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Cortex 59: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

 

00:00:00   I'm Ike hi are you ready to be proactive [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/0">TS</a>]

00:00:03   and sharpen the saw to synergize our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3">TS</a>]

00:00:06   win-win solution today's the day today's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6">TS</a>]

00:00:08   the day seven Habits of Highly Effective [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/8">TS</a>]

00:00:10   People there was there was a couple of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/10">TS</a>]

00:00:14   things that I was interested in talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/14">TS</a>]

00:00:16   about today one was you're surprisingly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/16">TS</a>]

00:00:19   compelling 24-hour death stream oh did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/19">TS</a>]

00:00:21   you like that yeah I did like that very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/21">TS</a>]

00:00:23   much [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/23">TS</a>]

00:00:23   so you had a new video in the CGT be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/23">TS</a>]

00:00:25   great doom and gloom series that came [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/25">TS</a>]

00:00:27   out I think of it in my head I feel like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/27">TS</a>]

00:00:31   it was very optimistic but okay the idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/31">TS</a>]

00:00:38   of living forever I'm not sure if it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/38">TS</a>]

00:00:40   supposed to be in a way that I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/40">TS</a>]

00:00:42   completely comfortable with but you you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/42">TS</a>]

00:00:44   going alongside this video was a 24 hour [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/44">TS</a>]

00:00:48   livestream of an accurate representation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/48">TS</a>]

00:00:51   of how many people died on earth in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/51">TS</a>]

00:00:54   day and it was fascinating it was like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/54">TS</a>]

00:00:56   on in my house for like 45 minutes just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/56">TS</a>]

00:00:58   in the background like I started [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/58">TS</a>]

00:01:00   watching it and then I just kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/60">TS</a>]

00:01:02   walked away from the TV and it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/62">TS</a>]

00:01:04   playing and like I look back it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/64">TS</a>]

00:01:07   5,000 I was like oh no that's enough it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/67">TS</a>]

00:01:11   was it was too much to come back and see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/71">TS</a>]

00:01:13   the numbers just getting bigger and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/73">TS</a>]

00:01:14   bigger a little pile of skulls getting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/74">TS</a>]

00:01:16   bigger and bigger yeah it was good that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/76">TS</a>]

00:01:18   was a great idea it's one of those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/78">TS</a>]

00:01:19   things that actually it end up coming [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/79">TS</a>]

00:01:21   out of a technical limitation so I have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/81">TS</a>]

00:01:25   this idea originally of like okay I like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/85">TS</a>]

00:01:26   this idea of this 24 hours of death as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/86">TS</a>]

00:01:30   visual representation of what's occurred [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/90">TS</a>]

00:01:32   like how do you how do you convey the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/92">TS</a>]

00:01:34   magnitude of this thing because if you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/94">TS</a>]

00:01:35   just you just say a big number like it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/95">TS</a>]

00:01:38   means nothing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/98">TS</a>]

00:01:38   to people whereas I feel like oh but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/98">TS</a>]

00:01:41   together a little video like this it has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/101">TS</a>]

00:01:42   more of a chance of having an impact you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/102">TS</a>]

00:01:45   know any exactly that way that that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/105">TS</a>]

00:01:47   say like you start watching it and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/107">TS</a>]

00:01:48   you come back later and it's like oh my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/108">TS</a>]

00:01:49   right eye well while I was watching the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/109">TS</a>]

00:01:51   dish's 10,000 people died right yeah and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/111">TS</a>]

00:01:53   so it's it has it has an impact it drove [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/113">TS</a>]

00:01:56   it home right that it was like I could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/116">TS</a>]

00:01:58   just watch this mesmerizing animation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/118">TS</a>]

00:02:00   where someone was getting their head cut [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/120">TS</a>]

00:02:02   off every time every second and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/122">TS</a>]

00:02:05   were bursting into flames I think this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/125">TS</a>]

00:02:07   is what was occurring oh my apologies [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/127">TS</a>]

00:02:10   let's get the clothes of deaf correct I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/130">TS</a>]

00:02:12   guess yeah but say I had this idea like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/132">TS</a>]

00:02:16   okay I wanted to do this and you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/136">TS</a>]

00:02:19   we're like putting together like this 24 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/139">TS</a>]

00:02:21   hour long file and go to upload it to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/141">TS</a>]

00:02:26   YouTube and I get a great great YouTube [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/146">TS</a>]

00:02:28   error message which is surprise videos [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/148">TS</a>]

00:02:31   are not allowed to be longer than 12 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/151">TS</a>]

00:02:34   hours mm-hmm it's like huh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/154">TS</a>]

00:02:36   that's interesting because I know for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/156">TS</a>]

00:02:38   fact that there are videos on YouTube [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/158">TS</a>]

00:02:40   which are hundreds of hours long like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/160">TS</a>]

00:02:41   there's there are definitely videos that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/161">TS</a>]

00:02:43   are super long but it turns out that at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/163">TS</a>]

00:02:46   some point in the past YouTube made a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/166">TS</a>]

00:02:48   decision that they had enough of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/168">TS</a>]

00:02:50   tomfoolery with long videos and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/170">TS</a>]

00:02:53   decided to reduce the the absolute limit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/173">TS</a>]

00:02:57   down to 12 hours which is also longer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/177">TS</a>]

00:03:00   than any video and YouTube should be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/180">TS</a>]

00:03:01   twelve hours is too long like why I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/181">TS</a>]

00:03:04   I know you've found a reason for it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/184">TS</a>]

00:03:05   right I was gonna say I have a very good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/185">TS</a>]

00:03:07   reason why I would like a video that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/187">TS</a>]

00:03:08   longer than twelve hours thank you right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/188">TS</a>]

00:03:10   but it shouldn't be because no one's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/190">TS</a>]

00:03:12   watching that but actually I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/192">TS</a>]

00:03:13   interested to know what your retention [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/193">TS</a>]

00:03:15   graphs are like on those videos well we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/195">TS</a>]

00:03:18   can get into that later but so anyway I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/198">TS</a>]

00:03:20   was I was super annoyed about this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/200">TS</a>]

00:03:21   because I was like goddammit like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/201">TS</a>]

00:03:23   don't want to I don't want to break a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/203">TS</a>]

00:03:24   thing up into two parts like I know that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/204">TS</a>]

00:03:26   I'm going to have to break it up into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/206">TS</a>]

00:03:28   two parts but then I feel like that it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/208">TS</a>]

00:03:30   makes it not as as good when you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/210">TS</a>]

00:03:32   uploading it for the first time and so I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/212">TS</a>]

00:03:34   was spinning this around in in my head [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/214">TS</a>]

00:03:37   and then like talking with some people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/217">TS</a>]

00:03:40   a few people mentioned the suggestion of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/220">TS</a>]

00:03:43   actually like hey can you get around [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/223">TS</a>]

00:03:44   this by live-streaming the thing and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/224">TS</a>]

00:03:47   was like wait a minute yes there is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/227">TS</a>]

00:03:48   there is no limit on how long a live [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/228">TS</a>]

00:03:50   stream can be so that's what I ended up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/230">TS</a>]

00:03:53   doing was okay I can get around this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/233">TS</a>]

00:03:54   technical limit by making it live and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/234">TS</a>]

00:03:57   then as soon as I realized that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/237">TS</a>]

00:03:59   thought oh it actually works better if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/239">TS</a>]

00:04:00   it's live it's way back because people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/240">TS</a>]

00:04:02   can't skip ahead alright like people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/242">TS</a>]

00:04:04   can't just jump and it's buzzy yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/244">TS</a>]

00:04:06   right there is this thing that this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/246">TS</a>]

00:04:09   what I found so compelling about it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/249">TS</a>]

00:04:10   there was a thing on the internet that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/250">TS</a>]

00:04:13   was showing me how many people were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/253">TS</a>]

00:04:15   dying like it's morbid but like a car [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/255">TS</a>]

00:04:18   crash television right like you kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/258">TS</a>]

00:04:21   you know it's there you can't help but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/261">TS</a>]

00:04:23   look [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/263">TS</a>]

00:04:24   mmm-hmm right and I kept checking in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/264">TS</a>]

00:04:26   every now and then just to see how big [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/266">TS</a>]

00:04:27   the pile of skulls was like it was you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/267">TS</a>]

00:04:29   know and like and I kind of had it in my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/269">TS</a>]

00:04:31   mind to make sure to look before I ended [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/271">TS</a>]

00:04:33   right like I kind of I knew it sighted [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/273">TS</a>]

00:04:35   it around like 11:00 a.m. my time or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/275">TS</a>]

00:04:37   something so kind of it was like 10:30 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/277">TS</a>]

00:04:39   or whatever and I just checked it and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/279">TS</a>]

00:04:40   was like old man but like it it kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/280">TS</a>]

00:04:42   had that effect of it of like there is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/282">TS</a>]

00:04:44   this thing that's happening which is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/284">TS</a>]

00:04:45   showing this how can I not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/285">TS</a>]

00:04:47   at least look at it so I think they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/287">TS</a>]

00:04:50   worked really well it's a great idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/290">TS</a>]

00:04:51   well yeah I'm pretty pleased with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/291">TS</a>]

00:04:54   way that came out in the end I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/294">TS</a>]

00:04:55   that ended up being like much more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/295">TS</a>]

00:04:56   interesting than the video itself in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/296">TS</a>]

00:04:58   way I was just doing this this live [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/298">TS</a>]

00:05:00   stream so I'm pretty happy with the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/300">TS</a>]

00:05:02   it with the way it came out yeah I liked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/302">TS</a>]

00:05:04   the video but I was more interested in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/304">TS</a>]

00:05:06   the in the live stream part like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/306">TS</a>]

00:05:08   was more exciting to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/308">TS</a>]

00:05:09   yeah the live stream part is definitely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/309">TS</a>]

00:05:11   the more interesting part and and yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/311">TS</a>]

00:05:13   so it was I'm still annoyed that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/313">TS</a>]

00:05:15   wasn't able to upload the whole thing as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/315">TS</a>]

00:05:17   one continuous file so I did have to end [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/317">TS</a>]

00:05:19   up uploading there like the final [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/319">TS</a>]

00:05:21   conversion has two pieces I thought you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/321">TS</a>]

00:05:23   could set a live stream as a video like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/323">TS</a>]

00:05:25   you can just have it available you can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/325">TS</a>]

00:05:27   but it will only save the last four [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/327">TS</a>]

00:05:29   hours oh that's silly yeah so we just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/329">TS</a>]

00:05:33   also interesting when I realize like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/333">TS</a>]

00:05:34   know people do 24 hour long like charity [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/334">TS</a>]

00:05:36   fundraisers and it's like oh okay so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/336">TS</a>]

00:05:38   there's just no record of that there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/338">TS</a>]

00:05:40   only a record of the last four hours of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/340">TS</a>]

00:05:41   that because yes that was originally my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/341">TS</a>]

00:05:44   thought was I was like hahaha [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/344">TS</a>]

00:05:45   fooled you YouTube like I'll just save [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/345">TS</a>]

00:05:48   the live stream and then ended like no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/348">TS</a>]

00:05:50   it's not gonna work it only saves the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/350">TS</a>]

00:05:51   last four hours but yeah so anyway this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/351">TS</a>]

00:05:53   is just an interesting case of a an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/353">TS</a>]

00:05:56   annoying technical limitation that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/356">TS</a>]

00:05:58   still genuinely wish wasn't there but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/358">TS</a>]

00:06:01   that nonetheless ended up turning into a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/361">TS</a>]

00:06:03   thing that is more interesting than it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/363">TS</a>]

00:06:05   would have otherwise been so I feel like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/365">TS</a>]

00:06:07   that it worked out in the end yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/367">TS</a>]

00:06:08   because if you published the video I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/368">TS</a>]

00:06:10   would just skip to the end right yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/370">TS</a>]

00:06:12   everybody would have yeah but speaking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/372">TS</a>]

00:06:14   of the audience retention graphs there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/374">TS</a>]

00:06:17   a there's a very funny thing in those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/377">TS</a>]

00:06:19   audience retention graphs because there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/379">TS</a>]

00:06:21   are little Easter eggs throughout the 12 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/381">TS</a>]

00:06:23   hours I think there's something like 20 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/383">TS</a>]

00:06:25   little Easter eggs that occur and when I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/385">TS</a>]

00:06:29   loaded up the audience retention graphs [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/389">TS</a>]

00:06:31   you can see the spikes no areas where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/391">TS</a>]

00:06:34   all the Easter eggs are how are people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/394">TS</a>]

00:06:36   finding them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/396">TS</a>]

00:06:37   well I think what's happening is someone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/397">TS</a>]

00:06:40   sees it and then they jump back a couple [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/400">TS</a>]

00:06:43   seconds to say hey what did I just see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/403">TS</a>]

00:06:45   that thing that I thought I saw right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/405">TS</a>]

00:06:47   which then double counts the audience [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/407">TS</a>]

00:06:48   retention in that spot and then people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/408">TS</a>]

00:06:50   leave comments I just saw Nicole are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/410">TS</a>]

00:06:52   jumping to those locations but it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/412">TS</a>]

00:06:56   hilarious on the audience retention [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/416">TS</a>]

00:06:57   graph you can see spikes for exactly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/417">TS</a>]

00:07:01   where every single one of the little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/421">TS</a>]

00:07:02   Easter eggs are so that's one morning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/422">TS</a>]

00:07:04   like there's like hey why the one at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/424">TS</a>]

00:07:06   5:57 have a hound and why 7:51 did they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/426">TS</a>]

00:07:09   have a briefcase I like the supposed to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/429">TS</a>]

00:07:11   really needed to like they were upset [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/431">TS</a>]

00:07:13   right like why why the why questions are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/433">TS</a>]

00:07:18   great and it is funny cuz when the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/438">TS</a>]

00:07:19   livestream first went up I did I didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/439">TS</a>]

00:07:21   enjoy all the comments where people were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/441">TS</a>]

00:07:22   saying things like what does it mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/442">TS</a>]

00:07:24   like what does it mean I'll leave that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/444">TS</a>]

00:07:28   for you to speculate speculate away [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/448">TS</a>]

00:07:33   about what if that's on you to work out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/453">TS</a>]

00:07:35   it's very profound but you've got to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/455">TS</a>]

00:07:36   figure it out yourself I'm looking at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/456">TS</a>]

00:07:38   these now I've got sucked into the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/458">TS</a>]

00:07:40   comments I want to see these two eggs [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/460">TS</a>]

00:07:44   like we got a podcast a record last year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/464">TS</a>]

00:07:47   unless we record for 24 hours which I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/467">TS</a>]

00:07:49   don't think it's a good idea remember [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/469">TS</a>]

00:07:51   then we won't be able to post it on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/471">TS</a>]

00:07:52   YouTube unless we live stream at 24 hour [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/472">TS</a>]

00:07:54   long cortex which is not gonna happen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/474">TS</a>]

00:07:56   Mike do you know that you have become an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/476">TS</a>]

00:07:59   animated character on the internet [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/479">TS</a>]

00:08:01   finally right finally yeah that I have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/481">TS</a>]

00:08:05   waited for a cartoon for years finally [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/485">TS</a>]

00:08:07   there is a cartoon of me since I was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/487">TS</a>]

00:08:09   kid I wanted to mike the cartoon and we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/489">TS</a>]

00:08:12   have it now there's a fantastic I found [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/492">TS</a>]

00:08:14   this in the cortex subreddit um the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/494">TS</a>]

00:08:16   person who created this video posted it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/496">TS</a>]

00:08:18   hm butit is their YouTube channel I'll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/498">TS</a>]

00:08:20   put a link in the show notes and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/500">TS</a>]

00:08:22   are putting together some fantastic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/502">TS</a>]

00:08:23   cortex animated videos which I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/503">TS</a>]

00:08:26   enjoying immensely and I wanted people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/506">TS</a>]

00:08:29   to see them because I think it's really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/509">TS</a>]

00:08:30   great and that there's one of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/510">TS</a>]

00:08:33   previous episode there's one of some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/513">TS</a>]

00:08:34   classic moments from all the episodes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/514">TS</a>]

00:08:35   and I love seeing stuff like this and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/515">TS</a>]

00:08:38   they really make me laugh and I enjoy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/518">TS</a>]

00:08:41   them immensely and you really like being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/521">TS</a>]

00:08:43   a cartoon character I love being a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/523">TS</a>]

00:08:45   cartoon character this person has an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/525">TS</a>]

00:08:47   almost spooky ability to capture [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/527">TS</a>]

00:08:49   movements that I think I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/529">TS</a>]

00:08:51   make the way the way they animate my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/531">TS</a>]

00:08:56   movements when talking to you is a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/536">TS</a>]

00:08:58   of how I imagined they actually are so I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/538">TS</a>]

00:09:00   think it's brilliant the one of these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/540">TS</a>]

00:09:01   that I think is probably the best [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/541">TS</a>]

00:09:03   version is from I think it was our very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/543">TS</a>]

00:09:05   first episode where we're talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/545">TS</a>]

00:09:06   the screen screens and home screen icons [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/546">TS</a>]

00:09:08   and the the way they animate you when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/548">TS</a>]

00:09:13   you're when you're asking about what I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/553">TS</a>]

00:09:15   think about your home screen I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/555">TS</a>]

00:09:17   it's just it's just perfect yes people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/557">TS</a>]

00:09:19   should go take a look at it like I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/559">TS</a>]

00:09:21   if there's but whether or not the way it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/561">TS</a>]

00:09:24   is animated is the way it happens like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/564">TS</a>]

00:09:25   it adds something to the audio which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/565">TS</a>]

00:09:27   makes it sound like that's the way that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/567">TS</a>]

00:09:29   it happens so it's it's really well done [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/569">TS</a>]

00:09:31   I'm always incredibly impressed by the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/571">TS</a>]

00:09:34   way that people make these types of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/574">TS</a>]

00:09:35   videos like I watch some for some of my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/575">TS</a>]

00:09:37   favorite shows mm-hmm you know that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/577">TS</a>]

00:09:39   there are some fantastic animated videos [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/579">TS</a>]

00:09:41   for my brother my brother and me oh yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/581">TS</a>]

00:09:43   and it what I love about these types of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/583">TS</a>]

00:09:46   videos is the way that people hear a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/586">TS</a>]

00:09:48   thing they hear a thing but the way they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/588">TS</a>]

00:09:51   interpret it adds so much more to it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/591">TS</a>]

00:09:53   mm-hmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/593">TS</a>]

00:09:54   and I fit such it is such an interesting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/594">TS</a>]

00:09:56   skill that people have to be able to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/596">TS</a>]

00:09:58   hear a sentence and pick out specific [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/598">TS</a>]

00:10:00   words and make a joke about those words [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/600">TS</a>]

00:10:03   in a way that was never originally [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/603">TS</a>]

00:10:04   intended like it's it's so interesting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/604">TS</a>]

00:10:08   to see that and also like the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/608">TS</a>]

00:10:10   kinetic nature of the videos is very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/610">TS</a>]

00:10:12   interesting to me the way that people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/612">TS</a>]

00:10:14   make the movements and they adjust the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/614">TS</a>]

00:10:16   audio to fit but it's I find it a very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/616">TS</a>]

00:10:19   interesting skill mm-hmm and I'm really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/619">TS</a>]

00:10:22   pleased to see something for our show [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/622">TS</a>]

00:10:24   too because I love watching them for the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/624">TS</a>]

00:10:26   shows that I enjoy so I don't know it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/626">TS</a>]

00:10:29   means a lot to me that people make this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/629">TS</a>]

00:10:31   little stuff so one of the thing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/631">TS</a>]

00:10:32   person and encouraged that people watch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/632">TS</a>]

00:10:34   them because they're really really fun [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/634">TS</a>]

00:10:35   yeah it's it's it's great stuff it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/635">TS</a>]

00:10:39   it's a huge amount of work I can't even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/639">TS</a>]

00:10:41   imagine oh yeah oh yeah I can't imagine [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/641">TS</a>]

00:10:43   how much work it is and it is always a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/643">TS</a>]

00:10:45   funny experience especially to see like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/645">TS</a>]

00:10:48   a good joke added to a thing that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/648">TS</a>]

00:10:50   yourself have said I was like oh I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/650">TS</a>]

00:10:52   watching a thing that's an animation of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/652">TS</a>]

00:10:53   something that I have said and then here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/653">TS</a>]

00:10:55   is this extra layer that is put on top [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/655">TS</a>]

00:10:57   of it which was not intended to be there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/657">TS</a>]

00:10:59   so it's it's good stuff it's a good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/659">TS</a>]

00:11:01   stuff so gray I've mentioned that I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/661">TS</a>]

00:11:03   going to be traveling a bunch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/663">TS</a>]

00:11:05   before the end of the year hmm and one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/665">TS</a>]

00:11:07   of the things I'm doing is pod con which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/667">TS</a>]

00:11:09   is odd cast version of VidCon which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/669">TS</a>]

00:11:12   maybe maybe just spark in many of our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/672">TS</a>]

00:11:15   listeners Minds what this is but it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/675">TS</a>]

00:11:17   like a celebration of the creation of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/677">TS</a>]

00:11:18   podcasts and there's gonna be a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/678">TS</a>]

