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Ep. 123: "Your Mom Doesn't Work Here"

 

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00:00:19   [Music] [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/19">TS</a>]

00:00:24   hello I John I'm Merlin how's it going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/24">TS</a>]

00:00:29   oh it's going well how are you going I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/29">TS</a>]

00:00:32   doing extremely well happy anniversary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/32">TS</a>]

00:00:36   oh really mm-hmm do we have an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/36">TS</a>]

00:00:38   anniversary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/38">TS</a>]

00:00:39   yeah every year and there was this week [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/39">TS</a>]

00:00:42   three years ago we started doing this I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/42">TS</a>]

00:00:45   don't really have anything special to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/45">TS</a>]

00:00:46   say about that i just wanna make sure I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/46">TS</a>]

00:00:47   didn't let the day go by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/47">TS</a>]

00:00:48   wow I don't know if you three years ago [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/48">TS</a>]

00:00:51   thought that we would still be doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/51">TS</a>]

00:00:52   this three years from now i don't know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/52">TS</a>]

00:00:54   what I thought three years ago i've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/54">TS</a>]

00:00:56   liked that too [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/56">TS</a>]

00:00:59   I'm not gonna like the ocean just ways [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/59">TS</a>]

00:01:01   wasn't at the Clinton administration I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/61">TS</a>]

00:01:04   think so it might have been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/64">TS</a>]

00:01:05   yeah yeah you have some listeners that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/65">TS</a>]

00:01:09   weren't even born during the Clinton [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/69">TS</a>]

00:01:11   administration that's not true is it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/71">TS</a>]

00:01:14   true true i don't know i do this thing I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/74">TS</a>]

00:01:17   just drop a decade sometimes you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/77">TS</a>]

00:01:20   about to drop a kid on a fool [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/80">TS</a>]

00:01:23   yeah we're all going I can't believe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/83">TS</a>]

00:01:25   it's 20 years since ronald reagan was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/85">TS</a>]

00:01:28   president go away minutes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/88">TS</a>]

00:01:30   I just should be as I was coming down [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/90">TS</a>]

00:01:33   here i just did the thing where I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/93">TS</a>]

00:01:35   driving along and I just drove in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/95">TS</a>]

00:01:39   wrong direction or I don't go down the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/99">TS</a>]

00:01:43   wrong way towards your office studio or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/103">TS</a>]

00:01:46   either in the wrong way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/106">TS</a>]

00:01:47   no no the wrong the wrong way toward [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/107">TS</a>]

00:01:50   where I was going I was just thinking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/110">TS</a>]

00:01:51   you know what I was thinking about I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/111">TS</a>]

00:01:52   thinking about young black Republicans [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/112">TS</a>]

00:01:54   and that haha the subject classic Merlin [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/114">TS</a>]

00:01:59   grown through that i only got you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/119">TS</a>]

00:02:02   thinking it returned and I did instead [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/122">TS</a>]

00:02:04   of right yeah I went I went the wrong [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/124">TS</a>]

00:02:06   way and then I was like where am I you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/126">TS</a>]

00:02:08   know I got to an intersection was like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/128">TS</a>]

00:02:09   which way do I go from here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/129">TS</a>]

00:02:11   the answer was no way that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/131">TS</a>]

00:02:13   interactive and teaching what happens [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/133">TS</a>]

00:02:15   when you think about politics [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/135">TS</a>]

00:02:16   well it might be it might be true that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/136">TS</a>]

00:02:19   should specifically not think about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/139">TS</a>]

00:02:20   young black Republicans because it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/140">TS</a>]

00:02:23   because it's kind of like ass like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/143">TS</a>]

00:02:25   smoke fog that's not the log cabin [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/145">TS</a>]

00:02:27   republicans is it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/147">TS</a>]

00:02:28   no those are the young gay Republicans [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/148">TS</a>]

00:02:30   or not even young anymore [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/150">TS</a>]

00:02:32   lot of them have matured into the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/152">TS</a>]

00:02:34   middle-aged gay Republican but there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/154">TS</a>]

00:02:35   must be some young gay black Republicans [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/155">TS</a>]

00:02:37   imagine you could get more tail than [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/157">TS</a>]

00:02:38   Sinatra i know for a fact there are I I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/158">TS</a>]

00:02:42   made it up I made it a policy to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/162">TS</a>]

00:02:43   investigate the culture of young black [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/163">TS</a>]

00:02:46   Republicans and I was fairly amazed at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/166">TS</a>]

00:02:48   what I found really yeah haha you have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/168">TS</a>]

00:02:56   the most expressive voice it's like it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/176">TS</a>]

00:02:59   like having an expressive face but you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/179">TS</a>]

