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00:00:21 ◼ ► hi Merlin how's it going good seems like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/21">TS</a>]
00:00:26 ◼ ► it's been a long time since I've talked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/26">TS</a>]
00:00:32 ◼ ► August is complicated oh sorry I'm a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/32">TS</a>]
00:00:38 ◼ ► little bit behind my skis here I got a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/38">TS</a>]
00:00:43 ◼ ► late start I just left the house late I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/43">TS</a>]
00:00:45 ◼ ► didn't time it well today yeah I see I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/45">TS</a>]
00:00:48 ◼ ► see what you're saying but I'm here you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/48">TS</a>]
00:00:49 ◼ ► you were here before me so you know you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/49">TS</a>]
00:00:53 ◼ ► well yeah I'm just you know I don't need [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/53">TS</a>]
00:00:56 ◼ ► your stinking badges well it's so nice I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/56">TS</a>]
00:01:01 ◼ ► something right I do have a box for the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/61">TS</a>]
00:01:03 ◼ ► bet I have a box for badges there's some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/63">TS</a>]
00:01:05 ◼ ► other recent badges that you've gotten [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/65">TS</a>]
00:01:07 ◼ ► any kind of it could be a major or minor [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/67">TS</a>]
00:01:10 ◼ ► award any kind of just being recognized [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/70">TS</a>]
00:01:14 ◼ ► have you gotten any ribbons or ribbons I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/74">TS</a>]
00:01:17 ◼ ► do I have a recent ribbon for you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/77">TS</a>]
00:01:20 ◼ ► my King Neptune came with a sash various [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/80">TS</a>]
00:01:25 ◼ ► sort of adornments but but also like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/85">TS</a>]
00:01:28 ◼ ► ribbon with a star on it that looks kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/88">TS</a>]
00:01:30 ◼ ► of like a type of metal you would get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/90">TS</a>]
00:01:32 ◼ ► from the king of Belgium oh wow and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/92">TS</a>]
00:01:35 ◼ ► goes great on a blazer and you can wear [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/95">TS</a>]
00:01:37 ◼ ► it without you know you show up to a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/97">TS</a>]
00:01:39 ◼ ► party in a sash and it's it's like I've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/99">TS</a>]
00:01:43 ◼ ► always loved that in like in older [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/103">TS</a>]
00:01:46 ◼ ► movies especially I'm thinking movies up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/106">TS</a>]
00:01:49 ◼ ► through the 70s and the 80s probably but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/109">TS</a>]
00:01:53 ◼ ► thinking I'm going all the way back to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/113">TS</a>]
00:01:54 ◼ ► something like maybe duck soup where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/114">TS</a>]
00:01:55 ◼ ► you've got like somebody who's going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/115">TS</a>]
00:01:57 ◼ ► be a how do you how does one put this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/117">TS</a>]
00:02:00 ◼ ► represents some primitive country [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/120">TS</a>]
00:02:03 ◼ ► aha so but like so whether that's a guy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/123">TS</a>]
00:02:05 ◼ ► from Asia or Africa or whatever I love I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/125">TS</a>]
00:02:08 ◼ ► love the blending of something local [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/128">TS</a>]
00:02:12 ◼ ► thing incredibly Western so to be like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/132">TS</a>]
00:02:14 ◼ ► guy like a cool Sufi turban guy like but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/134">TS</a>]
00:02:17 ◼ ► with a suit jacket you know I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/137">TS</a>]
00:02:19 ◼ ► that's a good look especially for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/139">TS</a>]
00:02:20 ◼ ► villain that's a great great look and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/140">TS</a>]
00:02:22 ◼ ► there's nothing wrong with that and some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/142">TS</a>]
00:02:24 ◼ ► epaulets and and some ribbons to that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/144">TS</a>]
00:02:26 ◼ ► and a little bit of an ornamental star [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/146">TS</a>]
00:02:28 ◼ ► yeah the colonial like sort of pomp [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/148">TS</a>]
00:02:34 ◼ ► eight jacket somebody who's like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/154">TS</a>]
00:02:37 ◼ ► know who's let's say they're a member of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/157">TS</a>]
00:02:39 ◼ ► the they're of a common what would you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/159">TS</a>]
00:02:42 ◼ ► be you're a subject a subject of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/162">TS</a>]
00:02:44 ◼ ► Commonwealth yeah what who not it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/164">TS</a>]
00:02:50 ◼ ► yeah - okay okay you could be like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/170">TS</a>]
00:02:56 ◼ ► grand mage of the Duchy of Portlandia [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/176">TS</a>]
00:03:01 ◼ ► Portlandia what's the matter what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/181">TS</a>]
00:03:04 ◼ ► no no I just I'm I'm I'm realizing I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/184">TS</a>]
00:03:10 ◼ ► don't get enough sleep pretty strongly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/190">TS</a>]
00:03:17 ◼ ► pretty strongly right now right in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/197">TS</a>]
00:03:19 ◼ ► very moment hmm right just him like I as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/199">TS</a>]
00:03:23 ◼ ► I was setting up for the show I was like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/203">TS</a>]
00:03:24 ◼ ► I'm fine right right I'm fine I've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/204">TS</a>]
00:03:27 ◼ ► gotten enough sleep yes enough enough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/207">TS</a>]
00:03:32 ◼ ► sleep talk about the show on the show [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/212">TS</a>]
00:03:37 ◼ ► but we should mention something to our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/217">TS</a>]
00:03:38 ◼ ► listeners may I mention something to our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/218">TS</a>]
00:03:39 ◼ ► listeners passingly personal no for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/219">TS</a>]
00:03:44 ◼ ► very long time I'm gonna talk about the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/224">TS</a>]
00:03:46 ◼ ► show on the show for a minute because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/226">TS</a>]
00:03:47 ◼ ► everything that's on the show is in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/227">TS</a>]
00:03:48 ◼ ► show okay so here's it's good and I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/228">TS</a>]
00:03:53 ◼ ► addressing adjusting I'm addressing our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/233">TS</a>]
00:03:56 ◼ ► listeners you're definitely never want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/236">TS</a>]
00:03:58 ◼ ► to address in them I'm going to address [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/238">TS</a>]
00:04:00 ◼ ► in them this one time I'm donning my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/240">TS</a>]
00:04:03 ◼ ► I missed my Sufi blazer for a very long [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/243">TS</a>]
00:04:09 ◼ ► time John Roderick and I have recorded [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/249">TS</a>]
00:04:12 ◼ ► this program hmm sometimes we reschedule [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/252">TS</a>]
00:04:16 ◼ ► but like pretty consistently every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/256">TS</a>]
00:04:18 ◼ ► Monday at 10:00 a.m. Pacific time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/258">TS</a>]
00:04:23 ◼ ► whatever that's that you got a saving or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/263">TS</a>]
00:04:25 ◼ ► they like we recorded at 10:00 and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/265">TS</a>]
00:04:28 ◼ ► I put the show pretty quickly after that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/268">TS</a>]
00:04:30 ◼ ► you were you were doing the kinds of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/270">TS</a>]
00:04:34 ◼ ► things one does toward the end of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/274">TS</a>]
00:04:35 ◼ ► summer rejiggering your schedule getting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/275">TS</a>]
00:04:37 ◼ ► things straightened out and you asked me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/277">TS</a>]
00:04:38 ◼ ► something that I found shocking given [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/278">TS</a>]
00:04:42 ◼ ► that we don't always start exactly at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/282">TS</a>]
00:04:43 ◼ ► 10:00 for a variety of reasons but you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/283">TS</a>]
00:04:46 ◼ ► said to me that you wanted to start [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/286">TS</a>]
00:04:48 ◼ ► recording our program 1 hour earlier on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/288">TS</a>]
00:04:51 ◼ ► Mondays at 9:00 a.m. Pacific Terrace and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/291">TS</a>]
00:04:55 ◼ ► as is so often the case off air with you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/295">TS</a>]
00:04:57 ◼ ► I said yeah you did you said exactly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/297">TS</a>]
00:05:02 ◼ ► that's kinda said that about a couple [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/302">TS</a>]
00:05:03 ◼ ► things in the past and that was one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/303">TS</a>]
00:05:06 ◼ ► them I said yeah you sure you want to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/306">TS</a>]
00:05:08 ◼ ► that and you were you were uh you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/308">TS</a>]
00:05:12 ◼ ► weren't having it do you were like yes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/312">TS</a>]
00:05:14 ◼ ► this is a thing that I want to do I want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/314">TS</a>]
00:05:15 ◼ ► to be a person who is who is up earlier [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/315">TS</a>]
00:05:17 ◼ ► you have things to do and this would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/317">TS</a>]
00:05:18 ◼ ► help you conduct your life in a better [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/318">TS</a>]
00:05:20 ◼ ► way if we started recording the show [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/320">TS</a>]
00:05:22 ◼ ► earlier yeah and I said sure and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/322">TS</a>]
00:05:25 ◼ ► know what so far it's gone pretty well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/325">TS</a>]
00:05:27 ◼ ► yeah now here's the yeah yeah here's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/327">TS</a>]
00:05:30 ◼ ► other thing I want to address in you I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/330">TS</a>]
00:05:32 ◼ ► know what you're talking about because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/332">TS</a>]
00:05:34 ◼ ► my most of the things all the great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/334">TS</a>]
00:05:36 ◼ ► shows in which I am involved with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/336">TS</a>]
00:05:40 ◼ ► exception of the show with our friend [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/340">TS</a>]
00:05:41 ◼ ► Jon Stewart Kisa all the programs I do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/341">TS</a>]
00:05:42 ◼ ► start recording usually 11 10 9 a.m. and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/342">TS</a>]
00:05:48 ◼ ► thing is I have all the great a.m. all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/348">TS</a>]
00:05:51 ◼ ► the great names and I'll say to myself [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/351">TS</a>]
00:05:52 ◼ ► I'll say you know you're fine you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/352">TS</a>]
00:05:54 ◼ ► good you've had a coffee and then the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/354">TS</a>]
00:05:56 ◼ ► time for talking mouths words starts and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/356">TS</a>]
00:05:59 ◼ ► I realize I'm not really ready so I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/359">TS</a>]
00:06:03 ◼ ► guess my question as I address in you is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/363">TS</a>]
00:06:06 ◼ ► do you regret the change would it would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/366">TS</a>]
00:06:09 ◼ ► have made any as Todd as Todd Rundgren [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/369">TS</a>]
00:06:11 ◼ ► asked the musical question would it have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/371">TS</a>]
00:06:14 ◼ ► made any difference do you feel like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/374">TS</a>]
00:06:22 ◼ ► Peter Frampton but close enough no it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/382">TS</a>]
00:06:25 ◼ ► Lundgren Lundgren he's that guy Sufi [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/385">TS</a>]
00:06:30 ◼ ► Todd Lundgren he's the one that wants [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/390">TS</a>]
00:06:35 ◼ ► difference if you really love me today [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/395">TS</a>]
00:06:41 ◼ ► you know we can go back to ten we could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/401">TS</a>]
00:06:44 ◼ ► make it 11 we could do it at night big [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/404">TS</a>]
00:06:51 ◼ ► coffee and now the Stewart's fountain [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/411">TS</a>]
00:06:53 ◼ ► classic orange and cream flavored soda I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/413">TS</a>]
00:06:58 ◼ ► wish that I was so far into my day that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/418">TS</a>]
00:07:01 ◼ ► an orange soda was even possible yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/421">TS</a>]
00:07:03 ◼ ► as you were talking that not that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/423">TS</a>]
00:07:07 ◼ ► wasn't you know like really right on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/427">TS</a>]
00:07:10 ◼ ► rails of the of everything you were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/430">TS</a>]
00:07:12 ◼ ► saying but also I was like when did I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/432">TS</a>]
00:07:14 ◼ ► send my last text last night we talked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/434">TS</a>]
00:07:19 ◼ ► at 9:05 Pacific time you and I did yes I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/439">TS</a>]
00:07:24 ◼ ► know fuck but I get my traditional [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/444">TS</a>]
00:07:26 ◼ ► reminding my traditional reminding of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/446">TS</a>]
00:07:29 ◼ ► the show yeah and that's great that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/449">TS</a>]
00:07:31 ◼ ► do that you're like remember was it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/451">TS</a>]
00:07:33 ◼ ► it great it's not annoying it's still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/453">TS</a>]
00:07:36 ◼ ► wonderful because it makes certain that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/456">TS</a>]
00:07:40 ◼ ► it makes certain that we do that I know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/460">TS</a>]
00:07:43 ◼ ► that we keep the skis on the rails [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/463">TS</a>]
00:07:45 ◼ ► though we keep the skis on the rails and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/465">TS</a>]
00:07:47 ◼ ► so the last text I said last night was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/467">TS</a>]
00:07:50 ◼ ► at 3:37 a.m. what and then I got a text [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/470">TS</a>]
00:07:56 ◼ ► I don't have to pee at that point yeah I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/476">TS</a>]
00:07:59 ◼ ► know 337 I got a text from somebody at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/479">TS</a>]
00:08:02 ◼ ► 343 but I was so between 337 and 343 is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/482">TS</a>]
00:08:07 ◼ ► when I finally lay lay my head down to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/487">TS</a>]
00:08:10 ◼ ► sleep because I did not receive the 343 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/490">TS</a>]
00:08:15 ◼ ► so 337 and then I woke up then so my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/495">TS</a>]
00:08:19 ◼ ► phone plays across the universe now to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/499">TS</a>]
00:08:21 ◼ ► wake me up the Beatles version of that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/501">TS</a>]
00:08:30 ◼ ► Goodwyn a nice start today and that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/510">TS</a>]
00:08:33 ◼ ► happened at 8:37 so that is five right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/513">TS</a>]
00:08:37 ◼ ► five hours it's good it's good enough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/517">TS</a>]
00:08:39 ◼ ► it's you know if you round it it's about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/519">TS</a>]
00:08:43 ◼ ► five hours one wakes in the night and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/523">TS</a>]
00:08:46 ◼ ► oh I know it though unless one tracks [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/526">TS</a>]
00:08:49 ◼ ► I'm toast one journey you toss it you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/529">TS</a>]
00:08:50 ◼ ► toss eternity you like that whole bed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/530">TS</a>]
00:08:52 ◼ ► and you know don't touch my feet don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/532">TS</a>]
00:08:54 ◼ ► touch my feet well you know I was it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/534">TS</a>]
00:08:55 ◼ ► funny uh 20 because my daughter's mother [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/535">TS</a>]
00:09:05 ◼ ► Ariela was reading some old emails from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/545">TS</a>]
00:09:08 ◼ ► between the two of us she and I that we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/548">TS</a>]
00:09:11 ◼ ► wrote when she was pregnant and it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/551">TS</a>]
00:09:16 ◼ ► you know this was a pretty pretty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/556">TS</a>]
00:09:20 ◼ ► fraught time because we weren't we were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/560">TS</a>]
00:09:24 ◼ ► embarking on this journey to have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/564">TS</a>]
00:09:27 ◼ ► but we weren't doing it in the context [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/567">TS</a>]
00:09:30 ◼ ► of like well now we're together you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/570">TS</a>]
00:09:32 ◼ ► you're pregnant and so we get married or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/572">TS</a>]
00:09:35 ◼ ► we're gonna you know we're gonna move in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/575">TS</a>]
00:09:37 ◼ ► together or anything like this we were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/577">TS</a>]
00:09:39 ◼ ► doing it we're making this decision to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/579">TS</a>]
00:09:41 ◼ ► do this secular thing I always thought [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/581">TS</a>]
00:09:44 ◼ ► of it as I know this is not accurate but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/584">TS</a>]
00:09:46 ◼ ► it's almost like you guys were divorced [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/586">TS</a>]
00:09:48 ◼ ► divided ever being married yeah like we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/588">TS</a>]
00:09:50 ◼ ► later on we joked that we were either [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/590">TS</a>]
00:09:53 ◼ ► the the the divorced couple that got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/593">TS</a>]
00:09:55 ◼ ► along the best in the world or we have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/595">TS</a>]
00:09:57 ◼ ► really really dysfunctional marriage I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/597">TS</a>]
00:10:01 ◼ ► got to get married right we're the best [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/601">TS</a>]
00:10:04 ◼ ► divorced couple that ever was but so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/604">TS</a>]
00:10:06 ◼ ► we're going into this like eyes wide [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/606">TS</a>]
00:10:08 ◼ ► open and of course everybody was telling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/608">TS</a>]
00:10:12 ◼ ► us that you couldn't do it you know her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/612">TS</a>]
00:10:15 ◼ ► people were just telling her every kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/615">TS</a>]
00:10:18 ◼ ► of story about how it wasn't gonna work [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/618">TS</a>]
00:10:20 ◼ ► how you know she was gonna end up alone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/620">TS</a>]
00:10:23 ◼ ► and destitute and raising the child on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/623">TS</a>]
00:10:25 ◼ ► her own and you know that I was clearly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/625">TS</a>]
00:10:31 ◼ ► shirking my responsibilities and that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/631">TS</a>]
00:10:33 ◼ ► you know if she didn't have me tied to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/633">TS</a>]
00:10:36 ◼ ► the ground with legal requirements that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/636">TS</a>]
00:10:40 ◼ ► I would just flit her off like some kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/640">TS</a>]
00:10:42 ◼ ► of drug addict Rock person uh-huh uh-huh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/642">TS</a>]
00:10:47 ◼ ► and and worse you know worse things just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/647">TS</a>]
00:10:49 ◼ ► that it was all you know that for us to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/649">TS</a>]
00:10:53 ◼ ► conditions benefited me but not her I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/653">TS</a>]
00:10:55 ◼ ► mean they're just filling her head with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/655">TS</a>]
00:11:00 ◼ ► propaganda well and just this Jen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/660">TS</a>]
00:11:03 ◼ ► notion that you cannot bring a child [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/663">TS</a>]
00:11:06 ◼ ► into the world unless the two parents [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/666">TS</a>]
00:11:08 ◼ ► are absolutely tied to one another's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/668">TS</a>]
00:11:11 ◼ ► leather straps and and have promised [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/671">TS</a>]
00:11:15 ◼ ► each other every single I kept you if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/675">TS</a>]
00:11:18 ◼ ► you bring a child into the world having [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/678">TS</a>]
00:11:20 ◼ ► done nothing more than kneel on a pillow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/680">TS</a>]
00:11:23 ◼ ► and say I will love you forever in front [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/683">TS</a>]
00:11:27 ◼ ► everybody's like great it's I believe it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/687">TS</a>]
00:11:30 ◼ ► nothing can nothing can rent these to us [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/690">TS</a>]
00:11:33 ◼ ► but if you bring a child into the world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/693">TS</a>]
00:11:35 ◼ ► where you're like we're gonna do a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/695">TS</a>]
00:11:36 ◼ ► really good job at this everybody puts [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/696">TS</a>]
00:11:39 ◼ ► their hands on their head and says her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/699">TS</a>]
00:11:40 ◼ ► hands on their hips and says well you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/700">TS</a>]
00:11:42 ◼ ► never kneeled on a pillow how is it even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/702">TS</a>]
00:11:44 ◼ ► possible right so she and I would work [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/704">TS</a>]
00:11:48 ◼ ► can't go from a bobcat to a weeble oh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/708">TS</a>]
00:11:50 ◼ ► you got past he got past it being a wolf [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/710">TS</a>]
00:11:53 ◼ ► and a bear suitable yeah so we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/713">TS</a>]
00:11:57 ◼ ► sending these emails back and forth and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/717">TS</a>]
00:11:58 ◼ ► the thing was that she and I you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/718">TS</a>]
00:11:59 ◼ ► known each other a long time but we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/719">TS</a>]
00:12:01 ◼ ► didn't really know each other how did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/721">TS</a>]
00:12:02 ◼ ► how do you how do you ever really know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/722">TS</a>]
00:12:04 ◼ ► ever really know anybody John did you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/724">TS</a>]
00:12:06 ◼ ► know I mean really know each other we've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/726">TS</a>]
00:12:08 ◼ ► been playing in the town for a long time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/728">TS</a>]
00:12:10 ◼ ► and it was like hey downtown yeah what's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/730">TS</a>]
00:12:13 ◼ ► up downtown you know pal the two tutus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/733">TS</a>]
00:12:16 ◼ ► finger guns but that's not how you you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/736">TS</a>]
00:12:21 ◼ ► raise a child either you can't just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/741">TS</a>]
00:12:23 ◼ ► finger gun a child into adults so all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/743">TS</a>]
00:12:34 ◼ ► she's rereading all these emails which I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/754">TS</a>]
00:12:36 ◼ ► have not reread where she and I were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/756">TS</a>]
00:12:39 ◼ ► negotiating and hammering out just the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/759">TS</a>]
00:12:42 ◼ ► basic principles of how we were gonna do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/762">TS</a>]
00:12:49 ◼ ► this you know like like like how how can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/769">TS</a>]
00:12:53 ◼ ► I count how do I know I can count on you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/773">TS</a>]
00:12:55 ◼ ► okay I know I can count on you and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/775">TS</a>]
00:12:57 ◼ ► mean just highlight its if you don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/777">TS</a>]
00:12:59 ◼ ► have the is this is not always a real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/779">TS</a>]
00:13:02 ◼ ► thing but there's always the implicit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/782">TS</a>]
00:13:04 ◼ ► things of having already been married [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/784">TS</a>]
00:13:05 ◼ ► like you know who pays the rent and all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/785">TS</a>]
00:13:07 ◼ ► that kind of stuff and basic division of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/787">TS</a>]
00:13:09 ◼ ► labor whether you formally or informally [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/789">TS</a>]
00:13:11 ◼ ► talked about it but you you had to make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/791">TS</a>]
00:13:13 ◼ ► this to cut this from whole cloth [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/793">TS</a>]
00:13:15 ◼ ► yeah we did and we had to you know and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/795">TS</a>]