00:11:20   live shows and panels and things like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/680">TS</a>]

00:11:21   that I'm gonna be there I now have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/681">TS</a>]

00:11:25   here's where you'll find Mike Hurley [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/685">TS</a>]

00:11:27   schedule so very excited I can put in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/687">TS</a>]

00:11:29   the show notes because I'm doing a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/689">TS</a>]

00:11:30   couple of things I'm doing some panels [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/690">TS</a>]

00:11:31   and some roundtables and stuff like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/691">TS</a>]

00:11:33   as you should be your big men on podcast [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/693">TS</a>]

00:11:36   campus pod campus I think it would be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/696">TS</a>]

00:11:39   called the campus yeah sure I just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/699">TS</a>]

00:11:42   wanted to mention one thing that if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/702">TS</a>]

00:11:44   people are gonna be there I'm gonna be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/704">TS</a>]

00:11:46   doing a signing at pod Con oh yeah so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/706">TS</a>]

00:11:49   you're gonna be there at a booth yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/709">TS</a>]

00:11:51   both people are gonna bring up things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/711">TS</a>]

00:11:53   for you to sign maybe I don't know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/713">TS</a>]

00:11:55   that would be I guess what do I sign [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/715">TS</a>]

00:11:57   Mike Hurley merchandise people's iPods [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/717">TS</a>]

00:12:00   yeah so I'm gonna be their sign their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/720">TS</a>]

00:12:05   beards I don't know how that works yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/725">TS</a>]

00:12:07   I guess I'm beard oil I don't know but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/727">TS</a>]

00:12:09   December 10th it's gonna be at pod Con I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/729">TS</a>]

00:12:11   think you have you have to be an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/731">TS</a>]

00:12:12   attendee to be there and I am looking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/732">TS</a>]

00:12:14   forward to it does look like a really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/734">TS</a>]

00:12:15   interesting event like the whole shit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/735">TS</a>]

00:12:17   was something now but I'm gonna be at a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/737">TS</a>]

00:12:19   booth in the signing area and everything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/739">TS</a>]

00:12:22   and I wanted to just let people know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/742">TS</a>]

00:12:24   about this I've never done anything like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/744">TS</a>]

00:12:26   this before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/746">TS</a>]

00:12:26   is is what I'm getting it here and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/746">TS</a>]

00:12:29   don't really know it was Mike kind of I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/749">TS</a>]

00:12:31   don't really know what to expect so I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/751">TS</a>]

00:12:35   want to make sure that if you're gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/755">TS</a>]

00:12:37   be a pod con and you want to come and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/757">TS</a>]

00:12:39   see me please do and I'm gonna have I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/759">TS</a>]

00:12:42   gonna make this poster print for people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/762">TS</a>]

00:12:45   that come there will be a poster that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/765">TS</a>]

00:12:48   will sign and give to you are you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/768">TS</a>]

00:12:51   bribing the people Mike it sounds like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/771">TS</a>]

00:12:53   more of an incentive oh it's an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/773">TS</a>]

00:12:55   incentive incentive there will be a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/775">TS</a>]

00:12:58   poster that I'm currently working on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/778">TS</a>]

00:13:00   with a very talented artist and I may be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/780">TS</a>]

00:13:03   able to share the artwork beforehand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/783">TS</a>]

00:13:04   just because I think it's probably gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/784">TS</a>]

00:13:06   be amazing it's this person's awesome I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/786">TS</a>]

00:13:07   don't think you should I think you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/787">TS</a>]

00:13:08   should keep the artwork secret for the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/788">TS</a>]

00:13:11   people who are going to be showing up to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/791">TS</a>]

00:13:12   see I was thinking about like taking a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/792">TS</a>]

00:13:14   picture of it in such a way that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/794">TS</a>]

00:13:15   couldn't use it for anything like my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/795">TS</a>]

00:13:17   hand is there right but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/797">TS</a>]

00:13:18   say you know the amazingness that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/798">TS</a>]

00:13:20   gonna be bestowed upon you right that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/800">TS</a>]

00:13:22   you will get okay I'm gonna suggest a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/802">TS</a>]

00:13:25   different tack uh-huh you should take a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/805">TS</a>]

00:13:26   picture that just shows them a corner of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/806">TS</a>]

00:13:29   the poster yeah that's good I like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/809">TS</a>]

00:13:34   so you can understand how great it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/814">TS</a>]

00:13:36   gonna be but you don't get it I'm trying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/816">TS</a>]

00:13:38   to help you I like it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/818">TS</a>]

00:13:39   bribe the people to come Mike so this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/819">TS</a>]

00:13:41   this is my suggestion show a corner of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/821">TS</a>]

00:13:42   the poster I will do that but yeah I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/822">TS</a>]

00:13:45   genuinely very excited for pod con [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/825">TS</a>]

00:13:47   because this is a thing that I've wanted [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/827">TS</a>]

00:13:48   to exist for a while and the schedule [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/828">TS</a>]

00:13:50   looks great and I'm excited to go as an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/830">TS</a>]

00:13:52   attendee and as somebody who's gonna be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/832">TS</a>]

00:13:54   involved in a few things so mm-hmm but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/834">TS</a>]

00:13:56   yeah if you're gonna be there please [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/836">TS</a>]

00:13:58   come to my signing you'll get a poster [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/838">TS</a>]

00:14:00   and it will make me very happy signings [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/840">TS</a>]

00:14:07   man like if you have a dollar signing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/847">TS</a>]

00:14:09   you have write something like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/849">TS</a>]

00:14:13   technically yes that there was there was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/853">TS</a>]

00:14:17   there's one case where I ended up doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/857">TS</a>]

00:14:18   a thing that was kind of assigning but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/858">TS</a>]

00:14:21   it was it was a very special set of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/861">TS</a>]

00:14:22   circumstances it was though [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/862">TS</a>]

00:14:23   yeah the random acts of intelligence [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/863">TS</a>]

00:14:25   show down in Alabama it was like I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/865">TS</a>]

00:14:28   that it was like a very elite group of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/868">TS</a>]

00:14:31   people who were there so that is that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/871">TS</a>]

00:14:34   the one that is the one time I've done [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/874">TS</a>]

00:14:36   it but it also I I have I have great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/876">TS</a>]

00:14:40   sympathy for you Mike because in that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/880">TS</a>]

00:14:43   situation you didn't have the nerve of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/883">TS</a>]

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00:17:35   discuss the book the cortex book club [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1055">TS</a>]

00:17:38   the seven Habits of Highly Effective [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1058">TS</a>]

00:17:40   People [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1060">TS</a>]

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00:17:44   very beginning of our show right this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1064">TS</a>]

00:17:47   has been something that I have wanted to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1067">TS</a>]

00:17:48   talk about I've never read this book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1068">TS</a>]

00:17:50   before but I like many people are very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1070">TS</a>]

00:17:53   aware of this as an idea that there is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1073">TS</a>]

00:17:56   book called the seven Habits of Highly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1076">TS</a>]

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00:18:02   management training courses back in my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1082">TS</a>]

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00:18:14   million copies sold and it's something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1094">TS</a>]

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00:18:27   of books you know like like we spoken [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1107">TS</a>]

00:18:29   about the e-myth revisited right like we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1109">TS</a>]

00:18:31   spoke about the only I think that all of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1111">TS</a>]

00:18:32   these books are just trying to be the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1112">TS</a>]

00:18:34   next seven Habits like this is like an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1114">TS</a>]

00:18:37   entire empire there are many spin-off [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1117">TS</a>]

00:18:40   books there's like whole business up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1120">TS</a>]

00:18:41   around it like it is it is a big thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1121">TS</a>]

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00:18:46   teenage chicken soup soul like there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1126">TS</a>]

00:18:49   met you know a whole mini there's many [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1129">TS</a>]

00:18:50   spin-offs of this my favorite one the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1130">TS</a>]

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00:18:56   many are there is there an infinite [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1136">TS</a>]

00:18:57   amount of habits now well people keep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1137">TS</a>]

00:18:59   buying books yes there are an infinite [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1139">TS</a>]

00:19:01   number of habits yeah yeah yeah sure [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1141">TS</a>]

00:19:03   what I want to do is I want to go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1143">TS</a>]

00:19:05   through each of the habits and give a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1145">TS</a>]

00:19:07   very brief outline of them and then we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1147">TS</a>]

00:19:10   can talk about if and how they apply to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1150">TS</a>]

00:19:12   our working lives even you know before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1152">TS</a>]

00:19:16   or after but I wanted to kind of talk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1156">TS</a>]

00:19:18   about the book and the abstract a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1158">TS</a>]

00:19:20   bit more so you had read this before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1160">TS</a>]

00:19:22   right they keep this isn't your first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1162">TS</a>]

00:19:24   time this is my first time with the book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1164">TS</a>]

00:19:25   but it isn't yours right yeah no this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1165">TS</a>]

00:19:28   not my first time at this rodeo and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1168">TS</a>]

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00:19:33   that this was coming up in the last [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1173">TS</a>]

00:19:34   episode I think I think people could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1174">TS</a>]

00:19:36   hear that there was some hesitation in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1176">TS</a>]

00:19:38   my voice to finally committing to doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1178">TS</a>]

00:19:41   this thing that you have been bugging me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1181">TS</a>]

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00:19:46   long time ago and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1186">TS</a>]

00:19:49   I was charming I kept trying to remember [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1189">TS</a>]

00:19:52   but I'm pretty sure that I read this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1192">TS</a>]

00:19:55   book along with a bunch of other books [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1195">TS</a>]

00:19:57   in the genre before I ended up finding [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1197">TS</a>]

00:20:00   getting things done which was the book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1200">TS</a>]

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00:20:08   remember reading a book about eating a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1208">TS</a>]

00:20:11   frog there's a whole bunch of books that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1211">TS</a>]

00:20:12   are like these well-known things and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1212">TS</a>]

00:20:15   this was one of these books and yeah I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1215">TS</a>]

00:20:18   95% sure that I read it before I read [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1218">TS</a>]

00:20:20   getting things done a long time ago [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1220">TS</a>]

00:20:24   back when I was a very different person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1224">TS</a>]

00:20:25   so yes I I have read this book and upon [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1225">TS</a>]

00:20:30   rereading it much of it came rushing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1230">TS</a>]

00:20:33   back and and so much of it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1233">TS</a>]

00:20:37   surprising and new let's let's say that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1237">TS</a>]

00:20:40   so yeah reread the book finished it not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1240">TS</a>]

00:20:43   30 minutes before we started recording [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1243">TS</a>]

00:20:45   today so I finish it yesterday [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1245">TS</a>]

00:20:48   yeah just like just like homework in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1248">TS</a>]

00:20:51   real life where if a thing had to get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1251">TS</a>]

00:20:54   done I was gonna do it in the class [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1254">TS</a>]

00:20:56   before the class when it was due that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1256">TS</a>]

00:20:58   essentially what I did this morning is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1258">TS</a>]

00:21:00   like man I timed it right down to a 30 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1260">TS</a>]

00:21:03   minute buffer of when I could finish [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1263">TS</a>]

00:21:05   this book and I got it done just on time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1265">TS</a>]

00:21:07   let's just pull back the cone a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1267">TS</a>]

00:21:09   bit more we're recording this episode [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1269">TS</a>]

00:21:11   like three days later than we were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1271">TS</a>]

00:21:12   supposed to I wouldn't have got the book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1272">TS</a>]

00:21:14   done in time so I was kind of pretty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1274">TS</a>]

00:21:18   happy about that yeah yeah that is that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1278">TS</a>]

00:21:21   is also the case I had some last-minute [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1281">TS</a>]

00:21:23   travel plans that messed up our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1283">TS</a>]

00:21:24   recording schedule but it was also a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1284">TS</a>]

00:21:25   thing I like happy for her and they ever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1285">TS</a>]

00:21:27   gonna finish this book in time I had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1287">TS</a>]

00:21:33   like seven hours to go Davis it's long [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1293">TS</a>]

00:21:36   it's really long it's really long I want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1296">TS</a>]

00:21:39   to say though right this book was not as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1299">TS</a>]

00:21:44   bad as I thought it was going to be I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1304">TS</a>]

00:21:46   will say that like it is frustrating at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1306">TS</a>]

00:21:49   times and I want to talk about some of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1309">TS</a>]

00:21:51   those frustrations in a bit more detail [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1311">TS</a>]

00:21:52   but I was not infuriated listening to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1312">TS</a>]

00:21:55   this book like I was the e-myth [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1315">TS</a>]

00:21:56   revisited which by the way if you've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1316">TS</a>]

00:21:58   never heard that episode of the show [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1318">TS</a>]

00:21:59   it's one of my favorites [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1319">TS</a>]

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00:22:05   like recommending people come to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1325">TS</a>]

00:22:07   show like I think that's probably a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1327">TS</a>]

00:22:08   great starting spot even if people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1328">TS</a>]

00:22:09   haven't read the book I'll put a link in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1329">TS</a>]

00:22:11   the show notes to that episode it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1331">TS</a>]

00:22:12   episode 21 January of last year I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1332">TS</a>]

00:22:15   thought it was longer than that but yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1335">TS</a>]

00:22:16   journey of last year episode 21 the myth [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1336">TS</a>]

00:22:18   revisited I recommend that one if you've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1338">TS</a>]

00:22:20   not heard it I'll actually say if you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1340">TS</a>]

00:22:21   recommend someone for the show but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1341">TS</a>]

00:22:23   anyway I actually found this book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1343">TS</a>]

00:22:25   interesting at times and sometimes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1345">TS</a>]

00:22:27   useful in a way that like a myth I took [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1347">TS</a>]

00:22:30   one thing from it there was one thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1350">TS</a>]

00:22:33   and I think this book it has more to it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1353">TS</a>]

00:22:35   than that I can actually was reading it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1355">TS</a>]

00:22:37   can be like okay I know why this got as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1357">TS</a>]

00:22:40   popular as it did like I have a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1360">TS</a>]

00:22:42   problems with it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1362">TS</a>]

00:22:43   but on the whole there is good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1363">TS</a>]

00:22:47   information in this book and it isn't it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1367">TS</a>]

00:22:51   isn't infuriating like I wasn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1371">TS</a>]

00:22:54   screaming at my phone like I was when I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1374">TS</a>]

00:22:57   was listening to e-myth yeah you you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1377">TS</a>]

00:22:59   were really frustrated I hated that book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1379">TS</a>]

00:23:01   it was it was everything I don't like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1381">TS</a>]

00:23:04   about that type of thing that book had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1384">TS</a>]

00:23:05   oh but like you know I couldn't I would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1385">TS</a>]

00:23:08   have to take breaks right like if I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1388">TS</a>]

00:23:09   gonna sit down and listen to it for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1389">TS</a>]

00:23:10   three hours I had to take a break like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1390">TS</a>]

00:23:12   every 45 minutes cuz it there's just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1392">TS</a>]

00:23:14   only so much of this I can take [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1394">TS</a>]

00:23:15   right like I feel like it's just my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1395">TS</a>]

00:23:17   brain is being filled up with mostly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1397">TS</a>]

00:23:20   nonsense for a while right and I can I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1400">TS</a>]

00:23:22   haven't it to like chill for a bit but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1402">TS</a>]

00:23:24   I've found this one I was like going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1404">TS</a>]

00:23:27   like I'm making more notes than I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1407">TS</a>]

00:23:29   thought I would make mostly for me so um [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1409">TS</a>]

00:23:32   this book I can see why it is a big [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1412">TS</a>]

00:23:37   thing I can see why it why people really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1417">TS</a>]

00:23:39   really like what it has to say hmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1419">TS</a>]

00:23:43   that's interesting to hear because part [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1423">TS</a>]

00:23:46   of my memory of the book and one of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1426">TS</a>]

00:23:48   reasons why I didn't feel like I wanted [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1428">TS</a>]

00:23:49   to read it again is because my my review [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1429">TS</a>]

00:23:54   when people have asked me about it has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1434">TS</a>]

00:23:56   always been it's one good idea in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1436">TS</a>]

00:23:58   thousand pages this this was my memory [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1438">TS</a>]

00:24:02   from having read the book the first time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1442">TS</a>]

00:24:04   and so it was is interesting to like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1444">TS</a>]

00:24:07   read it again and see like does this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1447">TS</a>]

00:24:08   hold up or does this not hold up and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1448">TS</a>]

00:24:12   upon rereading this book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1452">TS</a>]

00:24:14   I feel like this book defeated my soul I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1454">TS</a>]

00:24:17   feel really huh beaten down from reading [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1457">TS</a>]

00:24:21   this book so I feel like we're having a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1461">TS</a>]

00:24:23   little bit of opposite reactions with a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1463">TS</a>]

00:24:25   myth and this one because a nemeth I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1465">TS</a>]

00:24:27   felt like like I kept was defending [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1467">TS</a>]

00:24:29   e-myth I'm like yeah that's crazy but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1469">TS</a>]

00:24:31   there's some good ideas in here right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1471">TS</a>]

00:24:32   whereas whereas with this one like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1472">TS</a>]

00:24:36   think you could play the audio book of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1476">TS</a>]

00:24:38   of this as a method of torture right to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1478">TS</a>]

00:24:42   just make people divulge information by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1482">TS</a>]

00:24:44   just looping it in their cell over an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1484">TS</a>]

00:24:46   interesting okay I will say like there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1486">TS</a>]

00:24:49   is a huge chunk of this book that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1489">TS</a>]

00:24:51   think is pointless yeah I mean as with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1491">TS</a>]

00:24:55   all these books it could be dramatically [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1495">TS</a>]

00:24:56   shortened oh yeah oh but more but more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1496">TS</a>]

00:25:00   than that like so even though this book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1500">TS</a>]

00:25:03   totally defeated me I also have the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1503">TS</a>]

00:25:05   understanding of like I I can see why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1505">TS</a>]

00:25:07   this book was such a such a mammoth book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1507">TS</a>]

00:25:10   but my takeaway is this book is almost [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1510">TS</a>]

00:25:15   like like a Rorschach test like people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1515">TS</a>]

00:25:18   will it's so they in so many places that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1518">TS</a>]

00:25:23   you can I think people can just kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1523">TS</a>]

00:25:25   read into it their own their own [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1525">TS</a>]

00:25:26   situations but that like the amount of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1526">TS</a>]

00:25:29   actual actionable material struck me as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1529">TS</a>]

00:25:32   like incredibly small and and when I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1532">TS</a>]

00:25:37   felt like I was reading was a like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1537">TS</a>]

00:25:40   Productivity book Markov chain like like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1540">TS</a>]

00:25:43   this is just like an automatic AI [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1543">TS</a>]

00:25:44   generated endless string sentence of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1544">TS</a>]

00:25:47   words in a Productivity book that your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1547">TS</a>]

00:25:50   brain is constantly struggling to pull [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1550">TS</a>]

00:25:52   meaning out of and to find connections [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1552">TS</a>]

00:25:54   to and it just never ends okay just goes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1554">TS</a>]

00:25:57   on forever and when I say that this book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1557">TS</a>]

00:26:01   defeated me that the thing that was has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1561">TS</a>]

00:26:03   like I started reading the book and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1563">TS</a>]

00:26:06   like read up to habit number two which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1566">TS</a>]

00:26:10   is sort of most of what I had remembered [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1570">TS</a>]

00:26:11   from from before and then I realized [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1571">TS</a>]

00:26:14   like I'm reading this book but the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1574">TS</a>]

00:26:16   reading is in quotes where I'm just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1576">TS</a>]

00:26:18   pressing forward on the Kindle like not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1578">TS</a>]

00:26:20   not even skimming but it's just like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1580">TS</a>]

00:26:22   flip flip flip because my brain is this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1582">TS</a>]

00:26:25   like trying to get through this thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1585">TS</a>]

00:26:26   like hey [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1586">TS</a>]

00:26:27   just let's just turn some pages and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1587">TS</a>]

00:26:29   we'll focus on the words in a little bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1589">TS</a>]

00:26:31   and it's like a pickup at another spot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1591">TS</a>]

00:26:32   it's like oh god I can't stand this so I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1592">TS</a>]

00:26:34   always make fun of you for reading the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1594">TS</a>]

00:26:36   audiobook but I had to buy the audiobook [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1596">TS</a>]

00:26:39   because I was aware that at a certain [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1599">TS</a>]

00:26:42   point like I I physically cannot read [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1602">TS</a>]

00:26:46   this book there is there is no way I can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1606">TS</a>]

00:26:48   force my eyes to look at the words and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1608">TS</a>]

00:26:50   have them and have the meaning go into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1610">TS</a>]

00:26:52   my head it was just completely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1612">TS</a>]

00:26:54   impossible so I switched to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1614">TS</a>]

00:26:57   audiobook which I never recommend people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1617">TS</a>]

00:26:59   do for this kind of boto and then I felt [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1619">TS</a>]

00:27:01   like I was being brainwashed for six [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1621">TS</a>]

00:27:04   more hours so it's like I I feel like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1624">TS</a>]

00:27:08   have come out of an experience somewhat [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1628">TS</a>]

00:27:10   traumatized and I'm gonna I'm gonna give [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1630">TS</a>]

00:27:13   a no recommend to this book but I'm very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1633">TS</a>]