00:03:01   can communicate such subtlety with a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/181">TS</a>]

00:03:04   hole with only a couple of syllables [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/184">TS</a>]

00:03:07   haha i'm gonna cover that and so I'll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/187">TS</a>]

00:03:12   ride along but you drop the studio right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/192">TS</a>]

00:03:14   nice when today is the first day of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/194">TS</a>]

00:03:18   seattle seahawks football-playing team [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/198">TS</a>]

00:03:22   i'll go hawks and they are going to play [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/202">TS</a>]

00:03:24   the green bay packers and so everyone is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/204">TS</a>]

00:03:28   very excited that follows that kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/208">TS</a>]

00:03:31   sport and you can feel it in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/211">TS</a>]

00:03:34   neighborhood already there's a guy in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/214">TS</a>]

00:03:35   there's a guy standing with the with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/215">TS</a>]

00:03:37   with an orange flag in front of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/217">TS</a>]

00:03:40   parking lot where i normally park and he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/220">TS</a>]

00:03:43   has a sign that says parking fifty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/223">TS</a>]

00:03:45   dollars [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/225">TS</a>]

00:03:47   wow just parking parking fifty dollars [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/227">TS</a>]

00:03:51   and the game doesn't start for seven [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/231">TS</a>]

00:03:55   hours [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/235">TS</a>]

00:03:56   Wow and he's out there already selling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/236">TS</a>]

00:03:58   parking for fifty dollars and so when I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/238">TS</a>]

00:04:00   got into my parking lot so I just like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/240">TS</a>]

00:04:02   drove by man waved and he was like uh I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/242">TS</a>]

00:04:04   was like yeah yeah I've got a parking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/244">TS</a>]

00:04:06   spot i get back in there and there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/246">TS</a>]

00:04:09   bus a full-on like a rockstar bus with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/249">TS</a>]

00:04:15   vancouver plates already parked in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/255">TS</a>]

00:04:19   parking lot taking up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/259">TS</a>]

00:04:20   however many at eight spots and the bus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/260">TS</a>]

00:04:24   is full of canadians who are who are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/264">TS</a>]

00:04:28   tailgating the seahawks game and they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/268">TS</a>]

00:04:31   in there drinking already it's ten [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/271">TS</a>]

00:04:32   o'clock in the morning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/272">TS</a>]

00:04:33   wow yeah so that that is just a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/273">TS</a>]

00:04:38   harbinger of of the day to come here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/278">TS</a>]

00:04:41   we've had a big dust up here because the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/281">TS</a>]

00:04:46   our football team is called the 49ers [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/286">TS</a>]

00:04:48   and the races [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/288">TS</a>]

00:04:50   yeah I know I know it's it's you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/290">TS</a>]

00:04:53   all 49ers love gold huh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/293">TS</a>]

00:04:56   now i know right what about the people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/296">TS</a>]

00:04:57   became in 54 in 48 yeah right where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/297">TS</a>]

00:05:00   their parade was their stadium i'll tell [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/300">TS</a>]

00:05:02   you where the stadium is used to be at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/302">TS</a>]

00:05:03   Candlestick Park which is you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/303">TS</a>]

00:05:05   already kind of on the the rim of San [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/305">TS</a>]

00:05:07   Francisco they built a new state in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/307">TS</a>]

00:05:09   levi's stadium has been built in santa [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/309">TS</a>]

00:05:12   clara what now I know pretty much [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/312">TS</a>]

00:05:15   everything you stand for something on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/315">TS</a>]

00:05:16   the peninsula so you don't need to keep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/316">TS</a>]

00:05:18   track but basically long story short [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/318">TS</a>]

00:05:20   ar-ar-ar towns football organization now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/320">TS</a>]

00:05:24   has the distinction of having the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/324">TS</a>]

00:05:27   stadium that is farthest from its actual [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/327">TS</a>]

00:05:29   town of anybody in the NFL really did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/329">TS</a>]

00:05:35   yeah right i mean i'm not a football is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/335">TS</a>]

00:05:37   football day like excluding Silicon [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/337">TS</a>]

00:05:39   Valley traffic like it's gonna take an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/339">TS</a>]

00:05:40   hour to drive there isn't that isn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/340">TS</a>]

00:05:43   that crazy and still the San Francisco [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/343">TS</a>]

00:05:44   49ers they built a whole big stadium [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/344">TS</a>]

00:05:46   it's crazy i read a rundown I mean you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/346">TS</a>]

00:05:48   got you go to sports gaming things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/348">TS</a>]

00:05:50   sometimes some you know it's gotten [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/350">TS</a>]

00:05:52   pretty costly you might you might [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/352">TS</a>]

00:05:53   football you might spend like two [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/353">TS</a>]

