like
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that and use that to your advantage because honestly, in this business, you have to be
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some degree of self-promotional because there's so much out there. There's so many other
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apps. There's so many other services. There's so many other consultants. No matter what
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you're doing in the mobile app development business, it's crowded these days. And you
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have to stand out somehow. There are so many people out there who don't do any reasonable
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amount of self-promotion, who can't do it right or who don't do it right. If you can
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just do that correctly at all, you don't even have to be great at it, just be okay
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at it. And that will put you in like the top 5% of pretty much everybody else out there
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doing the exact same thing as you. So that helps a lot and I would even argue that if
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you're the kind of person who was just really having a hard time with self-promotion and
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who really can't do it, I would argue that
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you're probably better off working for a company
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than working on your own, because it's such an important
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part of working on your own that if you can't do it,
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someone else should be doing it for you.
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- Yeah, and I think that's a great aspect
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that I always need to remind myself about,
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where just because, like I got into this business
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to write software, to open Xcode and work in there,
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and just because that's what I'm good at,
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and just because that's what I like doing most,
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doesn't somehow mean that the other aspects
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of running a software business go away.
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It's not like somehow, oh, well, that's what I do,
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so I'm just gonna do that.
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It's like, no, there are many aspects
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to running a business that I have to do,
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and some of them I can outsource.
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So I have an accountant who files my taxes for me,
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because that's a very vital, important part of my business,
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but it's something that I really don't wanna do.
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at something that she is way better at doing than I am.
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So I have her have someone do that.
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And so when I think about something like marketing,
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which is really what all of this is,
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like this is promotion and publicity and marketing.
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It's a division within a bigger company.
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Even if it's not something that I want to do
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or feel qualified or skilled at doing,
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it's still something that's important for me
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to develop that skill, get better at, et cetera.
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Because if it doesn't happen, it's not like that's fine.
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all these marketing angles and everything
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as what's appropriate and what's not.
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Obviously, we can talk about this academically
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than you do, or at least I started earlier
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on the path towards self-promotion.
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what are the irrational pressures or fears or conflicts
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that you feel about this that other people might relate to
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and can you talk about, maybe just like the feeling side
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this. Once you know what you should be doing, what still stops you from doing it, and what
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might be a way that you could overcome that?
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Yeah. The one that comes to mind the most, and I think this is at the core of so much
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of these challenges, is that feeling of putting yourself out there. Every time I write an
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and an email to the press.
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I always have this feeling of,
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like I can be so proud of my app
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and what it does and how well it works,
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and I'm sitting down to write this to somebody,
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and I get nervous and worried,
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and like, what if they don't like it?
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What if they hate it?
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What if they are gonna reject me or be mean to me
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or whatever?
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You can have these various, like,
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you know, sort of visceral feelings about that.
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and a lot of these kind of like self-promotional things,
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There is certainly an element of that, of this,
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any time that you are sort of really sort of
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putting out your name in a public, obvious way,
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intentionally drawing attention to yourself,
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it's like you're also setting yourself up
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for the possibility of someone not liking you.
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And I think the thing that you have to,
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at a certain point, come to grips with is A,
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like there's always gonna be people who don't like you.
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Like no matter how likable you are,
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there's always gonna be that.
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And there's a certain amount of just,
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you have to be okay with that
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and not get your value from other people.
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If I look at something I make and I think it's good,
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then that at a certain point has to be enough.
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It doesn't have to just be validated externally.
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But then it's also just being aware
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that that's probably also not what's gonna happen.
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The number of times I've had the negative version of that,
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can remember them because that's just the way human nature is, that we think the impact
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of the negative is disproportionate to the impact of the positive. You know, a hundred
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people can say a nice thing and one person can say a mean thing, and you remember that
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mean thing. But overall, that's not my experience. But it's having to overcome the emotional
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part of that, of that feeling of just that nervousness and that shyness. And it's the
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the same thing that happens in life. I remember we talked about this a couple weeks ago with
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going to WWDC, and it's that same feeling of when I'd see someone that I'd recognize,
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it's like, "Oh, should I go say hi? I'd love to meet them." But being nervous about
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that, and being nervous how the conversation will go, and all these types of things, when
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in reality it goes fine. That's just not the reality. People are generally very polite
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and very nice, and it'll go well. But that certainly is a genuine feeling to overcome,
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of that feeling of, "Is this good enough? Is it going to go well?" And so anytime
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you're drawing attention to yourself, that's just part of it. But there's definitely
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that kind of irrational feeling of, "Oh no, what if people don't like me?"