00:27:16   happy to talk about some of the habits [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1636">TS</a>]

00:27:18   and the ideas that are contained inside [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1638">TS</a>]

00:27:19   of it but I I cannot think of a book in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1639">TS</a>]

00:27:24   the genre that I can now say that I like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1644">TS</a>]

00:27:27   less than this book a kiss book is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1647">TS</a>]

00:27:29   worst book it's put a pin in that for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1649">TS</a>]

00:27:30   one second because I have a theory but I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1650">TS</a>]

00:27:32   wanted to say about the audiobook mm-hmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1652">TS</a>]

00:27:34   I know that the audio books are torture [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1654">TS</a>]

00:27:37   but the reason I do it is because I can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1657">TS</a>]

00:27:39   integrate it into my life right yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1659">TS</a>]

00:27:41   yeah I don't have to like take the time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1661">TS</a>]

00:27:44   to sit and read the book because I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1664">TS</a>]

00:27:47   do a lot of sitting and reading time in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1667">TS</a>]

00:27:49   this way right but like I can be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1669">TS</a>]

00:27:51   traveling as I have been and listen I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1671">TS</a>]

00:27:54   can be playing stardew valley and listen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1674">TS</a>]

00:27:58   so that's why I do this right like I I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1678">TS</a>]

00:28:00   do that because it I can integrate the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1680">TS</a>]

00:28:03   audio book into my working life and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1683">TS</a>]

00:28:05   personal life [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1685">TS</a>]

00:28:06   easier than I can the physical book or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1686">TS</a>]

00:28:09   oh yeah yeah I completely understand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1689">TS</a>]

00:28:11   that and that's what I was doing as well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1691">TS</a>]

00:28:12   like I've been I've been traveling a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1692">TS</a>]

00:28:13   whole bunch and so it's like okay great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1693">TS</a>]

00:28:15   while I'm standing on line at security [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1695">TS</a>]

00:28:16   right I can hear about how we're gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1696">TS</a>]

00:28:18   synergize our plus-one ideas and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1698">TS</a>]

00:28:20   great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1700">TS</a>]

00:28:21   but I also found that at a certain point [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1701">TS</a>]

00:28:23   just like I was no longer reading the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1703">TS</a>]

00:28:25   book I was simply not listening to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1705">TS</a>]

00:28:27   audiobook and so what I ended up the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1707">TS</a>]

00:28:30   final the final stage in my journey of I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1710">TS</a>]

00:28:33   have to read this so I can talk about it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1713">TS</a>]

00:28:34   at least a little bit on a podcast was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1714">TS</a>]

00:28:36   no joke [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1716">TS</a>]

00:28:38   listening to the audiobook while looking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1718">TS</a>]

00:28:41   at the Kindle version was was the only [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1721">TS</a>]

00:28:43   news it was like the only way I could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1723">TS</a>]

00:28:46   force the words to mean things in my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1726">TS</a>]

00:28:48   head because I was aware I guess after a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1728">TS</a>]

00:28:50   while even with the audiobook it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1730">TS</a>]

00:28:51   I can't I can't listen so I had the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1731">TS</a>]

00:28:53   weird experience towards the end of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1733">TS</a>]

00:28:55   audiobook cranked up to like two and a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1735">TS</a>]

00:28:57   half X which is about my reading speed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1737">TS</a>]

00:28:59   and then like quote reading through the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1739">TS</a>]

00:29:01   book while the audiobook is playing in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1741">TS</a>]

00:29:03   my head so that that's how I finished [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1743">TS</a>]

00:29:05   the book this morning so here is my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1745">TS</a>]

00:29:07   theory I have a theory about this which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1747">TS</a>]

00:29:09   I kind of decided on pretty early and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1749">TS</a>]

00:29:12   helped me get through this book okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1752">TS</a>]

00:29:14   this book was published in 1989 right my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1754">TS</a>]

00:29:18   theory is part of the reason that at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1758">TS</a>]

00:29:21   first I was finding it infuriating and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1761">TS</a>]

00:29:23   why I believe you find it infuriating is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1763">TS</a>]

00:29:26   this book feels like you take every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1766">TS</a>]

00:29:29   other productivity book ever written put [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1769">TS</a>]

00:29:32   it into a blender and seven habits pops [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1772">TS</a>]

00:29:34   out and I think it's the reverse of that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1774">TS</a>]

00:29:37   this was the book the start at a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1777">TS</a>]

00:29:39   this stuff so so many of the things that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1779">TS</a>]

00:29:43   feel like tropes of terrible business [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1783">TS</a>]

00:29:45   books because you've heard them a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1785">TS</a>]

00:29:47   million times because of this one so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1787">TS</a>]

00:29:50   like as when I started thinking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1790">TS</a>]

00:29:52   that I approached this book differently [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1792">TS</a>]

00:29:53   I was giving it more leeway because this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1793">TS</a>]

00:29:57   book isn't trying to be annoying I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1797">TS</a>]

00:30:00   annoyed by this book because every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1800">TS</a>]

00:30:03   marketing book business book a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1803">TS</a>]

00:30:05   management material ever made since 1989 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1805">TS</a>]

00:30:08   is trying a ripoff the seven habits and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1808">TS</a>]

00:30:12   when I kind of this is my theory when I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1812">TS</a>]

00:30:15   was able to accept that I was able to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1815">TS</a>]

00:30:17   give this book more leeway and that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1817">TS</a>]

00:30:19   why I think I wasn't someone oyd about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1819">TS</a>]

00:30:20   it ya know you're totally right about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1820">TS</a>]

00:30:22   that IIIi think that that's not a theory [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1822">TS</a>]

00:30:25   that that might as well just be like an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1825">TS</a>]

00:30:26   accepted fact in the universe right that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1826">TS</a>]

00:30:28   this like when you this is this is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1828">TS</a>]

00:30:30   book that had to introduce the idea of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1830">TS</a>]

00:30:32   like paradigm shift into the into the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1832">TS</a>]

00:30:35   language right this is this is the book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1835">TS</a>]

00:30:36   that that raises the idea of synergy in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1836">TS</a>]

00:30:39   the language right it's the first book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1839">TS</a>]

00:30:41   that starts talking about all of that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1841">TS</a>]

00:30:42   stuff and Mike if my comparison for this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1842">TS</a>]

00:30:45   is is the example I always use but I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1845">TS</a>]

00:30:48   think of the the animated version of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1848">TS</a>]

00:30:50   ghost in the shell as a move [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1850">TS</a>]

00:30:51   which is very hard for modern modern [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1851">TS</a>]

00:30:54   audiences to watch because it's set up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1854">TS</a>]

00:30:56   every single science fiction trope for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1856">TS</a>]

00:30:58   the next thirty years so when you watch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1858">TS</a>]

00:31:00   the original it feels like this thing is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1860">TS</a>]

00:31:02   incredibly unoriginal because you've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1862">TS</a>]

00:31:04   you've seen all of the spin-offs and all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1864">TS</a>]

00:31:07   of the versions for the next 30 years on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1867">TS</a>]

00:31:08   it like without a doubt seven Habits [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1868">TS</a>]

00:31:11   reading it now has that problem and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1871">TS</a>]

00:31:14   you've read so many more of these types [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1874">TS</a>]

00:31:16   of books than I have so you have read [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1876">TS</a>]

00:31:18   this book a hundred and fifty times but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1878">TS</a>]

00:31:21   my problem with it isn't that like it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1881">TS</a>]

00:31:24   isn't it isn't just that it's like yes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1884">TS</a>]

00:31:26   this this is this this endless blender [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1886">TS</a>]

00:31:28   of random sentences from other books [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1888">TS</a>]

00:31:30   because I was also thinking that very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1890">TS</a>]

00:31:32   much while I'm reading it it's like okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1892">TS</a>]

00:31:33   this is the foundation of it but it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1893">TS</a>]

00:31:35   still felt like even even with that in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1895">TS</a>]

00:31:37   mind like when he's talking about these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1897">TS</a>]

00:31:39   various things there's just so little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1899">TS</a>]

00:31:43   there or the like the ideas don't even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1903">TS</a>]

00:31:47   make sense like his his whole chapter on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1907">TS</a>]

00:31:49   I just I pick up pick up on synergy just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1909">TS</a>]

00:31:51   as an example right because this is like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1911">TS</a>]

00:31:52   idea that has infected the business [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1912">TS</a>]

00:31:54   world or people are always synergizing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1914">TS</a>]

00:31:56   their global strategies right but even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1916">TS</a>]

00:31:58   even that whole chapter is like even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1918">TS</a>]

00:32:00   here his eye his concept of synergy it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1920">TS</a>]

00:32:02   not like oh the original person had a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1922">TS</a>]

00:32:04   great idea and it has it isn't it has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1924">TS</a>]

00:32:07   since been distilled down to a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1927">TS</a>]

00:32:08   meaningless jargon word it's like no it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1928">TS</a>]

00:32:10   was born as a meaningless jargon yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1930">TS</a>]

00:32:12   like he's using it wildly and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1932">TS</a>]

00:32:14   consistently in a way that makes no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1934">TS</a>]

00:32:16   sense across a whole bunch of different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1936">TS</a>]

00:32:18   analogies so so that's why I don't feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1938">TS</a>]

00:32:20   like ah this thing was the thing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1940">TS</a>]

00:32:22   started it and it got mutated over time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1942">TS</a>]

00:32:23   it's like it was it was born in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1943">TS</a>]

00:32:25   inconsistent horrific way yeah so yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1945">TS</a>]

00:32:28   there are so many buzz words and phrases [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1948">TS</a>]

00:32:32   in this book he creates the by the end [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1952">TS</a>]

00:32:35   of it you feel like you're in a bowl of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1955">TS</a>]

00:32:36   soup like so I've this is this is from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1956">TS</a>]

00:32:40   habit 7 this was a note that's this at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1960">TS</a>]

00:32:42   the end right so I've made this note and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1962">TS</a>]

00:32:44   I say by the point in this book there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1964">TS</a>]

00:32:46   are so many buzzwords that he uses that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1966">TS</a>]

00:32:48   it is almost impossible to distinguish [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1968">TS</a>]

00:32:51   them from each other right yeah so I'll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1971">TS</a>]

00:32:52   give a few of these when we may talk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1972">TS</a>]

00:32:54   about them emotional bank account PC [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1974">TS</a>]

00:32:56   balance intra dependence interdependence [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1976">TS</a>]

00:32:58   personal renewal daily private victory [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1978">TS</a>]

00:33:01   synergize win-win solutions by the end [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1981">TS</a>]

00:33:03   of the book he is throwing these words [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1983">TS</a>]

00:33:05   like candy and to the point that you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1985">TS</a>]

00:33:07   like does this word actually exist I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1987">TS</a>]

00:33:10   believe by the end of this book that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1990">TS</a>]

00:33:12   word intro dependence existed because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1992">TS</a>]

00:33:15   it's like I've heard it so many times [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1995">TS</a>]

00:33:16   now that it must be true and it is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/1996">TS</a>]

00:33:20   intro dependence is the idea of working [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2000">TS</a>]

00:33:23   with others so instead of being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2003">TS</a>]

00:33:24   independent you're interdependent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2004">TS</a>]

00:33:27   it's either inter or intra I also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2007">TS</a>]

00:33:28   couldn't understand it because here's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2008">TS</a>]

00:33:29   another thing I have a problem with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2009">TS</a>]

00:33:31   basically all business books I'm almost [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2011">TS</a>]

00:33:33   convinced this is my lover of my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2013">TS</a>]

00:33:35   theories coming out of this book I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2015">TS</a>]

00:33:37   always convinced that audiobook [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2017">TS</a>]

00:33:39   narrators are the people narrating [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2019">TS</a>]

00:33:41   audiobooks this one is narrated by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2021">TS</a>]

00:33:42   stephen r.covey the guy who wrote the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2022">TS</a>]

00:33:44   book that they pronounce words weirdly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2024">TS</a>]

00:33:47   just to make sure that you're paying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2027">TS</a>]

00:33:48   attention yes yes there's a few of those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2028">TS</a>]

00:33:52   in here or it's like this is a normal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2032">TS</a>]

00:33:54   word dude in a way I've never heard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2034">TS</a>]

00:33:58   before he goes rooms it's like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2038">TS</a>]

00:34:01   longest word with a V in it it's like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2041">TS</a>]

00:34:03   don't understand what you're doing like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2043">TS</a>]

00:34:05   they said some words that nobody says [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2045">TS</a>]

00:34:07   them like this I am convinced that they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2047">TS</a>]

00:34:09   do this just so you pay attention [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2049">TS</a>]

00:34:11   because you're like I don't understand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2051">TS</a>]

00:34:13   the word that he just used it's my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2053">TS</a>]

00:34:15   blowing a couple of months so I'm now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2055">TS</a>]

00:34:17   getting worked up now so here a couple [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2057">TS</a>]

00:34:19   more frustrations about this book the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2059">TS</a>]

00:34:20   first habit begins at two hours and 22 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2060">TS</a>]

00:34:23   minutes in I have the unabridged it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2063">TS</a>]

00:34:31   again don't know why I do this but my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2071">TS</a>]

00:34:32   version includes a foreword which is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2072">TS</a>]

00:34:36   mind blowing Lee just up in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2076">TS</a>]

00:34:40   stratosphere where he's talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2080">TS</a>]

00:34:42   his son and I just can't believe it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2082">TS</a>]

00:34:45   true like like with many of these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2085">TS</a>]

00:34:48   stories there are many stories in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2088">TS</a>]

00:34:50   book where I'm like okay coffee that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2090">TS</a>]

00:34:52   does that didn't happen something like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2092">TS</a>]

00:34:54   that may have happened but that didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2094">TS</a>]

00:34:56   happen and the idea is that his son was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2096">TS</a>]

00:34:59   failing in everything he was terrible at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2099">TS</a>]

00:35:01   school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2101">TS</a>]

00:35:02   terrible F athletics just couldn't get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2102">TS</a>]

00:35:05   anything right in his life they started [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2105">TS</a>]

00:35:08   to apply the seven Habits to him before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2108">TS</a>]

00:35:09   they became the seven Habits right like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2109">TS</a>]

00:35:11   they just tried to change their behavior [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2111">TS</a>]

00:35:12   and he ended up being the most popular [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2112">TS</a>]

00:35:15   kid in school homecoming king twice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2115">TS</a>]

00:35:18   grade-a valedictorian and the captain of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2118">TS</a>]

00:35:22   the football team right anyone the Nobel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2122">TS</a>]

00:35:25   Prize [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2125">TS</a>]

00:35:26   no I did a little bit of investigation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2126">TS</a>]

00:35:29   and his son was a successful American [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2129">TS</a>]

00:35:32   football player mm-hmm but I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2132">TS</a>]

00:35:34   believe the rest of it like I can't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2134">TS</a>]

00:35:36   maybe he was all of those things but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2136">TS</a>]

00:35:38   beforehand was not failing unpopular and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2138">TS</a>]

00:35:40   couldn't run but like I just can't in my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2140">TS</a>]

00:35:43   mind believe that this is true and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2143">TS</a>]

00:35:45   thing is they may be true if it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2145">TS</a>]

00:35:47   whatever but when you read these books [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2147">TS</a>]

00:35:49   you like this can't be because you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2149">TS</a>]

00:35:50   there are lies throughout this book he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2150">TS</a>]

00:35:53   also found a magical hotel by the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2153">TS</a>]

00:35:55   which is like well oh my god yes I have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2155">TS</a>]

00:35:57   that highlighted we can get to that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2157">TS</a>]

00:35:59   later [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2159">TS</a>]

00:35:59   but yeah this is one of the things that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2159">TS</a>]

00:36:03   I didn't remember about the book at all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2163">TS</a>]

00:36:04   and I was astounded on there on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2164">TS</a>]

00:36:05   reread is everything relates to his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2165">TS</a>]

00:36:09   children and his family it's it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2169">TS</a>]

00:36:12   astounding how much of this book is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2172">TS</a>]

00:36:16   focused around marriage yeah so many [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2176">TS</a>]

00:36:19   things like this is a business book but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2179">TS</a>]

00:36:21   like honestly the major focus of these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2181">TS</a>]

00:36:24   seven habits is applying them to your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2184">TS</a>]

00:36:26   family life and I was like what is this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2186">TS</a>]

00:36:28   book like this was it was so different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2188">TS</a>]

00:36:31   to what I was expecting in that way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2191">TS</a>]

00:36:32   everything is to do with his family even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2192">TS</a>]

00:36:35   like delegating his son to mow the lawn [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2195">TS</a>]

00:36:36   right like oh my god the mowing the lawn [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2196">TS</a>]

00:36:38   story yeah but but this this is exactly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2198">TS</a>]

00:36:40   the kind of thing where it's just like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2200">TS</a>]

00:36:42   don't I don't believe these stories that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2202">TS</a>]

00:36:44   you're telling about your children like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2204">TS</a>]

00:36:45   oh yeah because they're he's always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2205">TS</a>]

00:36:47   telling stories about some kind of Leave [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2207">TS</a>]

00:36:49   It to Beaver perfect family where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2209">TS</a>]

00:36:51   they're just they're having [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2211">TS</a>]

00:36:52   conversations and then people just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2212">TS</a>]

00:36:53   realize oh I understand everything now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2213">TS</a>]

00:36:55   and and like stuff just works out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2215">TS</a>]

00:36:57   perfectly fine even when it doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2217">TS</a>]

00:36:58   there's something's I'm like it's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2218">TS</a>]

00:37:01   stories are crazy there's one that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2221">TS</a>]

00:37:03   highlighted as to me a perfect example [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2223">TS</a>]

00:37:04   like I'm sorry the this story didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2224">TS</a>]

00:37:07   happen where I don't know if you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2227">TS</a>]

00:37:09   remember this one but he's talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2229">TS</a>]

00:37:11   not wanting to go see Star Wars with his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2231">TS</a>]

00:37:14   daughter and yeah and and the daughter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2234">TS</a>]

00:37:19   says Oh dad all right I know you don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2239">TS</a>]

00:37:21   like Star Wars you've slept through [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2241">TS</a>]

00:37:23   before right you don't you don't want to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2243">TS</a>]

00:37:24   see this movie and then and then his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2244">TS</a>]

00:37:28   daughter was like how old is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2248">TS</a>]

00:37:30   daughter in this story which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2250">TS</a>]

00:37:32   she says quote but you know why you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2252">TS</a>]

00:37:34   don't like Star Wars it's because you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2254">TS</a>]

00:37:36   don't understand the philosophy and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2256">TS</a>]

00:37:38   training of a Jedi Knight right what I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2258">TS</a>]

00:37:41   said you know you know the things you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2261">TS</a>]

00:37:43   teach dad those those same things you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2263">TS</a>]

00:37:46   teach are the training of a Jedi Knight [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2266">TS</a>]

00:37:49   and then I said really let's go see Star [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2269">TS</a>]

00:37:52   Wars and we did she sat next to me and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2272">TS</a>]

00:37:55   gave me the new paradigm I became her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2275">TS</a>]

00:37:58   student her learner [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2278">TS</a>]

00:38:00   it was totally fascinating and I could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2280">TS</a>]

00:38:02   begin to see out of the new paradigm the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2282">TS</a>]

00:38:05   whole way a Jedi Knights basic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2285">TS</a>]

00:38:08   philosophy and training is manifested in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2288">TS</a>]

00:38:11   different circumstances right it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2291">TS</a>]

00:38:13   this didn't happen this there's no way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2293">TS</a>]

00:38:16   that your daughter's like let me tell [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2296">TS</a>]

00:38:18   you about the philosophy and training of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2298">TS</a>]

00:38:19   a Jedi Knight because also like this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2299">TS</a>]

00:38:21   movie is taking place in the 80s like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2301">TS</a>]

00:38:22   this is this did not happen there is no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2302">TS</a>]

00:38:25   way that your daughter was like let me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2305">TS</a>]

00:38:27   explain to you how what Jedi Knights do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2307">TS</a>]

00:38:29   is exactly what you do dad you're just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2309">TS</a>]

00:38:32   like a Jedi company or a Jedi yeah we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2312">TS</a>]

00:38:35   wanted to be a Jedi as well this is all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2315">TS</a>]

00:38:38   about I read that story because that one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2318">TS</a>]

00:38:39   is particularly yeah but but just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2319">TS</a>]

00:38:41   imagine like every single page there is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2321">TS</a>]

00:38:44   some quick story about his family and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2324">TS</a>]

00:38:47   like learning things from his children [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2327">TS</a>]

00:38:49   or or teaching things to his children in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2329">TS</a>]

00:38:52   ways that when you're on the 100th one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2332">TS</a>]

00:38:54   of them like this is not believable like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2334">TS</a>]

00:38:56   this is crazy I think the worst one for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2336">TS</a>]

00:38:59   me is this is towards the end of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2339">TS</a>]

00:39:00   book he's talking about how him and his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2340">TS</a>]

00:39:02   family took a year away to Hawaii oh my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2342">TS</a>]

00:39:05   god yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2345">TS</a>]

00:39:06   and he talks about how you know the kids [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2346">TS</a>]

00:39:09   would go to school and then he would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2349">TS</a>]