00:13:18 ◼ ► they're there and what one thing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/798">TS</a>]
00:13:20 ◼ ► reli said was like we we spent so much [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/800">TS</a>]
00:13:23 ◼ ► time arguing about all the wrong things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/803">TS</a>]
00:13:25 ◼ ► like we're not the wrong things but just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/805">TS</a>]
00:13:28 ◼ ► things that it turns out didn't matter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/808">TS</a>]
00:13:29 ◼ ► at all like she I remember she came to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/809">TS</a>]
00:13:32 ◼ ► me and she was like I read a thing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/812">TS</a>]
00:13:33 ◼ ► says you need a million dollars to raise [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/813">TS</a>]
00:13:36 ◼ ► a child oh my god and I said not all at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/816">TS</a>]
00:13:39 ◼ ► once you don't need it all at once you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/819">TS</a>]
00:13:42 ◼ ► don't need to start she was like but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/822">TS</a>]
00:13:43 ◼ ► where are we ever gonna get a million [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/823">TS</a>]
00:13:44 ◼ ► dollars to raise this child I was like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/824">TS</a>]
00:13:47 ◼ ► honestly I think that's the I think we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/827">TS</a>]
00:13:50 ◼ ► got to start somewhere before that like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/830">TS</a>]
00:13:52 ◼ ► before discovered this you know over a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/832">TS</a>]
00:13:54 ◼ ► century ago it expects somebody to buy a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/834">TS</a>]
00:13:57 ◼ ► car with one payment you know that's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/837">TS</a>]
00:13:59 ◼ ► gonna work you need don't need to go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/839">TS</a>]
00:14:00 ◼ ► have your GMAC the ford version of that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/840">TS</a>]
00:14:02 ◼ ► and that's that's much like having a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/842">TS</a>]
00:14:03 ◼ ► child you let you get installments on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/843">TS</a>]
00:14:05 ◼ ► the child that's right I said to her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/845">TS</a>]
00:14:06 ◼ ► what you know look we can get a good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/846">TS</a>]
00:14:08 ◼ ► interest rate on this baby like we'll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/848">TS</a>]
00:14:11 ◼ ► figure that out right he put a new week [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/851">TS</a>]
00:14:13 ◼ ► mmm-hmm we have we had we had to decide [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/853">TS</a>]
00:14:17 ◼ ► because we were not married we had to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/857">TS</a>]
00:14:19 ◼ ► decide what last name the child was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/859">TS</a>]
00:14:20 ◼ ► gonna get we had to decide a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/860">TS</a>]
00:14:23 ◼ ► things and we had nine months or let's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/863">TS</a>]
00:14:27 ◼ ► say eight months in which to go from a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/867">TS</a>]
00:14:32 ◼ ► relationship where we were you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/872">TS</a>]
00:14:35 ◼ ► essentially just coquettish with each [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/875">TS</a>]
00:14:37 ◼ ► other for a long time to a thing where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/877">TS</a>]
00:14:40 ◼ ► like we trusted each other could rely on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/880">TS</a>]
00:14:42 ◼ ► each other and and actually had like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/882">TS</a>]
00:14:45 ◼ ► and we had to build that within a world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/885">TS</a>]
00:14:49 ◼ ► where everybody we knew I mean the best [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/889">TS</a>]
00:14:52 ◼ ► response we got from our friends was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/892">TS</a>]
00:14:54 ◼ ► well I guess I mean wait and see I guess [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/894">TS</a>]
00:14:59 ◼ ► I mean that was the best and and really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/899">TS</a>]
00:15:02 ◼ ► really well-meaning people a lot of whom [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/902">TS</a>]
00:15:06 ◼ ► we're telling us that there's no way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/906">TS</a>]
00:15:08 ◼ ► that it could that it's gonna work like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/908">TS</a>]
00:15:10 ◼ ► this and that we needed to get real you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/910">TS</a>]
00:15:13 ◼ ► know but I she she reminded me at one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/913">TS</a>]
00:15:18 ◼ ► point I was like I sent her an email or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/918">TS</a>]
00:15:22 ◼ ► she was saying like you know look I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/922">TS</a>]
00:15:24 ◼ ► I'm pregnant and I need you know I need [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/924">TS</a>]
00:15:28 ◼ ► to feel comforted and you are being very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/928">TS</a>]
00:15:35 ◼ ► formal with me and and you know and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/935">TS</a>]
00:15:38 ◼ ► appreciate the formality is necessary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/938">TS</a>]
00:15:40 ◼ ► but I like need this comforting and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/940">TS</a>]
00:15:43 ◼ ► wrote this thing about like well listen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/943">TS</a>]
00:15:45 ◼ ► I don't like anybody I don't like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/945">TS</a>]
00:15:49 ◼ ► it's very important we're gonna make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/949">TS</a>]
00:15:55 ◼ ► this work we make this child that nobody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/955">TS</a>]
00:15:58 ◼ ► touch my feet in the night yeah and that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/958">TS</a>]
00:16:01 ◼ ► you know and it's I get very warm and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/961">TS</a>]
00:16:04 ◼ ► really tear up a bed and it's just it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/964">TS</a>]
00:16:07 ◼ ► very you know I just need it I need to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/967">TS</a>]
00:16:09 ◼ ► make it clear that like yeah I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/969">TS</a>]
00:16:11 ◼ ► really like to be touched and she was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/971">TS</a>]
00:16:16 ◼ ► recounting this to me I didn't go back [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/976">TS</a>]
00:16:17 ◼ ► and read it but I remember for a long [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/977">TS</a>]
00:16:21 ◼ ► time this idea that I had discovered [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/981">TS</a>]
00:16:23 ◼ ► that I could say I don't want you touch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/983">TS</a>]
00:16:29 ◼ ► I remember that being like a huge [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/989">TS</a>]
00:16:31 ◼ ► revelation to me because I had always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/991">TS</a>]
00:16:34 ◼ ► you know been miserable sharing a bed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/994">TS</a>]
00:16:37 ◼ ► with people and I and I and I had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/997">TS</a>]
00:16:40 ◼ ► discovered this like oh wait after I go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1000">TS</a>]
00:16:42 ◼ ► to sleep like I don't want to be spooned [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1002">TS</a>]
00:16:44 ◼ ► I don't want to be nuzzled like I just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1004">TS</a>]
00:16:48 ◼ ► leave me alone the sleeping time it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1008">TS</a>]
00:16:51 ◼ ► sleeping time I want to go sleep in my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1011">TS</a>]
00:16:52 ◼ ► on my side of the bed mm-hmm and it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1012">TS</a>]
00:16:55 ◼ ► just it was always a relationship [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1015">TS</a>]
00:16:56 ◼ ► problem well so she's telling me this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1016">TS</a>]
00:16:59 ◼ ► story or she's telling me about this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1019">TS</a>]
00:17:00 ◼ ► email and I'm laughing and laughing and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1020">TS</a>]
00:17:04 ◼ ► laughing because then I had a child and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1024">TS</a>]
00:17:11 ◼ ► when you have a child at least in my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1031">TS</a>]
00:17:14 ◼ ► case there is one person in the world at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1034">TS</a>]
00:17:17 ◼ ► least that you do not mind if they touch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1037">TS</a>]
00:17:20 ◼ ► right like my little girl enjoy what you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1040">TS</a>]
00:17:22 ◼ ► can I'm sure there will be a time when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1042">TS</a>]
00:17:26 ◼ ► she's like every single time every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1046">TS</a>]
00:17:28 ◼ ► single time she's bugging me it's 8:32 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1048">TS</a>]
00:17:31 ◼ ► it's re 32 minutes past bedtime and she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1051">TS</a>]
00:17:34 ◼ ► comes out and just wants to like hug me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1054">TS</a>]
00:17:36 ◼ ► and kind of just you know hang out for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1056">TS</a>]
00:17:41 ◼ ► from our I want to watch my Game of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1061">TS</a>]
00:17:43 ◼ ► Thrones in its 32 minutes past bedtime [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1063">TS</a>]
00:17:45 ◼ ► and I try to always catch myself and go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1065">TS</a>]
00:17:47 ◼ ► you ding-a-ling yeah right no it's okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1067">TS</a>]
00:17:51 ◼ ► that it's 32 minutes past bedtime you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1071">TS</a>]
00:17:53 ◼ ► get to pause Game of Thrones and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1073">TS</a>]
00:17:54 ◼ ► your daughter wants to like you for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1074">TS</a>]
00:17:56 ◼ ► do you have any idea how much you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1076">TS</a>]
00:17:58 ◼ ► gonna want that in five years yeah right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1078">TS</a>]
00:18:02 ◼ ► so despite all of those negotiations and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1082">TS</a>]
00:18:05 ◼ ► your cocoa ket working all this out you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1085">TS</a>]
00:18:08 ◼ ► there is a person in your life now who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1088">TS</a>]
00:18:12 ◼ ► touches your feet etc oh well our sense [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1092">TS</a>]
00:18:16 ◼ ► of the phrase yeah and and and I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1096">TS</a>]
00:18:18 ◼ ► has changed a lot has changed about me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1098">TS</a>]
00:18:23 ◼ ► in the last five years and and I can I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1103">TS</a>]
00:18:27 ◼ ► absolutely remember when some of these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1107">TS</a>]
00:18:30 ◼ ► these notions about myself to write the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1110">TS</a>]
00:18:33 ◼ ► introversion in the and that the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1113">TS</a>]
00:18:40 ◼ ► sense that I needed this bubble around [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1120">TS</a>]
00:18:44 ◼ ► me and that it was okay to ask for it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1124">TS</a>]
00:18:47 ◼ ► and that it was not just okay to ask for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1127">TS</a>]
00:18:50 ◼ ► it but like I was okay even even needing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1130">TS</a>]
00:18:55 ◼ ► it right like it was okay to need it and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1135">TS</a>]
00:19:02 ◼ ► boundaries around myself so that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1142">TS</a>]
00:19:04 ◼ ► wasn't always feeling both intruded upon [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1144">TS</a>]
00:19:06 ◼ ► and also that I was a bad person for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1146">TS</a>]
00:19:10 ◼ ► feeling intruded upon like that was the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1150">TS</a>]
00:19:13 ◼ ► terrible part of that was the the source [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1153">TS</a>]
00:19:15 ◼ ► of the of so much loneliness in my life [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1155">TS</a>]
00:19:18 ◼ ► over the years was was not just that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1158">TS</a>]
00:19:21 ◼ ► felt infringed upon by everybody but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1161">TS</a>]
00:19:23 ◼ ► also that I that I felt like that that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1163">TS</a>]
00:19:26 ◼ ► was what made me despicable because why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1166">TS</a>]
00:19:30 ◼ ► couldn't I just accept love or why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1170">TS</a>]
00:19:33 ◼ ► couldn't I just accept touch these are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1173">TS</a>]
00:19:34 ◼ ► simple things can you just learn to feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1174">TS</a>]
00:19:37 ◼ ► good about the broken way you are it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1177">TS</a>]
00:19:40 ◼ ► that it's really it's hard I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1180">TS</a>]
00:19:41 ◼ ► you're describing something that's very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1181">TS</a>]
00:19:43 ◼ ► important to me which is this feeling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1183">TS</a>]
00:19:44 ◼ ► bad feeling about a bad feeling right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1184">TS</a>]
00:19:47 ◼ ► it's one thing to feel that bad feeling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1187">TS</a>]
00:19:48 ◼ ► another thing to have a bad feeling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1188">TS</a>]
00:19:49 ◼ ► about how you are like it's terrible but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1189">TS</a>]
00:19:51 ◼ ► right I mean isn't it kind of a terrible [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1191">TS</a>]
00:19:53 ◼ ► talk before like either why can't I be a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1193">TS</a>]
00:19:55 ◼ ► good person or why can't I be okay with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1195">TS</a>]
00:19:57 ◼ ► how I actually am well it took me a long [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1197">TS</a>]
00:19:59 ◼ ► time even to get to the place where I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1199">TS</a>]
00:20:00 ◼ ► felt like Oh learning to be okay with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1200">TS</a>]
00:20:03 ◼ ► this is a thing I can even do right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1203">TS</a>]
00:20:07 ◼ ► because it because because I didn't want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1207">TS</a>]
00:20:11 ◼ ► to be you know I didn't want to be in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1211">TS</a>]
00:20:14 ◼ ► the land of broken toys I believed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1214">TS</a>]
00:20:17 ◼ ► because I do believe in love right I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1217">TS</a>]
00:20:19 ◼ ► mean I am romantic quraÃam Oh romantic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1219">TS</a>]
00:20:22 ◼ ► and so so what you know but but more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1222">TS</a>]
00:20:27 ◼ ► more than that even you know this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1227">TS</a>]
00:20:29 ◼ ► happening this isn't a thing where my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1229">TS</a>]
00:20:33 ◼ ► where this is the thing I was navigating [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1233">TS</a>]
00:20:36 ◼ ► with the larger world right I wasn't out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1236">TS</a>]
00:20:38 ◼ ► in the world saying why doesn't the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1238">TS</a>]
00:20:44 ◼ ► happening within the absolute smallest [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1244">TS</a>]
00:20:46 ◼ ► confines of a relationship between me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1246">TS</a>]
00:20:49 ◼ ► and a lover who was saying you know Here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1249">TS</a>]
00:20:54 ◼ ► I am here's what I have to give and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1254">TS</a>]
00:20:56 ◼ ► was like great don't touch my feet and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1256">TS</a>]
00:20:59 ◼ ► that's it that's such an incredibly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1259">TS</a>]
00:21:02 ◼ ► small personal space too because out in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1262">TS</a>]
00:21:06 ◼ ► the world I didn't have any adjustment [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1266">TS</a>]
00:21:08 ◼ ► you know visible adjustment issues I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1268">TS</a>]
00:21:10 ◼ ► wasn't asking anybody to make any [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1270">TS</a>]
00:21:12 ◼ ► accommodation for me but in this you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1272">TS</a>]
00:21:15 ◼ ► know as the as the room got smaller and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1275">TS</a>]
00:21:17 ◼ ► smaller I was more and more like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1277">TS</a>]
00:21:20 ◼ ► this is my pillow and this is my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1280">TS</a>]
00:21:22 ◼ ► underwear drawer and this is my these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1282">TS</a>]
00:21:25 ◼ ► are the hairs on the back of my hand and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1285">TS</a>]
00:21:28 ◼ ► they can't be stimulated so I couldn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1288">TS</a>]
00:21:34 ◼ ► ever be like and I'm okay with me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1294">TS</a>]
00:21:37 ◼ ► because because the person that I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1297">TS</a>]
00:21:41 ◼ ► saying all this to was the one that was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1301">TS</a>]
00:21:43 ◼ ► standing there like all I want is to hug [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1303">TS</a>]
00:21:45 ◼ ► you I was like I'm okay with me but but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1305">TS</a>]
00:21:49 ◼ ► but I did get to I did get to that place [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1309">TS</a>]
00:21:53 ◼ ► sort of right around the same period [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1313">TS</a>]
00:21:55 ◼ ► like I you know I am sorry about I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1315">TS</a>]
00:21:58 ◼ ► sorry that you are pregnant and that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1318">TS</a>]
00:22:00 ◼ ► are scared because you're not married [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1320">TS</a>]
00:22:02 ◼ ► and we are trying to navigate we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1322">TS</a>]
00:22:05 ◼ ► we're trying to write a new constitution [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1325">TS</a>]
00:22:07 ◼ ► for a thing that doesn't have very many [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1327">TS</a>]
00:22:09 ◼ ► antecedents we can't think of any [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1329">TS</a>]
00:22:12 ◼ ► mentors or peers we might have here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1332">TS</a>]
00:22:14 ◼ ► we're reinventing the wheel and your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1334">TS</a>]
00:22:17 ◼ ► thing that you're saying you need is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1337">TS</a>]
00:22:19 ◼ ► that I demonstrate my my hereness by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1339">TS</a>]
00:22:26 ◼ ► actually being like here holding you and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1346">TS</a>]
00:22:29 ◼ ► I'm saying don't touch my feet because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1349">TS</a>]
00:22:32 ◼ ► that's very important to me and I had to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1352">TS</a>]
00:22:35 ◼ ► also in that moment be like but it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1355">TS</a>]
00:22:39 ◼ ► really important that I hold this woman [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1359">TS</a>]
00:22:42 ◼ ► who is pregnant and terrifying right and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1362">TS</a>]
00:22:45 ◼ ► now I look back so she and I both look [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1365">TS</a>]
00:22:48 ◼ ► back and laugh because you know the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1368">TS</a>]
00:22:52 ◼ ► experience of building this family it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1372">TS</a>]
00:22:57 ◼ ► not just that I it's not just that I can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1377">TS</a>]
00:22:59 ◼ ► hold my daughter like I should my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1379">TS</a>]
00:23:01 ◼ ► daughter brought the ability for me to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1381">TS</a>]
00:23:04 ◼ ► feel uncomplicated about being touched I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1384">TS</a>]
00:23:09 ◼ ► guess like she she she's been a part of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1389">TS</a>]
00:23:14 ◼ ► that process for me and now that now I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1394">TS</a>]
00:23:16 ◼ ► can I mean I still don't want people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1396">TS</a>]
00:23:18 ◼ ► coming in and touching my feet while I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1398">TS</a>]
00:23:20 ◼ ► sleeping oh yeah you you have your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1400">TS</a>]
00:23:21 ◼ ► preferences yeah I just don't just like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1401">TS</a>]
00:23:26 ◼ ► oh dear me no oh go do Pekinese no stop [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1406">TS</a>]
00:23:30 ◼ ► it no not everybody got to do that it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1410">TS</a>]
00:23:32 ◼ ► not just because it's tolerated with one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1412">TS</a>]
00:23:35 ◼ ► person does not mean that everybody gets [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1415">TS</a>]
00:23:36 ◼ ► to do it right but but it's funny that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1416">TS</a>]
00:23:40 ◼ ► that I made such a because at the time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1420">TS</a>]
00:23:43 ◼ ► not have not having had a kid yet you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1423">TS</a>]
00:23:46 ◼ ► think certain things are so important [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1426">TS</a>]
00:23:49 ◼ ► I'm going to a baby shower later today [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1429">TS</a>]
00:23:52 ◼ ► and they're they're wonderful people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1432">TS</a>]
00:23:57 ◼ ► they're very good friends they've been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1437">TS</a>]
00:23:59 ◼ ► they're excited about their baby the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1439">TS</a>]
00:24:02 ◼ ► baby is coming soon and they had a thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1442">TS</a>]
00:24:05 ◼ ► on their baby shower thing that said you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1445">TS</a>]
00:24:09 ◼ ► know we don't want you to don't worry [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1449">TS</a>]
00:24:11 ◼ ► about gifts but but if you if you insist [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1451">TS</a>]
00:24:14 ◼ ► here's a link to a list of gifts [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1454">TS</a>]
00:24:17 ◼ ► and I went and just reading down this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1457">TS</a>]
00:24:20 ◼ ► list of gifts that had obviously been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1460">TS</a>]
00:24:23 ◼ ► compiled by a large group of people are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1463">TS</a>]
00:24:25 ◼ ► like you're gonna need this mm-hmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1465">TS</a>]
00:24:27 ◼ ► you're definitely gonna need a linen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1467">TS</a>]
00:24:30 ◼ ► it's a good chance to cover some bases [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1470">TS</a>]
00:24:33 ◼ ► you get you can you can ask for and if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1473">TS</a>]
00:24:35 ◼ ► it's people who are already parents [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1475">TS</a>]
00:24:36 ◼ ► they'll get this a lot of the stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1476">TS</a>]
00:24:38 ◼ ► you're gonna need a lot of even you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1478">TS</a>]
00:24:40 ◼ ► right wouldn't be bad to get diapers but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1480">TS</a>]
00:24:42 ◼ ► definitely some onesies and stuff then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1482">TS</a>]
00:24:43 ◼ ► there's some stuff that like you just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1483">TS</a>]
00:24:44 ◼ ► know you're gonna need like maybe a nice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1484">TS</a>]
00:24:47 ◼ ► changing like a changing table and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1487">TS</a>]
00:24:49 ◼ ► you got the stuff for your shoot for the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1489">TS</a>]
00:24:50 ◼ ► stars right wait you might say oh I want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1490">TS</a>]
00:24:53 ◼ ► this $700 baby carriage because if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1493">TS</a>]
00:24:55 ◼ ► somebody wants to get that Charle ticket [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1495">TS</a>]
00:24:57 ◼ ► right but this is a group so the this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1497">TS</a>]
00:25:01 ◼ ► this these two are members of a pretty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1501">TS</a>]
00:25:04 ◼ ► close-knit group of friends let's let's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1504">TS</a>]
00:25:08 ◼ ► call it between 15 and 20 people that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1508">TS</a>]
00:25:12 ◼ ► have all coupled up recently they're all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1512">TS</a>]
00:25:15 ◼ ► in their early 40s and this is this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1515">TS</a>]
00:25:18 ◼ ► couple is really the first one the first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1518">TS</a>]
00:25:21 ◼ ► couple to have a new baby right I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1521">TS</a>]
00:25:24 ◼ ► you know Ari and I our daughter is six [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1524">TS</a>]
00:25:27 ◼ ► and a half now and when that happened [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1527">TS</a>]
00:25:29 ◼ ► all of these all these people were in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1529">TS</a>]
00:25:33 ◼ ► brand-new relationships or yeah or going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1533">TS</a>]
00:25:35 ◼ ► through their first divorce or whatever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1535">TS</a>]
00:25:36 ◼ ► but now they have a solid little gang [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1536">TS</a>]