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Oh, sure. I mean, and there's not… I mean, that's hard for… I would expect a lot
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of people who like computers who are roughly our age probably had a rough time socially
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in school growing up. I sure did. And a lot of those pressures come right back to feeling
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like you're in high school again or middle school again and getting socially rejected
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or romantically rejected. And there's these deep-rooted scars that so many of us have
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from growing up in that kind of situation. And so it's really hard to overcome that
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feeling but the good thing is, as you mentioned, people are generally nice and polite because
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you know what? We aren't in high school anymore. Everyone around us now is an adult
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and usually they're a lot like us who had a similar background as us. And so the chances
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of getting really scarred and rejected in the ways that we're all like consciously
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are subconsciously afraid of, I think are pretty low. We're adults now. We're in
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an industry now where we won. We won the world. We don't have to worry about all those emotional
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pressures anymore. And in this industry and the way things work both in person and online,
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you're not likely to get rejected. The worst that you can generally expect is to be ignored
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or to be lost in the shuffle because there's just so much out there. And that's, you
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can't really, if that happens, and it will, it happens to all of us, you can't really
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take that personally because it's probably not for personal reasons. Like, you know,
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if Apple doesn't pick you to be featured or if a website doesn't pick you to write
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about or doesn't pick your app to review that week, it might be because they didn't
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like it and they looked at it, but it's probably not because of that. It's probably
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because they got too much stuff,
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and yours slipped through the cracks,
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or whatever yours did, that's not the kind of thing
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they were looking for that week.
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Or there's so many other reasons that it is generally
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due to, if you do get ignored or passed over
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for something in this business,
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that it's probably not personal,
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it's probably not about your app,
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your app might not have even been looked at.
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That's the reality of getting rejected
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in this business today, is that it's generally due
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to people being overwhelmed, not due to anything personal against you. And so the risk of putting
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yourself out there is pretty low, really. And I think it's also that one of the most impressive
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things is confidence, and whether that is true confidence or kind of like more of a "fake it
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'til you make it" kind of thing, but that's something that I think universally people find
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and impressive, like going back to high school or whatever. The kids who were confident,
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even if they're confidently strange, are still cool, in a way that is the thing that
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we're in many ways, and this is what I'm striving toward, is being confident in what
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I make, being confident in the person I am, and being able to be authentic about that.
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And it's like, that's something that's attractive.
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That's something that is interesting and engaging and will start conversations and will open
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doors and those types of things.
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I mean, in some ways it's being—even just having the confidence to ship in the first
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place is a huge thing to have accomplished.
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And in marketing, there's that same type of thing.
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It's like when I run into somebody and they ask me what apps—and they'll be like,
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"Oh, what apps do you use?"
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It's like, "Oh, what do you do?"
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"Oh, I make apps."
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"Oh, have I heard of any?"
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It's like not being like, "Oh, probably not."
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the non-confident response.
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Where it's like, "Oh, I make an app called Podometer++."
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- Yeah, start with that.
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Don't even start with, "I make apps."
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Start with, "I make this particular app.
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"Here's what it is, here's what it's called,
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"here's what it does, here's why you want it."
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- Exactly, and having that confidence that this is something
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that they were gonna be interested in,
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and maybe they are, maybe they won't,
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but it's way better, and it's gonna come across
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so much more appealing in a much more appealing way
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if you start with that confidence,
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versus being like, "Oh, well, you know, I do stuff.
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I kind of make stuff.
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That's not appealing.
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That's not that you're not promoting yourself and you're doing your work a discredit as
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All right, well that's all the time we have for this week.
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WBC is coming up really quickly now, so we'll be talking about that probably more next week,
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I would imagine.
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Everyone listening, thank you for listening, and I will see you at WBC wearing my own shirt.
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I hope you do too.
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All right, see you next week.
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All right, bye.
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