00:39:10   pick them up on like it's got like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2350">TS</a>]

00:39:12   honda trail master or something trail [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2352">TS</a>]

00:39:15   cycle which is a motorbike where he said [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2355">TS</a>]

00:39:17   to all four of the family got on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2357">TS</a>]

00:39:20   bike and would drive like i would sit on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2360">TS</a>]

00:39:24   my wife would sit behind me kids been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2364">TS</a>]

00:39:26   between us and one of them when my knee [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2366">TS</a>]

00:39:27   is like wow no it's like you circus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2367">TS</a>]

00:39:31   performers what are you doing well that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2371">TS</a>]

00:39:33   that kind of description to me reads [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2373">TS</a>]

00:39:35   like a thing where when you're a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2375">TS</a>]

00:39:37   psychologist and you start to unwind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2377">TS</a>]

00:39:38   with someone false memories that they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2378">TS</a>]

00:39:40   have knows like oh yeah we were all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2380">TS</a>]

00:39:43   yeah it's like no that can't possibly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2383">TS</a>]

00:39:44   have been the case right let's let's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2384">TS</a>]

00:39:47   start comparing this against real-world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2387">TS</a>]

00:39:48   things like there's no way that you were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2388">TS</a>]

00:39:50   doing this in the way that you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2390">TS</a>]

00:39:52   describing and then he would talk about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2392">TS</a>]

00:39:53   how they would sit on the beach and just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2393">TS</a>]

00:39:57   talk for hours right like that every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2397">TS</a>]

00:39:58   single day and then he's talk telling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2398">TS</a>]

00:40:01   the story about how his wife would only [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2401">TS</a>]

00:40:04   buy Frigidaire appliances which it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2404">TS</a>]

00:40:07   company right they make like white goods [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2407">TS</a>]

00:40:09   and stuff mmm and if this was apparently [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2409">TS</a>]

00:40:13   a sore spot in their marriage because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2413">TS</a>]

00:40:15   she would insist on these Frigidaire [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2415">TS</a>]

00:40:17   appliances and for some reason this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2417">TS</a>]

00:40:18   caused huge problems with tons of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2418">TS</a>]

00:40:21   emotional baggage that because every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2421">TS</a>]

00:40:23   time they needed to buy an appliance [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2423">TS</a>]

00:40:24   they had to go to the next town and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2424">TS</a>]

00:40:26   both were just dreading this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2426">TS</a>]

00:40:27   conversation was coming and every time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2427">TS</a>]

00:40:29   it came it was like the end of their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2429">TS</a>]

00:40:31   marriage and they had so much trouble [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2431">TS</a>]

00:40:32   with it and then she happened to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2432">TS</a>]

00:40:34   remember that her father's business was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2434">TS</a>]

00:40:37   saved by Frigidaire how would you not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2437">TS</a>]

00:40:39   remember that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2439">TS</a>]

00:40:39   how would you why would you know you had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2439">TS</a>]

00:40:42   this like undying love for this company [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2442">TS</a>]

00:40:45   and not remember it was because your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2445">TS</a>]

00:40:47   dad's business was saved by their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2447">TS</a>]

00:40:48   financing of their appliances yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2448">TS</a>]

00:40:50   and that again is an example of like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2450">TS</a>]

00:40:53   okay let's say that that story is is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2453">TS</a>]

00:40:55   true this is also like almost a classic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2455">TS</a>]

00:40:57   example of your wife is probably just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2457">TS</a>]

00:41:00   manufacturing a memory about a thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2460">TS</a>]

00:41:02   that might have happened when she was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2462">TS</a>]

00:41:04   like it's so it's so weird it's so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2464">TS</a>]

00:41:07   strange so many and so like suffers from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2467">TS</a>]

00:41:19   this thing that all these books do why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2479">TS</a>]

00:41:22   give one example when you can list 20 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2482">TS</a>]

00:41:26   yeah yeah well give one example when you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2486">TS</a>]

00:41:28   can list why there now again I will [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2488">TS</a>]

00:41:30   slightly in defense say that that in my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2490">TS</a>]

00:41:32   memory that the thing which we'll get to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2492">TS</a>]

00:41:34   it which I think was the one idea is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2494">TS</a>]

00:41:37   one place that I think benefits from a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2497">TS</a>]

00:41:38   bunch of examples but most of the time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2498">TS</a>]

00:41:41   it totally doesn't and the the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2501">TS</a>]

00:41:47   problem with a whole bunch of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2507">TS</a>]

00:41:48   examples is they are all these just so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2508">TS</a>]

00:41:53   examples right it's like let me tell you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2513">TS</a>]

00:41:56   a thing and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2516">TS</a>]

00:41:57   here's an imaginary story about how how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2517">TS</a>]

00:41:59   it perfectly solved this situation right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2519">TS</a>]

00:42:01   and it's like it's not a it's not a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2521">TS</a>]

00:42:03   real-life example of what to do like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2523">TS</a>]

00:42:07   just to contrast with getting things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2527">TS</a>]

00:42:08   done which again I will say I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2528">TS</a>]

00:42:10   think is a book which really holds up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2530">TS</a>]

00:42:11   anymore but one of the things I always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2531">TS</a>]

00:42:13   find hilarious in that book is David [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2533">TS</a>]

00:42:15   Allen talks about the problems and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2535">TS</a>]

00:42:17   projects that you have and his problems [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2537">TS</a>]

00:42:19   and projects are always like hilarious [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2539">TS</a>]

00:42:22   rich person problem so he talks about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2542">TS</a>]

00:42:24   like like what's the first step to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2544">TS</a>]

00:42:25   building your next orchard right and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2545">TS</a>]

00:42:28   it's like well you know you need to you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2548">TS</a>]

00:42:29   need to do all it like it is there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2549">TS</a>]

00:42:31   literally an example in the book at one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2551">TS</a>]

00:42:33   point right but but what I were like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2553">TS</a>]

00:42:35   what I will appreciate about that is ok [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2555">TS</a>]

00:42:38   he may be giving a bunch of examples but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2558">TS</a>]

00:42:39   he works through like the specifics of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2559">TS</a>]

00:42:42   this thing of like here's here's a thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2562">TS</a>]

00:42:44   like let's break down the way that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2564">TS</a>]

00:42:45   you're supposed to think about this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2565">TS</a>]

00:42:46   whereas this book feels like a like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2566">TS</a>]

00:42:49   whole bunch of like parables about an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2569">TS</a>]

00:42:53   imaginary family that are vaguely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2573">TS</a>]

00:42:56   related to the ideas that he's pushing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2576">TS</a>]

00:42:59   in the book and it's like okay this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2579">TS</a>]

00:43:01   my feeling throughout it is like there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2581">TS</a>]

00:43:03   no action and if if you read the book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2583">TS</a>]

00:43:08   what you can also see and and what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2588">TS</a>]

00:43:10   really started to bother me is his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2590">TS</a>]

00:43:14   philosophy which there's a very weird [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2594">TS</a>]

00:43:16   and very brief afterward which we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2596">TS</a>]

00:43:18   emphasize is this idea but I didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2598">TS</a>]

00:43:20   listen today afterward I got today on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2600">TS</a>]

00:43:22   that 7 haven't also come done I'm out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2602">TS</a>]

00:43:23   yeah but his philosophy in large part he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2603">TS</a>]

00:43:26   talks about like he's constantly talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2606">TS</a>]

00:43:28   about making decisions to say to stay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2608">TS</a>]

00:43:31   constant with your principles right like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2611">TS</a>]

00:43:33   this is this is like over and over this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2613">TS</a>]

00:43:35   is the drumbeat is like this the secret [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2615">TS</a>]

00:43:37   to living a good life is to have good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2617">TS</a>]

00:43:39   principles and stick to them all right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2619">TS</a>]

00:43:41   and and my frustration with that is like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2621">TS</a>]

00:43:43   yeah that's the whole problem right like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2623">TS</a>]

00:43:46   that like that's the hard thing to do is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2626">TS</a>]

00:43:49   to make the right decisions but so many [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2629">TS</a>]

00:43:52   of these things are like you need to set [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2632">TS</a>]

00:43:54   out some some ideas and then just stick [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2634">TS</a>]

00:43:56   to them it's like dude just sticking to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2636">TS</a>]

00:43:58   them is the hard part and what I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2638">TS</a>]

00:44:01   absolutely love is in this ridiculous [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2641">TS</a>]

00:44:02   story where he talks about having his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2642">TS</a>]

00:44:04   son mowing the lawn it is the author's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2644">TS</a>]

00:44:07   once in the entire book where he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2647">TS</a>]

00:44:09   explicitly not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2649">TS</a>]

00:44:11   like doing something is hard because his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2651">TS</a>]

00:44:13   kid promises to mow the lawn and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2653">TS</a>]

00:44:15   doesn't and then when he calls his kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2655">TS</a>]

00:44:17   out on it his kid cries and says oh dad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2657">TS</a>]

00:44:20   it's so hard and his in his internal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2660">TS</a>]

00:44:22   monologue he says like oh what's so hard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2662">TS</a>]

00:44:24   like you didn't do anything and then he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2664">TS</a>]

00:44:26   has one line in the whole book where he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2666">TS</a>]

00:44:28   says well the hard thing is sticking to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2668">TS</a>]

00:44:29   the principles right and then just blows [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2669">TS</a>]

00:44:31   right past it and it's like you've got a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2671">TS</a>]

00:44:33   thousand pages upon which every page is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2673">TS</a>]

00:44:36   just like the secret to making good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2676">TS</a>]

00:44:37   decisions is to make good decisions and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2677">TS</a>]

00:44:38   it's like there's nothing here like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2678">TS</a>]

00:44:40   there's nothing here to talk about and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2680">TS</a>]

00:44:43   it's as weird thing about choices and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2683">TS</a>]

00:44:46   there is there is a moment which blows [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2686">TS</a>]

00:44:49   my mind in the afterword at the very end [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2689">TS</a>]

00:44:52   of the book which really sums it up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2692">TS</a>]

00:44:53   where he's talking about choices and he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2693">TS</a>]

00:44:57   literally literally just says something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2697">TS</a>]

00:44:59   like if your parents abused you as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2699">TS</a>]

00:45:01   child that does not mean you have to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2701">TS</a>]

00:45:02   abuse your own children right you can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2702">TS</a>]

00:45:04   choose not to abuse your children and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2704">TS</a>]

00:45:07   it's like oh oh is that the problem like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2707">TS</a>]

00:45:09   people are just making them it's it's on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2709">TS</a>]

00:45:11   my grizzy alright like oh okay it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2711">TS</a>]

00:45:16   thank thanks for solving like these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2716">TS</a>]

00:45:19   these systemic societal problems by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2719">TS</a>]

00:45:21   telling people who do bad things not to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2721">TS</a>]

00:45:24   choose to do the bad things right it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2724">TS</a>]

00:45:27   so yeah there are more examples of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2727">TS</a>]

00:45:30   so one of the one of the many examples [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2730">TS</a>]

00:45:33   of relationship advice in this book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2733">TS</a>]

00:45:36   there is somebody who came up to him at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2736">TS</a>]

00:45:38   the end of a conference many people come [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2738">TS</a>]

00:45:40   up to coffee at the end of his speaking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2740">TS</a>]

00:45:42   engagements two stories oh my god yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2742">TS</a>]

00:45:45   was this the woman the nurse like who's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2745">TS</a>]

00:45:47   working with the old man or is this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2747">TS</a>]

00:45:48   another one it's guys like me and my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2748">TS</a>]

00:45:53   wife we don't love each other anymore oh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2753">TS</a>]

00:45:55   I have that highlighted too oh my god [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2755">TS</a>]

00:45:57   it's a joke just love them but it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2757">TS</a>]

00:46:00   but we don't get a you just a lot you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2760">TS</a>]

00:46:02   just keep saying over and over again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2762">TS</a>]

00:46:03   just love them just love them and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2763">TS</a>]

00:46:04   they're saying that you know love is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2764">TS</a>]

00:46:06   thing that is constructed by books and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2766">TS</a>]

00:46:08   it's not a real thing and all you have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2768">TS</a>]

00:46:10   to do is be attentive and it's it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2770">TS</a>]

00:46:12   okay the advice like there's probably [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2772">TS</a>]

00:46:14   some interesting stuff in this advice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2774">TS</a>]

00:46:16   but the way that he gives it it's just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2776">TS</a>]

00:46:18   so we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2778">TS</a>]

00:46:19   like we just love them like he's that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2779">TS</a>]

00:46:22   his advice just love them you just keep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2782">TS</a>]

00:46:24   saying over and over again until the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2784">TS</a>]

00:46:25   scales fall from the person's eyes and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2785">TS</a>]

00:46:28   they can finally see as part of coffees [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2788">TS</a>]

00:46:30   teaching I think this is worth reading [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2790">TS</a>]

00:46:32   word for word this this weird like how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2792">TS</a>]

00:46:34   to love how to love your wife thing it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2794">TS</a>]

00:46:35   like okay listen there's like strap in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2795">TS</a>]

00:46:38   for a moment here yeah okay you got a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2798">TS</a>]

00:46:39   wild ride okay so so here's relationship [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2799">TS</a>]

00:46:43   advice from Stephen Covey at one seminar [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2803">TS</a>]

00:46:46   where I was speaking on the concept of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2806">TS</a>]

00:46:47   productivity a man came up and said [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2807">TS</a>]

00:46:49   Stephen I like what you're saying but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2809">TS</a>]

00:46:52   every situation is so different look at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2812">TS</a>]

00:46:54   my marriage I'm really worried my wife [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2814">TS</a>]

00:46:56   and I just don't have the same feelings [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2816">TS</a>]

00:46:57   for each other that we used to I guess I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2817">TS</a>]

00:47:00   just don't love her anymore and she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2820">TS</a>]

00:47:02   doesn't love me what can I do love her I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2822">TS</a>]

00:47:05   replied I told you the feeling just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2825">TS</a>]

00:47:07   isn't there anymore love her you don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2827">TS</a>]

00:47:11   understand the feeling of love just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2831">TS</a>]

00:47:13   isn't there then love her if the feeling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2833">TS</a>]

00:47:16   isn't there that's a good reason to love [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2836">TS</a>]

00:47:19   her but how do you love when you don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2839">TS</a>]

00:47:21   love my friend love is a verb love the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2841">TS</a>]

00:47:25   feeling is the fruit of love the verb so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2845">TS</a>]

00:47:29   love her end of chapter but like but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2849">TS</a>]

00:47:40   that that is another version of the same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2860">TS</a>]

00:47:43   story that gets told too many times [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2863">TS</a>]

00:47:45   which is like just choose to do the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2865">TS</a>]

00:47:47   better thing and it's like okay thanks [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2867">TS</a>]

00:47:51   thanks man I'll be sure to do that it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2871">TS</a>]

00:47:53   that that one is that one is is just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2873">TS</a>]

00:47:56   astounding yeah but there's many people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2876">TS</a>]

00:47:58   at conferences and children and like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2878">TS</a>]

00:47:59   these these are all like tropes of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2879">TS</a>]

00:48:01   genre but this one has so many weird [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2881">TS</a>]

00:48:03   ones and it's like by the end I start [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2883">TS</a>]

00:48:06   feeling almost personally offended by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2886">TS</a>]

00:48:10   the constant refrain of just do the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2890">TS</a>]

00:48:15   thing that will make your life better [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2895">TS</a>]

00:48:16   and it's like screw you buddy like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2896">TS</a>]

00:48:19   is that is not an answer like that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2899">TS</a>]

00:48:21   not an action right you can't like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2901">TS</a>]

00:48:22   way to love your wife is just love her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2902">TS</a>]

00:48:24   right like okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2904">TS</a>]

00:48:32   let's talk about the habits I have more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2912">TS</a>]

00:48:35   of these things to talk about as we go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2915">TS</a>]

00:48:37   through by when we start talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2917">TS</a>]

00:48:38   the habits Liz if we don't start talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2918">TS</a>]

00:48:41   about the habit whenever we will never [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2921">TS</a>]

00:48:42   stop but we'll never get to them so let [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2922">TS</a>]

00:48:45   lets let's go through that again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2925">TS</a>]

00:48:46   I wanted to state my position I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2926">TS</a>]

00:48:48   infuriated by all of these things I'm so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2928">TS</a>]

00:48:50   angry about the things that happen in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2930">TS</a>]

00:48:52   this book like that but I didn't find [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2932">TS</a>]

00:48:54   myself just losing my mind like I did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2934">TS</a>]

00:48:56   with the e-myth because I feel like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2936">TS</a>]

00:48:58   nemeth they were just brittle endless [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2938">TS</a>]

00:48:59   and I feel at least there was some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2939">TS</a>]

00:49:01   breaks here where he was talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2941">TS</a>]

00:49:03   some interesting stuff and I do believe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2943">TS</a>]

00:49:05   that this book has more than just one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2945">TS</a>]

00:49:07   thing to take away from it today's show [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2947">TS</a>]

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00:49:16   hover you find the domain that shows the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2956">TS</a>]

00:49:18   world who you are and what you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2958">TS</a>]

00:49:20   passionate about what I love about hover [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2960">TS</a>]

00:49:22   is their customer support team the fact [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2962">TS</a>]

00:49:25   that everything is super easy to set up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2965">TS</a>]

00:49:27   and super easy to search for so the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2967">TS</a>]

00:49:29   customer support team is best-in-class [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2969">TS</a>]

00:49:31   they have a hover connect feature which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2971">TS</a>]

00:49:33   I use just a couple of weeks ago for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2973">TS</a>]

00:49:34   setting up the wedding website that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2974">TS</a>]

00:49:36   spoke about I was able to get the domain [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2976">TS</a>]

00:49:38   name I bought set up with my website in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2978">TS</a>]

00:49:40   just a few clicks I didn't have to enter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2980">TS</a>]

00:49:42   in a bunch of DNS information and also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2982">TS</a>]

00:49:44   they have Whois privacy as well for free [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2984">TS</a>]

00:49:46   so bad guys don't get my information I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2986">TS</a>]

00:49:48   really love hover for these things and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2988">TS</a>]

00:49:51   look I've mentioned stuff like getting a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2991">TS</a>]

00:49:53   domain name for my wedding website this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2993">TS</a>]

00:49:56   is something that I needed and hover [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2996">TS</a>]

00:49:57   made it simple this wasn't one of those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2997">TS</a>]

00:49:59   things where I had to sit and think and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/2999">TS</a>]

00:50:01   scratch my chin about what I was gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3001">TS</a>]

00:50:03   get I knew what I wanted and I could go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3003">TS</a>]

00:50:05   in and get it really easily whatever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3005">TS</a>]

00:50:07   type of project or reason no matter what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3007">TS</a>]

00:50:09   it is hover has the tools that you need [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3009">TS</a>]

00:50:11   and the domain name options that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3011">TS</a>]

00:50:13   want to get it done like for example [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3013">TS</a>]

00:50:15   what if you want to create a blog well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3015">TS</a>]

00:50:18   by using the dot blog domain extension [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3018">TS</a>]

00:50:20   you can tell everyone exactly what to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3020">TS</a>]

00:50:23   expect when they go to your website they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3023">TS</a>]

00:50:25   know they're gonna get awesome and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3025">TS</a>]

00:50:26   relevant content about you or your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3026">TS</a>]

00:50:27   business rather than just a generic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3027">TS</a>]

00:50:29   homepage because the site is called dot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3029">TS</a>]

00:50:31   blog so let's say that you're a blogger [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3031">TS</a>]

00:50:33   or a company even that's trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3033">TS</a>]

00:50:35   create new leads or inform your customer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3035">TS</a>]

00:50:37   base or just you want to talk about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3037">TS</a>]

00:50:39   what's going on in your life you could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3039">TS</a>]

00:50:40   use dot blog instead of something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3040">TS</a>]

00:50:42   generic like com adop is people know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3042">TS</a>]

00:50:44   what they're gonna get when they see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3044">TS</a>]

00:50:46   stand out and build your online identity [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3046">TS</a>]

00:50:47   with the perfect domain name for you or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3047">TS</a>]

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00:50:55   extensions by going to hover up comps at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3055">TS</a>]

00:50:57   context of course including top blog [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3057">TS</a>]

00:50:59   thanks to hover for their support of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3059">TS</a>]

00:51:01   this show the habits are broken down [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3061">TS</a>]

00:51:04   into two and a half categories the first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3064">TS</a>]

00:51:07   three are classified as private victory [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3067">TS</a>]

00:51:10   and or independents and then four to six [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3070">TS</a>]

00:51:13   were classified as public victory or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3073">TS</a>]

00:51:15   interdependence which is working with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3075">TS</a>]

00:51:17   others and the seventh habit is just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3077">TS</a>]

00:51:20   about renewing all of the sixth so is an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3080">TS</a>]

00:51:23   interesting structure and I actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3083">TS</a>]

00:51:25   quite like the structure so the first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3085">TS</a>]

00:51:27   three are classified as proactivity [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3087">TS</a>]

00:51:30   beginning with the end in mind and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3090">TS</a>]

00:51:32   putting first things first so habit one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3092">TS</a>]

00:51:34   is productivity and the idea and there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3094">TS</a>]

00:51:37   a great summary on Wikipedia for each of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3097">TS</a>]