00:25:38 ◼ ► and this couple is the first one to have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1538">TS</a>]
00:25:40 ◼ ► a baby and so there there baby list that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1540">TS</a>]
00:25:44 ◼ ► they linked to has all that stuff right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1544">TS</a>]
00:25:47 ◼ ► the you know you're gonna need diapers [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1547">TS</a>]
00:25:49 ◼ ► you should get some onesies and look [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1549">TS</a>]
00:25:51 ◼ ► there's the $700 carriage like all that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1551">TS</a>]
00:25:54 ◼ ► but because none of their friends have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1554">TS</a>]
00:25:58 ◼ ► babies yet but all of them are I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1558">TS</a>]
00:26:01 ◼ ► I'm watching this group and ready to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1561">TS</a>]
00:26:04 ◼ ► have like 15 babies arrive in the next [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1564">TS</a>]
00:26:07 ◼ ► year and a half because that's where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1567">TS</a>]
00:26:08 ◼ ► they're all at yeah there's all that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1568">TS</a>]
00:26:11 ◼ ► stuff on this list like like baby wipe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1571">TS</a>]
00:26:15 ◼ ► warmer ready caddy baby carriage baby [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1575">TS</a>]
00:26:22 ◼ ► wipe warmer caddy sidecar mm-hmm like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1582">TS</a>]
00:26:26 ◼ ► this crazy stuff where you're like whoa [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1586">TS</a>]
00:26:28 ◼ ► whoa whoa let me just give you let me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1588">TS</a>]
00:26:31 ◼ ► you don't need that honestly you don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1591">TS</a>]
00:26:34 ◼ ► need it you don't you want to take that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1594">TS</a>]
00:26:35 ◼ ► off because somebody's gonna buy that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1595">TS</a>]
00:26:36 ◼ ► for you and then you're gonna have it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1596">TS</a>]
00:26:38 ◼ ► you're gonna feel like you need to use [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1598">TS</a>]
00:26:39 ◼ ► it and you're gonna walk around like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1599">TS</a>]
00:26:42 ◼ ► basically like Chewbacca carrying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1602">TS</a>]
00:26:45 ◼ ► Threepio on his back it's and puts it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1605">TS</a>]
00:26:49 ◼ ► pushing a stroller with the wife warmer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1609">TS</a>]
00:26:53 ◼ ► on it because look you got enough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1613">TS</a>]
00:26:55 ◼ ► problems just getting a baby from place [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1615">TS</a>]
00:26:57 ◼ ► to place if you end up being one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1617">TS</a>]
00:26:59 ◼ ► those couples that's like that's like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1619">TS</a>]
00:27:01 ◼ ► camp train the feds leaving Stalingrad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1621">TS</a>]
00:27:05 ◼ ► remember that killing that feeling oh my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1625">TS</a>]
00:27:07 ◼ ► god because somebody told you that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1627">TS</a>]
00:27:09 ◼ ► need a you know you need a like a linen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1629">TS</a>]
00:27:12 ◼ ► baby stroller cover to keep the sunlight [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1632">TS</a>]
00:27:17 ◼ ► out of baby's eyes but you don't want to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1637">TS</a>]
00:27:19 ◼ ► get that don't get that cotton stuff no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1639">TS</a>]
00:27:21 ◼ ► no it's gotta be linen because it needs [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1641">TS</a>]
00:27:23 ◼ ► to filter the sunlight so the babies can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1643">TS</a>]
00:27:25 ◼ ► hear the mozart better keep leave the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1645">TS</a>]
00:27:27 ◼ ► way we were raised the way that we get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1647">TS</a>]
00:27:32 ◼ ► linen like here hold my cigarette tips [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1652">TS</a>]
00:27:36 ◼ ► the first thing you need to learn kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1656">TS</a>]
00:27:45 ◼ ► anyway so it's funny I want to go back [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1665">TS</a>]
00:27:48 ◼ ► and read those things but it happens it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1668">TS</a>]
00:27:52 ◼ ► you know and I and I feel like I feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1672">TS</a>]
00:27:55 ◼ ► like part of the victory that we have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1675">TS</a>]
00:27:59 ◼ ► achieved maybe our generation in it and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1679">TS</a>]
00:28:03 ◼ ► it feels like a strange victory but we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1683">TS</a>]
00:28:05 ◼ ► kind of led the charge was this victory [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1685">TS</a>]
00:28:08 ◼ ► of of the of carving out the space to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1688">TS</a>]
00:28:17 ◼ ► who you are that is that's not just free [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1697">TS</a>]
00:28:20 ◼ ► to be you and me but you know like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1700">TS</a>]
00:28:22 ◼ ► small spaces of being who you are and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1702">TS</a>]
00:28:25 ◼ ► but like Ari and I still our daughter is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1705">TS</a>]
00:28:30 ◼ ► six and a half and we still are a team [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1710">TS</a>]
00:28:33 ◼ ► and we still don't have any peers like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1713">TS</a>]
00:28:37 ◼ ► oh I see I see we still don't know any [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1717">TS</a>]
00:28:40 ◼ ► couple who has done it the way we've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1720">TS</a>]
00:28:44 ◼ ► we don't have anyone to mentor because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1724">TS</a>]
00:28:48 ◼ ► no one is we don't know anybody who's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1728">TS</a>]
00:28:50 ◼ ► trying to do it the way we did it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1730">TS</a>]
00:28:53 ◼ ► everybody we know that has a kid is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1733">TS</a>]
00:28:55 ◼ ► either in a happy marriage in a in an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1735">TS</a>]
00:28:59 ◼ ► unhappy marriage that's pretending to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1739">TS</a>]
00:29:01 ◼ ► happy in an unhappy marriage that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1741">TS</a>]
00:29:04 ◼ ► done pretending mm-hmm or in a marriage [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1744">TS</a>]
00:29:08 ◼ ► and dissolution that is either trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1748">TS</a>]
00:29:10 ◼ ► be civil not trying to be civil or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1750">TS</a>]
00:29:13 ◼ ► long-past right no one is just like yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1753">TS</a>]
00:29:19 ◼ ► we decided to have a child together and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1759">TS</a>]
00:29:21 ◼ ► we're people of goodwill and smart and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1761">TS</a>]
00:29:24 ◼ ► we agreed that we were going to have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1764">TS</a>]
00:29:27 ◼ ► lot of fights about stuff in the course [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1767">TS</a>]
00:29:29 ◼ ► of time as you do but that it was never [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1769">TS</a>]
00:29:33 ◼ ► going to be we were never going to lose [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1773">TS</a>]
00:29:38 ◼ ► sight of the fact that we were doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1778">TS</a>]
00:29:42 ◼ ► this intentionally and and in the spirit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1782">TS</a>]
00:29:44 ◼ ► of like you kind of always knew that it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1784">TS</a>]
00:29:47 ◼ ► was well I don't want speak for you but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1787">TS</a>]
00:29:49 ◼ ► maybe one way to look at it is like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1789">TS</a>]
00:29:51 ◼ ► it'll be safe if we always regard this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1791">TS</a>]
00:29:53 ◼ ► as a precarious experiment rather than a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1793">TS</a>]
00:29:55 ◼ ► done deal right and that was that was I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1795">TS</a>]
00:29:59 ◼ ► think what I mean like not treating it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1799">TS</a>]
00:30:01 ◼ ► like a like a done and settled sorted [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1801">TS</a>]
00:30:03 ◼ ► issue like this is this is a work in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1803">TS</a>]
00:30:05 ◼ ► progress well that was the that was the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1805">TS</a>]
00:30:07 ◼ ► advantage it had right because all these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1807">TS</a>]
00:30:08 ◼ ► things that you're saying about like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1808">TS</a>]
00:30:10 ◼ ► which I think are absolutely true like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1810">TS</a>]
00:30:12 ◼ ► you get married and so you already [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1812">TS</a>]
00:30:15 ◼ ► worked out like how the right gets paid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1815">TS</a>]
00:30:16 ◼ ► and all that stuff but but in getting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1816">TS</a>]
00:30:19 ◼ ► married you also take all of your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1819">TS</a>]
00:30:24 ◼ ► unspoken expectations and and all of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1824">TS</a>]
00:30:29 ◼ ► the templates that you've been carrying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1829">TS</a>]
00:30:30 ◼ ► around like a maesters chain jangling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1830">TS</a>]
00:30:37 ◼ ► around your neck about like oh well when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1837">TS</a>]
00:30:39 ◼ ► I get married my spouse is gonna be like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1839">TS</a>]
00:30:41 ◼ ► this and our marriage is gonna be like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1841">TS</a>]
00:30:43 ◼ ► this and we're gonna live like this and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1843">TS</a>]
00:30:44 ◼ ► his or my goals are gonna be the same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1844">TS</a>]
00:30:47 ◼ ► exactly and all this stuff that you'd [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1847">TS</a>]
00:30:49 ◼ ► never really address formally mm-hmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1849">TS</a>]
00:30:52 ◼ ► that goes into like now we're married in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1852">TS</a>]
00:30:58 ◼ ► Ln myself we didn't have we didn't have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1858">TS</a>]
00:31:00 ◼ ► that luxury so we had to be very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1860">TS</a>]
00:31:03 ◼ ► specific about all that stuff right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1863">TS</a>]
00:31:05 ◼ ► right and so we didn't then later five [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1865">TS</a>]
00:31:09 ◼ ► years later encounter these moments [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1869">TS</a>]
00:31:11 ◼ ► where it was like wait a minute I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1871">TS</a>]
00:31:13 ◼ ► thought you were paying the rent yeah or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1873">TS</a>]
00:31:15 ◼ ► like you always knew I wanted to live in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1875">TS</a>]
00:31:18 ◼ ► Berlin right and it's like what are you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1878">TS</a>]
00:31:20 ◼ ► talking about we you said something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1880">TS</a>]
00:31:21 ◼ ► about Berlin once five years ago well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1881">TS</a>]
00:31:23 ◼ ► that was me saying that one day I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1883">TS</a>]
00:31:26 ◼ ► gonna move there you know at like we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1886">TS</a>]
00:31:28 ◼ ► didn't have to we don't have that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1888">TS</a>]
00:31:30 ◼ ► problem now because we have been forced [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1890">TS</a>]
00:31:32 ◼ ► to be extremely on top of all that stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1892">TS</a>]
00:31:36 ◼ ► and you know our relationship is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1896">TS</a>]
00:31:40 ◼ ► stronger now than ever and I don't see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1900">TS</a>]
00:31:43 ◼ ► anything I don't see it being in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1903">TS</a>]
00:31:48 ◼ ► jeopardy right I mean this last year and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1908">TS</a>]
00:31:50 ◼ ► a half I was in this long relationship [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1910">TS</a>]
00:31:51 ◼ ► and and it jeopardized my relationship [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1911">TS</a>]
00:31:54 ◼ ► with Ari but in the end in the end like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1914">TS</a>]
00:32:01 ◼ ► it was the relationship with our Ian and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1921">TS</a>]
00:32:03 ◼ ► our daughter that was that that was the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1923">TS</a>]
00:32:05 ◼ ► thing that was most important to me no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1925">TS</a>]
00:32:08 ◼ ► that wasn't a thing I was ever going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1928">TS</a>]
00:32:10 ◼ ► you sacrifice and yeah we grew up I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1930">TS</a>]
00:32:13 ◼ ► sure you knew lots of people like this I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1933">TS</a>]
00:32:17 ◼ ► parents who got divorced and one of them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1937">TS</a>]
00:32:22 ◼ ► took the kid somewhere else mm-hmm or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1942">TS</a>]
00:32:25 ◼ ► dad saw you on weekends or on alternate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1945">TS</a>]
00:32:29 ◼ ► weekends or on alternate months or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1949">TS</a>]
00:32:31 ◼ ► something and like I think I've probably [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1951">TS</a>]
00:32:35 ◼ ► talked to you about this before but like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1955">TS</a>]
00:32:36 ◼ ► when my mom left my dad we were living [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1956">TS</a>]
00:32:39 ◼ ► in Alaska and she basically like threw [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1959">TS</a>]
00:32:42 ◼ ► some stuff in a suitcase and moved to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1962">TS</a>]
00:32:48 ◼ ► and you know my dad was from Seattle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1968">TS</a>]
00:32:51 ◼ ► he'd lived his entire life in Seattle he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1971">TS</a>]
00:32:56 ◼ ► had been living in Anchorage for two [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1976">TS</a>]
00:32:59 ◼ ► and yet when my mom left him and moved [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1979">TS</a>]
00:33:03 ◼ ► back to Seattle my dad's stayed in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1983">TS</a>]
00:33:08 ◼ ► good things are happening up here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1988">TS</a>]
00:33:11 ◼ ► and it I never questioned it as a kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1991">TS</a>]
00:33:13 ◼ ► because you don't know enough to know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1993">TS</a>]
00:33:15 ◼ ► what you know your parents what they do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1995">TS</a>]
00:33:16 ◼ ► just seems like reasonable but after I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/1996">TS</a>]
00:33:21 ◼ ► had a kid I was like wait a minute [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2001">TS</a>]
00:33:23 ◼ ► he didn't have anything going on in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2003">TS</a>]
00:33:26 ◼ ► Anchorage why didn't he just move back [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2006">TS</a>]
00:33:29 ◼ ► and it was it was the one thing I wish I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2009">TS</a>]
00:33:33 ◼ ► could talk to him about now and just say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2013">TS</a>]
00:33:37 ◼ ► what was the logic there like you living [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2017">TS</a>]
00:33:41 ◼ ► in Alaska and mom living in Seattle made [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2021">TS</a>]
00:33:44 ◼ ► our lives growing up really complicated [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2024">TS</a>]
00:33:47 ◼ ► and if you had just said well you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2027">TS</a>]
00:33:50 ◼ ► I'm moving back to Seattle because I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2030">TS</a>]
00:33:54 ◼ ► getting a divorce and she wants to live [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2034">TS</a>]
00:33:56 ◼ ► down there and I guess I'm just gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2036">TS</a>]
00:33:57 ◼ ► bite the bullet or whatever on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2037">TS</a>]
00:34:00 ◼ ► I just Hannah I you know I it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2040">TS</a>]
00:34:05 ◼ ► conversation I would love to have with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2045">TS</a>]
00:34:06 ◼ ► them I don't know yeah so you you like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2046">TS</a>]
00:34:12 ◼ ► doing the show at 9:00 this episode of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2052">TS</a>]
00:34:18 ◼ ► Rodrik on the line is brought to you by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2058">TS</a>]
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00:34:24 ◼ ► supertrain friends Casper is a sleep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2064">TS</a>]
00:34:27 ◼ ► brand that has created an outrageously [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2067">TS</a>]
00:34:29 ◼ ► comfortable mattress that they sell [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2069">TS</a>]
00:34:32 ◼ ► eliminating commission driven inflated [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2072">TS</a>]
00:34:34 ◼ ► prices its award-winning sleep surface [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2074">TS</a>]
00:34:37 ◼ ► was developed in-house it has a sleek [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2077">TS</a>]
00:34:39 ◼ ► design and is delivered in a small how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2079">TS</a>]
00:34:42 ◼ ► did they even do that sized box that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2082">TS</a>]
00:34:45 ◼ ► a size of box I've seen it in addition [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2085">TS</a>]
00:34:47 ◼ ► to the mattress Casper also offers an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2087">TS</a>]
00:34:49 ◼ ► adaptive pillow and soft breathable [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2089">TS</a>]
00:34:51 ◼ ► sheets the mattress industry has forced [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2091">TS</a>]
00:34:54 ◼ ► consumers into paying notoriously high [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2094">TS</a>]
00:34:56 ◼ ► markups and Casper is revolutionizing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2096">TS</a>]
00:34:58 ◼ ► the mattress industry by cutting the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2098">TS</a>]
00:35:00 ◼ ► cost of dealing with resellers and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2100">TS</a>]
00:35:01 ◼ ► showrooms and passing that savings [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2101">TS</a>]
00:35:03 ◼ ► directly to the consumer friends this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2103">TS</a>]
00:35:05 ◼ ► a high quality mattress because an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2105">TS</a>]
00:35:07 ◼ ► in-house team of engineers spent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2107">TS</a>]
00:35:08 ◼ ► thousands of hours developing the Casper [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2108">TS</a>]
00:35:10 ◼ ► it combines supportive memory foams for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2110">TS</a>]
00:35:13 ◼ ► a sleep surface that's got just the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2113">TS</a>]
00:35:15 ◼ ► right sink in just the right bounce plus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2115">TS</a>]
00:35:17 ◼ ► its breathable design sleeps cool to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2117">TS</a>]
00:35:20 ◼ ► help you regulate your temperature [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2120">TS</a>]
00:35:21 ◼ ► through the night you want to regulate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2121">TS</a>]
00:35:23 ◼ ► that temperature Casper will help you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2123">TS</a>]
00:35:25 ◼ ► with that buying a Casper mattress is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2125">TS</a>]
00:35:27 ◼ ► completely risk-free Casper offers free [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2127">TS</a>]
00:35:30 ◼ ► delivery and free returns with a 100 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2130">TS</a>]
00:35:32 ◼ ► night home trial if you don't love it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2132">TS</a>]
00:35:33 ◼ ► they'll pick it up and refund you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2133">TS</a>]
00:35:35 ◼ ► everything and Casper understands that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2135">TS</a>]
00:35:37 ◼ ► how important it is for you to truly try [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2137">TS</a>]
00:35:39 ◼ ► sleeping on a mattress before you commit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2139">TS</a>]
00:35:40 ◼ ► especially considering that's where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2140">TS</a>]
00:35:42 ◼ ► you're gonna spend about a 30-year life [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2142">TS</a>]
00:35:43 ◼ ► my household has two Casper mattresses [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2143">TS</a>]
00:35:46 ◼ ► and we love them to pieces is actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2146">TS</a>]
00:35:48 ◼ ► kind of weird that even these years into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2148">TS</a>]
00:35:51 ◼ ► my Casper ownership I still think about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2151">TS</a>]
00:35:52 ◼ ► the day that it arrives I think about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2152">TS</a>]
00:35:54 ◼ ► and marvel at how easy it was to receive [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2154">TS</a>]
00:35:56 ◼ ► and set up our mattress I miss my cap [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2156">TS</a>]
00:35:59 ◼ ► Casper when I don't have it it's just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2159">TS</a>]
00:36:01 ◼ ► the best so try it out 100 nights decide [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2161">TS</a>]
00:36:03 ◼ ► if it's the mattress that's right for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2163">TS</a>]
00:36:04 ◼ ► you right now you can get fifty dollars [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2164">TS</a>]
00:36:07 ◼ ► toward any mattress purchase by visiting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2167">TS</a>]
00:36:09 ◼ ► Casper comm slash supertrain and using [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2169">TS</a>]
00:36:11 ◼ ► the very special offer code supertrain [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2171">TS</a>]
00:36:13 ◼ ► terms and conditions apply our thanks to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2173">TS</a>]
00:36:16 ◼ ► Casper for supporting Roderick online [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2176">TS</a>]
00:36:18 ◼ ► and all the great shows that we do we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2178">TS</a>]
00:36:22 ◼ ► get off track there no no no we put the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2182">TS</a>]
00:36:25 ◼ ► track on the skis this time buddy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2185">TS</a>]
00:36:30 ◼ ► finished more soda sometimes sometimes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2190">TS</a>]
00:36:43 ◼ ► when that happens and the there is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2203">TS</a>]
00:36:48 ◼ ► split and one person takes the child [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2208">TS</a>]
00:36:53 ◼ ► this is not a reflection on any given [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2213">TS</a>]
00:36:55 ◼ ► couple or parent sometimes it's a an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2215">TS</a>]
00:36:58 ◼ ► offensive maneuver to say I'm going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2218">TS</a>]
00:37:03 ◼ ► take little Rover and we are going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2223">TS</a>]
00:37:06 ◼ ► move to Maine then the other person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2226">TS</a>]
00:37:10 ◼ ► might say well why would you want to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2230">TS</a>]
00:37:11 ◼ ► move to Maine don't you know I've always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2231">TS</a>]
00:37:15 ◼ ► wanted to move now but the but then that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2235">TS</a>]
00:37:19 ◼ ► does put the the other partner in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2239">TS</a>]
00:37:22 ◼ ► strange position because what they do or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2242">TS</a>]
00:37:24 ◼ ► don't do we'll still have ramifications [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2244">TS</a>]
00:37:26 ◼ ► and everybody's life changes like does [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2246">TS</a>]
00:37:31 ◼ ► the offensive parent want them to come [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2251">TS</a>]
00:37:33 ◼ ► there are they trying to get away from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2253">TS</a>]
00:37:35 ◼ ► that person even when they know that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2255">TS</a>]
00:37:39 ◼ ► other person being able to see the child [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2259">TS</a>]
00:37:40 ◼ ► I think that's complicated business yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2260">TS</a>]
00:37:47 ◼ ► there's a lot of there's a lot of things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2267">TS</a>]
00:37:50 ◼ ► they're complicated it's true wait this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2270">TS</a>]
00:37:58 ◼ ► school start for you know and it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2278">TS</a>]
00:38:03 ◼ ► it's a constant source of confusion to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2283">TS</a>]
00:38:05 ◼ ► me how school anywhere can start before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2285">TS</a>]
00:38:09 ◼ ► September 5th yes I totally Cherie [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2289">TS</a>]
00:38:14 ◼ ► school shouldn't start before September [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2294">TS</a>]
00:38:16 ◼ ► 5th then it should be out by June 14th [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2296">TS</a>]
00:38:18 ◼ ► at the latest it's just it's one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2298">TS</a>]
00:38:20 ◼ ► those things that just messes with your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2300">TS</a>]