00:05:55   hundred dollars on a ticket yes that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/355">TS</a>]

00:05:58   is that real is that really true [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/358">TS</a>]

00:05:59   well yeah because you know that's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/359">TS</a>]

00:06:02   whole game of professional sports right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/362">TS</a>]

00:06:04   uh aside from the game of actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/364">TS</a>]

00:06:06   playing the game the game is to is to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/366">TS</a>]

00:06:10   figure out a way to get public money to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/370">TS</a>]

00:06:14   build a giant sports stadium which then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/374">TS</a>]

00:06:17   the majority of his devoted exclusively [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/377">TS</a>]

00:06:20   to private wealth and if you spin that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/380">TS</a>]

00:06:25   if you spin it right you can convince [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/385">TS</a>]

00:06:29   the municipalities and the people that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/389">TS</a>]

00:06:32   having the sports team that injects a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/392">TS</a>]

00:06:35   lot of money into the economy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/395">TS</a>]

00:06:38   and it is somehow it's a public good and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/398">TS</a>]

00:06:41   right having it having a good sports [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/401">TS</a>]

00:06:43   team is like a promotes the city in all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/403">TS</a>]

00:06:47   these you know these confusing ways that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/407">TS</a>]

00:06:50   can't really be quantified and then you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/410">TS</a>]

00:06:53   then you set aside whole levels of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/413">TS</a>]

00:06:57   stadium for multi multi million dollar [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/417">TS</a>]

00:07:00   private boxes and with a baseball team [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/420">TS</a>]

00:07:06   my understanding of how this works the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/426">TS</a>]

00:07:09   baseball team place 200k play 650 games [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/429">TS</a>]

00:07:12   here 651 dave was not including the suit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/432">TS</a>]

00:07:16   the the superbowl I think it has five [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/436">TS</a>]

00:07:18   games a year in football season [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/438">TS</a>]

00:07:20   yeah exactly standing amortize it you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/440">TS</a>]

00:07:23   got it that's right way and yet you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/443">TS</a>]

00:07:24   gotta charge big big big dollar so for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/444">TS</a>]

00:07:26   instance i have been to probably [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/446">TS</a>]

00:07:29   conservatively 6,000 Mariners games [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/449">TS</a>]

00:07:33   understand these are just step on um but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/453">TS</a>]

00:07:37   I have been a sense they tore the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/457">TS</a>]

00:07:39   kingdom down and built the and built the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/459">TS</a>]

00:07:44   but the steel taco that replaced it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/464">TS</a>]

00:07:47   I have been 20 Seahawks games because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/467">TS</a>]

00:07:51   you know who's gonna I mean I'll throw [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/471">TS</a>]

00:07:52   ten dollars and mariners game go sit in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/472">TS</a>]

00:07:54   the stands get a hot dog yeah cares but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/474">TS</a>]

00:07:58   two hundred dollars to go to go sit in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/478">TS</a>]

00:08:00   football stadium no thanks [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/480">TS</a>]

00:08:01   yeah you know it's I don't have a super [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/481">TS</a>]

00:08:04   strong opinion about it that's backed up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/484">TS</a>]

00:08:06   by how little i've actually chosen to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/486">TS</a>]

00:08:07   learn about this but i dunno it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/487">TS</a>]

00:08:09   dispiriting its way I like I live in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/489">TS</a>]

00:08:12   part of town where there are uh matters [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/492">TS</a>]

00:08:15   like a lot of like quick working-class [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/495">TS</a>]

00:08:17   people who lived in San Francisco a long [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/497">TS</a>]

00:08:19   time and you know they'll wear the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/499">TS</a>]

00:08:22   several 49ers hat and 14 and undershirt [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/502">TS</a>]

00:08:26   and the 49ers jacket and they're all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/506">TS</a>]

00:08:27   super into it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/507">TS</a>]

00:08:28   socks 49er Sox yeah but it's just that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/508">TS</a>]

00:08:30   same little needy when you see people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/510">TS</a>]

00:08:32   with multiple articles of sports [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/512">TS</a>]

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00:16:04   you know in a way they've done a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/964">TS</a>]

00:16:05   tremendous job of of a branding their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/965">TS</a>]

00:16:10   team because people haven't rejected the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/970">TS</a>]

00:16:12   color they've embraced it and you could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/972">TS</a>]

00:16:14   see a guy a mile and a half away and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/974">TS</a>]

00:16:17   know that he's the sounders now i see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/977">TS</a>]

00:16:18   yeah that's true that's true no no one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/978">TS</a>]

00:16:20   else oh you wouldn't use that color for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/980">TS</a>]

00:16:22   anything else that they they found the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/982">TS</a>]

00:16:25   one thing that they could you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/985">TS</a>]