00:51:39   these and I pulled some of that out just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3099">TS</a>]

00:51:41   to try and give a concise explanation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3101">TS</a>]

00:51:43   for them so be proactive is in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3103">TS</a>]

00:51:47   understanding a circle of influence and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3107">TS</a>]

00:51:48   your circle of concern so the things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3108">TS</a>]

00:51:50   that you can influence about yourself [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3110">TS</a>]

00:51:52   and the people that you need to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3112">TS</a>]

00:51:53   concerned about the things that you need [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3113">TS</a>]

00:51:55   to try and change and not to just sit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3115">TS</a>]

00:51:58   and wait in a reactive mode waiting for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3118">TS</a>]

00:52:00   problems to happen before you take [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3120">TS</a>]

00:52:02   action you should be out there and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3122">TS</a>]

00:52:03   taking action and a lot of it is about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3123">TS</a>]

00:52:05   understanding the language that you use [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3125">TS</a>]

00:52:06   and the way that you think about things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3126">TS</a>]

00:52:08   so I really liked this one example of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3128">TS</a>]

00:52:11   saying things instead of I have to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3131">TS</a>]

00:52:14   something you say that you choose to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3134">TS</a>]

00:52:16   something or instead of I wish I had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3136">TS</a>]

00:52:19   done this too I can be this or I can't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3139">TS</a>]

00:52:21   do this and I really like this as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3141">TS</a>]

00:52:24   start because it was like saying to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3144">TS</a>]

00:52:27   the the reader think about yourself [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3147">TS</a>]

00:52:30   think about the way that you approach [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3150">TS</a>]

00:52:31   problems think about the way that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3151">TS</a>]

00:52:33   approach opportunities and how you refer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3153">TS</a>]

00:52:37   to them and try and understand the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3157">TS</a>]

00:52:39   things that you are able to change and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3159">TS</a>]

00:52:41   the things that you are able to kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3161">TS</a>]

00:52:43   influence to change and I found it to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3163">TS</a>]

00:52:45   an interesting way to start off and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3165">TS</a>]

00:52:49   something that I know that in my life I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3169">TS</a>]

00:52:51   have gotten better about over time but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3171">TS</a>]

00:52:54   there was definitely a period of time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3174">TS</a>]

00:52:56   for me when I was in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3176">TS</a>]

00:52:59   branch management where I was not being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3179">TS</a>]

00:53:01   proactive and I was more focused on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3181">TS</a>]

00:53:04   fact that these bad things are just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3184">TS</a>]

00:53:05   happening to me and I'm not you know and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3185">TS</a>]

00:53:08   there's nothing I can do about it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3188">TS</a>]

00:53:09   rather than what I ended up working out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3189">TS</a>]

00:53:11   later was like why am I doing this I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3191">TS</a>]

00:53:13   don't like this I need to go out and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3193">TS</a>]

00:53:16   change something so I did actually quite [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3196">TS</a>]

00:53:18   like this it felt like a good start it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3198">TS</a>]

00:53:19   was just a shame that it started at 2 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3199">TS</a>]

00:53:21   hours and 22 minutes yeah just a small [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3201">TS</a>]

00:53:24   note before we move on well you did note [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3204">TS</a>]

00:53:26   that the first the first habit comes in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3206">TS</a>]

00:53:29   at 2 hours and whatever minutes when one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3209">TS</a>]

00:53:31   of the remarks that I have here in my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3211">TS</a>]

00:53:33   highlights is the first promotion of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3213">TS</a>]

00:53:36   Stephen Covey business starts at exactly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3216">TS</a>]

00:53:39   one minute until there was a little bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3219">TS</a>]

00:53:44   of a thing to notice that yeah it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3224">TS</a>]

00:53:46   interesting because in the actual book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3226">TS</a>]

00:53:48   there's not a lot of it right because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3228">TS</a>]

00:53:51   he's talking more about being a teacher [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3231">TS</a>]

00:53:53   because that's what he was when he was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3233">TS</a>]

00:53:55   writing this book mostly but the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3235">TS</a>]

00:53:57   foreword is after this book has changed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3237">TS</a>]

00:54:01   his life and he is now a management [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3241">TS</a>]

00:54:03   consultant right so he's doing these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3243">TS</a>]

00:54:05   seminars and stuff which he mentions in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3245">TS</a>]

00:54:07   the book but like if I'm reading it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3247">TS</a>]

00:54:09   correctly like it wasn't what it ended [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3249">TS</a>]

00:54:12   up becoming mm-hmm like he doesn't make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3252">TS</a>]

00:54:15   reference to the Covey business empire [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3255">TS</a>]

00:54:17   builds based upon the 7 habits during [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3257">TS</a>]

00:54:20   the book because doesn't exist yet [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3260">TS</a>]

00:54:22   but forward is full of it right which is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3262">TS</a>]

00:54:25   hilarious right the Clio comes right out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3265">TS</a>]

00:54:27   of the gate but I just I thought that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3267">TS</a>]

00:54:29   was just kind of funny and I know it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3269">TS</a>]

00:54:31   whatever but I also I also agree like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3271">TS</a>]

00:54:34   the first chapter it was interesting and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3274">TS</a>]

00:54:36   I'll say like in fairness to the book I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3276">TS</a>]

00:54:38   think if it catches you at the right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3278">TS</a>]

00:54:40   moment in your life I genuinely think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3280">TS</a>]

00:54:42   that that first chapter can open up a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3282">TS</a>]

00:54:45   bunch of people's minds to the way that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3285">TS</a>]

00:54:46   they think about things yeah purely the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3286">TS</a>]

00:54:48   language stuff like that surely the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3288">TS</a>]

00:54:50   language stuff the most interest one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3290">TS</a>]

00:54:53   the most interesting things of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3293">TS</a>]

00:54:54   entire book actually for me because yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3294">TS</a>]

00:54:57   really made me think about huh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3297">TS</a>]

00:54:58   how do I say this stuff and why do I say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3298">TS</a>]

00:55:01   it that way yeah you know like I have to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3301">TS</a>]

00:55:04   do this why do I have to do anything I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3304">TS</a>]

00:55:07   can choose right right and I found it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3307">TS</a>]

00:55:08   really interesting yeah it was and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3308">TS</a>]

00:55:11   reminded me of a little language [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3311">TS</a>]

00:55:13   which of court was like a totally [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3313">TS</a>]

00:55:14   hopeless lost cause as a teacher but but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3314">TS</a>]

00:55:17   when I used to have kids come up and say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3317">TS</a>]

00:55:19   like Oh like I gave him a bad grade like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3319">TS</a>]

00:55:21   I would always use the language of like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3321">TS</a>]

00:55:23   no you earned that grade [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3323">TS</a>]

00:55:25   right or like I didn't give you a bad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3325">TS</a>]

00:55:27   grade like you earned a bad grade just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3327">TS</a>]

00:55:30   because again it's good paper that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3330">TS</a>]

00:55:32   ended up changing until it became bad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3332">TS</a>]

00:55:34   right like that bad when you gave it to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3334">TS</a>]

00:55:36   me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3336">TS</a>]

00:55:37   yeah and just like like just just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3337">TS</a>]

00:55:39   changing a little bit of the language [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3339">TS</a>]

00:55:40   around that it's like you you are an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3340">TS</a>]

00:55:42   active participant in this process all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3342">TS</a>]

00:55:44   right you're you're not just sitting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3344">TS</a>]

00:55:46   there and I'm handing out grades like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3346">TS</a>]

00:55:49   there's a thing that's happening between [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3349">TS</a>]

00:55:50   the two of us and I do I do like I said [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3350">TS</a>]

00:55:55   I think if you're at the right stage in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3355">TS</a>]

00:55:56   your life that this might this might [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3356">TS</a>]

00:55:58   just catch you in the in the right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3358">TS</a>]

00:56:01   moment and I don't know I don't know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3361">TS</a>]

00:56:03   what the timeline of this is but um I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3363">TS</a>]

00:56:06   was just wondering because a lot of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3366">TS</a>]

00:56:08   reminded me of I have a relative who is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3368">TS</a>]

00:56:12   a psychologist and works with like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3372">TS</a>]

00:56:14   people who've been through some trauma [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3374">TS</a>]

00:56:16   and unwinding them about that and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3376">TS</a>]

00:56:17   talking about the process of teaching [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3377">TS</a>]

00:56:21   people to interrupt their own thoughts [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3381">TS</a>]

00:56:23   like teaching people to catch themselves [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3383">TS</a>]

00:56:26   thinking in terms of the world is doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3386">TS</a>]

00:56:28   something to them versus you are an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3388">TS</a>]

00:56:30   actor in the world and and there's just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3390">TS</a>]

00:56:32   this variant like I talked to her about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3392">TS</a>]

00:56:34   like it sounds very interesting like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3394">TS</a>]

00:56:35   way that she she works with people to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3395">TS</a>]

00:56:38   say like if you have a fear of heights [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3398">TS</a>]

00:56:39   like how do you work someone out through [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3399">TS</a>]

00:56:42   that and and part of it is like this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3402">TS</a>]

00:56:44   change of you are you are an actor in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3404">TS</a>]

00:56:47   the world like you are not the result of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3407">TS</a>]

00:56:49   all of the actions upon you so it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3409">TS</a>]

00:56:53   just kind of reminded me about this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3413">TS</a>]

00:56:55   thing which as I've gone through some of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3415">TS</a>]

00:56:57   that sort of stuff and read some of his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3417">TS</a>]

00:56:58   cognitive behavioral therapy like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3418">TS</a>]

00:57:00   guess that's what the times in my life [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3420">TS</a>]

00:57:02   like when I was struggling with some of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3422">TS</a>]

00:57:04   my work stuff this was a great help to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3424">TS</a>]

00:57:07   me was was going through some of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3427">TS</a>]

00:57:09   stuff because there are some very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3429">TS</a>]

00:57:10   valuable things in that right like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3430">TS</a>]

00:57:13   the idea of understanding that like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3433">TS</a>]

00:57:16   can't control everything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3436">TS</a>]

00:57:18   things happen and how do you react to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3438">TS</a>]

00:57:20   them and like how do you change the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3440">TS</a>]

00:57:21   that you think and say stuff to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3441">TS</a>]

00:57:23   better in the world like it's it is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3443">TS</a>]

00:57:25   very powerful thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3445">TS</a>]

00:57:26   and when I was reading this part this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3446">TS</a>]

00:57:28   well.when habit one was being read to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3448">TS</a>]

00:57:30   by mr. Covey himself I was reminded of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3450">TS</a>]

00:57:34   lot of these types of lines and it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3454">TS</a>]

00:57:36   like okay this is good that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3456">TS</a>]

00:57:38   interesting okay so you saw the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3458">TS</a>]

00:57:39   similarities to that too yeah I've only [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3459">TS</a>]

00:57:41   just heard about this in like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3461">TS</a>]

00:57:42   secondhand way and I just think like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3462">TS</a>]

00:57:44   okay this this sounds like a very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3464">TS</a>]

00:57:45   similar idea and at least talking to my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3465">TS</a>]

00:57:47   family member who does it seems like if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3467">TS</a>]

00:57:49   you've got serious business about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3469">TS</a>]

00:57:51   behavior change in humans this seems to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3471">TS</a>]

00:57:52   be one of the most effective ways to go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3472">TS</a>]

00:57:54   about it like as far as as far as we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3474">TS</a>]

00:57:55   know right now I also I did just really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3475">TS</a>]

00:57:58   like the I think there is a way that he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3478">TS</a>]

00:58:01   phrased something which is a better way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3481">TS</a>]

00:58:03   of phrasing an idea that you and I have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3483">TS</a>]

00:58:05   sometimes spoken about like how we don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3485">TS</a>]

00:58:08   really follow the news right orient or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3488">TS</a>]

00:58:10   intentionally not following a whole [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3490">TS</a>]

00:58:11   bunch of things and I'm always I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3491">TS</a>]

00:58:15   always trying to encourage people to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3495">TS</a>]

00:58:17   just sort of I don't really like be less [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3497">TS</a>]

00:58:20   aware of the world but in a sense I kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3500">TS</a>]

00:58:22   of been like focus on the things that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3502">TS</a>]

00:58:23   you can do but I did really like his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3503">TS</a>]

00:58:26   phrasing of this idea that that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3506">TS</a>]

00:58:28   everybody has this circle of things that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3508">TS</a>]

00:58:30   they're concerned about and that circle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3510">TS</a>]

00:58:34   is larger than the things that you can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3514">TS</a>]

00:58:36   influence and I did think that language [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3516">TS</a>]

00:58:39   change was is an interesting way to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3519">TS</a>]

00:58:41   frame it because it's like oh of course [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3521">TS</a>]

00:58:43   people get trapped and caught up in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3523">TS</a>]

00:58:48   constantly thinking about the things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3528">TS</a>]

00:58:50   that are inside their circle of concern [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3530">TS</a>]

00:58:53   but that are outside their circle of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3533">TS</a>]

00:58:55   influence and I just I thought like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3535">TS</a>]

00:58:58   that's a really interesting way to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3538">TS</a>]

00:59:01   differently frame this idea and I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3541">TS</a>]

00:59:05   that is also again like maybe for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3545">TS</a>]

00:59:08   person at the right moment that idea can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3548">TS</a>]

00:59:10   be really liberating to recognize that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3550">TS</a>]

00:59:13   like yes there are there are many things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3553">TS</a>]

00:59:14   you may be concerned about over which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3554">TS</a>]

00:59:17   you have absolutely no influence and so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3557">TS</a>]

00:59:20   you have to make a decision about not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3560">TS</a>]

00:59:23   obsessively thinking about that stuff or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3563">TS</a>]

00:59:26   working to expand your circle of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3566">TS</a>]

00:59:29   influence so that you can actually do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3569">TS</a>]

00:59:31   something about it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3571">TS</a>]

00:59:31   that is no longer out outside of your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3571">TS</a>]

00:59:34   power so I I thought that was also like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3574">TS</a>]

00:59:36   a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3576">TS</a>]

00:59:37   a good way to frame this concept of like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3577">TS</a>]

00:59:41   selective ignorance in a way habit 2 is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3581">TS</a>]

00:59:45   begin with the end in mind now I thought [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3585">TS</a>]

00:59:49   that this habit went off the rails [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3589">TS</a>]

00:59:51   incredibly quickly but turn me around so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3591">TS</a>]

00:59:54   this habit is about envisioning what you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3594">TS</a>]

00:59:57   want in the future so you can plan and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3597">TS</a>]

00:59:59   work towards it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3599">TS</a>]

00:59:59   work towards it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3599">TS</a>]

01:00:00   and to be effect and the idea is to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3600">TS</a>]

01:00:02   effective you need to act based on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3602">TS</a>]

01:00:04   principles and constantly reviewing a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3604">TS</a>]

01:00:06   mission statement that you create so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3606">TS</a>]

01:00:08   there are two main things in this part [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3608">TS</a>]

01:00:10   which is one the envisioning of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3610">TS</a>]

01:00:12   future and then the second is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3612">TS</a>]

01:00:13   mission statement now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3613">TS</a>]

01:00:15   I it was really interesting to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3615">TS</a>]

01:00:18   because these things were both [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3618">TS</a>]

01:00:19   introduced and my mind was changed about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3619">TS</a>]

01:00:22   each of them in a 180 so the first is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3622">TS</a>]

01:00:25   the way he begins talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3625">TS</a>]

01:00:27   envisioning your future is let's picture [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3627">TS</a>]

01:00:29   your funeral and my eyes nearly roll dry [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3629">TS</a>]

01:00:32   all my I do I had the exact same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3632">TS</a>]

01:00:35   experience of like and he's the idea is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3635">TS</a>]

01:00:39   what would you like to hear people say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3639">TS</a>]

01:00:42   about you like and the idea is someone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3642">TS</a>]

01:00:44   that you work with someone who would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3644">TS</a>]

01:00:46   talk about your character and someone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3646">TS</a>]

01:00:47   who would be a friend or family member [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3647">TS</a>]

01:00:49   and what difference would you like to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3649">TS</a>]

01:00:51   have on people's lives and he says to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3651">TS</a>]

01:00:52   work out like you know write down what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3652">TS</a>]

01:00:54   you would want and by the end of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3654">TS</a>]

01:00:57   whilst he was clearly going for a shock [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3657">TS</a>]

01:00:59   factor with the let's picture your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3659">TS</a>]

01:01:02   funeral I found it an interesting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3662">TS</a>]

01:01:05   exercise because trying to think about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3665">TS</a>]

01:01:08   what do I want to be thought as people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3668">TS</a>]

01:01:13   that I work with people that I care [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3673">TS</a>]

01:01:16   about how do I want them to think of me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3676">TS</a>]

01:01:18   like how would I want them to describe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3678">TS</a>]

01:01:21   me it doesn't need to be at my funeral [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3681">TS</a>]

01:01:22   right but there was a bit too much but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3682">TS</a>]

01:01:24   what Waddell and I found that it's don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3684">TS</a>]

01:01:27   worry Mike yeah I found that to be an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3687">TS</a>]

01:01:30   interesting exercise that I took [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3690">TS</a>]

01:01:33   something from write like I wrote some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3693">TS</a>]

01:01:35   stuff down and I was like I I like this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3695">TS</a>]

01:01:37   this is a good thing to think about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3697">TS</a>]

01:01:39   because then how does that affect your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3699">TS</a>]

01:01:42   life and the things that you do like if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3702">TS</a>]

01:01:45   you want to be by the end of your life [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3705">TS</a>]

01:01:47   seen as these three or four things how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3707">TS</a>]

01:01:49   do you get there and what path do you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3709">TS</a>]

01:01:51   take to make sure you don't deviate from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3711">TS</a>]

01:01:53   them I found that to be very interesting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3713">TS</a>]

01:01:56   so beginning with the end in mind so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3716">TS</a>]

01:01:57   setting up your plan now for how you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3717">TS</a>]

01:02:00   want to be seen at the end I kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3720">TS</a>]

01:02:02   like them yeah I also couldn't deal with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3722">TS</a>]

01:02:07   the funeral thing so much it was silly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3727">TS</a>]

01:02:09   yeah and for me it's it's overblown and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3729">TS</a>]

01:02:12   like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3732">TS</a>]

01:02:13   we really pompous in it in a way yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3733">TS</a>]

01:02:15   like oh he's surrounded by all these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3735">TS</a>]

01:02:17   these loving people nobody nobody has a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3737">TS</a>]

01:02:19   better thing to do on a Tuesday [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3739">TS</a>]

01:02:20   afternoon and then go to your funeral [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3740">TS</a>]

01:02:21   right it's like whatever but but it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3741">TS</a>]

01:02:26   again it does it does have a point [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3746">TS</a>]

01:02:28   and there's there's a way of I think the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3748">TS</a>]

01:02:34   life scale is too big but it is an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3754">TS</a>]

01:02:38   interesting question when people are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3758">TS</a>]

01:02:39   working on projects of I kind of like to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3759">TS</a>]

01:02:42   phrase it it like what is the best thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3762">TS</a>]

01:02:43   that could possibly come out of what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3763">TS</a>]

01:02:45   you're working on right now like if like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3765">TS</a>]

01:02:46   if everything went absolutely great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3766">TS</a>]

01:02:48   what's the what's the biggest possible [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3768">TS</a>]

01:02:50   upside of this thing that you're working [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3770">TS</a>]

01:02:52   on and and very often like if you sort [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3772">TS</a>]

01:02:54   of think about that you can realize that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3774">TS</a>]

01:02:57   some some projects just aren't worth [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3777">TS</a>]

01:02:59   spending the time on but but people can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3779">TS</a>]

01:03:02   end up starting them I think because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3782">TS</a>]

01:03:03   they're sort of skipping this idea of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3783">TS</a>]

01:03:06   thinking about what does the final [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3786">TS</a>]

01:03:09   version of this look like so yeah I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3789">TS</a>]

01:03:12   think the the whole arc of your life [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3792">TS</a>]

01:03:16   doesn't doesn't really work for me but I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3796">TS</a>]

01:03:17   I think this is a valuable concept on a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3797">TS</a>]

01:03:20   smaller scale of have a clear idea in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3800">TS</a>]

01:03:22   your mind of what you're trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3802">TS</a>]

01:03:24   achieve and and that will help direct [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3804">TS</a>]

01:03:27   your actions towards what it is you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3807">TS</a>]

01:03:29   actually want to need to do in order to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3809">TS</a>]

01:03:31   make that happen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3811">TS</a>]

01:03:32   then the second part of this is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3812">TS</a>]

01:03:35   personal mission statement which is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3815">TS</a>]

01:03:36   thing that you create and adapt an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3816">TS</a>]

01:03:39   update throughout your life to try and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3819">TS</a>]

01:03:41   keep you on the course [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3821">TS</a>]

01:03:42   towards what you want to be remembered [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3822">TS</a>]

01:03:43   for and I was like that's an interesting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3823">TS</a>]

01:03:46   idea until the personal mission [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3826">TS</a>]

01:03:48   statement became three - four - five - [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3828">TS</a>]

01:03:51   six - seven paragraphs long I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3831">TS</a>]

01:03:54   expecting a sentence or two right like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3834">TS</a>]