00:38:22 ◼ ► head you know like when they change [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2302">TS</a>]
00:38:25 ◼ ► daylight saving time you know that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2305">TS</a>]
00:38:27 ◼ ► screwed up a lot of stuff in my brain [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2307">TS</a>]
00:38:30 ◼ ► and in the world but when they started [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2310">TS</a>]
00:38:33 ◼ ► having schools start before Labor Day [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2313">TS</a>]
00:38:35 ◼ ► that is very really weird I don't get it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2315">TS</a>]
00:38:39 ◼ ► what is the point of it yeah I mean I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2319">TS</a>]
00:38:42 ◼ ► see that the saw from the standpoint of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2322">TS</a>]
00:38:48 ◼ ► government and I'm sure this is true of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2328">TS</a>]
00:38:51 ◼ ► you in California too to some degree but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2331">TS</a>]
00:38:57 ◼ ► my understanding is that the schools are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2337">TS</a>]
00:39:00 ◼ ► funded through this complicated formula [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2340">TS</a>]
00:39:09 ◼ ► attendances and they have to and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2349">TS</a>]
00:39:14 ◼ ► they they apply for money based on how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2354">TS</a>]
00:39:16 ◼ ► many kids attended how many days and if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2356">TS</a>]
00:39:23 ◼ ► they have absences or if they have snow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2363">TS</a>]
00:39:29 ◼ ► days or other unforeseen you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2369">TS</a>]
00:39:35 ◼ ► absolute days when the kids aren't there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2375">TS</a>]
00:39:37 ◼ ► then they lose money mm-hmm and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2377">TS</a>]
00:39:40 ◼ ► need that money they need that money for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2380">TS</a>]
00:39:43 ◼ ► basic services and they're in a they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2383">TS</a>]
00:39:45 ◼ ► kind of stuck in this thing where it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2385">TS</a>]
00:39:46 ◼ ► like well it cost money to keep the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2386">TS</a>]
00:39:48 ◼ ► doors open but we need we don't have the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2388">TS</a>]
00:39:52 ◼ ► so we have to keep the we have to keep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2392">TS</a>]
00:39:54 ◼ ► the doors open we have to keep having [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2394">TS</a>]
00:39:55 ◼ ► more school days in order to have the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2395">TS</a>]
00:39:58 ◼ ► funding to having to have school so that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2398">TS</a>]
00:40:03 ◼ ► you know at least in Seattle our school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2403">TS</a>]
00:40:05 ◼ ► has this what I think is a kind of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2405">TS</a>]
00:40:08 ◼ ► crazy attendance policy where a parent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2408">TS</a>]
00:40:14 ◼ ► who's going to Washington DC for a week [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2414">TS</a>]
00:40:18 ◼ ► Washington DC this is something very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2418">TS</a>]
00:40:21 ◼ ► it's actually coming up it's actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2421">TS</a>]
00:40:24 ◼ ► coming up we're going to Washington DC [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2424">TS</a>]
00:40:25 ◼ ► this month well if you went to school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2425">TS</a>]
00:40:28 ◼ ► here you could expect a nasty letter and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2428">TS</a>]
00:40:31 ◼ ► yeah threat of prosecution basically so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2431">TS</a>]
00:40:34 ◼ ► this is something like I heard I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2434">TS</a>]
00:40:36 ◼ ► know if this right I feel like I heard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2436">TS</a>]
00:40:37 ◼ ► something like a hundred dollars a day [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2437">TS</a>]
00:40:38 ◼ ► but all I know is that the corollary of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2438">TS</a>]
00:40:40 ◼ ► what you described is true I don't know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2440">TS</a>]
00:40:42 ◼ ► exactly how the funding gets there but I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2442">TS</a>]
00:40:43 ◼ ► do know that there are three things we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2443">TS</a>]
00:40:45 ◼ ► learn about and are reminded of pretty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2445">TS</a>]
00:40:48 ◼ ► much every day right which is that by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2448">TS</a>]
00:40:50 ◼ ► the school yeah oh yeah yeah yeah I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2450">TS</a>]
00:40:53 ◼ ► you know school starts promptly at 7:50 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2453">TS</a>]
00:40:55 ◼ ► do not be late there's no reason to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2455">TS</a>]
00:40:57 ◼ ► late if you're going to drive to school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2457">TS</a>]
00:40:59 ◼ ► please use stop drop and go because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2459">TS</a>]
00:41:00 ◼ ► otherwise it's chaos and our neighbors [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2460">TS</a>]
00:41:02 ◼ ► hate us and children might die because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2462">TS</a>]
00:41:03 ◼ ► you're driving around in the streets and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2463">TS</a>]
00:41:05 ◼ ► the other one is you must go to school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2465">TS</a>]
00:41:07 ◼ ► this is nothing that we are going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2467">TS</a>]
00:41:09 ◼ ► debate and here's the bottom line the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2469">TS</a>]
00:41:11 ◼ ► bottom line is that every day you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2471">TS</a>]
00:41:13 ◼ ► absent this school loses money and if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2473">TS</a>]
00:41:16 ◼ ► your kid is out for a week of Washington [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2476">TS</a>]
00:41:18 ◼ ► that's actually very costly for the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2478">TS</a>]
00:41:19 ◼ ► school and then we have to threaten you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2479">TS</a>]
00:41:20 ◼ ► because there is some kind of an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2480">TS</a>]
00:41:22 ◼ ► accounting at some point about exactly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2482">TS</a>]
00:41:25 ◼ ► what you described like were the absence [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2485">TS</a>]
00:41:27 ◼ ► and attendance numbers what they were I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2487">TS</a>]
00:41:29 ◼ ► guess estimated to be and I don't know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2489">TS</a>]
00:41:34 ◼ ► why we decided that's how we needed to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2494">TS</a>]
00:41:38 ◼ ► we decided it at some point obviously [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2498">TS</a>]
00:41:41 ◼ ► the the the schools are the classic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2501">TS</a>]
00:41:44 ◼ ► thing of where there are a lot of a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2504">TS</a>]
00:41:46 ◼ ► a lot of people that don't have kids and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2506">TS</a>]
00:41:48 ◼ ► in the American in the current American [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2508">TS</a>]
00:41:52 ◼ ► mindset if you don't have a kid then why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2512">TS</a>]
00:41:56 ◼ ► the hell should you pay for the schools [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2516">TS</a>]
00:41:58 ◼ ► all right that's the Florida approach [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2518">TS</a>]
00:42:00 ◼ ► yeah yeah it's for schools back in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2520">TS</a>]
00:42:03 ◼ ► Pennsylvania why would I do it again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2523">TS</a>]
00:42:06 ◼ ► I paid for schools when my mom paid for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2526">TS</a>]
00:42:08 ◼ ► schools for me but I don't have a kid or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2528">TS</a>]
00:42:09 ◼ ► I don't you know or whatever like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2529">TS</a>]
00:42:14 ◼ ► collectively about ourselves anymore and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2534">TS</a>]
00:42:16 ◼ ► that we don't look at taxes as a way of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2536">TS</a>]
00:42:20 ◼ ► affecting collective improvement right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2540">TS</a>]
00:42:23 ◼ ► but that everyone is out for themselves [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2543">TS</a>]
00:42:28 ◼ ► government believes like the kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2548">TS</a>]
00:42:30 ◼ ► thing where you would I mean I I would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2550">TS</a>]
00:42:32 ◼ ► not want to point in a particular party [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2552">TS</a>]
00:42:33 ◼ ► but it feels like one of those things if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2553">TS</a>]
00:42:35 ◼ ► you go yeah of course we've got to fund [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2555">TS</a>]
00:42:36 ◼ ► the schools but we also have to find [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2556">TS</a>]
00:42:38 ◼ ► some way to make it drudgery we're you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2558">TS</a>]
00:42:40 ◼ ► know in the same way like you know my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2560">TS</a>]
00:42:41 ◼ ► feelings on things like reading logs [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2561">TS</a>]
00:42:42 ◼ ► that you just drive me crazy the whole [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2562">TS</a>]
00:42:44 ◼ ► like go prove you read you know okay you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2564">TS</a>]
00:42:47 ◼ ► know it's like why don't you take [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2567">TS</a>]
00:42:49 ◼ ► something my kid loves and turn it into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2569">TS</a>]
00:42:50 ◼ ► something she can feel guilty about not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2570">TS</a>]
00:42:52 ◼ ► doing even though she's doing it but you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2572">TS</a>]
00:42:53 ◼ ► didn't do the log right same way I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2573">TS</a>]
00:42:55 ◼ ► like there's all these things where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2575">TS</a>]
00:42:56 ◼ ► you're like it's one of those like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2576">TS</a>]
00:42:58 ◼ ► alright you you just use one of your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2578">TS</a>]
00:43:00 ◼ ► monkey paw wishes and you want money but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2580">TS</a>]
00:43:03 ◼ ► guess how this is gonna work your school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2583">TS</a>]
00:43:10 ◼ ► districts voice is Bob Odenkirk but yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2590">TS</a>]
00:43:19 ◼ ► you feel so terrible for the schools you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2599">TS</a>]
00:43:22 ◼ ► want them to have resources and do the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2602">TS</a>]
00:43:24 ◼ ► job that they do well but the way that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2604">TS</a>]
00:43:28 ◼ ► the way that it works out where it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2608">TS</a>]
00:43:30 ◼ ► like well school goes to July 5th now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2610">TS</a>]
00:43:32 ◼ ► and it starts again August 15th because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2612">TS</a>]
00:43:36 ◼ ► we had a couple of snow days yeah and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2616">TS</a>]
00:43:39 ◼ ► you're like what are we doing to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2619">TS</a>]
00:43:41 ◼ ► ourselves like where we are we're doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2621">TS</a>]
00:43:44 ◼ ► we're doing a bad job in in pursuit of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2624">TS</a>]
00:43:52 ◼ ► we are my daughter's school is in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2632">TS</a>]
00:43:56 ◼ ► neighborhood that is very close to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2636">TS</a>]
00:43:58 ◼ ► University and it's the classic example [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2638">TS</a>]
00:44:01 ◼ ► of a Seattle School where the additional [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2641">TS</a>]
00:44:05 ◼ ► services that are not provided for by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2645">TS</a>]
00:44:07 ◼ ► the school district by which I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2647">TS</a>]
00:44:09 ◼ ► music lessons art lessons interesting PE [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2649">TS</a>]
00:44:15 ◼ ► interesting after-school activities [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2655">TS</a>]
00:44:18 ◼ ► supplies all those things are paid for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2658">TS</a>]
00:44:22 ◼ ► by a PTA and the PTA is able to pay for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2662">TS</a>]
00:44:26 ◼ ► those things because this neighborhood [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2666">TS</a>]
00:44:28 ◼ ► is situated very close to Microsoft and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2668">TS</a>]
00:44:33 ◼ ► Amazon and etc etc and so the PTA has an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2673">TS</a>]
00:44:39 ◼ ► auction and the PTA sponsors a dance and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2679">TS</a>]
00:44:43 ◼ ► the PTA sends you 700 emails a year and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2683">TS</a>]
00:44:46 ◼ ► by university but the auctions coming up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2686">TS</a>]
00:44:49 ◼ ► so yeah I don't know I know you need to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2689">TS</a>]
00:44:54 ◼ ► get two tickets to the end of the sea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2694">TS</a>]
00:44:55 ◼ ► ball there were only $250 each it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2695">TS</a>]
00:44:58 ◼ ► gonna be so much fun the end of all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2698">TS</a>]
00:45:02 ◼ ► but as a result of that her school can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2702">TS</a>]
00:45:05 ◼ ► hire an art teacher who is bona fide [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2705">TS</a>]
00:45:10 ◼ ► artists and a wonderful woman who really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2710">TS</a>]
00:45:15 ◼ ► inspires the kids and gives them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2715">TS</a>]
00:45:19 ◼ ► incredibly enriching artistic activities [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2719">TS</a>]
00:45:25 ◼ ► and like she is a jewel and she is paid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2725">TS</a>]
00:45:30 ◼ ► for entirely by this extra you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2730">TS</a>]
00:45:35 ◼ ► district organization basically rich [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2735">TS</a>]
00:45:39 ◼ ► parents and so my daughter's school has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2739">TS</a>]
00:45:43 ◼ ► a high rating on Yelp got a 5 out of 5 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2743">TS</a>]
00:45:48 ◼ ► stars and there are other schools in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2748">TS</a>]
00:45:52 ◼ ► school district that don't have any arts [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2752">TS</a>]
00:45:56 ◼ ► education because their PTA has no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2756">TS</a>]
00:45:59 ◼ ► ability to lay hands on that kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2759">TS</a>]
00:46:01 ◼ ► resource beyond those resources and that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2761">TS</a>]
00:46:06 ◼ ► like baked into the Seattle School [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2766">TS</a>]
00:46:09 ◼ ► District which is crazy to think that a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2769">TS</a>]
00:46:12 ◼ ► city as liberal and progressive and rich [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2772">TS</a>]
00:46:15 ◼ ► as Seattle should have that be the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2775">TS</a>]
00:46:19 ◼ ► system and it and it's a it's a system [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2779">TS</a>]
00:46:24 ◼ ► that like recapitulates itself every day [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2784">TS</a>]
00:46:26 ◼ ► because when forty year olds decide that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2786">TS</a>]
00:46:28 ◼ ► they're gonna move out of downtown they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2788">TS</a>]
00:46:30 ◼ ► read Yelp they well and they have to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2790">TS</a>]
00:46:33 ◼ ► decide where they're gonna buy their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2793">TS</a>]
00:46:34 ◼ ► house based on how many stars their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2794">TS</a>]
00:46:37 ◼ ► school has and if you're if your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2797">TS</a>]
00:46:40 ◼ ► neighborhood has three star school let [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2800">TS</a>]
00:46:42 ◼ ► alone a one point four star school yep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2802">TS</a>]
00:46:46 ◼ ► you have no idea what that means you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2806">TS</a>]
00:46:48 ◼ ► haven't been to the school you haven't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2808">TS</a>]
00:46:50 ◼ ► talked to the teachers you haven't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2810">TS</a>]
00:46:51 ◼ ► toured the campus you've just you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2811">TS</a>]
00:46:53 ◼ ► looking at it online and it's like well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2813">TS</a>]
00:46:56 ◼ ► I can't move into that neighborhood so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2816">TS</a>]
00:46:59 ◼ ► it just perpetuates this idea that like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2819">TS</a>]
00:47:02 ◼ ► well you got to move up north into one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2822">TS</a>]
00:47:06 ◼ ► of these bedroom communities where the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2826">TS</a>]
00:47:11 ◼ ► neighborhoods down here but their school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2831">TS</a>]
00:47:14 ◼ ► districts don't have good stars you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2834">TS</a>]
00:47:19 ◼ ► we can't even begin to look at an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2839">TS</a>]
00:47:21 ◼ ► affordable house down there because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2841">TS</a>]
00:47:25 ◼ ► there's a reason it's affordable there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2845">TS</a>]
00:47:28 ◼ ► a reason it's affordable and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2848">TS</a>]
00:47:29 ◼ ► because when you're doing your kid gets [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2849">TS</a>]
00:47:30 ◼ ► to school they're given a mop bucket and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2850">TS</a>]
00:47:33 ◼ ► a piece of dry black bread mm-hmm there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2853">TS</a>]
00:47:37 ◼ ► you know and they are sent to learn by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2857">TS</a>]
00:47:40 ◼ ► cleaning out the toilets at the prison [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2860">TS</a>]
00:47:42 ◼ ► hmm it's like I don't really I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2862">TS</a>]
00:47:45 ◼ ► that all the schools here probably I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2865">TS</a>]
00:47:47 ◼ ► mean I don't know I don't know so part [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2867">TS</a>]
00:47:51 ◼ ► of it is should you trust the Stars you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2871">TS</a>]
00:47:55 ◼ ► mhm go eat for yourself try something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2875">TS</a>]
00:47:57 ◼ ► different every time but I don't know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2877">TS</a>]
00:47:59 ◼ ► how is it down there how is it in San [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2879">TS</a>]
00:48:01 ◼ ► Francisco is it a similar situation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2881">TS</a>]
00:48:02 ◼ ► yeah it's gotten way way better it was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2882">TS</a>]
00:48:08 ◼ ► what a liberal dystopia at one point [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2888">TS</a>]
00:48:11 ◼ ► where every the system that was in place [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2891">TS</a>]
00:48:13 ◼ ► not long before my kid went to school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2893">TS</a>]
00:48:16 ◼ ► really felt like it was invented by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2896">TS</a>]
00:48:17 ◼ ► young liberals who don't have kids [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2897">TS</a>]
00:48:20 ◼ ► people like basically College sophomores [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2900">TS</a>]
00:48:22 ◼ ► because it was what it came down to was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2902">TS</a>]
00:48:28 ◼ ► not even a lottery it was just it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2908">TS</a>]
00:48:31 ◼ ► kind of it could be fairly random where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2911">TS</a>]
00:48:33 ◼ ► your kid went to school like you could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2913">TS</a>]
00:48:35 ◼ ► in this town so many people move to so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2915">TS</a>]
00:48:37 ◼ ► they don't need don't so they won't need [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2917">TS</a>]
00:48:38 ◼ ► to own a car for example you your kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2918">TS</a>]
00:48:41 ◼ ► might be on the diagonal you know the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2921">TS</a>]
00:48:44 ◼ ► opposite diagonal of town from where you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2924">TS</a>]
00:48:46 ◼ ► live based on I think based on like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2926">TS</a>]
00:48:49 ◼ ► something fairly random that I mean I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2929">TS</a>]
00:48:52 ◼ ► think takes into account things like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2932">TS</a>]
00:48:54 ◼ ► diversity but it was a it was basically [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2934">TS</a>]
00:48:57 ◼ ► a crapshoot I mean I had a friend who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2937">TS</a>]
00:48:59 ◼ ► lived in Duboce triangle whose kid went [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2939">TS</a>]
00:49:04 ◼ ► to elementary school in North Beach no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2944">TS</a>]
00:49:08 ◼ ► big aunt did not a car so he took his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2948">TS</a>]
00:49:11 ◼ ► kid that that ride I guess what maybe a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2951">TS</a>]
00:49:15 ◼ ► five film where I'm not sure take your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2955">TS</a>]
00:49:16 ◼ ► kid that ride on the bus and then you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2956">TS</a>]
00:49:19 ◼ ► come back and you go to work how is that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2959">TS</a>]
00:49:22 ◼ ► oh it depends but like I would allow for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2962">TS</a>]
00:49:26 ◼ ► roundtrip I'd allow an hour and a half [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2966">TS</a>]
00:49:28 ◼ ► yeah that's crazy right I mean yeah San [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2968">TS</a>]
00:49:31 ◼ ► Francisco well that's done it it is way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2971">TS</a>]
00:49:34 ◼ ► better and so the way it works now is of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2974">TS</a>]
00:49:38 ◼ ► course there's paperwork and you have to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2978">TS</a>]
00:49:39 ◼ ► like to talk to people about this and be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2979">TS</a>]
00:49:41 ◼ ► a fretful hen for several years before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2981">TS</a>]
00:49:42 ◼ ► your kids report even matters but when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2982">TS</a>]
00:49:46 ◼ ► you're ready you so you say like what's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2986">TS</a>]
00:49:48 ◼ ► what school you want your kid to go to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2988">TS</a>]
00:49:50 ◼ ► and you get I think up to three choices [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2990">TS</a>]
00:49:54 ◼ ► something like this don't quote me but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2994">TS</a>]
00:49:56 ◼ ► long story short the way it works now is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2996">TS</a>]
00:49:58 ◼ ► mostly if you're asking for a normal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/2998">TS</a>]
00:50:02 ◼ ► school that's near your house there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3002">TS</a>]
00:50:05 ◼ ► pretty good chance you'll get it if that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3005">TS</a>]
00:50:07 ◼ ► child already had an older sibling in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3007">TS</a>]
00:50:09 ◼ ► that school you're pretty much I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3009">TS</a>]
00:50:11 ◼ ► guaranteed especially if they're still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3011">TS</a>]
00:50:13 ◼ ► there you're pretty much guaranteed to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3013">TS</a>]
00:50:16 ◼ ► eligibility mmm-hmm as I understand it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3016">TS</a>]
00:50:18 ◼ ► there are distinctions one distinction [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3018">TS</a>]
00:50:21 ◼ ► is that it's my understanding that every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3021">TS</a>]
00:50:22 ◼ ► every class of school elementary middle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3022">TS</a>]
00:50:25 ◼ ► and high school but I know this is true [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3025">TS</a>]
00:50:27 ◼ ► in my daughter's school there are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3027">TS</a>]
00:50:28 ◼ ► different schools that attend to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3028">TS</a>]
00:50:33 ◼ ► and that gets broken out by kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3033">TS</a>]
00:50:34 ◼ ► specialty that that school will deal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3034">TS</a>]
00:50:36 ◼ ► with so it could be kids who are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3036">TS</a>]
00:50:38 ◼ ► developmentally disabled it could be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3038">TS</a>]
00:50:39 ◼ ► kids with emotional issues it could be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3039">TS</a>]
00:50:42 ◼ ► kids with physical disabilities it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3042">TS</a>]
00:50:44 ◼ ► way of saying hey you can go to whatever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3044">TS</a>]
00:50:45 ◼ ► school you want but if you want the one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3045">TS</a>]
00:50:47 ◼ ► where we've really put the resources to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3047">TS</a>]