00:16:27   because it was safety orange or whenever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/987">TS</a>]

00:16:29   you just feel like the guy was like if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/989">TS</a>]

00:16:31   you're a fan patient you're a fan of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/991">TS</a>]

00:16:33   patriots you were like red white and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/993">TS</a>]

00:16:35   blue right is that right right when I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/995">TS</a>]

00:16:37   hold my in-laws my family they vary in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/997">TS</a>]

00:16:40   the Patriots but that's not as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1000">TS</a>]

00:16:42   distinctive yellow around my high school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1002">TS</a>]

00:16:44   we had green we had bright green and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1004">TS</a>]

00:16:46   bright yellow and was incredibly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1006">TS</a>]

00:16:48   unflattering my high school was powder [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1008">TS</a>]

00:16:51   blue red white and blue but the blue was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1011">TS</a>]

00:16:54   powder blue and it's still kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1014">TS</a>]

00:16:57   haunts me that is how flattering because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1017">TS</a>]

00:17:00   our main opponents were black and orange [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1020">TS</a>]

00:17:03   and they just looked so badass black and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1023">TS</a>]

00:17:08   orange just like yeah Halloween colors [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1028">TS</a>]

00:17:11   and we were we were red white and packed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1031">TS</a>]

00:17:14   powder blue and our and our mascot was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1034">TS</a>]

00:17:16   the Thunderbird which isn't even really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1036">TS</a>]

00:17:19   a thing you know when you talk about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1039">TS</a>]

00:17:22   that though because we might as well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1042">TS</a>]

00:17:24   bring religion into the mix I I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1044">TS</a>]

00:17:28   you talked about how recently about how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1048">TS</a>]

00:17:30   you know wasn't that long ago [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1050">TS</a>]

00:17:32   that letter is a positive feeling or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1052">TS</a>]

00:17:35   negative feeling Presbyterian meant [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1055">TS</a>]

00:17:36   something to you like an Episcopalian [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1056">TS</a>]

00:17:39   meant something to you were you an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1059">TS</a>]

00:17:40   irish-catholic wearing an Italian [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1060">TS</a>]

00:17:41   Catholic they're all these gradations [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1061">TS</a>]

00:17:43   that even if you weren't like a super [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1063">TS</a>]

00:17:45   observant person those meant the same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1065">TS</a>]

00:17:48   kinds of stuff to average American [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1068">TS</a>]

00:17:50   people that never was like us today [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1070">TS</a>]

00:17:52   associated with certain colleges oh you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1072">TS</a>]

00:17:54   want to brown or you want to know like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1074">TS</a>]

00:17:56   there's that certain kind of anybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1076">TS</a>]

00:17:57   else would go likewise that wasn't a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1077">TS</a>]

00:17:59   joke on the simpsons talking about brown [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1079">TS</a>]

00:18:01   like that doesn't make any sense but the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1081">TS</a>]

00:18:03   other thing that's interesting is first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1083">TS</a>]

00:18:05   of all like I think it's a think is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1085">TS</a>]

00:18:06   interesting to look at the way religion [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1086">TS</a>]

00:18:08   changed through the 60 seventies [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1088">TS</a>]

00:18:10   eighties when you got more into this you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1090">TS</a>]

00:18:12   know but promise on my ass but the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1092">TS</a>]

00:18:14   combination of like people become more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1094">TS</a>]

00:18:16   diffuse people's like total acceptance [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1096">TS</a>]

00:18:19   of whatever was said by their clergy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1099">TS</a>]

00:18:21   person I think tend to get a little bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1101">TS</a>]

00:18:24   more dissolute overtime but also you got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1104">TS</a>]

00:18:26   any more like they call i first started [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1106">TS</a>]

00:18:27   buffet Catholicism the idea that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1107">TS</a>]

00:18:29   would accept these things and not those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1109">TS</a>]

00:18:31   things and you know you might be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1111">TS</a>]

00:18:33   incredibly Arden partly Catholic about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1113">TS</a>]

00:18:36   these things and not those but you see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1116">TS</a>]

00:18:38   that now today in all these million [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1118">TS</a>]

00:18:40   other things doctor who like in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1120">TS</a>]

00:18:42   doctor who fan community is it's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1122">TS</a>]

00:18:44   just like Doctor Who lots of people like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1124">TS</a>]

00:18:47   Doctor Who you Napoli really how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1127">TS</a>]

00:18:50   incredibly specific people get that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1130">TS</a>]

00:18:52   true of anything when I listen to NPR [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1132">TS</a>]

00:18:54   now i know i'm out of exciting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1134">TS</a>]

00:18:56   recognizing your bands on NPR and talk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1136">TS</a>]