01:03:56   real kind of like a thing you could put [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3836">TS</a>]

01:03:58   on the wall and you could look at it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3838">TS</a>]

01:03:59   every day and be like that's what I want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3839">TS</a>]

01:04:01   to be but these patient personal mission [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3841">TS</a>]

01:04:04   statements were like novella lengths for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3844">TS</a>]

01:04:06   each person that was talking about them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3846">TS</a>]

01:04:08   and it completely lost me right like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3848">TS</a>]

01:04:10   rising like Covey's not come he's not a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3850">TS</a>]

01:04:13   brief guy right now it's not anything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3853">TS</a>]

01:04:15   that his his personal mission statement [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3855">TS</a>]

01:04:17   would be like let's sit down and write a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3857">TS</a>]

01:04:19   little novella but then like every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3859">TS</a>]

01:04:21   example he was giving for these totally [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3861">TS</a>]

01:04:23   100% real people was the same right and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3863">TS</a>]

01:04:26   it was like it was so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3866">TS</a>]

01:04:27   referring to me because it built built [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3867">TS</a>]

01:04:29   me up right to this idea I was like I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3869">TS</a>]

01:04:31   on board with this this is really great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3871">TS</a>]

01:04:33   and then it was like you've you've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3873">TS</a>]

01:04:35   destroyed it because I don't want to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3875">TS</a>]

01:04:37   have to sit on a beach for an hour like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3877">TS</a>]

01:04:40   you do every year to write my mission [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3880">TS</a>]

01:04:43   statement like this is something that if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3883">TS</a>]

01:04:45   I'm gonna do this I want it to be a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3885">TS</a>]

01:04:47   short thing he actually at one point [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3887">TS</a>]

01:04:49   compares it in length and importance to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3889">TS</a>]

01:04:51   the American Constitution right do you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3891">TS</a>]

01:04:56   understand that maybe you've gone too [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3896">TS</a>]

01:04:58   far at this point right and also that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3898">TS</a>]

01:05:01   that's probably a big ask I like someone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3901">TS</a>]

01:05:03   who's reading this book and is trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3903">TS</a>]

01:05:05   turn their life around you're like look [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3905">TS</a>]

01:05:06   just sit down and write a constitution [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3906">TS</a>]

01:05:07   for you yeah whoa so again like I might [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3907">TS</a>]

01:05:14   take this and twist it right and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3914">TS</a>]

01:05:17   because I I have now the things that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3917">TS</a>]

01:05:19   think about right like what what do I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3919">TS</a>]

01:05:21   want to be remembered as maybe I should [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3921">TS</a>]

01:05:23   try and turn that into something which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3923">TS</a>]

01:05:25   is a bit a little bit more realistic for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3925">TS</a>]

01:05:26   me so it's like this again this is why I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3926">TS</a>]

01:05:29   am a little bit more on board at this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3929">TS</a>]

01:05:31   book than a myth because you know we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3931">TS</a>]

01:05:34   not that far into it and I've come away [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3934">TS</a>]

01:05:36   with some things that was not perfect [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3936">TS</a>]

01:05:38   I actually think work pretty well mm-hmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3938">TS</a>]

01:05:41   you know like this circle of influence [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3941">TS</a>]

01:05:43   circle concern I think is very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3943">TS</a>]

01:05:45   interesting and it it perfectly explains [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3945">TS</a>]

01:05:47   something that I struggled to explain to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3947">TS</a>]

01:05:49   people same way that you do and the idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3949">TS</a>]

01:05:52   of beginning with the end in mind and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3952">TS</a>]

01:05:54   kind of how you want to move towards [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3954">TS</a>]

01:05:56   creating something which can encapsulate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3956">TS</a>]

01:05:58   that there's some interesting stuff in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3958">TS</a>]

01:06:00   there for me before we move on Mike [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3960">TS</a>]

01:06:02   though before we get on to habit three I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3962">TS</a>]

01:06:04   just want to pause here for a moment to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3964">TS</a>]

01:06:06   point out that habit two is when Stephen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3966">TS</a>]

01:06:08   Covey visits the same magic hotel yes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3968">TS</a>]

01:06:11   that isn't even a three visitors point [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3971">TS</a>]

01:06:16   I'll actually had almost like a childish [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3976">TS</a>]

01:06:19   Glee of like oh my god I think I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3979">TS</a>]

01:06:27   walking through Covent Garden and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3987">TS</a>]

01:06:29   think I started laughing out loud when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3989">TS</a>]

01:06:31   he when he was talking about his magic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3991">TS</a>]

01:06:34   hotel our favorite part of the e-myth [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3994">TS</a>]

01:06:36   revisited is this hotel that the author [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3996">TS</a>]

01:06:38   goes to which is completely fictional [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/3998">TS</a>]

01:06:40   cannot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4000">TS</a>]

01:06:41   exist in real life yeah I did some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4001">TS</a>]

01:06:42   digging apparently this hotel is a chain [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4002">TS</a>]

01:06:44   and it does exist but again I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4004">TS</a>]

01:06:47   believe that it goes the way that it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4007">TS</a>]

01:06:48   does where this hotel created their own [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4008">TS</a>]

01:06:51   personal mission statement which just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4011">TS</a>]

01:06:52   funnily enough is the same connector [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4012">TS</a>]

01:06:54   that he uses when the book is not been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4014">TS</a>]

01:06:56   published because apparently that's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4016">TS</a>]

01:06:58   thing and that have literally everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4018">TS</a>]

01:07:00   in the company from the housekeeping to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4020">TS</a>]

01:07:04   the janitors to the bellboys to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4024">TS</a>]

01:07:05   everything everybody sat down and was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4025">TS</a>]

01:07:08   hundred percent engaged in creating this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4028">TS</a>]

01:07:10   personal mission statement like don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4030">TS</a>]

01:07:11   lie to me tell me if this thing exists [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4031">TS</a>]

01:07:14   that's fine but it wasn't like that it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4034">TS</a>]

01:07:17   just doesn't work like that yeah there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4037">TS</a>]

01:07:20   there's several things here I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4040">TS</a>]

01:07:21   according to the book this mission [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4041">TS</a>]

01:07:24   statement for the hotel was the hub of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4044">TS</a>]

01:07:26   great wheel it spawned the thoughtful [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4046">TS</a>]

01:07:28   more specialized mission statements of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4048">TS</a>]

01:07:30   particular groups and employees and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4050">TS</a>]

01:07:32   was used as the criteria for every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4052">TS</a>]

01:07:34   decision that was made it clarified what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4054">TS</a>]

01:07:36   people stood for how they related to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4056">TS</a>]

01:07:38   customers how they related to the to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4058">TS</a>]

01:07:40   each other alright this is this is one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4060">TS</a>]

01:07:42   of these moments and there's there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4062">TS</a>]

01:07:44   example that happens a few pages earlier [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4064">TS</a>]

01:07:45   which is a similar thing which I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4065">TS</a>]

01:07:48   know how to describe it but I think of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4068">TS</a>]

01:07:49   kind as a kind of CEO disease where okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4069">TS</a>]

01:07:53   let's say this hotel existed and let's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4073">TS</a>]

01:07:54   say the hotel got everybody from the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4074">TS</a>]

01:07:57   janitors to the CEO together and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4077">TS</a>]

01:07:59   did all work on a mission statement and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4079">TS</a>]

01:08:01   some and Marana and a document was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4081">TS</a>]

01:08:03   created I don't know about you but my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4083">TS</a>]

01:08:07   experience doing that kind of stuff like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4087">TS</a>]

01:08:10   when I was working for someone is that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4090">TS</a>]

01:08:12   the rank-and-file employees are all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4092">TS</a>]

01:08:14   thinking like this is a total BS day [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4094">TS</a>]

01:08:17   where we have to have a silly pointless [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4097">TS</a>]

01:08:19   meeting and the people on top seem to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4099">TS</a>]

01:08:21   think that something amazing has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4101">TS</a>]

01:08:22   occurred and as there's I could there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4102">TS</a>]

01:08:25   like a great difference in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4105">TS</a>]

01:08:27   experience of what people think is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4107">TS</a>]

01:08:29   happening in the room right and and so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4109">TS</a>]

01:08:32   it's like even if this happens and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4112">TS</a>]

01:08:34   believe it is like I just don't believe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4114">TS</a>]

01:08:36   that the like the janitors at the hotel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4116">TS</a>]

01:08:38   are like you know what I feel really on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4118">TS</a>]

01:08:40   board with the value and position of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4120">TS</a>]

01:08:42   this hotel like I just don't believe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4122">TS</a>]

01:08:43   that I think that the janitors are busy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4123">TS</a>]

01:08:45   thinking like man I got a lot of stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4125">TS</a>]

01:08:47   to clean up today and and this meeting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4127">TS</a>]

01:08:49   is just making me have to stay after [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4129">TS</a>]

01:08:51   hours to work longer like I think that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4131">TS</a>]

01:08:53   what's really happened [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4133">TS</a>]

01:08:54   when this when this occurs the closest [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4134">TS</a>]

01:08:56   I've ever gotten to this I worked for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4136">TS</a>]

01:08:58   company when I was in college where it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4138">TS</a>]

01:09:02   a big company it's a big department [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4142">TS</a>]

01:09:04   store chain in the UK where they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4144">TS</a>]

01:09:07   distribute the company's profits to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4147">TS</a>]

01:09:10   employees ok right there that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4150">TS</a>]

01:09:12   genuinely meaningful right that's it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4152">TS</a>]

01:09:14   that's a different thing because it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4154">TS</a>]

01:09:16   not like words on a page it's money in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4156">TS</a>]

01:09:18   your pocket this is a huge company make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4158">TS</a>]

01:09:21   a lot of money and every year every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4161">TS</a>]

01:09:23   single person gets a bonus which is an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4163">TS</a>]

01:09:25   incentive of their salary from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4165">TS</a>]

01:09:28   interesting the person who is pushing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4168">TS</a>]

01:09:30   shopping carts through the parking lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4170">TS</a>]

01:09:34   to the CEO everybody gets the same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4174">TS</a>]

01:09:37   percentage obviously the amount differs [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4177">TS</a>]

01:09:39   but everybody gets the same percentage [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4179">TS</a>]

01:09:40   that percentage shrinks or grows [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4180">TS</a>]

01:09:42   depending on how well the company does [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4182">TS</a>]

01:09:44   and I saw things in that working for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4184">TS</a>]

01:09:47   that company that I have never seen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4187">TS</a>]

01:09:48   since like for example the last person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4188">TS</a>]

01:09:51   who leaves the staff changing room turns [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4191">TS</a>]

01:09:53   the lights off at night because the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4193">TS</a>]

01:09:54   electricity bill goes towards the bonus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4194">TS</a>]

01:09:56   like little things like that where I saw [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4196">TS</a>]

01:10:00   a lot more buying in that company than [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4200">TS</a>]

01:10:02   I've seen in any other company because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4202">TS</a>]

01:10:04   there is an actual thing that you can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4204">TS</a>]

01:10:07   point to to show that if we all work [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4207">TS</a>]

01:10:09   towards this together we get something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4209">TS</a>]

01:10:13   yeah that is it that is a perfect [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4213">TS</a>]

01:10:16   example of what I always feel like what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4216">TS</a>]

01:10:18   really matters is it's not there's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4218">TS</a>]

01:10:20   words it's not trying harder it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4220">TS</a>]

01:10:23   structure that encourages or rewards the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4223">TS</a>]

01:10:26   actual behavior that you want all right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4226">TS</a>]

01:10:28   and you know it in these in this book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4228">TS</a>]

01:10:32   it's so clear that is like if you're the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4232">TS</a>]

01:10:34   leader of a company your words are just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4234">TS</a>]

01:10:36   our magic pixie dust that spread on your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4236">TS</a>]

01:10:38   employees and then and then they just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4238">TS</a>]

01:10:40   behave in ways that you want them to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4240">TS</a>]

01:10:41   it's like that is that is not the way it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4241">TS</a>]

01:10:43   is and yeah your your description of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4243">TS</a>]

01:10:45   that is interesting that's like oh look [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4245">TS</a>]

01:10:46   if you set up an actual structure that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4246">TS</a>]

01:10:49   encourages the behavior that you want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4249">TS</a>]

01:10:50   you're probably going to get more of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4250">TS</a>]

01:10:52   behavior that you want but the but the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4252">TS</a>]

01:10:54   thing is like that might cost you in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4254">TS</a>]

01:10:56   other ways but you can't you can't just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4256">TS</a>]

01:10:58   say costless words and get the same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4258">TS</a>]

01:11:01   results have it three put first things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4261">TS</a>]

01:11:06   first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4266">TS</a>]

01:11:07   so this talks about the difference [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4267">TS</a>]

01:11:08   between leadership and management [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4268">TS</a>]

01:11:09   leadership in the outside world begins a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4269">TS</a>]

01:11:12   personal vision and personal leadership [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4272">TS</a>]

01:11:13   and it also took switch all of that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4273">TS</a>]

01:11:16   stuff leadership and management I have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4276">TS</a>]

01:11:17   no time for I've heard too much of it I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4277">TS</a>]

01:11:19   can't talk about it I have literally no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4279">TS</a>]

01:11:22   personal notes about that entire part of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4282">TS</a>]

01:11:24   the book because I could give a crap [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4284">TS</a>]

01:11:26   about the difference between leadership [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4286">TS</a>]

01:11:27   and management yeah right yeah that this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4287">TS</a>]

01:11:30   kind of stuff is like skim skim skim but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4290">TS</a>]

01:11:32   but for me habit 3 but first things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4292">TS</a>]

01:11:35   first this is where when I say my review [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4295">TS</a>]

01:11:36   was one good idea in a thousand pages [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4296">TS</a>]

01:11:38   this is the chapter that to me had the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4298">TS</a>]

01:11:42   one good idea yes and I I you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4302">TS</a>]

01:11:46   wouldn't you know what I'm going for I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4306">TS</a>]

01:11:47   knew you were gonna like this right okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4307">TS</a>]

01:11:49   yeah so I don't know if this is here's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4309">TS</a>]

01:11:53   question I don't know if this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4313">TS</a>]

01:11:54   original to Stephen Covey like I've I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4314">TS</a>]

01:11:56   was I was trying to do a little bit of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4316">TS</a>]

01:11:58   digging of digging around and it seems [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4318">TS</a>]

01:11:59   like this idea predates him but it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4319">TS</a>]

01:12:01   doesn't matter because this is the first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4321">TS</a>]

01:12:02   place that I came across this idea where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4322">TS</a>]

01:12:06   he talks about time management matrix [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4326">TS</a>]

01:12:09   and the time management matrix is this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4329">TS</a>]

01:12:12   four by four grid where you talk about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4332">TS</a>]

01:12:15   all of you everything that you have to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4335">TS</a>]

01:12:18   do you can categorize in a couple of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4338">TS</a>]

01:12:21   ways right you have things that are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4341">TS</a>]

01:12:22   urgent and things that are not urgent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4342">TS</a>]

01:12:25   and you have things that are important [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4345">TS</a>]

01:12:27   and you have things that are not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4347">TS</a>]

01:12:29   important so you can think about your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4349">TS</a>]

01:12:31   tasks in that way and that ends up with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4351">TS</a>]

01:12:34   what he like he labels as these little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4354">TS</a>]

01:12:36   boxes right so like box one is stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4356">TS</a>]

01:12:38   that is urgent and important right and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4358">TS</a>]

01:12:40   then you have like box three is stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4360">TS</a>]

01:12:43   that is urgent but not important and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4363">TS</a>]

01:12:46   can move around all these different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4366">TS</a>]

01:12:47   categories and this is the thing that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4367">TS</a>]

01:12:51   really like because it's a it's a clear [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4371">TS</a>]

01:12:55   way to frame your work that I think is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4375">TS</a>]

01:13:00   non-obvious to lots of people and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4380">TS</a>]

01:13:03   idea that it is so easy to get sucked up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4383">TS</a>]

01:13:07   into work that is urgent but not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4387">TS</a>]

01:13:11   important like this is like this is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4391">TS</a>]

01:13:14   death trap of productivity and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4394">TS</a>]

01:13:17   remember really trying to apply this in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4397">TS</a>]

01:13:20   a whole bunch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4400">TS</a>]

01:13:20   waise and and and really really feeling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4400">TS</a>]

01:13:23   like I get this idea that you know in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4403">TS</a>]

01:13:27   order to make significant progress like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4407">TS</a>]

01:13:29   you're gonna have to drop a bunch of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4409">TS</a>]

01:13:31   stuff that is urgent but not important [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4411">TS</a>]

01:13:34   and instead just focus on the things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4414">TS</a>]

01:13:36   that are not urgent but are important [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4416">TS</a>]

01:13:40   like there's there's trade-offs you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4420">TS</a>]

01:13:42   going to have to let some stuff slide [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4422">TS</a>]

01:13:44   and here is a good matrix for making a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4424">TS</a>]

01:13:47   decision about in the universe of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4427">TS</a>]

01:13:50   infinite number of things that you can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4430">TS</a>]

01:13:52   do these are the things that you should [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4432">TS</a>]

01:13:54   drop and this is the one section of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4434">TS</a>]

01:13:55   book that I think benefits from he has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4435">TS</a>]

01:13:57   more concrete examples here where he's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4437">TS</a>]

01:14:00   talking about like you are having a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4440">TS</a>]

01:14:02   conversation with someone and then the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4442">TS</a>]

01:14:03   phone rings while you're talking to them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4443">TS</a>]

01:14:05   like the phone is the thing that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4445">TS</a>]

01:14:06   urgent right but the person that you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4446">TS</a>]

01:14:08   talking to was important but it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4448">TS</a>]

01:14:10   incredibly hard for almost everybody to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4450">TS</a>]

01:14:12   like resist the the ringing of the phone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4452">TS</a>]

01:14:14   and he goes through a bunch of these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4454">TS</a>]

01:14:16   things I think it's really good and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4456">TS</a>]

01:14:18   also like he you know he's talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4458">TS</a>]

01:14:21   this idea that a lot of these longer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4461">TS</a>]

01:14:25   thing longer term things that you can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4465">TS</a>]

01:14:27   work on that are not urgent but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4467">TS</a>]

01:14:28   important are also the things that give [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4468">TS</a>]

01:14:31   you more time later because like you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4471">TS</a>]

01:14:33   establishing a much more solid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4473">TS</a>]

01:14:35   foundation about how your routine and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4475">TS</a>]

01:14:37   how your work life goes and so this to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4477">TS</a>]

01:14:39   me is like the core of the book is this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4479">TS</a>]

01:14:42   little section which is at the end of of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4482">TS</a>]

01:14:44   habit 3 and I think it's the the most [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4484">TS</a>]

01:14:47   valuable per page section of the book so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4487">TS</a>]

01:14:51   I did really like this I liked the idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4491">TS</a>]

01:14:53   of one of the things that comes out of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4493">TS</a>]

01:14:56   this is learning to be able to say no to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4496">TS</a>]

01:14:58   things right from knowing that you have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4498">TS</a>]

01:15:02   a better yes available to you yeah yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4502">TS</a>]

01:15:06   I loved I mean I've heard a million [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4506">TS</a>]

01:15:08   times and said a million times about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4508">TS</a>]

01:15:10   being able to say no and understanding [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4510">TS</a>]

01:15:12   how they would say no and actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4512">TS</a>]

01:15:14   saying though but the idea of the second [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4514">TS</a>]

01:15:17   part of that which is because you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4517">TS</a>]

01:15:19   there are better yeses available to you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4519">TS</a>]

01:15:21   it's very interesting to me like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4521">TS</a>]

01:15:23   understanding and what is important to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4523">TS</a>]

01:15:25   you so you can help better gauge [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4525">TS</a>]

01:15:28   opportunities like if you get something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4528">TS</a>]

01:15:30   that comes to you which is urgent but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4530">TS</a>]

01:15:32   not important [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4532">TS</a>]

01:15:33   and you can say no to it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4533">TS</a>]

01:15:34   because there might be something that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4534">TS</a>]

01:15:37   urgent and important that you will need [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4537">TS</a>]

01:15:39   to deal with soon and like a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4539">TS</a>]

01:15:40   these like meetings many meetings that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4540">TS</a>]

01:15:43   might come up immediately say no to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4543">TS</a>]

01:15:45   write the qidan maybe don't need to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4545">TS</a>]

01:15:48   at that meeting because you have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4548">TS</a>]

01:15:49   something that you know is gonna be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4549">TS</a>]

01:15:50   there which is important for you so the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4550">TS</a>]

01:15:53   idea of knowing you have better yes is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4553">TS</a>]

01:15:55   available understanding what is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4555">TS</a>]

01:15:57   important to you and what is urgent to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4557">TS</a>]

01:15:58   you and focus on those things and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4558">TS</a>]

01:16:00   finding ways to delegate and or not do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4560">TS</a>]

01:16:03   the other stuff very powerful way of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4563">TS</a>]

01:16:05   thinking about it and you know drawing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4565">TS</a>]

01:16:08   out this grid the time management matrix [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4568">TS</a>]

01:16:10   that he talks about I've drawn it out in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4570">TS</a>]