00:50:48 ◼ ► help you out this is the one to go to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3048">TS</a>]
00:50:49 ◼ ► which I think you know makes some sense [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3049">TS</a>]
00:50:51 ◼ ► if there's limited funds I guess that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3051">TS</a>]
00:50:53 ◼ ► yeah and then like if you want to go to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3053">TS</a>]
00:50:56 ◼ ► like a really good high school then I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3056">TS</a>]
00:50:59 ◼ ► think it is very competitive like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3059">TS</a>]
00:51:01 ◼ ► public high school if you want to go to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3061">TS</a>]
00:51:03 ◼ ► what's the one here in town what's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3063">TS</a>]
00:51:07 ◼ ► big high school in San Francisco Lowell [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3067">TS</a>]
00:51:11 ◼ ► if you were to go to Lowell which is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3071">TS</a>]
00:51:12 ◼ ► best high school in San Francisco and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3072">TS</a>]
00:51:13 ◼ ► everyone says so then it's a little more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3073">TS</a>]
00:51:16 ◼ ► you know a little more tricky like just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3076">TS</a>]
00:51:18 ◼ ► just because you live by the mall [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3078">TS</a>]
00:51:19 ◼ ► doesn't mean you're gonna get into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3079">TS</a>]
00:51:20 ◼ ► Lowell did you go to the best High [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3080">TS</a>]
00:51:24 ◼ ► School in your town arguably yes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3084">TS</a>]
00:51:30 ◼ ► I think so and what made it the best [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3090">TS</a>]
00:51:34 ◼ ► High School in your town one thing was I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3094">TS</a>]
00:51:36 ◼ ► think it got a lot of resources so it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3096">TS</a>]
00:51:38 ◼ ► was the school that had so the old high [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3098">TS</a>]
00:51:41 ◼ ► school became the junior high my high [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3101">TS</a>]
00:51:43 ◼ ► school was built I think in the 60s then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3103">TS</a>]
00:51:46 ◼ ► way north of town out in the middle of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3106">TS</a>]
00:51:49 ◼ ► they built a high school a little later [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3109">TS</a>]
00:51:50 ◼ ► and then the junior high that I went to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3110">TS</a>]
00:51:53 ◼ ► in starting in the 80s turned into a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3113">TS</a>]
00:51:56 ◼ ► high school so there were three high [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3116">TS</a>]
00:51:57 ◼ ► schools at the time I went to high [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3117">TS</a>]
00:51:58 ◼ ► school and I think ours it was the it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3118">TS</a>]
00:52:01 ◼ ► was the the it was a comprehensive high [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3121">TS</a>]
00:52:03 ◼ ► school so it had vocational stuff it had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3123">TS</a>]
00:52:06 ◼ ► like the full battery of available [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3126">TS</a>]
00:52:08 ◼ ► things and it was it was huge there was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3128">TS</a>]
00:52:10 ◼ ► over 2,000 kids at my high school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3130">TS</a>]
00:52:13 ◼ ► 666 kids mm-hmm nice entered my freshman [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3133">TS</a>]
00:52:18 ◼ ► year and I think there were something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3138">TS</a>]
00:52:19 ◼ ► like 500 graduates and if you think back [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3139">TS</a>]
00:52:22 ◼ ► at your at your time there can you with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3142">TS</a>]
00:52:27 ◼ ► the wisdom of time see where those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3147">TS</a>]
00:52:33 ◼ ► resources were allocated in a way that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3153">TS</a>]
00:52:35 ◼ ► benefited you no I mean did they did the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3155">TS</a>]
00:52:39 ◼ ► resources that that school have did it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3159">TS</a>]
00:52:40 ◼ ► hire a higher caliber of teacher one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3160">TS</a>]
00:52:44 ◼ ► had a profound effect on your life oh um [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3164">TS</a>]
00:52:47 ◼ ► I mean I am really like some of my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3167">TS</a>]
00:52:49 ◼ ► teachers a lot I don't think so I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3169">TS</a>]
00:52:51 ◼ ► not my first of all this is whatever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3171">TS</a>]
00:52:53 ◼ ► over 30 years ago so my memories spotty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3173">TS</a>]
00:52:55 ◼ ► yeah but but no golf I went to golf and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3175">TS</a>]
00:52:59 ◼ ► golf had you know certain things Hudson [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3179">TS</a>]
00:53:01 ◼ ► had certain things everybody had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3181">TS</a>]
00:53:02 ◼ ► football everybody had band I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3182">TS</a>]
00:53:05 ◼ ► think there was any one of them that was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3185">TS</a>]
00:53:07 ◼ ► distinctly the less good school that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3187">TS</a>]
00:53:10 ◼ ► in had a better football team than we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3190">TS</a>]
00:53:12 ◼ ► did but I'm trying to think of this in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3192">TS</a>]
00:53:14 ◼ ► so let's go look up comprehensive high [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3194">TS</a>]
00:53:20 ◼ ► school so like you know the band stuff I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3200">TS</a>]
00:53:22 ◼ ► did it seemed like okay well funded of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3202">TS</a>]
00:53:24 ◼ ► course we had to do you know self [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3204">TS</a>]
00:53:26 ◼ ► Snickers bars and stuff comprehensive [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3206">TS</a>]
00:53:28 ◼ ► high schools are the most popular form [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3208">TS</a>]
00:53:29 ◼ ► of public high schools compared to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3209">TS</a>]
00:53:30 ◼ ► common part of it above a high school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3210">TS</a>]
00:53:32 ◼ ► specializing University prep school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3212">TS</a>]
00:53:34 ◼ ► academic preparation we did an 8 P we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3214">TS</a>]
00:53:37 ◼ ► Advanced Placement did you take AP no no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3217">TS</a>]
00:53:40 ◼ ► it was not up to that yeah well I hung [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3220">TS</a>]
00:53:44 ◼ ► out with a lot of the kids especially [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3224">TS</a>]
00:53:46 ◼ ► the Venn diagram of AP kids that were in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3226">TS</a>]
00:53:47 ◼ ► band that was a lot of my friends [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3227">TS</a>]
00:53:51 ◼ ► sexy sexy crowd I'm trying to think the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3231">TS</a>]
00:53:55 ◼ ► aunt answer your question no I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3235">TS</a>]
00:53:56 ◼ ► certainly my life has been hugely shaped [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3236">TS</a>]
00:53:59 ◼ ► by teachers and professors at various [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3239">TS</a>]
00:54:02 ◼ ► points but I mean I don't think they had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3242">TS</a>]
00:54:04 ◼ ► like what a Cornel West I don't think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3244">TS</a>]
00:54:06 ◼ ► they had like Carl Sagan I don't think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3246">TS</a>]
00:54:09 ◼ ► they had like you know I don't think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3249">TS</a>]
00:54:12 ◼ ► there was anybody there who was like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3252">TS</a>]
00:54:13 ◼ ► world famous or anything well that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3253">TS</a>]
00:54:15 ◼ ► what I mean it just just and I and this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3255">TS</a>]
00:54:18 ◼ ► is my my reply when people in Seattle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3258">TS</a>]
00:54:21 ◼ ► talked about sorry I didn't need you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3261">TS</a>]
00:54:23 ◼ ► rail that oh not at all no I that was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3263">TS</a>]
00:54:25 ◼ ► you were you were answering the question [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3265">TS</a>]
00:54:27 ◼ ► I think pretty well which is that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3267">TS</a>]
00:54:30 ◼ ► there anywhere you can point to in your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3270">TS</a>]
00:54:33 ◼ ► schooling where the advantages that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3273">TS</a>]
00:54:36 ◼ ► took from school were the were the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3276">TS</a>]
00:54:39 ◼ ► result of decisions that were being made [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3279">TS</a>]
00:54:41 ◼ ► at the school district level rather than [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3281">TS</a>]
00:54:45 ◼ ► right what teacher you got who you met [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3285">TS</a>]
00:54:47 ◼ ► where you happen to be standing on any [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3287">TS</a>]
00:54:49 ◼ ► given day you know what I'm gonna answer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3289">TS</a>]
00:54:51 ◼ ► that in an even deeper way than you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3291">TS</a>]
00:54:53 ◼ ► asked which is to say one truism [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3293">TS</a>]
00:54:56 ◼ ► something I feel like has been true no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3296">TS</a>]
00:54:57 ◼ ► matter where I went what any school that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3297">TS</a>]
00:54:59 ◼ ► I was involved with whether that was in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3299">TS</a>]
00:55:01 ◼ ► Ohio or in Florida or in California [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3301">TS</a>]
00:55:03 ◼ ► there's one thing that's true which is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3303">TS</a>]
00:55:06 ◼ ► like I'll bet you dimes to donuts no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3306">TS</a>]
00:55:07 ◼ ► matter what edifice you're in no matter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3307">TS</a>]
00:55:10 ◼ ► what good then further to that what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3310">TS</a>]
00:55:12 ◼ ► grade they're attending I bet you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3312">TS</a>]
00:55:14 ◼ ► they're still gonna be like let's say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3314">TS</a>]
00:55:18 ◼ ► there's I don't know arguably let's say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3318">TS</a>]
00:55:19 ◼ ► for this particular grade level there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3319">TS</a>]
00:55:21 ◼ ► six teachers up through middle school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3321">TS</a>]
00:55:24 ◼ ► let's say right you know if you put [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3324">TS</a>]
00:55:26 ◼ ► those however you wanted to do it ranked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3326">TS</a>]
00:55:28 ◼ ► them on a some kind of a curve I bet [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3328">TS</a>]
00:55:32 ◼ ► there's gonna be one that's clearly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3332">TS</a>]
00:55:33 ◼ ► better than the others and one or two [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3333">TS</a>]
00:55:35 ◼ ► who are clearly worse than the others [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3335">TS</a>]
00:55:39 ◼ ► I'm saying no matter where you live no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3339">TS</a>]
00:55:40 ◼ ► matter how much you pay for your house [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3340">TS</a>]
00:55:41 ◼ ► no matter what school you go to there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3341">TS</a>]
00:55:43 ◼ ► still a chance that at the very nice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3343">TS</a>]
00:55:45 ◼ ► school you go to you're gonna have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3345">TS</a>]
00:55:47 ◼ ► you're gonna get matched to a teacher [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3347">TS</a>]
00:55:48 ◼ ► that for whatever reason was not a good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3348">TS</a>]
00:55:50 ◼ ► match to your kid Emily tell you you go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3350">TS</a>]
00:55:52 ◼ ► to the quote/unquote lowest star school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3352">TS</a>]
00:55:54 ◼ ► in town there's somebody in that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3354">TS</a>]
00:55:56 ◼ ► building that could change your kid's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3356">TS</a>]
00:55:58 ◼ ► life and they just might get that person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3358">TS</a>]
00:55:59 ◼ ► it's you see you could see this at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3359">TS</a>]
00:56:02 ◼ ► McDonald's you can see this at the DMV [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3362">TS</a>]
00:56:04 ◼ ► you see this anywhere you go were you as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3364">TS</a>]
00:56:06 ◼ ► I've said before you meet an angel you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3366">TS</a>]
00:56:08 ◼ ► meet somebody who's just amazing my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3368">TS</a>]
00:56:09 ◼ ► first grade teacher was like that we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3369">TS</a>]
00:56:11 ◼ ► were in an out building we were in like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3371">TS</a>]
00:56:13 ◼ ► a mobile home because our school was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3373">TS</a>]
00:56:15 ◼ ► growing and she's the best teacher I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3375">TS</a>]
00:56:18 ◼ ► she I mean when my father was very very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3378">TS</a>]
00:56:21 ◼ ► ill she was like having me over to their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3381">TS</a>]
00:56:23 ◼ ► house she had a birthday party for me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3383">TS</a>]
00:56:25 ◼ ► when I was seven I mean at her house she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3385">TS</a>]
00:56:28 ◼ ► had a over for dinner at her house and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3388">TS</a>]
00:56:31 ◼ ► gave me a hamburger candle I never [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3391">TS</a>]
00:56:33 ◼ ► forgot for that Shirley Jackson there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3393">TS</a>]
00:56:36 ◼ ► no need for you to do that you never [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3396">TS</a>]
00:56:38 ◼ ► needed to do that the country that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3398">TS</a>]
00:56:39 ◼ ► amazing but anyway so that's the problem [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3399">TS</a>]
00:56:43 ◼ ► like you okay you did you did everything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3403">TS</a>]
00:56:44 ◼ ► right like you crossed all the right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3404">TS</a>]
00:56:45 ◼ ► palms you feel that all the right forms [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3405">TS</a>]
00:56:47 ◼ ► and now you're going to the five star [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3407">TS</a>]
00:56:48 ◼ ► school like there is still a chance that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3408">TS</a>]
00:56:50 ◼ ► that is not a good match for your kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3410">TS</a>]
00:56:51 ◼ ► and there's probably not even a way for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3411">TS</a>]
00:56:53 ◼ ► you to know that not even a chance I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3413">TS</a>]
00:56:55 ◼ ► mean there's every likelihood that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3415">TS</a>]
00:56:57 ◼ ► they're gonna get a teacher that rubs [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3417">TS</a>]
00:57:00 ◼ ► them the wrong way or that whatever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3420">TS</a>]
00:57:01 ◼ ► they're not they don't thrive in that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3421">TS</a>]
00:57:02 ◼ ► environment I mean teachers may be great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3422">TS</a>]
00:57:05 ◼ ► teachers having a bad year it happens to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3425">TS</a>]
00:57:09 ◼ ► for second grade I loved mrs. Langford [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3429">TS</a>]
00:57:12 ◼ ► mrs. Langford is where I got cinnamon [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3432">TS</a>]
00:57:15 ◼ ► my sister had mrs. Langford three years [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3435">TS</a>]
00:57:17 ◼ ► later they battled the entire year they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3437">TS</a>]
00:57:20 ◼ ► my sister hated mrs. Langford Wow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3440">TS</a>]
00:57:23 ◼ ► how do you account for that my mom who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3443">TS</a>]
00:57:25 ◼ ► had known mrs. Langford when I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3445">TS</a>]
00:57:28 ◼ ► begging begging please Susan take miss [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3448">TS</a>]
00:57:29 ◼ ► mrs. Langford please take Susan take her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3449">TS</a>]
00:57:32 ◼ ► well and the thing is because I got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3452">TS</a>]
00:57:33 ◼ ► along great with mrs. Langford my mom [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3453">TS</a>]
00:57:37 ◼ ► interaction mrs. Langford was just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3457">TS</a>]
00:57:39 ◼ ► another teacher at the school as far as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3459">TS</a>]
00:57:40 ◼ ► she was concerned yesterday so this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3460">TS</a>]
00:57:44 ◼ ► real quick but like one of my daughter's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3464">TS</a>]
00:57:46 ◼ ► best friends her mom has big job at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3466">TS</a>]
00:57:49 ◼ ► PTA and her grandmother also works [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3469">TS</a>]
00:57:51 ◼ ► heavily this year with the PTA and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3471">TS</a>]
00:57:53 ◼ ► were setting up for first day of school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3473">TS</a>]
00:57:55 ◼ ► they didn't think I'll kiss and cry [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3475">TS</a>]
00:57:56 ◼ ► where like after you said goodbye to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3476">TS</a>]
00:57:57 ◼ ► your kindergartner you can come and have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3477">TS</a>]
00:57:59 ◼ ► a cup of coffee and they were running [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3479">TS</a>]
00:58:00 ◼ ► that at you know 7:30 in the morning but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3480">TS</a>]
00:58:03 ◼ ► anyway my friends at Lee's friends [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3483">TS</a>]
00:58:06 ◼ ► grandmother said you know I think my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3486">TS</a>]
00:58:10 ◼ ► kids used to just get on a bus and go to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3490">TS</a>]
00:58:12 ◼ ► school like I picked my daughter up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3492">TS</a>]
00:58:14 ◼ ► every day I talked to people every day I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3494">TS</a>]
00:58:15 ◼ ► go through lost-and-found every day like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3495">TS</a>]
00:58:17 ◼ ► it's just part of mine and she's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3497">TS</a>]
00:58:18 ◼ ► she's like something says something like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3498">TS</a>]
00:58:20 ◼ ► like I would go to my kids school like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3500">TS</a>]
00:58:21 ◼ ► twice a year I would step in the doors [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3501">TS</a>]
00:58:23 ◼ ► of my kids school I got them out of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3503">TS</a>]
00:58:25 ◼ ► bus and then they came home off the bus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3505">TS</a>]
00:58:27 ◼ ► later totally totally different world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3507">TS</a>]
00:58:29 ◼ ► you didn't used to sit there and check [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3509">TS</a>]
00:58:31 ◼ ► your email every day to find out like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3511">TS</a>]
00:58:33 ◼ ► how things are going or good photos from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3513">TS</a>]
00:58:34 ◼ ► the field trip like that just didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3514">TS</a>]
00:58:36 ◼ ► you got a yearbook and you got four [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3516">TS</a>]
00:58:37 ◼ ► report cards well you know my mom my mom [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3517">TS</a>]
00:58:42 ◼ ► had another layer of insulation because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3522">TS</a>]
00:58:44 ◼ ► she had to be at work at the crack of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3524">TS</a>]
00:58:45 ◼ ► dawn right so she took me to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3525">TS</a>]
00:58:47 ◼ ► babysitter in the morning the babysitter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3527">TS</a>]
00:58:49 ◼ ► sent us to the bus the bus took us to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3529">TS</a>]
00:58:51 ◼ ► the school that at the end of school we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3531">TS</a>]
00:58:53 ◼ ► took the bus back to the neighborhood [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3533">TS</a>]
00:58:56 ◼ ► walked slowly to the babysitter's where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3536">TS</a>]
00:58:59 ◼ ► we were until 6:30 at night when mom [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3539">TS</a>]
00:59:02 ◼ ► came to get us so it was you know my mom [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3542">TS</a>]
00:59:06 ◼ ► said one time these freakin bake sales [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3546">TS</a>]
00:59:09 ◼ ► like I will just give them $50 if I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3549">TS</a>]
00:59:15 ◼ ► don't have to I don't want to go to a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3555">TS</a>]
00:59:16 ◼ ► bake sale and buy a $10 cake five times [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3556">TS</a>]
00:59:18 ◼ ► a year I'll just give you $50 nobody has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3558">TS</a>]
00:59:23 ◼ ► but it's not it's very important that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3563">TS</a>]
00:59:25 ◼ ► you be nominally involved but you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3565">TS</a>]
00:59:29 ◼ ► for you for the two of us right people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3569">TS</a>]
00:59:35 ◼ ► I think admire you admire me because we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3575">TS</a>]
00:59:42 ◼ ► ourselves by accident largely but also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3582">TS</a>]
00:59:47 ◼ ► by virtue of you know sort of myriad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3587">TS</a>]
00:59:53 ◼ ► talents and luck and good fortune but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3593">TS</a>]
00:59:56 ◼ ► also trying things testing things as it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3596">TS</a>]
01:00:00 ◼ ► these compliments I'm really actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3600">TS</a>]
01:00:01 ◼ ► very happy to hear this I'm paying you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3601">TS</a>]
01:00:03 ◼ ► these compliments I don't hear you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3603">TS</a>]
01:00:05 ◼ ► paying me any compliments but that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3605">TS</a>]
01:00:06 ◼ ► damn well you have dignity issues but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3606">TS</a>]
01:00:09 ◼ ► but we didn't succeed in any sense that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3609">TS</a>]
01:00:16 ◼ ► could have been predicted in 1975 or in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3616">TS</a>]
01:00:20 ◼ ► 1985 or in 1995 right there's nothing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3620">TS</a>]
01:00:25 ◼ ► that you and I are doing right now that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3625">TS</a>]
01:00:27 ◼ ► we can directly tie to having gone to a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3627">TS</a>]
01:00:30 ◼ ► good you know what Little John I could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3630">TS</a>]
01:00:32 ◼ ► really see you and if I don't know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3632">TS</a>]
01:00:35 ◼ ► you're sometime in the 2000s I could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3635">TS</a>]
01:00:37 ◼ ► really see you being paid by an internet [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3637">TS</a>]
01:00:39 ◼ ► mattress company to talk about your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3639">TS</a>]
01:00:40 ◼ ► relationship with me I can really see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3640">TS</a>]
01:00:43 ◼ ► that yeah right I imagine if the PTA [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3643">TS</a>]
01:00:51 ◼ ► gets you know a little bit more funding [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3651">TS</a>]
01:00:53 ◼ ► so that you can so that an astronomer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3653">TS</a>]
01:00:56 ◼ ► can come in to you and talk to you about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3656">TS</a>]
01:00:57 ◼ ► space that's one day gonna lead to a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3657">TS</a>]
01:01:01 ◼ ► situation right right where once every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3661">TS</a>]
01:01:04 ◼ ► 10 years you put out put out an album [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3664">TS</a>]
01:01:06 ◼ ► maybe mm-hmm we know there's put the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3666">TS</a>]
01:01:10 ◼ ► nicer water fountains in your skin oh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3670">TS</a>]
01:01:13 ◼ ► yeah yeah but I but I saw so I I know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3673">TS</a>]
01:01:17 ◼ ► that isn't again it's sort of like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3677">TS</a>]
01:01:19 ◼ ► like the child rearing thing it's not a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3679">TS</a>]
01:01:23 ◼ ► thing you can plan for but it's also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3683">TS</a>]
01:01:26 ◼ ► it's also a thing that you can relax [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3686">TS</a>]
01:01:30 ◼ ► about too it's it's so difficult to know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3690">TS</a>]
01:01:34 ◼ ► because I get asked to talk to kids you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3694">TS</a>]