00:18:58   about new pornographers yesterday hit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1138">TS</a>]

00:18:59   like I got 100 we're just talking to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1139">TS</a>]

00:19:03   these guys with beards I don't know who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1143">TS</a>]

00:19:04   they are but like there's so much you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1144">TS</a>]

00:19:06   realize instrument punk-rock apps think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1146">TS</a>]

00:19:07   about all the flavors of punk rock but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1147">TS</a>]

00:19:10   you know you know I mentioned with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1150">TS</a>]

00:19:11   Doctor Who because it is something that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1151">TS</a>]

00:19:13   I enjoy that I'm a small fan of compared [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1153">TS</a>]

00:19:16   to the mega fans but I've never seen so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1156">TS</a>]

00:19:18   much diversity in a community that I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1158">TS</a>]

00:19:21   aware of that there were people get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1161">TS</a>]

00:19:23   along but at the same time there are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1163">TS</a>]

00:19:24   some people who really hate this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1164">TS</a>]

00:19:25   particular doctor they really love this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1165">TS</a>]

00:19:27   particular duck like the doctor to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1167">TS</a>]

00:19:29   like an alien like that like the doctor [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1169">TS</a>]

00:19:30   be like a human they hate this companion [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1170">TS</a>]

00:19:32   love this campaign but like it's almost [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1172">TS</a>]

00:19:34   endless the number of combinations in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1174">TS</a>]

00:19:36   fandom and you might love the companion [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1176">TS</a>]

00:19:38   in this episode you know short stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1178">TS</a>]

00:19:39   like Star Wars I mean it's just weird [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1179">TS</a>]

00:19:41   because that's something that's popped [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1181">TS</a>]

00:19:42   up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1182">TS</a>]

00:19:43   as a fan thing especially the last five [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1183">TS</a>]

00:19:46   years there's always been like sci-fi [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1186">TS</a>]

00:19:47   fans but like it's this huge thing it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1187">TS</a>]

00:19:49   true and comics but like it gives you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1189">TS</a>]

00:19:51   that satisfaction of being part of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1191">TS</a>]

00:19:54   community while still being incredibly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1194">TS</a>]

00:19:56   passionate about something and on top of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1196">TS</a>]

00:19:58   it all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1198">TS</a>]

00:19:58   you're not just some nerd who likes nerd [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1198">TS</a>]

00:20:01   stuff you're a very specific kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1201">TS</a>]

00:20:03   nerd and you're remembering sec you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1203">TS</a>]

00:20:06   in it you're in a tribe but you will [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1206">TS</a>]

00:20:08   really get to pick where you get to sit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1208">TS</a>]

00:20:10   and I I think that's both very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1210">TS</a>]

00:20:13   interesting and can potentially be a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1213">TS</a>]

00:20:15   little divisive because things start to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1215">TS</a>]

00:20:17   seem real but but i mean i agree with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1217">TS</a>]

00:20:20   you you don't have the same institutions [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1220">TS</a>]

00:20:21   that she used to and now that we all get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1221">TS</a>]

00:20:23   to kind of pick our family [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1223">TS</a>]

00:20:25   I think she interesting stuff coming out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1225">TS</a>]

00:20:26   of that it's definitely gonna make very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1226">TS</a>]

00:20:29   it's going to make for a very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1229">TS</a>]

00:20:30   interesting brand base to stick fighting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1230">TS</a>]

00:20:33   tournaments [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1233">TS</a>]

00:20:34   oh now with a be sponsors or is that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1234">TS</a>]

00:20:37   people you follow on twitter like I like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1237">TS</a>]

00:20:40   a best buy like people follow best buy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1240">TS</a>]

00:20:41   on Twitter and write out a certain point [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1241">TS</a>]

00:20:43   all of the doctor who fans are going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1243">TS</a>]

00:20:46   sit on one side of the stadium against [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1246">TS</a>]

00:20:49   all of the Star Trek fans in the big [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1249">TS</a>]

00:20:53   doctor who star trek fans stick fight [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1253">TS</a>]

00:20:56   tournaments this is like England in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1256">TS</a>]

00:20:58   in the late thirties you gotta pick a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1258">TS</a>]

00:20:59   side right but at a certain point when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1259">TS</a>]

00:21:01   the doctor who fans go back to the you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1261">TS</a>]

00:21:05   know the area around santa clara where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1265">TS</a>]

00:21:07   they have made their homeland and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1267">TS</a>]

00:21:09   started their settlements yeah the Star [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1269">TS</a>]

00:21:12   Trek fans go down to Santa Barbara where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1272">TS</a>]

00:21:14   they have made their home wins that that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1274">TS</a>]

00:21:17   the the regional stick fighting is all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1277">TS</a>]