01:16:13   my Apple notes as he was explaining it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4573">TS</a>]

01:16:14   and I liked the way that that all looked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4574">TS</a>]

01:16:16   it's difficult to explain but simple to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4576">TS</a>]

01:16:18   say and you can find this stuff and I'll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4578">TS</a>]

01:16:20   find some links and put them into the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4580">TS</a>]

01:16:22   notes so you can see what it looks like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4582">TS</a>]

01:16:23   if you can actually see it it starts to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4583">TS</a>]

01:16:25   make a lot more sense the rest of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4585">TS</a>]

01:16:27   chapter though a lot of it may be the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4587">TS</a>]

01:16:30   net like two-thirds of it is talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4590">TS</a>]

01:16:32   about time management methods didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4592">TS</a>]

01:16:34   didn't care it was just happening to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4594">TS</a>]

01:16:36   I'm not interested from 1989 talking to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4596">TS</a>]

01:16:41   me about time management because the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4601">TS</a>]

01:16:43   tools are not the same anymore and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4603">TS</a>]

01:16:46   know some of the fundamental purposes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4606">TS</a>]

01:16:48   and the fundamental ideas will be the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4608">TS</a>]

01:16:50   same but here's at points talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4610">TS</a>]

01:16:52   specific functions and tools and like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4612">TS</a>]

01:16:55   planners and notebooks it's like no like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4615">TS</a>]

01:16:58   I might or might not use something like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4618">TS</a>]

01:16:59   this but there are better systems out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4619">TS</a>]

01:17:01   there now stuff like bullet journaling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4621">TS</a>]

01:17:02   which I'm more interested in looking at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4622">TS</a>]

01:17:05   than listening to Stephen Covey in 1989 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4625">TS</a>]

01:17:07   telling me how to manage my time I feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4627">TS</a>]

01:17:10   like a pre-internet age book is maybe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4630">TS</a>]

01:17:13   not the best place to get this stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4633">TS</a>]

01:17:14   from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4634">TS</a>]

01:17:15   ya know it's not good for this stuff and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4635">TS</a>]

01:17:18   while I do really like that section and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4638">TS</a>]

01:17:20   and you know it's it's maybe like three [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4640">TS</a>]

01:17:22   or four pages where he's going a few how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4642">TS</a>]

01:17:24   to think about this then I feel like oh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4644">TS</a>]

01:17:27   the book the book briefly elevates to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4647">TS</a>]

01:17:29   something good and then it quickly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4649">TS</a>]

01:17:30   descends because at the end that there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4650">TS</a>]

01:17:32   there's a section where where he's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4652">TS</a>]

01:17:34   posing the question to himself about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4654">TS</a>]

01:17:35   like but how do you know what is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4655">TS</a>]

01:17:38   important and like well that's it that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4658">TS</a>]

01:17:39   a good question all right Leila how do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4659">TS</a>]

01:17:41   you know what is important in your life [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4661">TS</a>]

01:17:43   and the answer is your principle Center [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4663">TS</a>]

01:17:46   your self-awareness and your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4666">TS</a>]

01:17:48   consciousness [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4668">TS</a>]

01:17:48   can provide a high degree of intrinsic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4668">TS</a>]

01:17:50   security guidance and wisdom to empower [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4670">TS</a>]

01:17:52   you to use your independent will and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4672">TS</a>]

01:17:55   maintain integrity to that which is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4675">TS</a>]

01:17:57   truly important that's like go to hell [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4677">TS</a>]

01:18:01   man right like there's not an aunt like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4681">TS</a>]

01:18:02   you'll just like this is this is again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4682">TS</a>]

01:18:05   like the recurring theme of like you'll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4685">TS</a>]

01:18:07   just make good decisions like oh you'll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4687">TS</a>]

01:18:09   just know what's truly it was like don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4689">TS</a>]

01:18:12   say anything if you're gonna say that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4692">TS</a>]

01:18:14   because you might as well not say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4694">TS</a>]

01:18:15   anything in a bit but yeah it the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4695">TS</a>]

01:18:19   after that section like the chapter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4699">TS</a>]

01:18:20   rapidly descends and I do have to say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4700">TS</a>]

01:18:23   we're up to we're up to habit 3 and from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4703">TS</a>]

01:18:27   from this point on the book to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4707">TS</a>]

01:18:29   descends rapidly into worthlessness like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4709">TS</a>]

01:18:33   I think 99% of the value is in the first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4713">TS</a>]

01:18:38   three chapters and you could take those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4718">TS</a>]

01:18:40   three first three chapters and decrease [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4720">TS</a>]

01:18:42   them by 75% and get out out from the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4722">TS</a>]

01:18:46   book most of what you're going to get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4726">TS</a>]

01:18:47   out of it okay so I'm mostly agree of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4727">TS</a>]

01:18:50   you and I wonder if this is a thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4730">TS</a>]

01:18:52   about me and you as opposed to the book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4732">TS</a>]

01:18:56   the first three chapters are focus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4736">TS</a>]

01:19:01   mostly on working on your own skills and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4741">TS</a>]

01:19:05   how you make yourself more effective the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4745">TS</a>]

01:19:09   next three are about working with other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4749">TS</a>]

01:19:11   people in what seems to be focused on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4751">TS</a>]

01:19:15   large groups and lots of people and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4755">TS</a>]

01:19:20   think that there is a lot of this stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4760">TS</a>]

01:19:21   which is like how are you more effective [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4761">TS</a>]

01:19:24   in a business meeting with 12 people in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4764">TS</a>]

01:19:26   the room how are you more effective in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4766">TS</a>]

01:19:28   doing a deal with a multinational [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4768">TS</a>]

01:19:30   corporation like things that I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4770">TS</a>]

01:19:33   that me and you have mostly moved away [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4773">TS</a>]

01:19:36   from in our lives because that's not the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4776">TS</a>]

01:19:38   type of work that interests us like we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4778">TS</a>]

01:19:40   are more focused on being independent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4780">TS</a>]

01:19:42   and having our own small businesses as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4782">TS</a>]

01:19:44   opposed to being a cog in an a huge [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4784">TS</a>]

01:19:47   machine which I think habits four or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4787">TS</a>]

01:19:49   five and six seem to focus a lot more on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4789">TS</a>]

01:19:52   like they seem to be really focused on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4792">TS</a>]

01:19:55   working in a corporation that's what I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4795">TS</a>]

01:19:58   trying to get to with this like they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4798">TS</a>]

01:20:01   seem to be way more folk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4801">TS</a>]

01:20:02   on how do you become the best employee [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4802">TS</a>]

01:20:06   out of the 10,000 employees of your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4806">TS</a>]

01:20:09   company and I wonder if maybe me and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4809">TS</a>]

01:20:13   don't take so much because I don't I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4813">TS</a>]

01:20:14   didn't really like all of the stuff that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4814">TS</a>]

01:20:16   I like is in one two and three four five [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4816">TS</a>]

01:20:19   and six there is some nuggets in there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4819">TS</a>]

01:20:21   that are interesting but there is like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4821">TS</a>]

01:20:23   one or two of the inhabits that are just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4823">TS</a>]

01:20:25   completely pointless to me mm-hmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4825">TS</a>]

01:20:27   and I wonder if it's just something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4827">TS</a>]

01:20:29   about how me and you think or if they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4829">TS</a>]

01:20:32   are mostly that way I don't know yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4832">TS</a>]

01:20:35   there is something to that that this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4835">TS</a>]

01:20:36   less focused to us it's funny I didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4836">TS</a>]

01:20:41   so much get the feeling that this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4841">TS</a>]

01:20:43   necessarily part of being a very large [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4843">TS</a>]

01:20:45   group [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4845">TS</a>]

01:20:46   I got obviously the whole point of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4846">TS</a>]

01:20:48   next three is it is about working with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4848">TS</a>]

01:20:50   people but I didn't have that feeling so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4850">TS</a>]

01:20:52   much that it's it's like you're you're a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4852">TS</a>]

01:20:54   cog in this machine [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4854">TS</a>]

01:20:56   maybe it's partly because he's so still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4856">TS</a>]

01:20:58   much incredibly talking about his family [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4858">TS</a>]

01:21:00   like in win-win solutions for him and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4860">TS</a>]

01:21:02   his wife and there is there is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4862">TS</a>]

01:21:03   possibility I'm applying this to things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4863">TS</a>]

01:21:05   that I have experienced yeah that you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4865">TS</a>]

01:21:08   thinking of it in this way but I also I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4868">TS</a>]

01:21:11   also think that it the the like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4871">TS</a>]

01:21:16   ratio of the idea to the practicality of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4876">TS</a>]

01:21:18   it drops to absolutely nothing like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4878">TS</a>]

01:21:21   win-win chapter in particular this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4881">TS</a>]

01:21:23   habit fall think win-win yeah before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4883">TS</a>]

01:21:26   think win-win has some of the most crazy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4886">TS</a>]

01:21:28   stories in in terms of the way to come [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4888">TS</a>]

01:21:33   up with win-win solutions is to have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4893">TS</a>]

01:21:35   great win-win solution for everybody and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4895">TS</a>]

01:21:37   and that's like just over and over again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4897">TS</a>]

01:21:40   where it's like oh there's two people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4900">TS</a>]

01:21:42   who didn't agree but then someone came [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4902">TS</a>]

01:21:43   up with a win-win solution right that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4903">TS</a>]

01:21:45   that's served them both and there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4905">TS</a>]

01:21:46   something that to me that felts like so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4906">TS</a>]

01:21:48   artificially constructed about these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4908">TS</a>]

01:21:50   scenarios and it's like man most of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4910">TS</a>]

01:21:53   time if you're having a real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4913">TS</a>]

01:21:54   disagreement with someone is like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4914">TS</a>]

01:21:56   hard part is finding a win-win solution [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4916">TS</a>]

01:21:58   is not the idea of gee I wish there is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4918">TS</a>]

01:22:01   something that both of us could get out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4921">TS</a>]

01:22:03   of this right like it's it's I found [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4923">TS</a>]

01:22:06   that these next chapters just have very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4926">TS</a>]

01:22:08   very little actionable nacinda minute [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4928">TS</a>]

01:22:09   and it goes into real crazy town of like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4929">TS</a>]

01:22:12   things are good when they're good and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4932">TS</a>]

01:22:14   and do the right stuff there was a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4934">TS</a>]

01:22:18   of habit for think win-win that was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4938">TS</a>]

01:22:21   gibberish to me mostly the amount of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4941">TS</a>]

01:22:24   different win lose lose win lose lose [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4944">TS</a>]

01:22:26   win lose there is it reminding me there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4946">TS</a>]

01:22:32   is a scene in the office I things like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4952">TS</a>]

01:22:33   whole episode oh my god I was thinking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4953">TS</a>]

01:22:36   of the exact same thing yeah I know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4956">TS</a>]

01:22:38   you're talking about when like it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4958">TS</a>]

01:22:40   home they must have got it from this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4960">TS</a>]

01:22:41   book I can't imagine any other way but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4961">TS</a>]

01:22:43   it's the idea is balancing decisions and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4963">TS</a>]

01:22:47   actions in such a way that everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4967">TS</a>]

01:22:48   benefits and that relationships don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4968">TS</a>]

01:22:51   get damaged so you get what you want all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4971">TS</a>]

01:22:53   relationships don't get damaged because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4973">TS</a>]

01:22:55   you've given in to somebody else there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4975">TS</a>]

01:22:57   is something interesting in that which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4977">TS</a>]

01:23:00   is oh it relates to something I did we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4980">TS</a>]

01:23:02   didn't talk about which is the emotional [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4982">TS</a>]

01:23:04   bank account the emotional bank account [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4984">TS</a>]

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01:23:12   however whilst again he goes on way too [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4992">TS</a>]

01:23:15   long talking about this the idea of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/4995">TS</a>]

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01:23:31   deposits to the bank account through [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5011">TS</a>]

01:23:32   doing good things and you make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5012">TS</a>]

01:23:34   withdrawals from the emotional bank [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5014">TS</a>]

01:23:35   account through mistakes that you make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5015">TS</a>]

01:23:37   bad things that you do but they're just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5017">TS</a>]

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01:23:40   deposits that they just take a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5020">TS</a>]

01:23:42   bit from it rather than destroying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5022">TS</a>]

01:23:44   everything this is the emotional bank [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5024">TS</a>]

01:23:45   account again I liked it when he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5025">TS</a>]

01:23:47   proposed it but by the end of the book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5027">TS</a>]

01:23:49   I'd heard it too many times [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5029">TS</a>]

01:23:50   but he applies the win-win idea to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5030">TS</a>]

01:23:53   emotional bank account because if you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5033">TS</a>]

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01:23:56   you may withdraw too much from the bank [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5036">TS</a>]

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01:24:00   kind of idea these two things they marry [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5040">TS</a>]

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01:24:08   everybody remains happy and trustful in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5048">TS</a>]

01:24:11   a relationship of subscription mm-hmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5051">TS</a>]

01:24:13   but the win-win stuff it's like he could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5053">TS</a>]

01:24:16   have actually spoken about it in five [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5056">TS</a>]

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01:25:14   out of somebody you may harm the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5114">TS</a>]

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01:25:31   about this chapter which strikes me as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5131">TS</a>]

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01:27:37   and then everything that I can tag [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5257">TS</a>]

01:27:38   arises podcasts can all go into one bin [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5258">TS</a>]

01:27:40   one to one category no matter what type [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5260">TS</a>]

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01:27:52   way down to hours which is awesome these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5272">TS</a>]

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01:28:37   stop worrying about time and focus on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5317">TS</a>]

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01:28:43   seek first to understand then to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5323">TS</a>]

01:28:46   understood use empathetic listening to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5326">TS</a>]

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01:29:03   that's all this needs to be he explains [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5343">TS</a>]

01:29:05   it pretty well with a nother ludicrous [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5345">TS</a>]

01:29:07   example of how likely everyone in his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5347">TS</a>]

01:29:10   town was a football game and his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5350">TS</a>]

01:29:14   daughter was sick and she was a newborn [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5354">TS</a>]

01:29:17   and there was meta it's like it was this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5357">TS</a>]

01:29:18   wild thing that explains the idea of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5358">TS</a>]

01:29:21   before you try and tell someone what to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5361">TS</a>]

01:29:23   do listen to them first right yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5363">TS</a>]

01:29:26   that's kind of it yeah but it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5366">TS</a>]

01:29:27   massively overblown ethos pathos and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5367">TS</a>]

01:29:30   logos comes up at one point I ain't get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5370">TS</a>]

01:29:33   what that was all about the OL idea of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5373">TS</a>]

01:29:36   empathetic listening is interesting you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5376">TS</a>]

01:29:38   know you you mimic what somebody says [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5378">TS</a>]

01:29:41   rephrase it reflect the feelings right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5381">TS</a>]

01:29:43   so like you listening to what people are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5383">TS</a>]

01:29:44   saying you're showing them that you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5384">TS</a>]

01:29:46   listening by repeating to them what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5386">TS</a>]

01:29:47   they're saying is cetera et cetera [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5387">TS</a>]

01:29:49   there's some interesting stuff in there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5389">TS</a>]

01:29:51   but this has one of the most overblown [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5391">TS</a>]

01:29:56   examples that he gives I've been saving [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5396">TS</a>]

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01:30:01   talking to his son about being a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5401">TS</a>]

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01:30:07   one I'm trying to I'm trying to remember [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5407">TS</a>]

01:30:10   because this one was one of the like I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5410">TS</a>]

01:30:14   skipping the fastest through here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5414">TS</a>]

01:30:16   because I know it's like yeah I'm on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5416">TS</a>]

01:30:18   board with the idea of trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5418">TS</a>]

01:30:19   understand someone before you before you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5419">TS</a>]

01:30:22   do these things and I was I was having a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5422">TS</a>]

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01:30:26   remembering it off the top of my head so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5426">TS</a>]

01:30:28   he he's saying about I think he I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5428">TS</a>]

01:30:31   remember if he's saying this is his son [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5431">TS</a>]

01:30:33   or he's just creating an example right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5433">TS</a>]

01:30:36   of and I think he might mention this at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5436">TS</a>]

01:30:39   one point about a kid who yeah he he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5439">TS</a>]

01:30:43   does actually say like this is one he's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5443">TS</a>]

01:30:45   just posing an idea here right I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5445">TS</a>]

01:30:47   that maybe imagine is something a kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5447">TS</a>]

01:30:49   who comes to their father and doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5449">TS</a>]

01:30:52   want to go to school anymore and says I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5452">TS</a>]

01:30:54   don't want to go to school anymore and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5454">TS</a>]

01:30:56   he plays out his conversation it plays [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5456">TS</a>]

01:30:58   both sides there's conversation and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5458">TS</a>]

01:31:00   kid is like I don't want to go to school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5460">TS</a>]

01:31:02   and it does like what we work for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5462">TS</a>]

01:31:03   to send you to school and like set [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5463">TS</a>]

01:31:05   researcher and he's playing not only [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5465">TS</a>]

01:31:07   both of these people but also this like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5467">TS</a>]

01:31:09   Greek chorus of explaining the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5469">TS</a>]

01:31:12   imagination and mind would about people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5472">TS</a>]

01:31:15   were feeling at this moment of lightning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5475">TS</a>]

01:31:17   and then and then he plays it again but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5477">TS</a>]

01:31:22   speaking both as the PAS as the child [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5482">TS</a>]

01:31:25   but also was the child's in a monologue [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5485">TS</a>]

01:31:29   at that moment of being like he doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5489">TS</a>]

01:31:31   want to listen to me wide right why does [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5491">TS</a>]

01:31:34   he hate me and then plays this other way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5494">TS</a>]

01:31:36   of like if you did it with empathic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5496">TS</a>]

01:31:39   listening how it would improve the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5499">TS</a>]

01:31:42   situation to the point where the kid who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5502">TS</a>]

01:31:45   doesn't want to go to school because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5505">TS</a>]

01:31:47   he's talking about like there's a friend [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5507">TS</a>]

01:31:49   of his or like a friend of a family [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5509">TS</a>]

01:31:50   who's become a mechanic and they've done [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5510">TS</a>]

01:31:52   well and they didn't go to school why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5512">TS</a>]

01:31:53   don't I do that this is like how the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5513">TS</a>]

01:31:55   first two examples of this goes and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5515">TS</a>]

01:31:57   has like being a mechanic is ridiculous [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5517">TS</a>]

01:31:59   you need to go and be a lawyer I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5519">TS</a>]

01:32:00   know why coffee hates mechanic so much [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5520">TS</a>]

01:32:02   but apparently does really hates [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5522">TS</a>]

01:32:07   mechanics it's very strange almost as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5527">TS</a>]

01:32:09   much as he hates television also very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5529">TS</a>]

01:32:11   strange like he's talking about like oh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5531">TS</a>]

01:32:14   don't be a mechanic and then it gets to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5534">TS</a>]

01:32:17   a point where the final way with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5537">TS</a>]

01:32:19   father is using empathic listening the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5539">TS</a>]

01:32:22   kid is explaining oh but you know I want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5542">TS</a>]

01:32:24   to be a mechanic and the kids and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5544">TS</a>]

01:32:26   the dad's like but does Joey have such a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5546">TS</a>]

01:32:28   great life and the kids like I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5548">TS</a>]

01:32:30   know to the point where the kid also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5550">TS</a>]

01:32:32   hates mechanics and he loves school it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5552">TS</a>]

01:32:34   like this isn't how this conversation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5554">TS</a>]

01:32:36   would go it genuinely ends though with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5556">TS</a>]

01:32:39   him saying hmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5559">TS</a>]

01:32:41   owning up to the fact that this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5561">TS</a>]

01:32:43   probably not how this conversation with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5563">TS</a>]

01:32:44   God like that's how he finishes this in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5564">TS</a>]

01:32:46   a 20 minute thing and he's like I know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5566">TS</a>]

01:32:49   it's like I have created this example [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5569">TS</a>]

01:32:50   and I know maybe this isn't how we'll go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5570">TS</a>]

01:32:53   and there are a bunch of different ways [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5573">TS</a>]

01:32:54   that it could go but this is how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5574">TS</a>]

01:32:55   empathic listening might help like oh my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5575">TS</a>]

01:32:57   god this is so ridiculous that he can't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5577">TS</a>]

01:33:00   even finish it by owning like by like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5580">TS</a>]

01:33:03   owning it he has to loan up to the fact [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5583">TS</a>]

01:33:05   that this is probably not how this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5585">TS</a>]

01:33:07   conversation would play out like why are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5587">TS</a>]

01:33:09   we doing this then this this was one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5589">TS</a>]

01:33:13   the most wild in the book like I really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5593">TS</a>]

01:33:16   unlike listening to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5596">TS</a>]

01:33:17   and I just couldn't understand why he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5597">TS</a>]

01:33:19   felt the requirement to do it in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5599">TS</a>]

01:33:21   way yeah I remember now going through [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5601">TS</a>]

01:33:24   this and just being confused at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5604">TS</a>]

01:33:27   multiple for like I just I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5607">TS</a>]

01:33:29   understand what's happening here like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5609">TS</a>]

01:33:31   it's just listening through this thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5611">TS</a>]