01:01:37 ◼ ► know high school kids a lot and I always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3697">TS</a>]
01:01:40 ◼ ► want to say things to them that are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3700">TS</a>]
01:01:42 ◼ ► probably gonna have the teacher say like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3702">TS</a>]
01:01:45 ◼ ► okay everybody get on the bus like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3705">TS</a>]
01:01:49 ◼ ► sessions over because what I want to say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3709">TS</a>]
01:01:51 ◼ ► is like don't go to college right away [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3711">TS</a>]
01:01:53 ◼ ► don't you know don't care so much about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3713">TS</a>]
01:02:00 ◼ ► it isn't how you make yourself it isn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3720">TS</a>]
01:02:03 ◼ ► how you make your future to care so much [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3723">TS</a>]
01:02:05 ◼ ► about it like it will happen you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3725">TS</a>]
01:02:08 ◼ ► you have no say in it your futures [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3728">TS</a>]
01:02:12 ◼ ► and whether or not you get into the good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3732">TS</a>]
01:02:16 ◼ ► high school in San Francisco like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3736">TS</a>]
01:02:19 ◼ ► the pain and suffering that you put [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3739">TS</a>]
01:02:21 ◼ ► yourself through that you put your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3741">TS</a>]
01:02:22 ◼ ► family through the agonizing the hour [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3742">TS</a>]
01:02:32 ◼ ► opportunities the trips to Washington DC [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3752">TS</a>]
01:02:34 ◼ ► that you don't take in order to in order [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3754">TS</a>]
01:02:38 ◼ ► to do these things that seem to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3758">TS</a>]
01:02:39 ◼ ► assuring that you're gonna be on a path [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3759">TS</a>]
01:02:42 ◼ ► where you know you may not be doing all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3762">TS</a>]
01:02:47 ◼ ► the right things but you're trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3767">TS</a>]
01:02:49 ◼ ► avoid doing the wrong things and what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3769">TS</a>]
01:02:51 ◼ ► you're doing is not doing some of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3771">TS</a>]
01:02:52 ◼ ► things that you need not going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3772">TS</a>]
01:02:54 ◼ ► Washington DC which is the thing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3774">TS</a>]
01:02:55 ◼ ► you need to do it's a you know yeah but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3775">TS</a>]
01:03:00 ◼ ► how do you how do you communicate that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3780">TS</a>]
01:03:02 ◼ ► to people you're saying how do you tell [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3782">TS</a>]
01:03:04 ◼ ► how to tell the school you don't want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3784">TS</a>]
01:03:06 ◼ ► your feet touched yeah how do you tell [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3786">TS</a>]
01:03:09 ◼ ► yourself that you can send your kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3789">TS</a>]
01:03:13 ◼ ► confidently to a two and a half star [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3793">TS</a>]
01:03:16 ◼ ► school and know that they're going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3796">TS</a>]
01:03:18 ◼ ► get a good education they're going to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3798">TS</a>]
01:03:19 ◼ ► fine that having them at the school is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3799">TS</a>]
01:03:22 ◼ ► good for the school that having having [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3802">TS</a>]
01:03:27 ◼ ► your kid go to the school that's in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3807">TS</a>]
01:03:28 ◼ ► their own neighborhood is good for that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3808">TS</a>]
01:03:30 ◼ ► you mentally I want everybody involved [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3810">TS</a>]
01:03:33 ◼ ► well I'm gonna say something that could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3813">TS</a>]
01:03:36 ◼ ► get me and I just know a whole lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3816">TS</a>]
01:03:37 ◼ ► trouble which is that I think a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3817">TS</a>]
01:03:41 ◼ ► people who have a good heart but who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3821">TS</a>]
01:03:46 ◼ ► would primarily like you to see them as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3826">TS</a>]
01:03:50 ◼ ► supporting their child's future are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3830">TS</a>]
01:03:53 ◼ ► really just ridiculously competitive and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3833">TS</a>]
01:03:55 ◼ ► that's one way it gets worked out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3835">TS</a>]
01:03:57 ◼ ► luckily maybe that's probably a good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3837">TS</a>]
01:03:58 ◼ ► direction it's it's not like there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3838">TS</a>]
01:03:59 ◼ ► competition for having the most terrible [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3839">TS</a>]
01:04:01 ◼ ► kid but in that case like maybe that's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3841">TS</a>]
01:04:03 ◼ ► good thing that'll benefit everybody but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3843">TS</a>]
01:04:05 ◼ ► I think a lot of people do that just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3845">TS</a>]
01:04:06 ◼ ► because they're competitive I think some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3846">TS</a>]
01:04:07 ◼ ► people go to the DMV at six because they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3847">TS</a>]
01:04:10 ◼ ► want to be the first in line they want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3850">TS</a>]
01:04:11 ◼ ► to win the DMV I think you know some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3851">TS</a>]
01:04:13 ◼ ► people buy lottery tickets because they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3853">TS</a>]
01:04:15 ◼ ► want to be the one they could use the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3855">TS</a>]
01:04:17 ◼ ► money but they'd really love to be the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3857">TS</a>]
01:04:18 ◼ ► person who want people want admit who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3858">TS</a>]
01:04:23 ◼ ► puts who puts Yelp reviews of their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3863">TS</a>]
01:04:27 ◼ ► school I mean who I mean I don't I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3867">TS</a>]
01:04:31 ◼ ► know who does Yelp reviews two kinds of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3871">TS</a>]
01:04:35 ◼ ► people as for a school in particular [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3875">TS</a>]
01:04:36 ◼ ► this is less true I think for most [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3876">TS</a>]
01:04:38 ◼ ► businesses on Yelp but wherever you are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3878">TS</a>]
01:04:40 ◼ ► well first its confirmation bias like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3880">TS</a>]
01:04:43 ◼ ► guess a form of that where you're gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3883">TS</a>]
01:04:44 ◼ ► go and give your scuffs start your own [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3884">TS</a>]
01:04:46 ◼ ► school five stars right I mean it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3886">TS</a>]
01:04:48 ◼ ► a self linked you would go and do that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3888">TS</a>]
01:04:50 ◼ ► the other kind is like you're mad that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3890">TS</a>]
01:04:52 ◼ ► mrs. mrs. crabapple sent you a letter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3892">TS</a>]
01:04:54 ◼ ► about you know going out of town for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3894">TS</a>]
01:04:57 ◼ ► week and so you give them one star and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3897">TS</a>]
01:04:58 ◼ ► say that they don't communicate well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3898">TS</a>]
01:05:00 ◼ ► with I didn't do that but that's yeah I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3900">TS</a>]
01:05:07 ◼ ► mean but Jesus Christ look at it with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3907">TS</a>]
01:05:10 ◼ ► something as insignificant as a meal at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3910">TS</a>]
01:05:12 ◼ ► a restaurant not to say it's the food is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3912">TS</a>]
01:05:14 ◼ ► not important but think about all the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3914">TS</a>]
01:05:16 ◼ ► times we you know if you ever did look [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3916">TS</a>]
01:05:17 ◼ ► at Yelp if you're just desperate and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3917">TS</a>]
01:05:19 ◼ ► we're somewhere or like which one I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3919">TS</a>]
01:05:20 ◼ ► I look at we're driving through you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3920">TS</a>]
01:05:24 ◼ ► Central California and I'm picky picking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3924">TS</a>]
01:05:26 ◼ ► out which Popeyes I want to go to cuz [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3926">TS</a>]
01:05:28 ◼ ► I'm gonna make my wife took me to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3928">TS</a>]
01:05:29 ◼ ► Popeyes this is a trip and I get a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3929">TS</a>]
01:05:31 ◼ ► special and so multiple multiples [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3931">TS</a>]
01:05:34 ◼ ► Popeyes in various places just to just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3934">TS</a>]
01:05:37 ◼ ► rewind a little bit when you're on a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3937">TS</a>]
01:05:39 ◼ ► trip with your wife you get she gives [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3939">TS</a>]
01:05:41 ◼ ► you a coupon for one special Merlin meal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3941">TS</a>]
01:05:44 ◼ ► well you get to have pop I don't always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3944">TS</a>]
01:05:46 ◼ ► utilize it because I know it's not good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3946">TS</a>]
01:05:48 ◼ ► for me but like I am discouraged by my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3948">TS</a>]
01:05:50 ◼ ► family from eating terrible food and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3950">TS</a>]
01:05:54 ◼ ► am no longer like I used to be used to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3954">TS</a>]
01:05:58 ◼ ► Tallahassee called three-piece spicy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3958">TS</a>]
01:05:59 ◼ ► white me because we were right across [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3959">TS</a>]
01:06:01 ◼ ► the street from Popeyes and I hate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3961">TS</a>]
01:06:03 ◼ ► Popeyes before every band practice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3963">TS</a>]
01:06:05 ◼ ► Wow I mean Popeyes used to be a big part [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3965">TS</a>]
01:06:07 ◼ ► of my life and I had Popeyes at my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3967">TS</a>]
01:06:10 ◼ ► baccalaureate defense really actually my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3970">TS</a>]
01:06:14 ◼ ► mom did she bought a couple bucks as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3974">TS</a>]
01:06:15 ◼ ► chicken some people were there just for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3975">TS</a>]
01:06:16 ◼ ► the chicken right yeah yeah some food [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3976">TS</a>]
01:06:20 ◼ ► the kumkum for the chicken the state for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3980">TS</a>]
01:06:22 ◼ ► the Horkheimer and Adorno uh-huh so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3982">TS</a>]
01:06:26 ◼ ► so I do get that my point being and so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3986">TS</a>]
01:06:30 ◼ ► I'll go look on the map and I zoom in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3990">TS</a>]
01:06:32 ◼ ► and I say Papa show me pop us on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3992">TS</a>]
01:06:34 ◼ ► route and there'll be different ratings [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3994">TS</a>]
01:06:36 ◼ ► for the Popeyes five miles apart and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3996">TS</a>]
01:06:39 ◼ ► know why well maybe some are definitely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/3999">TS</a>]
01:06:41 ◼ ► as with any fast food place some are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4001">TS</a>]
01:06:43 ◼ ► actually legitimately better branches of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4003">TS</a>]
01:06:46 ◼ ► that like and you learn that you learn [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4006">TS</a>]
01:06:48 ◼ ► that's the nest the good 7-eleven that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4008">TS</a>]
01:06:50 ◼ ► the one good Burger King whatever but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4010">TS</a>]
01:06:53 ◼ ► you know why cuz you know enough people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4013">TS</a>]
01:06:55 ◼ ► came in and said I didn't like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4015">TS</a>]
01:06:56 ◼ ► attitude of that lady at the counter or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4016">TS</a>]
01:06:58 ◼ ► one time you know you spoiled my mind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4018">TS</a>]
01:07:00 ◼ ► the noodles were soggy at my bridal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4020">TS</a>]
01:07:02 ◼ ► party boo everybody leave a bad review [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4022">TS</a>]
01:07:04 ◼ ► right and you get like right to get a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4024">TS</a>]
01:07:06 ◼ ► blanket party yeah you get a little bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4026">TS</a>]
01:07:08 ◼ ► of a black mirror situation no black [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4028">TS</a>]
01:07:11 ◼ ► mirror situation so something as stupid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4031">TS</a>]
01:07:13 ◼ ► as a box of fried bird and that happens [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4033">TS</a>]
01:07:18 ◼ ► imagine what that's like with something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4038">TS</a>]
01:07:19 ◼ ► as in my estimation important as the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4039">TS</a>]
01:07:23 ◼ ► school that your kid goes to for up to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4043">TS</a>]
01:07:25 ◼ ► six years yeah yeah I I I don't know the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4045">TS</a>]
01:07:34 ◼ ► solution no I don't either but you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4054">TS</a>]
01:07:36 ◼ ► I'll tell you one thing you could do is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4056">TS</a>]
01:07:37 ◼ ► I mean this is a very old-fashioned [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4057">TS</a>]
01:07:41 ◼ ► thing to do but whenever I'm not sure [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4061">TS</a>]
01:07:44 ◼ ► what did you or think about something I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4064">TS</a>]
01:07:49 ◼ ► sometimes that's where like I think I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4069">TS</a>]
01:07:52 ◼ ► have some idea about this new domain of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4072">TS</a>]
01:07:54 ◼ ► my life and work how that would be right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4074">TS</a>]
01:07:57 ◼ ► like maybe I decided I want to get in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4077">TS</a>]
01:07:58 ◼ ► shape well I could just like spend all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4078">TS</a>]
01:08:01 ◼ ► my time looking for gyms but look I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4081">TS</a>]
01:08:02 ◼ ► could talk to somebody who's like like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4082">TS</a>]
01:08:04 ◼ ► friend of mine and I find out what they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4084">TS</a>]
01:08:06 ◼ ► my daughter is considering a musical [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4086">TS</a>]
01:08:08 ◼ ► instrument she tells me she's already [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4088">TS</a>]
01:08:09 ◼ ► decided the instrument she wants to play [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4089">TS</a>]
01:08:11 ◼ ► I felt a little antsy I can't reveal it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4091">TS</a>]
01:08:14 ◼ ► yet but I'm antsy about it because she's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4094">TS</a>]
01:08:16 ◼ ► never mentioned hearing this instance [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4096">TS</a>]
01:08:19 ◼ ► how my brain works she's never mentioned [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4099">TS</a>]
01:08:20 ◼ ► hearing this instrument going oh I like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4100">TS</a>]
01:08:22 ◼ ► that sound right there weren't any other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4102">TS</a>]
01:08:24 ◼ ► instruments that she has mentioned I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4104">TS</a>]
01:08:27 ◼ ► think she likes the form factor and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4107">TS</a>]
01:08:28 ◼ ► way you look when you play this thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4108">TS</a>]
01:08:30 ◼ ► but she's never played one with a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4110">TS</a>]
01:08:32 ◼ ► clarinet then well so I I find myself [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4112">TS</a>]
01:08:36 ◼ ► saying like it would be so great if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4116">TS</a>]
01:08:39 ◼ ► to learn every instrument but to have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4119">TS</a>]
01:08:41 ◼ ► all these instruments on a table and be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4121">TS</a>]
01:08:43 ◼ ► able to hold it and see it and feel and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4123">TS</a>]
01:08:44 ◼ ► hear the noise that it makes have a debt [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4124">TS</a>]
01:08:46 ◼ ► live demonstration by somebody talented [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4126">TS</a>]
01:08:49 ◼ ► various people tell you no I'm saying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4129">TS</a>]
01:08:51 ◼ ► that doesn't happen in schools like it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4131">TS</a>]
01:08:53 ◼ ► used to we used to get concerts all the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4133">TS</a>]
01:08:54 ◼ ► time but in this case I'm going to say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4134">TS</a>]
01:08:56 ◼ ► this is what an alto sax sounds like and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4136">TS</a>]
01:08:59 ◼ ► you play something typical of an alto [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4139">TS</a>]
01:09:02 ◼ ► so I would go to the school I would talk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4142">TS</a>]
01:09:06 ◼ ► to people who go to the school and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4146">TS</a>]
01:09:08 ◼ ► would I would ask one of my clever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4148">TS</a>]
01:09:09 ◼ ► question see if you could meet the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4149">TS</a>]
01:09:11 ◼ ► principal but they could be better to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4151">TS</a>]
01:09:12 ◼ ► parents of somebody who's been there for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4152">TS</a>]
01:09:14 ◼ ► at least two years and I would say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4154">TS</a>]
01:09:17 ◼ ► what's the best thing about this and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4157">TS</a>]
01:09:18 ◼ ► what's the second worst thing but you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4158">TS</a>]
01:09:20 ◼ ► know the what that what that does is it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4160">TS</a>]
01:09:25 ◼ ► it just is a it points out how difficult [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4165">TS</a>]
01:09:30 ◼ ► it is to really feel like you have peers [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4170">TS</a>]
01:09:32 ◼ ► because at my daughter's school there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4172">TS</a>]
01:09:35 ◼ ► a teacher that everybody loves and my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4175">TS</a>]
01:09:38 ◼ ► experience of this teacher is that she's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4178">TS</a>]
01:09:41 ◼ ► that she doesn't work for me and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4181">TS</a>]
01:09:45 ◼ ► because she doesn't seem to really she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4185">TS</a>]
01:09:49 ◼ ► seems to just be sort of phoning it in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4189">TS</a>]
01:09:50 ◼ ► and everybody else is sort of fine with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4190">TS</a>]
01:09:52 ◼ ► that there's a lot of this confirmation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4192">TS</a>]
01:09:55 ◼ ► bias that you're talking about where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4195">TS</a>]
01:09:56 ◼ ► it's like we go to the best school in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4196">TS</a>]
01:09:58 ◼ ► town so our teachers are the best yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4198">TS</a>]
01:09:59 ◼ ► and this teacher who's phoning it in is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4199">TS</a>]
01:10:02 ◼ ► phoning it in the best yeah and I just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4202">TS</a>]
01:10:06 ◼ ► feel like a young teacher somewhere [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4206">TS</a>]
01:10:08 ◼ ► who's really trying work real hard or a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4208">TS</a>]
01:10:12 ◼ ► teacher that has some creative ideas [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4212">TS</a>]
01:10:17 ◼ ► even if they are even if that teacher is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4217">TS</a>]
01:10:21 ◼ ► fumbling is going to be more interesting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4221">TS</a>]
01:10:24 ◼ ► to my kid at this stage than somebody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4224">TS</a>]
01:10:26 ◼ ► who is super comfortable like they still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4226">TS</a>]
01:10:29 ◼ ► got the eye of the tiger right and even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4229">TS</a>]
01:10:32 ◼ ► if they are I mean you know I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4232">TS</a>]
01:10:35 ◼ ► personally like better for a kid to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4235">TS</a>]
01:10:38 ◼ ► taught by somebody who's like struggling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4238">TS</a>]
01:10:43 ◼ ► a little you know like like working hard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4243">TS</a>]
01:10:45 ◼ ► to figure their thing out yeah that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4245">TS</a>]
01:10:52 ◼ ► that's like well the teacher doesn't or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4252">TS</a>]
01:10:55 ◼ ► it's just you know that's the type of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4255">TS</a>]
01:10:57 ◼ ► teacher that gets assigned to a school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4257">TS</a>]
01:11:00 ◼ ► that is struggling all I'm saying is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4260">TS</a>]
01:11:03 ◼ ► like you could weasel your way in Oh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4263">TS</a>]
01:11:05 ◼ ► IIIi know this is true at our school and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4265">TS</a>]
01:11:08 ◼ ► at other schools around here but there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4268">TS</a>]
01:11:09 ◼ ► almost always somebody there who's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4269">TS</a>]
01:11:13 ◼ ► volunteer a parent usually but a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4273">TS</a>]
01:11:15 ◼ ► volunteer who in some form or fashion [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4275">TS</a>]
01:11:17 ◼ ► deals with people who don't go to school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4277">TS</a>]
01:11:19 ◼ ► here yet so there's usually a committee [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4279">TS</a>]
01:11:21 ◼ ► of people who help with people who are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4281">TS</a>]
01:11:25 ◼ ► gonna check out kindergarten before they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4285">TS</a>]
01:11:27 ◼ ► arrive here there's people like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4287">TS</a>]
01:11:29 ◼ ► there are people every at our school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4289">TS</a>]
01:11:31 ◼ ► every grade has at least one person it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4291">TS</a>]
01:11:34 ◼ ► was just the liaison to like new [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4294">TS</a>]
01:11:37 ◼ ► students and their families to help them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4297">TS</a>]
01:11:38 ◼ ► acclimate that person there must be a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4298">TS</a>]
01:11:41 ◼ ► person like that at this at a school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4301">TS</a>]
01:11:43 ◼ ► that you could go talk to who would be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4303">TS</a>]
01:11:45 ◼ ► happy to like then once you talk to them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4305">TS</a>]
01:11:47 ◼ ► now you can you got an inroad to me and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4307">TS</a>]
01:11:49 ◼ ► other people will tell you the real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4309">TS</a>]
01:11:49 ◼ ► story but I think the challenge the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4309">TS</a>]
01:11:53 ◼ ► challenge there is that people a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4313">TS</a>]
01:11:55 ◼ ► people I know are making decisions about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4315">TS</a>]
01:11:57 ◼ ► where they're going to move because you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4317">TS</a>]
01:12:01 ◼ ► get to be 40 you want to have a kid you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4321">TS</a>]
01:12:06 ◼ ► basically it's too expensive right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4326">TS</a>]
01:12:07 ◼ ► you're living in a one-bedroom apartment [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4327">TS</a>]
01:12:09 ◼ ► now you have a kid you can't keep living [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4329">TS</a>]
01:12:12 ◼ ► in a one-bedroom apartment but you can't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4332">TS</a>]
01:12:14 ◼ ► move anywhere else in in town to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4334">TS</a>]
01:12:18 ◼ ► anything better than a one-bedroom [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4338">TS</a>]
01:12:19 ◼ ► apartment and so you have to move to one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4339">TS</a>]
01:12:21 ◼ ► of the outlying neighborhoods where the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4341">TS</a>]
01:12:23 ◼ ► schools are and you're trying to make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4343">TS</a>]
01:12:25 ◼ ► this decision we want to get a nice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4345">TS</a>]
01:12:28 ◼ ► house we want walkable streets we want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4348">TS</a>]
01:12:31 ◼ ► good schools and I don't know how many [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4351">TS</a>]
01:12:34 ◼ ► people have the you know I like I would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4354">TS</a>]
01:12:37 ◼ ► not have the ability I don't think to go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4357">TS</a>]