00:21:19   going to happen between the sexes right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1279">TS</a>]

00:21:22   you're going to have to qualify for the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1282">TS</a>]

00:21:23   Star Trek team by fight you know you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1283">TS</a>]

00:21:25   you're like you're Kirk cause player and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1285">TS</a>]

00:21:29   you're gonna have to fight against a DNI [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1289">TS</a>]

00:21:32   cause player in order to get that right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1292">TS</a>]

00:21:35   at the end Troy deanna troi that's right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1295">TS</a>]

00:21:38   to different areas [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1298">TS</a>]

00:21:39   I know that name I've read that name [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1299">TS</a>]

00:21:41   yeah and so he's an empath i was i was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1301">TS</a>]

00:21:44   standing out in front of packs the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1304">TS</a>]

00:21:46   videogame conference the other day it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1306">TS</a>]

00:21:48   was some people I know and like and we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1308">TS</a>]

00:21:51   we had reason we had reason to take [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1311">TS</a>]

00:21:54   recourse in our phones [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1314">TS</a>]

00:21:56   for a moment and so everybody pulled [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1316">TS</a>]

00:21:59   their phones out and i looked around and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1319">TS</a>]

00:22:01   i was the only one with an iphone how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1321">TS</a>]

00:22:05   that's super interesting let android [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1325">TS</a>]

00:22:08   android they all had android phones and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1328">TS</a>]

00:22:11   I was and the thing is they didn't make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1331">TS</a>]

00:22:14   mention of it and I was like oh whoa do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1334">TS</a>]

00:22:19   you guys all have android phones and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1339">TS</a>]

00:22:21   they all looked up and kinda had that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1341">TS</a>]

00:22:23   like huh oh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1343">TS</a>]

00:22:26   doesn't everyone have an android phone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1346">TS</a>]

00:22:27   mind a lot of setup you guys are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1347">TS</a>]

00:22:30   Catholic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1350">TS</a>]

00:22:31   yeah right like they were going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1351">TS</a>]

00:22:33   wonder why would you need to mention [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1353">TS</a>]

00:22:34   what are you talking about whatever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1354">TS</a>]

00:22:36   you'd 0 is there another kind of phone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1356">TS</a>]

00:22:39   other than android phone and some of it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1359">TS</a>]

00:22:41   felt a little bit like practiced but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1361">TS</a>]

00:22:45   also times have changed just in the last [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1365">TS</a>]

00:22:48   couple years when you wear now that's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1368">TS</a>]

00:22:51   not only viable but like to some people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1371">TS</a>]

00:22:54   I guess so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1374">TS</a>]

00:22:55   always great greatly preferable for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1375">TS</a>]

00:22:57   certain people in many ways [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1377">TS</a>]

00:22:59   yeah right and so and they just you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1379">TS</a>]

00:23:01   back to like people poop and all of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1381">TS</a>]

00:23:03   sudden I felt like I was on enemy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1383">TS</a>]

00:23:05   territory and I was like oh I don't even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1385">TS</a>]

00:23:08   care about like I'm not a person who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1388">TS</a>]

00:23:12   brand identifies but I'm used to in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1392">TS</a>]

00:23:15   rock-and-roll circles at least [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1395">TS</a>]

00:23:17   everybody's got an iphone and the and so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1397">TS</a>]

00:23:20   you never have to think about what kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1400">TS</a>]

00:23:22   of phone you have anymore you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1402">TS</a>]

00:23:25   everybody's got an iphone and so it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1405">TS</a>]

00:23:27   just assume that that's the only kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1407">TS</a>]

00:23:29   phone and those questions are removed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1409">TS</a>]

00:23:32   mmm yeah but what happens when somebody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1412">TS</a>]

00:23:37   texts you and it's a green bubble utd's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1417">TS</a>]

00:23:41   do you think you think you can teach [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1421">TS</a>]

00:23:42   anything like a steer might what usually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1422">TS</a>]

00:23:45   goes through my mind is oh now that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1425">TS</a>]

00:23:47   features working again or now it's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1427">TS</a>]

00:23:50   again is the bigger level of blue [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1430">TS</a>]

00:23:53   bubbles mean it's somebody you know why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1433">TS</a>]

00:23:55   but I text my text my mom all the time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1435">TS</a>]

00:23:59   and sometimes it's in a green bubble and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1439">TS</a>]

00:24:01   sometimes in a blue bubble and it and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1441">TS</a>]

00:24:04   she has a just like mine and so I feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1444">TS</a>]

00:24:07   like that is that is another one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1447">TS</a>]

00:24:09   it's things that like wouldn't that be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1449">TS</a>]

00:24:11   interesting if it worked well you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1451">TS</a>]