01:33:32   and my brains not fully paying attention [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5612">TS</a>]

01:33:34   it's like wait a minute is it the same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5614">TS</a>]

01:33:36   story again like am I going senile or is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5616">TS</a>]

01:33:38   he going see like I just remember this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5618">TS</a>]

01:33:40   being like a weird a weird confusing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5620">TS</a>]

01:33:42   masses like is there some kind of art [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5622">TS</a>]

01:33:44   project happening in the middle of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5624">TS</a>]

01:33:45   book like I don't I don't get it habit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5625">TS</a>]

01:33:48   six synergize oh this is maximum crazy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5628">TS</a>]

01:33:55   this is maximum crazy in the book this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5635">TS</a>]

01:33:58   is where it goes off the rails in just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5638">TS</a>]

01:34:01   an amazing way because here Stephen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5641">TS</a>]

01:34:04   Covey is is trying to say like synergy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5644">TS</a>]

01:34:06   is the result of all the things that we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5646">TS</a>]

01:34:08   have talked about before and so it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5648">TS</a>]

01:34:10   like you know all these buzz words like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5650">TS</a>]

01:34:12   we're bringing them all back people like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5652">TS</a>]

01:34:13   and they're all gonna be in a row and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5653">TS</a>]

01:34:15   we're gonna talk about all of them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5655">TS</a>]

01:34:16   together and and this to me this chapter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5656">TS</a>]

01:34:18   is maximum crazy like his definitions of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5658">TS</a>]

01:34:23   synergy his stories there's one story at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5663">TS</a>]

01:34:27   the end that I particularly like but but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5667">TS</a>]

01:34:29   yeah this this one is this one is rough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5669">TS</a>]

01:34:31   I think there is not a single sentence [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5671">TS</a>]

01:34:35   no value in the entire chapter so the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5675">TS</a>]

01:34:38   idea of habit six is to combine the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5678">TS</a>]

01:34:41   strengths of people through positive [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5681">TS</a>]

01:34:42   teamwork so as to achieve goals that no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5682">TS</a>]

01:34:44   one could have done alone all right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5684">TS</a>]

01:34:46   it's not compromised by the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5686">TS</a>]

01:34:48   compromise is not synergy no no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5688">TS</a>]

01:34:50   compromise is not synergy compromise is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5690">TS</a>]

01:34:52   one plus one equals one and a half Mike [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5692">TS</a>]

01:34:54   okay let me try to explain this I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5694">TS</a>]

01:34:57   know how I'm going to be able to so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5697">TS</a>]

01:34:59   apparently synergy is when the whole is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5699">TS</a>]

01:35:02   greater than the sum of its parts in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5702">TS</a>]

01:35:03   synergy you could get one plus one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5703">TS</a>]

01:35:06   equals three or as he says one plus one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5706">TS</a>]

01:35:09   equals ten or ten thousand or 50,000 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5709">TS</a>]

01:35:13   what are you doing like if you lost your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5713">TS</a>]

01:35:15   mind why are you saying these numbers [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5715">TS</a>]

01:35:17   but compromising is not synergy it is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5717">TS</a>]

01:35:20   lower form of win-win if you compromise [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5720">TS</a>]

01:35:22   it's like one plus one equals 1.5 which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5722">TS</a>]

01:35:26   to be honest still sounds pretty good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5726">TS</a>]

01:35:27   because it's you know like whatever but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5727">TS</a>]

01:35:29   one plus one equals one point five [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5729">TS</a>]

01:35:31   one but synergizing is one plus one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5731">TS</a>]

01:35:33   equals three [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5733">TS</a>]

01:35:34   now dear listener if you do not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5734">TS</a>]

01:35:36   understand this that's fine because I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5736">TS</a>]

01:35:38   don't either [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5738">TS</a>]

01:35:39   I don't know what the difference is and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5739">TS</a>]

01:35:41   I've and I've listened to the whole book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5741">TS</a>]

01:35:42   just to be I mean just to be clear quote [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5742">TS</a>]

01:35:45   synergy is the essence of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5745">TS</a>]

01:35:47   principle-centered leadership it is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5747">TS</a>]

01:35:48   essence of principle centered parenting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5748">TS</a>]

01:35:50   it catalyzes unifies and unleashes the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5750">TS</a>]

01:35:53   greatest powers within people all the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5753">TS</a>]

01:35:55   habits we have covered us prepare us to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5755">TS</a>]

01:35:57   create the miracle of synergy which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5757">TS</a>]

01:36:00   which is just like algebra new algebra [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5760">TS</a>]

01:36:02   rules and yeah it's the the chapter is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5762">TS</a>]

01:36:06   amazing he's really obsessed with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5766">TS</a>]

01:36:08   idea of constantly referring to one plus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5768">TS</a>]

01:36:12   one equal in some other number like this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5772">TS</a>]

01:36:15   is this is his constant go-to with what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5775">TS</a>]

01:36:17   synergy means in this chapter - one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5777">TS</a>]

01:36:20   my one of my favorite little stories [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5780">TS</a>]

01:36:22   here which is it's almost like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5782">TS</a>]

01:36:25   checkmate meme on the internet like it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5785">TS</a>]

01:36:27   like happening in real conversation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5787">TS</a>]

01:36:29   where I don't know if you remember but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5789">TS</a>]

01:36:30   he's he's talking to a guy who's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5790">TS</a>]

01:36:32   doubting the concept of synergy so again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5792">TS</a>]

01:36:37   as with all of these stories it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5797">TS</a>]

01:36:39   somehow it's somehow quickly turns to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5799">TS</a>]

01:36:40   marriage and family everything is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5800">TS</a>]

01:36:42   marriage and family but so some someone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5802">TS</a>]

01:36:44   is doubting that this this magic of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5804">TS</a>]

01:36:46   synergy exists - steven covey oh god I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5806">TS</a>]

01:36:49   just remembered it yes so good yeah and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5809">TS</a>]

01:36:54   so so I think he turn he turns to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5814">TS</a>]

01:36:58   guy and and the book says like I looked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5818">TS</a>]

01:37:01   at the two of them so it's the guy and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5821">TS</a>]

01:37:03   his wife yeah cuz yeah that this guy is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5823">TS</a>]

01:37:04   having that they're having problems in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5824">TS</a>]

01:37:07   their relationship and for some reason [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5827">TS</a>]

01:37:08   so he meets this guy obviously at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5828">TS</a>]

01:37:10   end of a conference and he invites [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5830">TS</a>]

01:37:12   coffee to go to lunch with him and his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5832">TS</a>]

01:37:14   wife so he can listen to the way that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5834">TS</a>]

01:37:17   they communicate yeah yeah right and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5837">TS</a>]

01:37:20   and this is this is also a thing that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5840">TS</a>]

01:37:21   don't have a whole lot of tolerance for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5841">TS</a>]

01:37:23   words like a lot of weird 1980 science [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5843">TS</a>]

01:37:25   about the concept of left versus right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5845">TS</a>]

01:37:26   brain beautiful under how you'd feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5846">TS</a>]

01:37:28   about that yeah he's like he's a really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5848">TS</a>]

01:37:30   left brain person that used a really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5850">TS</a>]

01:37:31   right brain person and like this is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5851">TS</a>]

01:37:33   weird idea that still still infects [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5853">TS</a>]

01:37:35   educational pedagogy today and like all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5855">TS</a>]

01:37:38   of the stuff that this is based on is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5858">TS</a>]

01:37:39   non replicable in his nonsense oh it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5859">TS</a>]

01:37:40   like okay whatever so but so steven [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5860">TS</a>]

01:37:42   covey like professional psychologist PhD [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5862">TS</a>]

01:37:45   like oh these these are his aligner he's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5865">TS</a>]

01:37:47   like oh these are these are two half [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5867">TS</a>]

01:37:49   bringing people living together like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5869">TS</a>]

01:37:50   that they're having a hard time talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5870">TS</a>]

01:37:51   and he says like you guys need to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5871">TS</a>]

01:37:54   more synergistic in there and they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5874">TS</a>]

01:37:55   saying I don't understand what you mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5875">TS</a>]

01:37:56   by by synergy and so the again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5876">TS</a>]

01:37:59   resolution to fix this guy's marriage [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5879">TS</a>]

01:38:01   here's how it goes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5881">TS</a>]

01:38:02   Stephen Covey says do you have any [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5882">TS</a>]

01:38:05   children [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5885">TS</a>]

01:38:05   I asked yes - really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5885">TS</a>]

01:38:09   I asked incredulously which feels a bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5889">TS</a>]

01:38:11   presumptuous there he's and then super [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5891">TS</a>]

01:38:15   so Stephen Covey says how did you do it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5895">TS</a>]

01:38:18   and they said what do you mean how did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5898">TS</a>]

01:38:21   we do it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5901">TS</a>]

01:38:21   you were synergistic I said one plus one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5901">TS</a>]

01:38:25   usually equals two but you made one plus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5905">TS</a>]

01:38:28   one equals four [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5908">TS</a>]

01:38:29   now that's synergy the whole is greater [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5909">TS</a>]

01:38:31   than the sum of the parts and it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5911">TS</a>]

01:38:34   you're just counting things like it's so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5914">TS</a>]

01:38:37   yeah well it's not like these people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5917">TS</a>]

01:38:40   they can't communicate they struggle to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5920">TS</a>]

01:38:42   communicate they seem to kind of not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5922">TS</a>]

01:38:44   really like each other very much anymore [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5924">TS</a>]

01:38:45   yeah for some reason you fixed it by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5925">TS</a>]

01:38:47   saying they hate kids ten years ago like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5927">TS</a>]

01:38:49   I don't understand right the solution [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5929">TS</a>]

01:38:52   yeah so this this this is just maximum [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5932">TS</a>]

01:38:56   crazy in this chapter like it doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5936">TS</a>]

01:38:58   make any sense like in his mind people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5938">TS</a>]

01:39:00   can only have children if they're in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5940">TS</a>]

01:39:02   healthy functional relationship yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5942">TS</a>]

01:39:04   that that is like that is a good way to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5944">TS</a>]

01:39:06   put it like he's he's like but your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5946">TS</a>]

01:39:07   children are here like well I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5947">TS</a>]

01:39:08   understand that what why do you have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5948">TS</a>]

01:39:10   problem don't you understand that if you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5950">TS</a>]

01:39:11   have children that shows that you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5951">TS</a>]

01:39:14   you're great together it's like I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5954">TS</a>]

01:39:15   know man even from your telling of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5955">TS</a>]

01:39:17   story it sounds like maybe they should [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5957">TS</a>]

01:39:18   get divorced like for the minuses like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5958">TS</a>]

01:39:25   can he do one minus one equals negative [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5965">TS</a>]

01:39:29   B a plus like somehow in his mind one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5969">TS</a>]

01:39:33   minus one would be 2 million or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5973">TS</a>]

01:39:35   something yeah toughing hates math like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5975">TS</a>]

01:39:38   he hates TV he at some point goes into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5978">TS</a>]

01:39:41   this run and I don't know where exactly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5981">TS</a>]

01:39:43   it is mm-hmm he is talking about how TV [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5983">TS</a>]

01:39:47   is mostly bad for us and there are some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5987">TS</a>]

01:39:49   educational shows that are good and we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5989">TS</a>]

01:39:53   watch 40 hours a week of TV somehow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5993">TS</a>]

01:39:57   in his household they watch seven hours [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5997">TS</a>]

01:39:59   a week and everybody is happy with that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/5999">TS</a>]

01:40:01   like not really sure why he gets into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6001">TS</a>]

01:40:05   this but like he seems to feel that like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6005">TS</a>]

01:40:08   TV is a plague on society it's very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6008">TS</a>]

01:40:11   strange yeah yeah they're a bunch of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6011">TS</a>]

01:40:14   just digs out of nowhere at TV oh I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6014">TS</a>]

01:40:17   actually think it is in habit 7 which is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6017">TS</a>]

01:40:19   called sharpen the saw so habit 7 is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6019">TS</a>]

01:40:22   about the continued improvement of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6022">TS</a>]

01:40:25   other habits so it is taking everything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6025">TS</a>]

01:40:27   that you have making and continuing over [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6027">TS</a>]

01:40:30   your life to build and renew resources [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6030">TS</a>]

01:40:32   energy and improve your health to create [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6032">TS</a>]

01:40:34   a sustainable long-term effective [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6034">TS</a>]

01:40:36   lifestyle and you have to be able to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6036">TS</a>]

01:40:38   sharpen the saw and make your life good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6038">TS</a>]

01:40:41   so you can live the rest of the habits [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6041">TS</a>]

01:40:43   and it brings it all together and this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6043">TS</a>]

01:40:44   is broken down into three major parts [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6044">TS</a>]

01:40:46   which is physical renewal which is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6046">TS</a>]

01:40:48   exercising something kind of referred to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6048">TS</a>]

01:40:50   as good service which can be considered [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6050">TS</a>]

01:40:52   as prayer or meditation or helping in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6052">TS</a>]

01:40:55   your community and mental renewal which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6055">TS</a>]

01:40:57   is reading this is where he talks about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6057">TS</a>]

01:40:59   the problem of TV because he believes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6059">TS</a>]

01:41:01   that people should be reading all the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6061">TS</a>]

01:41:02   time right yeah yeah it's the reading on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6062">TS</a>]

01:41:06   there yeah I had nothing about this one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6066">TS</a>]

01:41:09   this one I it was just because by this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6069">TS</a>]

01:41:11   point the technical debt that he is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6071">TS</a>]

01:41:13   created with the phrases and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6073">TS</a>]

01:41:15   buzzwords is almost monumental oh yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6075">TS</a>]

01:41:19   there was a point in this book where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6079">TS</a>]

01:41:21   it's like you just said 50 words and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6081">TS</a>]

01:41:23   think you created 15 of them like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6083">TS</a>]

01:41:25   don't understand what you're talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6085">TS</a>]

01:41:28   about anymore because intro dependence [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6088">TS</a>]

01:41:32   and interdependence you use both of them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6092">TS</a>]

01:41:34   and I sometimes don't know which one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6094">TS</a>]

01:41:36   you're talking about at this point and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6096">TS</a>]

01:41:41   he's trying to sum up too many things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6101">TS</a>]

01:41:43   that he's created yeah it it doesn't it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6103">TS</a>]

01:41:46   doesn't work anymore [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6106">TS</a>]

01:41:47   it's like TLDR go to the gym and take [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6107">TS</a>]

01:41:52   care of your mind yeah yeah like that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6112">TS</a>]

01:41:54   that that's the end of it with no real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6114">TS</a>]

01:41:57   practical advice on anything and it's I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6117">TS</a>]

01:42:00   think there's actually a very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6120">TS</a>]

01:42:01   interesting question around this this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6121">TS</a>]

01:42:04   idea which he doesn't touch it all but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6124">TS</a>]

01:42:07   it's like you could have a much more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6127">TS</a>]

01:42:08   interesting conversation around this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6128">TS</a>]

01:42:09   because I feel like this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6129">TS</a>]

01:42:10   a thing in them in the modern world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6130">TS</a>]

01:42:12   which is the concept of burnout like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6132">TS</a>]

01:42:14   people never taking time you know it to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6134">TS</a>]

01:42:17   have breaks or to regenerates [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6137">TS</a>]

01:42:21   intellectual capital like or build [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6141">TS</a>]

01:42:22   themselves back up but it's like there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6142">TS</a>]

01:42:25   there could be something interesting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6145">TS</a>]

01:42:27   here about constantly working is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6147">TS</a>]

01:42:30   depleting a resource and you you have to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6150">TS</a>]

01:42:32   be aware of rebuilding that resource in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6152">TS</a>]

01:42:34   times off it is like there's no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6154">TS</a>]

01:42:36   discussion of that it's just continually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6156">TS</a>]

01:42:39   additive like you you're you're adding [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6159">TS</a>]

01:42:41   all of these habits and all of these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6161">TS</a>]

01:42:44   activities into your life and they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6164">TS</a>]

01:42:45   like and now on top of it like we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6165">TS</a>]

01:42:46   going to add all of this community [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6166">TS</a>]

01:42:49   service like and you're also going to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6169">TS</a>]

01:42:50   reading and you're going to be going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6170">TS</a>]

01:42:51   the gym and it just at this point it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6171">TS</a>]

01:42:53   almost feels like overwhelming the sheer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6173">TS</a>]

01:42:55   number of things that a person would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6175">TS</a>]

01:42:57   have to do to maintain all of this so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6177">TS</a>]

01:43:00   yeah it's there could be a good idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6180">TS</a>]

01:43:02   here but this this chapter is like it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6182">TS</a>]

01:43:04   at the end and you just feel like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6184">TS</a>]

01:43:07   can't I can't go on alright please [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6187">TS</a>]

01:43:09   please just please make it end please [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6189">TS</a>]

01:43:11   make it end and that is it that's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6191">TS</a>]

01:43:13   seven Habits I maintain I want to summer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6193">TS</a>]

01:43:16   I want to maintain III did find use in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6196">TS</a>]

01:43:18   this book and I get excited to talk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6198">TS</a>]

01:43:20   about the bad things cuz it's funny [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6200">TS</a>]

01:43:21   right to talk about the terrible things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6201">TS</a>]

01:43:23   with you but I do think there are some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6203">TS</a>]

01:43:25   interesting things in this book that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6205">TS</a>]

01:43:27   am gonna take with me you know the idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6207">TS</a>]

01:43:29   of be thinking about being proactive and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6209">TS</a>]

01:43:32   understanding the language that I use [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6212">TS</a>]

01:43:34   and how it affects things thinking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6214">TS</a>]

01:43:36   how I want to be remembered [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6216">TS</a>]

01:43:38   thinking about training made me create a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6218">TS</a>]

01:43:39   personal mission statement and what that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6219">TS</a>]

01:43:41   might look like as a way to sum up how I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6221">TS</a>]

01:43:43   want my life to go before me thinking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6223">TS</a>]

01:43:46   about things that are important and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6226">TS</a>]

01:43:48   urgent and how I delegate and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6228">TS</a>]

01:43:49   emotional bank account like these are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6229">TS</a>]

01:43:51   things that I find genuinely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6231">TS</a>]

01:43:53   thought-provoking um in a way that a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6233">TS</a>]

01:43:56   of these business books don't have the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6236">TS</a>]

01:43:58   ability to make me think about so many [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6238">TS</a>]

01:44:00   things as this one has done mmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6240">TS</a>]

01:44:02   so I having read this book I can see why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6242">TS</a>]

01:44:06   it had been so popular because there are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6246">TS</a>]

01:44:11   things in here that are interesting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6251">TS</a>]

01:44:12   thirty years later to me right this book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6252">TS</a>]

01:44:16   is thirty nearly thirty years old and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6256">TS</a>]

01:44:19   think that there is some genuinely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6259">TS</a>]

01:44:21   interesting stuff in this book [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6261">TS</a>]

01:44:23   but there is also as of all of these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6263">TS</a>]

01:44:26   books a lot of nonsense just real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6266">TS</a>]

01:44:30   nonsense but and unfortunately these two [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6270">TS</a>]

01:44:34   ideas are not real these two things are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6274">TS</a>]

01:44:36   not really mixed together it's like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6276">TS</a>]

01:44:38   first half is good and the second half [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6278">TS</a>]

01:44:39   is crazy which is you know they didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6279">TS</a>]

01:44:43   mix it up so it kind of lost me yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6283">TS</a>]

01:44:45   yeah I I have to hard not recommend this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6285">TS</a>]

01:44:50   book to anybody I just think for anybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6290">TS</a>]

01:44:54   who is trying to improve their life it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6294">TS</a>]

01:44:56   just it's too much to slog through it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6296">TS</a>]

01:44:58   it's too incoherent and while this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6298">TS</a>]

01:45:03   the foundation of very many of books in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6303">TS</a>]

01:45:06   this genre I think you're probably [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6306">TS</a>]

01:45:08   better off picking up you know something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6308">TS</a>]

01:45:12   that is written that is more modern [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6312">TS</a>]

01:45:13   which may be ripping off the ideas of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6313">TS</a>]

01:45:15   this book but but doing it in a more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6315">TS</a>]

01:45:17   coherent and constructive manner so as I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6317">TS</a>]

01:45:20   just I cannot recommend this one because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6320">TS</a>]

01:45:22   the crazy is just it's too much and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6322">TS</a>]

01:45:26   book is so long it's such a big ask to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6326">TS</a>]

01:45:29   have somebody go go through with it I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6329">TS</a>]

01:45:31   just I can never imagine a situation in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6331">TS</a>]

01:45:33   which I would recommend to anybody to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6333">TS</a>]

01:45:34   read this book like again I haven't read [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6334">TS</a>]

01:45:37   anything further there are more books in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6337">TS</a>]

01:45:40   this idea like created by the Covey [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6340">TS</a>]

01:45:42   company that could be better right like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6342">TS</a>]

01:45:45   they could be more updated they could be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6345">TS</a>]

01:45:46   more abbreviated which might be better [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6346">TS</a>]

01:45:49   but yeah I agree that like I said there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6349">TS</a>]

01:45:53   are interesting things here I recommend [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6353">TS</a>]

01:45:54   trying to find something that builds [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+EtBmbEyns/6354">TS</a>]

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