01:12:39 ◼ ► out to all the out outlying schools and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4359">TS</a>]
01:12:41 ◼ ► pick one that I liked and then start [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4361">TS</a>]
01:12:43 ◼ ► making decisions about where I was gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4363">TS</a>]
01:12:45 ◼ ► move based on that and so I'm you know I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4365">TS</a>]
01:12:48 ◼ ► hear time and time again like well that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4368">TS</a>]
01:12:50 ◼ ► we found this great house it's in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4370">TS</a>]
01:12:52 ◼ ► great neighborhood I really like it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4372">TS</a>]
01:12:53 ◼ ► there but the schools are bad so we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4373">TS</a>]
01:12:54 ◼ ► can't and it's like wow that's a great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4374">TS</a>]
01:12:58 ◼ ► neighborhood a great house that you like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4378">TS</a>]
01:13:00 ◼ ► everything about it it's close to town [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4380">TS</a>]
01:13:05 ◼ ► the schools are bad you say and so so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4385">TS</a>]
01:13:10 ◼ ► the politics is enough people repeating [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4390">TS</a>]
01:13:14 ◼ ► those words because they heard it from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4394">TS</a>]
01:13:15 ◼ ► somebody else and now those schools are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4395">TS</a>]
01:13:17 ◼ ► bad yeah they've become bad it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4397">TS</a>]
01:13:19 ◼ ► it's like naming your kid Jeeves it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4399">TS</a>]
01:13:22 ◼ ► yeah those kids are bad it's like naming [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4402">TS</a>]
01:13:24 ◼ ► your kid Jeeves don't name your kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4404">TS</a>]
01:13:27 ◼ ► that's not mmm how much do you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4407">TS</a>]
01:13:30 ◼ ► about that school right right well I've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4410">TS</a>]
01:13:33 ◼ ► heard from several people oh you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4413">TS</a>]
01:13:35 ◼ ► like I did you did you look online the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4415">TS</a>]
01:13:40 ◼ ► it's no you don't got Jose you want to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4420">TS</a>]
01:13:45 ◼ ► this isn't the good Popeyes no no this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4425">TS</a>]
01:13:48 ◼ ► is the bad cheesesteak pizza Oh Chicago [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4428">TS</a>]
01:13:51 ◼ ► or you gotta go to you got to go to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4431">TS</a>]
01:13:59 ◼ ► cheesesteaks but you and I are always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4439">TS</a>]
01:14:01 ◼ ► saying things essentially like like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4441">TS</a>]
01:14:07 ◼ ► saying well don't you know in apron it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4447">TS</a>]
01:14:12 ◼ ► definitely like not out of character for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4452">TS</a>]
01:14:14 ◼ ► me when a friend is saying like Oh we'd [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4454">TS</a>]
01:14:16 ◼ ► love to live down there on in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4456">TS</a>]
01:14:18 ◼ ► beautiful home on the edge of a park [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4458">TS</a>]
01:14:20 ◼ ► next to this great old neighborhood but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4460">TS</a>]
01:14:24 ◼ ► we can't because the schools are bad so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4464">TS</a>]
01:14:26 ◼ ► we're moving somewhere where there it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4466">TS</a>]
01:14:27 ◼ ► an hour and 45 minute long commute and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4467">TS</a>]
01:14:30 ◼ ► and it's in character for me to go well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4470">TS</a>]
01:14:32 ◼ ► that doesn't sound smart why don't you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4472">TS</a>]
01:14:34 ◼ ► just ignore the fact that the schools [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4474">TS</a>]
01:14:36 ◼ ► were supposedly bad and go send your kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4476">TS</a>]
01:14:38 ◼ ► there and do your part to make that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4478">TS</a>]
01:14:40 ◼ ► school better or just count on the fact [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4480">TS</a>]
01:14:42 ◼ ► that like there's a 99% chance that that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4482">TS</a>]
01:14:45 ◼ ► feed your kids teacher is gonna be great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4485">TS</a>]
01:14:48 ◼ ► and your kid is gonna have a great time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4488">TS</a>]
01:14:49 ◼ ► there yeah like what how much you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4489">TS</a>]
01:14:52 ◼ ► let let not be a dick but and how much [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4492">TS</a>]
01:14:54 ◼ ► are you gonna put into that right are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4494">TS</a>]
01:14:57 ◼ ► you really just surfing for the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4497">TS</a>]
01:15:01 ◼ ► or you find can find a place that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4501">TS</a>]
01:15:02 ◼ ► can invest in I think you went to a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4502">TS</a>]
01:15:03 ◼ ► co-op preschool right I did yeah so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4503">TS</a>]
01:15:07 ◼ ► we've done I mean your kid I mean oh my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4507">TS</a>]
01:15:09 ◼ ► good yeah yeah so same here and that was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4509">TS</a>]
01:15:11 ◼ ► a lot it was a lot of work but it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4511">TS</a>]
01:15:13 ◼ ► understood everybody there had to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4513">TS</a>]
01:15:15 ◼ ► that work tell you what's pretty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4515">TS</a>]
01:15:18 ◼ ► there's a couple people that think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4518">TS</a>]
01:15:20 ◼ ► everything needs to get done and they'll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4520">TS</a>]
01:15:21 ◼ ► do it and then a lot of other people who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4521">TS</a>]
01:15:23 ◼ ► think everything needs to get done right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4523">TS</a>]
01:15:26 ◼ ► because they picked the good school and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4526">TS</a>]
01:15:28 ◼ ► now just go take care of that for me and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4528">TS</a>]
01:15:29 ◼ ► I think that's a big part of it right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4529">TS</a>]
01:15:31 ◼ ► you you you get the good school and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4531">TS</a>]
01:15:33 ◼ ► your work here is done you have done [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4533">TS</a>]
01:15:34 ◼ ► that you've you've you did the right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4534">TS</a>]
01:15:37 ◼ ► yeah the right school drive an hour and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4537">TS</a>]
01:15:39 ◼ ► a half for work every day yeah and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4539">TS</a>]
01:15:42 ◼ ► and that's exactly right you know the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4542">TS</a>]
01:15:45 ◼ ► the idea that you can make your kids [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4545">TS</a>]
01:15:49 ◼ ► school good just by going by there every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4549">TS</a>]
01:15:51 ◼ ► day and standing around at the drop and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4551">TS</a>]
01:15:54 ◼ ► cry or whatever you were talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4554">TS</a>]
01:15:58 ◼ ► you know you could show up for duty when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4558">TS</a>]
01:16:01 ◼ ► it's you know stop drop and go week or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4561">TS</a>]
01:16:03 ◼ ► you can chaperone a field trip which I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4563">TS</a>]
01:16:05 ◼ ► do a lot of oh my god so do I it's yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4565">TS</a>]
01:16:08 ◼ ► I always feel like kind of the odd man [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4568">TS</a>]
01:16:11 ◼ ► out with it but like and it makes me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4571">TS</a>]
01:16:14 ◼ ► oh there's one time you went to a kid's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4574">TS</a>]
01:16:16 ◼ ► movie a children's movie festival at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4576">TS</a>]
01:16:18 ◼ ► Kabuki and you know where we live yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4578">TS</a>]
01:16:20 ◼ ► and it was somebody's idea that not only [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4580">TS</a>]
01:16:22 ◼ ► would we take three classes of kids okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4582">TS</a>]
01:16:25 ◼ ► let's get all the parts of this we took [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4585">TS</a>]
01:16:26 ◼ ► three classes of kids like yeah yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4586">TS</a>]
01:16:29 ◼ ► yeah all this is all second graders and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4589">TS</a>]
01:16:32 ◼ ► we're gonna take the bus rocket take the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4592">TS</a>]
01:16:34 ◼ ► streetcar we're gonna take the bus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4594">TS</a>]
01:16:35 ◼ ► that's fun did I mention there's also a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4595">TS</a>]
01:16:38 ◼ ► transfer oh boy how many how many [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4598">TS</a>]
01:16:41 ◼ ► classes are kids again if three classes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4601">TS</a>]
01:16:43 ◼ ► of kids so you got 75 kids you've got as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4603">TS</a>]
01:16:46 ◼ ► many parents's who showed up and this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4606">TS</a>]
01:16:48 ◼ ► becomes important to the story in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4608">TS</a>]
01:16:49 ◼ ► little bit how many kids can you fit on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4609">TS</a>]
01:16:51 ◼ ► a bus yeah you might have to break them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4611">TS</a>]
01:16:53 ◼ ► up or you get in real tight and boy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4613">TS</a>]
01:16:56 ◼ ► nobody likes that but that's a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4616">TS</a>]
01:16:58 ◼ ► what happens when you do that but yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4618">TS</a>]
01:16:59 ◼ ► we did it took us about an hour and a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4619">TS</a>]
01:17:02 ◼ ► half each way in the rain literally in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4622">TS</a>]
01:17:04 ◼ ► the rain and a couple parents just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4624">TS</a>]
01:17:07 ◼ ► didn't show up that had volunteered and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4627">TS</a>]
01:17:08 ◼ ► you have no idea what you put on to a 48 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4628">TS</a>]
01:17:11 ◼ ► year old man chaperoning children on a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4631">TS</a>]
01:17:14 ◼ ► public bus with the transfer which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4634">TS</a>]
01:17:15 ◼ ► you're transferring on freakin um like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4635">TS</a>]
01:17:18 ◼ ► part Presidio like it's it's busy like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4638">TS</a>]
01:17:21 ◼ ► it's not it's you know yeah so like when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4641">TS</a>]
01:17:24 ◼ ► two people just skate and don't show up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4644">TS</a>]
01:17:26 ◼ ► and there's like two to take care of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4646">TS</a>]
01:17:27 ◼ ► those 26 kids plus the teacher and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4647">TS</a>]
01:17:34 ◼ ► that's gift I'm sure that they were busy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4654">TS</a>]
01:17:37 ◼ ► Merlin school it's a very good school so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4657">TS</a>]
01:17:39 ◼ ► they don't need to help me that's not an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4659">TS</a>]
01:17:47 ◼ ► important meeting or they had something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4667">TS</a>]
01:17:48 ◼ ► to do that day that they couldn't have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4668">TS</a>]
01:17:50 ◼ ► foreseen yeah well they couldn't say you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4670">TS</a>]
01:17:53 ◼ ► know until the very last minute and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4673">TS</a>]
01:17:55 ◼ ► making tax Tekken makes yeah yeah I love [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4675">TS</a>]
01:18:02 ◼ ► going to the I love going on field trips [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4682">TS</a>]
01:18:04 ◼ ► I love the sound of like two hundred six [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4684">TS</a>]
01:18:09 ◼ ► year olds yeah I love their I love the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4689">TS</a>]
01:18:12 ◼ ► sound of their little voices I love what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4692">TS</a>]
01:18:15 ◼ ► they think is is the right way to get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4695">TS</a>]
01:18:16 ◼ ► into a line you know they're lovely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4696">TS</a>]
01:18:20 ◼ ► lovely little children and and and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4700">TS</a>]
01:18:23 ◼ ► my pleasure it's my privilege to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4703">TS</a>]
01:18:25 ◼ ► there you know but if I if I can just be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4705">TS</a>]
01:18:28 ◼ ► that particular guy I'm one thing I will [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4708">TS</a>]
01:18:30 ◼ ► say and I want to underscore this cuz I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4710">TS</a>]
01:18:32 ◼ ► I think this is fuckin important is that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4712">TS</a>]
01:18:34 ◼ ► it is is unfair and to think all the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4714">TS</a>]
01:18:37 ◼ ► things you want about all the various [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4717">TS</a>]
01:18:39 ◼ ► things about how this is all complicated [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4719">TS</a>]
01:18:40 ◼ ► bullshit for white people but here's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4720">TS</a>]
01:18:42 ◼ ► thing like if you want your kid to go to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4722">TS</a>]
01:18:45 ◼ ► make it the place where you're gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4725">TS</a>]
01:18:45 ◼ ► help out at least a little bit I'm not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4725">TS</a>]
01:18:48 ◼ ► even saying you know what I'm not even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4728">TS</a>]
01:18:49 ◼ ► saying you have to like be that person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4729">TS</a>]
01:18:51 ◼ ► who shows up to set up and clean up and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4731">TS</a>]
01:18:54 ◼ ► do whatever you didn't have to be that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4734">TS</a>]
01:18:55 ◼ ► person you could even just be the person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4735">TS</a>]
01:18:58 ◼ ► who helps out a little bit at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4738">TS</a>]
01:18:59 ◼ ► auction but you know what even below [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4739">TS</a>]
01:19:02 ◼ ► that like come in the school talk to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4742">TS</a>]
01:19:07 ◼ ► meet the librarian this will come in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4747">TS</a>]
01:19:09 ◼ ► handy because your child will lose a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4749">TS</a>]
01:19:10 ◼ ► book and you're eventually gonna be in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4750">TS</a>]
01:19:11 ◼ ► touch with the librarian it's nice to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4751">TS</a>]
01:19:13 ◼ ► that's just practical but like learn [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4753">TS</a>]
01:19:15 ◼ ► about the other kids and parents and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4755">TS</a>]
01:19:19 ◼ ► teachers at the school like don't just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4759">TS</a>]
01:19:21 ◼ ► show up and make a beeline in and out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4761">TS</a>]
01:19:23 ◼ ► treat it like it's a place you care [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4763">TS</a>]
01:19:24 ◼ ► about I'm sorry I don't mean to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4764">TS</a>]
01:19:26 ◼ ► emotional about this but like it is it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4766">TS</a>]
01:19:28 ◼ ► is really frustrating cuz I do feel like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4768">TS</a>]
01:19:30 ◼ ► this might be a caricature but I do feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4770">TS</a>]
01:19:32 ◼ ► frustrated that my sense is a lot of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4772">TS</a>]
01:19:34 ◼ ► people the largest cohort of people with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4774">TS</a>]
01:19:37 ◼ ► super high expectations also Venn [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4777">TS</a>]
01:19:40 ◼ ► diagrams nicely with the cohort of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4780">TS</a>]
01:19:41 ◼ ► people who do fuck all to help out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4781">TS</a>]
01:19:43 ◼ ► and that makes me mad in the same way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4783">TS</a>]
01:19:46 ◼ ► that made me mad in my early 20s when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4786">TS</a>]
01:19:47 ◼ ► people came to parties and said they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4787">TS</a>]
01:19:49 ◼ ► were bored well you know what there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4789">TS</a>]
01:19:51 ◼ ► one great way that this party could be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4791">TS</a>]
01:19:52 ◼ ► less boring you could either fucking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4792">TS</a>]
01:19:54 ◼ ► leave or you can help you can bring nice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4794">TS</a>]
01:19:57 ◼ ► you could bring beer and no we don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4797">TS</a>]
01:20:00 ◼ ► want to play your tape Todd but you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4800">TS</a>]
01:20:01 ◼ ► could help out that's all why did you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4801">TS</a>]
01:20:03 ◼ ► want to play Todd's tape tiles was too [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4803">TS</a>]
01:20:05 ◼ ► much fucking rig hang on there a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4805">TS</a>]
01:20:08 ◼ ► bit of reggae and everybody's loving it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4808">TS</a>]
01:20:10 ◼ ► donk donk donk donk donk I hope you like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4810">TS</a>]
01:20:14 ◼ ► a German - yep one time my friend [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4814">TS</a>]
01:20:19 ◼ ► Michael made a mixtape that was all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4819">TS</a>]
01:20:22 ◼ ► p-funk and wire just to provoke people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4822">TS</a>]
01:20:26 ◼ ► and was also his two favorite bands at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4826">TS</a>]
01:20:28 ◼ ► the time but it's really hard to go from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4828">TS</a>]
01:20:31 ◼ ► up on the downstroke to field day for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4831">TS</a>]
01:20:32 ◼ ► Sunday's like the ladies are not dancing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4832">TS</a>]
01:20:35 ◼ ► to that no no it's it's like record [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4835">TS</a>]
01:20:48 ◼ ► frustrating to me and like the like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4848">TS</a>]
01:20:51 ◼ ► know it is what's frustrating that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4851">TS</a>]
01:20:52 ◼ ► they're not helping it's frustrating [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4852">TS</a>]
01:20:54 ◼ ► that they're adding workload to people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4854">TS</a>]
01:20:56 ◼ ► who already have plenty of workload be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4856">TS</a>]
01:20:58 ◼ ► fucking leave me but all it also just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4858">TS</a>]
01:21:00 ◼ ► frustrates me that like you'd wouldn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4860">TS</a>]
01:21:03 ◼ ► have the presence of mind to think what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4863">TS</a>]
01:21:05 ◼ ► is one really obvious way that this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4865">TS</a>]
01:21:09 ◼ ► school could be made better and most [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4869">TS</a>]
01:21:11 ◼ ► people think that means you should write [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4871">TS</a>]
01:21:12 ◼ ► a letter instead of saying you know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4872">TS</a>]
01:21:14 ◼ ► it's drop by and pick up a broom if you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4874">TS</a>]
01:21:17 ◼ ► ask somebody for a broom they'll find [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4877">TS</a>]
01:21:19 ◼ ► you a broom there is so much stuff that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4879">TS</a>]
01:21:20 ◼ ► needs to be done at that school that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4880">TS</a>]
01:21:22 ◼ ► hasn't been done in years because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4882">TS</a>]
01:21:23 ◼ ► there's just not enough people however [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4883">TS</a>]
01:21:25 ◼ ► we got here that's just how life is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4885">TS</a>]
01:21:28 ◼ ► but you got a pitch in yeah and I do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4888">TS</a>]
01:21:30 ◼ ► feel that I to feel that there's this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4890">TS</a>]
01:21:32 ◼ ► tendency certainly in these schools that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4892">TS</a>]
01:21:34 ◼ ► have 5-star ratings for people to feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4894">TS</a>]
01:21:37 ◼ ► like it is yeah it's a private school in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4897">TS</a>]
01:21:41 ◼ ► that case you know it's like they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4901">TS</a>]
01:21:44 ◼ ► rich schools and so rich people get to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4904">TS</a>]
01:21:47 ◼ ► act rich they're you know have the nanny [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4907">TS</a>]
01:21:52 ◼ ► drop off the kid and pick up the kid and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4912">TS</a>]
01:21:56 ◼ ► I'll have you have your chauffeur go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4916">TS</a>]
01:21:57 ◼ ► over who happens to be named Jeeves [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4917">TS</a>]
01:22:00 ◼ ► Oh see don't name your kid geez don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4920">TS</a>]
01:22:03 ◼ ► show / you think you want to keep doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4923">TS</a>]
01:22:06 ◼ ► the show at 9:00 you think it's real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4926">TS</a>]
01:22:11 ◼ ► hard I think I think we should stick [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4931">TS</a>]
01:22:13 ◼ ► with it I think this is good you got the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4933">TS</a>]
01:22:15 ◼ ► school you're starting this is gonna be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4935">TS</a>]
01:22:16 ◼ ► good yeah yeah yeah no no the thing is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4936">TS</a>]
01:22:20 ◼ ► we usually record on Mondays we had to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4940">TS</a>]
01:22:22 ◼ ► reschedule 'never ething is chaos do you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4942">TS</a>]
01:22:26 ◼ ► usually get a better worse or more or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4946">TS</a>]
01:22:28 ◼ ► less the same night Oh sleep Sunday [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4948">TS</a>]
01:22:32 ◼ ► night into Monday morning how's your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4952">TS</a>]
01:22:33 ◼ ► sleep on most Sunday nights compared to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4953">TS</a>]
01:22:35 ◼ ► the other nights well this is again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4955">TS</a>]
01:22:38 ◼ ► another thing in the category of things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4958">TS</a>]
01:22:40 ◼ ► that I do not measure or record I'll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4960">TS</a>]
01:22:44 ◼ ► just kind of lenss together yeah like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4964">TS</a>]
01:22:47 ◼ ► don't know often that it is Sunday or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4967">TS</a>]
01:22:50 ◼ ► Monday for all I see you you took and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4970">TS</a>]
01:22:53 ◼ ► you turned it you're going up a higher [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4973">TS</a>]
01:22:54 ◼ ► level to like how would I even know if I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4974">TS</a>]
01:22:56 ◼ ► don't even know what day it is even well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4976">TS</a>]
01:22:59 ◼ ► yeah and like you know like like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4979">TS</a>]
01:23:02 ◼ ► were saying well I like these coffees I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4982">TS</a>]
01:23:05 ◼ ► don't like those coffees and I was like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4985">TS</a>]
01:23:07 ◼ ► I just get a different coffee every time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4987">TS</a>]
01:23:08 ◼ ► yeah and I never connect it I get it the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4988">TS</a>]
01:23:13 ◼ ► dots and it's the same kind of with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4993">TS</a>]
01:23:15 ◼ ► like oh I didn't sleep very well last [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4995">TS</a>]
01:23:16 ◼ ► night oh is it because it was Sunday boy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4996">TS</a>]
01:23:19 ◼ ► I don't know and partly maybe it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/4999">TS</a>]
01:23:22 ◼ ► because I don't keep a sleep diary or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5002">TS</a>]
01:23:24 ◼ ► something I understand I understand I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5004">TS</a>]
01:23:26 ◼ ► didn't do as much as I would like last [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5006">TS</a>]
01:23:28 ◼ ► night I had 6 hours and 38 minutes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5008">TS</a>]
01:23:30 ◼ ► that's a lot average is 7 hours 10 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5010">TS</a>]
01:23:36 ◼ ► minutes this week last hour last week 7 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5016">TS</a>]
01:23:38 ◼ ► hours 5 minutes I try really hard to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5018">TS</a>]
01:23:41 ◼ ► asleep this is so interesting this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5021">TS</a>]