00:24:13   like they're gonna make bigger phones so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1453">TS</a>]

00:24:15   that's going to be good for you that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1455">TS</a>]

00:24:16   gonna be getting really really big fun i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1456">TS</a>]

00:24:19   have to say this is the thing I'm I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1459">TS</a>]

00:24:22   loath to say because it feels like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1462">TS</a>]

00:24:26   product promotion but Apple issued that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1466">TS</a>]

00:24:30   recall all right get the battery thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1470">TS</a>]

00:24:33   and I went in and my phone my phone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1473">TS</a>]

00:24:39   qualified and they gave me a new phone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1479">TS</a>]

00:24:42   is it and did you get you five we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1482">TS</a>]

00:24:44   gonna give you five s uh it's a that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1484">TS</a>]

00:24:47   they have a they have an internal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1487">TS</a>]

00:24:50   requirement that it be exactly the same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1490">TS</a>]

00:24:54   as the phone color you had before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1494">TS</a>]

00:24:57   that's cool still I mean but it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1497">TS</a>]

00:24:58   brand-new is a refurbished phoner [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1498">TS</a>]

00:24:59   Angelus brand new phone that's awesome [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1499">TS</a>]

00:25:02   going off the shelf and now i don't have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1502">TS</a>]

00:25:03   the battery problems anymore i go all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1503">TS</a>]

00:25:05   day long and my phone doesn't die and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1505">TS</a>]

00:25:09   and it felt for it felt you know like an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1509">TS</a>]

00:25:12   example of I mean the my phones two [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1512">TS</a>]

00:25:14   years old at this point and it had been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1514">TS</a>]

00:25:16   through a couple of different rainstorms [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1516">TS</a>]

00:25:18   it went through the washing machine one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1518">TS</a>]

00:25:20   time huh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1520">TS</a>]

00:25:22   I yeah I i used it as a shuttlecock in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1522">TS</a>]

00:25:28   the in well as I was taking a carpet [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1528">TS</a>]

00:25:31   knitting class the phone was pretty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1531">TS</a>]

00:25:33   badly damaged get what I'm back to a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1533">TS</a>]

00:25:37   badminton birdie [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1537">TS</a>]

00:25:39   I took AI took am I took like a berber [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1539">TS</a>]

00:25:42   carpet weaving class and you know you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1542">TS</a>]

00:25:44   he is if he used the phone as a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1544">TS</a>]

00:25:48   shuttlecock [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1548">TS</a>]

00:25:49   ah but the but the company made good on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1549">TS</a>]

00:25:54   their on their failure right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1554">TS</a>]

00:25:57   eventually yeah yeah they had they they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1557">TS</a>]

00:25:59   did a terrible thing they made a bad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1559">TS</a>]

00:26:01   phone Steve Jobs died and no one was in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1561">TS</a>]

00:26:03   charge anymore that's right and they put [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1563">TS</a>]

00:26:05   a bad thing out into the world and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1565">TS</a>]

00:26:07   two years later they made it right and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1567">TS</a>]

00:26:09   am i i'm i'm pleased as well now you got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1569">TS</a>]

00:26:12   more battery time to give you more time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1572">TS</a>]

00:26:13   to be frustrated with the things that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1573">TS</a>]

00:26:15   don't work right on it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1575">TS</a>]

00:26:16   well not reach our church except i am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1576">TS</a>]

00:26:18   gradually I am gradually taking a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1578">TS</a>]

00:26:22   oops off I i put your app threes on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1582">TS</a>]

00:26:27   there before but i am taking other apps [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1587">TS</a>]

00:26:30   off good-for-you everyday i take some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1590">TS</a>]

00:26:33   apps off and every day my I walk a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1593">TS</a>]

00:26:36   little lighter and and and I I feel a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1596">TS</a>]

00:26:38   little stronger you know you can you can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1598">TS</a>]

00:26:41   always get him back but you know get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1601">TS</a>]

00:26:43   them off there is a very freeing feeling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1603">TS</a>]

00:26:44   did you ever get that other facebook app [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1604">TS</a>]

00:26:47   that you needed so I took facebook off [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1607">TS</a>]

00:26:50   my phone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1610">TS</a>]

00:26:51   wow it's gone you're kidding gone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1611">TS</a>]

00:26:54   completely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1614">TS</a>]

00:26:54   that must have been hard well I you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1614">TS</a>]

00:26:58   what it was i sat down and I said you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1618">TS</a>]

00:27:00   because because the logic i was using [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1620">TS</a>]

00:27:03   was when i get a lot of work through [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1623">TS</a>]

00:27:04   facebook people contact me on facebook [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1624">TS</a>]

00:27:07   and they give me that offers two things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1627">TS</a>]