01:23:43 ◼ ► one thing I talk about in every podcast [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5023">TS</a>]
01:23:45 ◼ ► I do and I know people love it knows [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5025">TS</a>]
01:23:47 ◼ ► that right oh yes I'm when I see every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5027">TS</a>]
01:23:49 ◼ ► podcast I do I mean it'll come up every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5029">TS</a>]
01:23:51 ◼ ► time I talk how my sleep is going how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5031">TS</a>]
01:23:54 ◼ ► many podcasts do you do now all of them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5034">TS</a>]
01:23:56 ◼ ► yeah but is it like 4 or 6 I'm like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5036">TS</a>]
01:24:00 ◼ ► oh it's like 4 4 4 4 podcasts you're on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5040">TS</a>]
01:24:07 ◼ ► and so I feel really hard to be asleep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5047">TS</a>]
01:24:10 ◼ ► of 411 I rarely make that and I try [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5050">TS</a>]
01:24:12 ◼ ► really hard to be up before 7:00 so in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5052">TS</a>]
01:24:14 ◼ ► an ideal world I would go to bed at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5054">TS</a>]
01:24:19 ◼ ► but that's hard for me to do because I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5059">TS</a>]
01:24:21 ◼ ► like to watch TV at night and then I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5061">TS</a>]
01:24:22 ◼ ► like to sleep a little in the morning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5062">TS</a>]
01:24:23 ◼ ► but I also want to be helpful in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5063">TS</a>]
01:24:24 ◼ ► morning and it's my job to brush hair [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5064">TS</a>]
01:24:26 ◼ ► and I have to make a note to put in her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5066">TS</a>]
01:24:27 ◼ ► lunch and there's the things that I have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5067">TS</a>]
01:24:28 ◼ ► to do that I choose to do you what's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5068">TS</a>]
01:24:34 ◼ ► situation there oh boy let me sing your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5074">TS</a>]
01:24:37 ◼ ► recent photos her hair is pretty long [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5077">TS</a>]
01:24:39 ◼ ► and and over the summer you know you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5079">TS</a>]
01:24:44 ◼ ► were not quite as exactly dogged about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5084">TS</a>]
01:24:46 ◼ ► you will take a shower and wash your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5086">TS</a>]
01:24:48 ◼ ► hair every single night sometimes yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5088">TS</a>]
01:24:49 ◼ ► like just vacationing and you got home [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5089">TS</a>]
01:24:51 ◼ ► at nine o'clock and that's not gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5091">TS</a>]
01:24:52 ◼ ► happen tonight and like sure I am a huge [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5092">TS</a>]
01:24:56 ◼ ► advocate for we need to pee that her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5096">TS</a>]
01:24:58 ◼ ► hair must be brushed somehow twice to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5098">TS</a>]
01:25:01 ◼ ► three times a day okay don't and no no I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5101">TS</a>]
01:25:05 ◼ ► mean the full deal like all the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5105">TS</a>]
01:25:06 ◼ ► through you get out any of those little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5106">TS</a>]
01:25:08 ◼ ► knots and whatnot cuz I'll tell you if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5108">TS</a>]
01:25:10 ◼ ► you only do it in the morning every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5110">TS</a>]
01:25:12 ◼ ► morning yeah so that my job my job is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5112">TS</a>]
01:25:15 ◼ ► like it started I get the big stuff I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5115">TS</a>]
01:25:17 ◼ ► get the most of the grander patterns but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5117">TS</a>]
01:25:18 ◼ ► there's two like mini knots on the side [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5118">TS</a>]
01:25:20 ◼ ► my wife specializes in so she comes in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5120">TS</a>]
01:25:22 ◼ ► and does the finishing work and if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5122">TS</a>]
01:25:23 ◼ ► there's a braid a side braid or French [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5123">TS</a>]
01:25:25 ◼ ► braid she will do that so I'm only in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5125">TS</a>]
01:25:28 ◼ ► position to offer headgear it's a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5128">TS</a>]
01:25:32 ◼ ► bit of a division a nice division of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5132">TS</a>]
01:25:35 ◼ ► labor where your wife does the technical [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5135">TS</a>]
01:25:37 ◼ ► work and you do the kind of the heavy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5137">TS</a>]
01:25:40 ◼ ► lifting oh geez uh she does all the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5140">TS</a>]
01:25:43 ◼ ► lifting of all kinds but I mean I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5143">TS</a>]
01:25:46 ◼ ► talking about it in the hair Oh with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5146">TS</a>]
01:25:47 ◼ ► hair she cares more and she's better so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5147">TS</a>]
01:25:51 ◼ ► she'll always win that one oh here's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5151">TS</a>]
01:25:53 ◼ ► photograph that's her this morning after [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5153">TS</a>]
01:25:55 ◼ ► the braid she's got some cool sparkly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5155">TS</a>]
01:25:56 ◼ ► pants and unicorn shoes you know I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5156">TS</a>]
01:25:59 ◼ ► much more in the much more in the like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5159">TS</a>]
01:26:04 ◼ ► let it ride family of house her hair [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5164">TS</a>]
01:26:08 ◼ ► doing but I'm the only one we've been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5168">TS</a>]
01:26:10 ◼ ► like somebody who doesn't have to comb [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5170">TS</a>]
01:26:13 ◼ ► it out when it gets bad no I do I'm the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5173">TS</a>]
01:26:16 ◼ ► only one that I'm the only one that she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5176">TS</a>]
01:26:20 ◼ ► really because I feel like it's not only [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5180">TS</a>]
01:26:22 ◼ ► like I want my daughter to not not look [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5182">TS</a>]
01:26:23 ◼ ► like a Dickens character it's also just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5183">TS</a>]
01:26:25 ◼ ► self-preservation it's not competition [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5185">TS</a>]
01:26:26 ◼ ► it's more like holy shit if I have to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5186">TS</a>]
01:26:29 ◼ ► deal with this tomorrow and not tonight [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5189">TS</a>]
01:26:31 ◼ ► oh brother so you let her cry yeah look [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5191">TS</a>]
01:26:34 ◼ ► at all of her hair Wow do you do the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5194">TS</a>]
01:26:36 ◼ ► braid yeah look at the shoes well so the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5196">TS</a>]
01:26:40 ◼ ► those were great so the thing is that my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5200">TS</a>]
01:26:42 ◼ ► little girl is still I'm still able to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5202">TS</a>]
01:26:44 ◼ ► bathe her where I'm guessing you are not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5204">TS</a>]
01:26:46 ◼ ► bathing your daughter anymore and she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5206">TS</a>]
01:26:49 ◼ ► brings the iPad in she was listening to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5209">TS</a>]
01:26:51 ◼ ► cleaning slipped by the gorillas last [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5211">TS</a>]
01:26:53 ◼ ► night while she took her own shower yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5213">TS</a>]
01:26:55 ◼ ► that's you know Marlo is sick she still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5215">TS</a>]
01:26:58 ◼ ► like gets her hair shampooed by somebody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5218">TS</a>]
01:27:00 ◼ ► got a hand bucket in there no I have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5220">TS</a>]
01:27:04 ◼ ► but I do have a very good elaborate sort [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5224">TS</a>]
01:27:07 ◼ ► of air conditioning regimen oh I love [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5227">TS</a>]
01:27:10 ◼ ► this because she's got a house that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5230">TS</a>]
01:27:13 ◼ ► been great long hair just if she says [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5233">TS</a>]
01:27:15 ◼ ► you're fine hair right she has thick [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5235">TS</a>]
01:27:17 ◼ ► fine hair right now it's on here lots [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5237">TS</a>]
01:27:20 ◼ ► and lots of fine here okay and so what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5240">TS</a>]
01:27:23 ◼ ► and it gets tangled but what I do is I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5243">TS</a>]
01:27:26 ◼ ► do this whole like then we put the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5246">TS</a>]
01:27:27 ◼ ► conditioner and then we brush it for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5247">TS</a>]
01:27:29 ◼ ► long time so I could get away with that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5249">TS</a>]
01:27:31 ◼ ► I would kill to get away with that every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5251">TS</a>]
01:27:36 ◼ ► conditioner yeah god make everything so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5256">TS</a>]
01:27:38 ◼ ► much better so you just comb and then I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5258">TS</a>]
01:27:40 ◼ ► just I'll get down to a finer and finer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5260">TS</a>]
01:27:42 ◼ ► tooth comb until I'm combing through it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5262">TS</a>]
01:27:45 ◼ ► like it is corn silk and it has and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5265">TS</a>]
01:27:48 ◼ ► has so much conditioner in it now that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5268">TS</a>]
01:27:50 ◼ ► it's just like like it's like one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5270">TS</a>]
01:27:53 ◼ ► those 70s TV commercials where she moves [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5273">TS</a>]
01:27:55 ◼ ► and her hair I'm seeing her fantasizing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5275">TS</a>]
01:27:59 ◼ ► about it yeah oh my god and the brush [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5279">TS</a>]
01:28:01 ◼ ► must just go right through it it doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5281">TS</a>]
01:28:04 ◼ ► she's playing with her toys she's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5284">TS</a>]
01:28:05 ◼ ► even aware her hair is being brushed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5285">TS</a>]
01:28:07 ◼ ► because it just feels like this sort of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5287">TS</a>]
01:28:10 ◼ ► because I mean Connect now you're just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5290">TS</a>]
01:28:12 ◼ ► you're just bragging we have to get we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5292">TS</a>]
01:28:14 ◼ ► have to get to send my daughter washes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5294">TS</a>]
01:28:16 ◼ ► her hands when she gets home without [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5296">TS</a>]
01:28:17 ◼ ► being asked I'm sorry it's not like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5297">TS</a>]
01:28:20 ◼ ► was bragging that let's take him a long [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5300">TS</a>]
01:28:22 ◼ ► time it's so weird that I would say that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5302">TS</a>]
01:28:27 ◼ ► out loud sometimes two books a day [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5307">TS</a>]
01:28:28 ◼ ► did you put electrodes somewhere on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5308">TS</a>]
01:28:30 ◼ ► floor where a doctor you know I just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5310">TS</a>]
01:28:33 ◼ ► God answered my 1 prayer yeah my mouth [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5313">TS</a>]
01:28:36 ◼ ► technically 1.52 prayers I hope she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5316">TS</a>]
01:28:39 ◼ ► likes music but I really hope she likes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5319">TS</a>]
01:28:40 ◼ ► reading please God let her read I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5320">TS</a>]
01:28:43 ◼ ► care if she's a terrible large adult son [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5323">TS</a>]
01:28:45 ◼ ► I don't care how she turns out as long [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5325">TS</a>]
01:28:47 ◼ ► as she likes to read and it's like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5327">TS</a>]
01:28:48 ◼ ► will that is I don't care she told my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5328">TS</a>]
01:28:51 ◼ ► wife this I don't care if she never [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5331">TS</a>]
01:28:52 ◼ ► kicks the ball in her life she keeps [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5332">TS</a>]
01:28:54 ◼ ► reading like this I'm gonna be so happy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5334">TS</a>]
01:28:56 ◼ ► well there's this this thing about the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5336">TS</a>]
01:28:58 ◼ ► hair actually is a problem even within [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5338">TS</a>]
01:29:02 ◼ ► my own family because one other I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5342">TS</a>]
01:29:06 ◼ ► like my mom her policy is sit in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5346">TS</a>]
01:29:09 ◼ ► goddamn chair I'm gonna brush her hair [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5349">TS</a>]
01:29:15 ◼ ► she doesn't even hold the top mom is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5355">TS</a>]
01:29:18 ◼ ► good at it she she she knows now not to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5358">TS</a>]
01:29:20 ◼ ► hurt her but she's also not like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5360">TS</a>]
01:29:23 ◼ ► Brooking any any you know like sassafras [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5363">TS</a>]
01:29:27 ◼ ► yeah any sassafras your hat your hair's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5367">TS</a>]
01:29:30 ◼ ► gonna get brushed here's what's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5370">TS</a>]
01:29:32 ◼ ► gonna happen you leave here without your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5372">TS</a>]
01:29:33 ◼ ► hairbrush here's what's also not gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5373">TS</a>]
01:29:35 ◼ ► happen you yell at me while I'm brushing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5375">TS</a>]
01:29:36 ◼ ► hair so you can see I'm eliminating some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5376">TS</a>]
01:29:42 ◼ ► but if I if her mom picks up a brush [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5382">TS</a>]
01:29:44 ◼ ► across the room she'll start to cry and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5384">TS</a>]
01:29:46 ◼ ► so it's really all that must hurt her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5386">TS</a>]
01:29:49 ◼ ► feelings it doesn't it's a real issue [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5389">TS</a>]
01:29:55 ◼ ► luxuriating through this Silk'n move in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5395">TS</a>]
01:29:58 ◼ ► its silk in slow motion hair mm-hmm and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5398">TS</a>]
01:30:00 ◼ ► you know and she's not even she doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5400">TS</a>]
01:30:03 ◼ ► put up a fuss at all because because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5403">TS</a>]
01:30:05 ◼ ► it's the conditioner the conditioner is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5405">TS</a>]
01:30:07 ◼ ► the secret ingredient but she will not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5407">TS</a>]
01:30:10 ◼ ► allow others I know how this is yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5410">TS</a>]
01:30:13 ◼ ► so strange it is a little braggy I have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5413">TS</a>]
01:30:16 ◼ ► to it oh no no but you know what good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5416">TS</a>]
01:30:18 ◼ ► for you to gift yeah you been free good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5418">TS</a>]
01:30:22 ◼ ► for both of us you know what well good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5422">TS</a>]
01:30:25 ◼ ► looking guys we just got our parade mmm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5425">TS</a>]
01:30:28 ◼ ► shoots similarly into school the other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5428">TS</a>]
01:30:31 ◼ ► that's not readable you can't read that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5431">TS</a>]
01:30:33 ◼ ► I know I think it's a prank I bought it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5433">TS</a>]
01:30:35 ◼ ► for it just said because they're still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5435">TS</a>]
01:30:38 ◼ ► reading Lord of the Rings it's a very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5438">TS</a>]
01:30:39 ◼ ► very large books is a very very large [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5439">TS</a>]
01:30:44 ◼ ► book it is very large books well they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5444">TS</a>]
01:30:46 ◼ ► the addition first I got them in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5446">TS</a>]
01:30:47 ◼ ► addition that I thought would cuz they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5447">TS</a>]
01:30:49 ◼ ► wanted to read The Hobbit and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5449">TS</a>]
01:30:50 ◼ ► wanted to do Lord of the Rings and so I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5450">TS</a>]
01:30:52 ◼ ► got this like Amazon Prime right I got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5452">TS</a>]
01:30:54 ◼ ► this little box set but little shitty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5454">TS</a>]
01:30:55 ◼ ► fucking letters like a cheap Bible cheap [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5455">TS</a>]
01:30:58 ◼ ► like cheap the skinny paper and little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5458">TS</a>]
01:31:01 ◼ ► tiny letters like be careful before you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5461">TS</a>]
01:31:03 ◼ ► buy a complete Sherlock Holmes like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5463">TS</a>]
01:31:07 ◼ ► you know full if that thing's not huge [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5467">TS</a>]
01:31:10 ◼ ► it's gonna be hard to read that's what I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5470">TS</a>]
01:31:12 ◼ ► uh-huh so then I thought so down there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5472">TS</a>]
01:31:15 ◼ ► reading the Lord of the Rings I got him [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5475">TS</a>]
01:31:16 ◼ ► a bigger Edition that's got bigger [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5476">TS</a>]
01:31:18 ◼ ► letters in nicer paper and I thought I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5478">TS</a>]
01:31:20 ◼ ► just gonna get the Cimorelli and I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5480">TS</a>]
01:31:21 ◼ ► just gonna put it here I'm not gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5481">TS</a>]
01:31:22 ◼ ► fucking read it no way I don't know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5482">TS</a>]
01:31:24 ◼ ► thank you yeah exactly so obviously but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5484">TS</a>]
01:31:27 ◼ ► here though because they're very into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5487">TS</a>]
01:31:28 ◼ ► this like we sit and watch these movies [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5488">TS</a>]
01:31:30 ◼ ► and I'm like which one is Sir dingus of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5490">TS</a>]
01:31:32 ◼ ► doomed place and they're like claiming [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5492">TS</a>]
01:31:35 ◼ ► joke you know don't know the story don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5495">TS</a>]
01:31:36 ◼ ► even make my family becomes like John [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5496">TS</a>]
01:31:39 ◼ ► siracusa there's like they're like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5499">TS</a>]
01:31:40 ◼ ► don't even know what to make fun of when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5500">TS</a>]
01:31:42 ◼ ► you're watching this you idiot but you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5502">TS</a>]
01:31:44 ◼ ► know what makes fun of yeah there are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5504">TS</a>]
01:31:48 ◼ ► some of the matrix I don't know if I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5508">TS</a>]
01:31:51 ◼ ► would go there but she's yeah she's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5511">TS</a>]
01:31:55 ◼ ► sophisticated it's better than you think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5515">TS</a>]
01:31:57 ◼ ► it's really I mean in terms of like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5517">TS</a>]
01:31:59 ◼ ► there's some stuff mostly it's creepy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5519">TS</a>]
01:32:00 ◼ ► it's just real creepy but she loved it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5520">TS</a>]
01:32:03 ◼ ► yeah I bet I bet I mean sheesh I had to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5523">TS</a>]
01:32:06 ◼ ► point out that that was Elrond but like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5526">TS</a>]
01:32:07 ◼ ► she's mostly oh it is Elrond mr. [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5527">TS</a>]
01:32:11 ◼ ► Anderson she she didn't she didn't see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5531">TS</a>]
01:32:14 ◼ ► that shit rock rock the agent Smith was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5534">TS</a>]
01:32:17 ◼ ► all wrong that's my game is like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5537">TS</a>]
01:32:22 ◼ ► know you know you know you have an old [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5542">TS</a>]
01:32:23 ◼ ► man in your car when you're going down [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5543">TS</a>]
01:32:25 ◼ ► the street and he just reads all the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5545">TS</a>]
01:32:27 ◼ ► signs you remember this phenomenon as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5547">TS</a>]
01:32:30 ◼ ► well huh I was sorry I was talking to my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5550">TS</a>]
01:32:32 ◼ ► kid the other day and as we were driving [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5552">TS</a>]
01:32:33 ◼ ► along and she was reading the signs and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5553">TS</a>]
01:32:35 ◼ ► I was like you know that's a thing right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5555">TS</a>]
01:32:36 ◼ ► that's an old man that's the thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5556">TS</a>]
01:32:37 ◼ ► that's a thing that little men do where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5557">TS</a>]
01:32:39 ◼ ► they read every single and she was like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5559">TS</a>]
01:32:41 ◼ ► I thought it was a joke but it's true [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5561">TS</a>]
01:32:54 ◼ ► fried the chicken yeah there's a truck [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5574">TS</a>]
01:33:00 ◼ ► oh we're watching this nanny mcphee [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5580">TS</a>]
01:33:02 ◼ ► movie we had a sleepover in our guest [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5582">TS</a>]
01:33:04 ◼ ► wanted to watch nanny mcphee we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5584">TS</a>]
01:33:05 ◼ ► watching I go home I was like look at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5585">TS</a>]
01:33:06 ◼ ► that that's the gout from the Harry [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5586">TS</a>]
01:33:09 ◼ ► Potter that's the professor Trelawney [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5589">TS</a>]
01:33:11 ◼ ► professor Trelawney but she's wearing a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5591">TS</a>]
01:33:13 ◼ ► lot and look at that that's that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5593">TS</a>]
01:33:14 ◼ ► that's Professor Umbridge you know from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5594">TS</a>]
01:33:17 ◼ ► the the Ministry of Magic she's playing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5597">TS</a>]
01:33:19 ◼ ► the the cook in this they're like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5599">TS</a>]
01:33:21 ◼ ► just close IMDB like stop talking oh I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5601">TS</a>]
01:33:27 ◼ ► really like I really like that you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5607">TS</a>]
01:33:31 ◼ ► that Jimmy Stewart comes out of you a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5611">TS</a>]
01:33:33 ◼ ► little bit if not in impersonation very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5613">TS</a>]
01:33:39 ◼ ► much in like comportment you know no no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5619">TS</a>]
01:33:42 ◼ ► no no I know I'm pretty sure I put my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5622">TS</a>]
01:33:44 ◼ ► pants here what do people keep moving my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5624">TS</a>]
01:33:47 ◼ ► pants and my coins I just love that tan [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5627">TS</a>]
01:33:54 ◼ ► tan okay you know I think we should keep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5634">TS</a>]
01:33:58 ◼ ► going at nine I think we should stick [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5638">TS</a>]
01:34:00 ◼ ► with it I know it's a pilot program what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5640">TS</a>]
01:34:03 ◼ ► do you think should we keep with it it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5643">TS</a>]
01:34:05 ◼ ► hasn't it's not a I don't think that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5645">TS</a>]
01:34:07 ◼ ► it's a question of nine or ten because I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5647">TS</a>]
01:34:09 ◼ ► think if it was at ten I would have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5649">TS</a>]
01:34:11 ◼ ► stayed up another hour you know it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5651">TS</a>]
01:34:13 ◼ ► it's not that it's too early it's just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5653">TS</a>]
01:34:15 ◼ ► that I'll get to figure out a different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5655">TS</a>]
01:34:16 ◼ ► way to live doing them of date what if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5656">TS</a>]
01:34:20 ◼ ► it what if we did it at six then both of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5660">TS</a>]
01:34:22 ◼ ► us would be like get a good start to our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5662">TS</a>]
01:34:26 ◼ ► day mutually inconvenienced what if we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5666">TS</a>]
01:34:29 ◼ ► do it at 5:30 am was you know what if we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5669">TS</a>]
01:34:33 ◼ ► did at 5:30 p.m. well that would be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5673">TS</a>]
01:34:35 ◼ ► really a giant oh yeah that would suck [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5675">TS</a>]
01:34:38 ◼ ► oh that would be extremely inconvenient [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5678">TS</a>]
01:34:42 ◼ ► I I don't think I'd be able to do that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5682">TS</a>]
01:34:45 ◼ ► 45 to 5:30 that's not a time that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOryj-4/5685">TS</a>]