00:27:09   and if I don't have facebook on there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1629">TS</a>]

00:27:12   I'm missing out on all these people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1632">TS</a>]

00:27:14   these booking agents who are only [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1634">TS</a>]

00:27:15   communicating through facebook anymore [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1635">TS</a>]

00:27:17   but the more I thought about it i sat [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1637">TS</a>]

00:27:20   down and I ran like well let's name the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1640">TS</a>]

00:27:23   top 10 gigs you've gotten from people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1643">TS</a>]

00:27:26   contacting you on facebook i was like mm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1646">TS</a>]

00:27:29   mm right it's mostly garbage you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1649">TS</a>]

00:27:37   it's mostly a I do get a lot of i do end [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1657">TS</a>]

00:27:40   up doing a lot of things but it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1660">TS</a>]

00:27:41   hey will you to be in it can i interview [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1661">TS</a>]

00:27:44   you for my high school paper or I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1664">TS</a>]

00:27:47   you know frankly I couldn't remember a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1667">TS</a>]

00:27:49   single thing and and I felt like if if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1669">TS</a>]

00:27:52   Facebook the danger is that my facebook [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1672">TS</a>]

00:27:54   page is still out there and so people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1674">TS</a>]

00:27:56   are going to send me messages on it and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1676">TS</a>]

00:27:58   then wonder why I didn't reply right but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1678">TS</a>]

00:28:03   I I can't hold it all that guilt I just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1683">TS</a>]

00:28:08   took it off i just took it off and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1688">TS</a>]

00:28:10   stopped thinking about it that's you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1690">TS</a>]

00:28:11   know that's the end of the story cold [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1691">TS</a>]

00:28:13   turkey and and it's a it's it's already [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1693">TS</a>]

00:28:18   a delightful to not have that but really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1698">TS</a>]

00:28:20   really I'm its I'm just I'm narrowing in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1700">TS</a>]

00:28:24   on twitter i'm i'm stalking it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1704">TS</a>]

00:28:27   I'm thinking about it you know i'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1707">TS</a>]

00:28:30   evaluating what twitter is for me and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1710">TS</a>]

00:28:34   I'm and I'm I'm coming close to coming [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1714">TS</a>]

00:28:38   close to making a decision to having a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1718">TS</a>]

00:28:41   referendum on it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1721">TS</a>]

00:28:42   I keep thinking I keep thinking the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1722">TS</a>]

00:28:45   there's Benny's legitimately bad things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1725">TS</a>]

00:28:47   everybody feels bad about this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1727">TS</a>]

00:28:49   generally these bad things everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1729">TS</a>]

00:28:50   doesn't like and I keep thinking okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1730">TS</a>]

00:28:52   well I guess that that's good that we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1732">TS</a>]

00:28:55   getting maybe this progress on that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1735">TS</a>]

00:28:58   know on some kind of an issue you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1738">TS</a>]

00:29:00   this is the same way that everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1740">TS</a>]

00:29:01   turned their icons green for Iran so we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1741">TS</a>]

00:29:03   can save them and then they change them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1743">TS</a>]

00:29:06   back and I keep thinking you know maybe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1746">TS</a>]

00:29:08   we've reached peak outrage and then it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1748">TS</a>]

00:29:11   like it can't be 18 hours before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1751">TS</a>]

00:29:14   somebody a bunch of people are suddenly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1754">TS</a>]

00:29:16   mad about a new thing and it really i'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1756">TS</a>]

00:29:19   not trying to be cynical because I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1759">TS</a>]

00:29:21   understand everybody has their reasons [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1761">TS</a>]

00:29:22   but it really it's really i'm reminded [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1762">TS</a>]

00:29:25   when I start getting frustrated about it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1765">TS</a>]

00:29:27   because it becomes not as fun to use if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1767">TS</a>]

00:29:29   that's most of what's there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1769">TS</a>]

00:29:31   it's like you know you're never gonna be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1771">TS</a>]

00:29:32   not outraged there's always gonna be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1772">TS</a>]

00:29:34   another thing that you have to have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1774">TS</a>]

00:29:37   blind righteous outrage about and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1777">TS</a>]

00:29:41   bar seems to be getting impossibly low [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1781">TS</a>]

00:29:43   for that it's solo that's exactly right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1783">TS</a>]

00:29:46   and at least one thing i want to clarify [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1786">TS</a>]

00:29:48   this because I i can hear these words [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1788">TS</a>]

00:29:50   coming out of my mouth and I know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1790">TS</a>]

00:29:51   it sounds like i'm not talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1791">TS</a>]

00:29:52   anybody's particular beef and i'm not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1792">TS</a>]

00:29:54   talking about anybody's particular right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1794">TS</a>]

00:29:57   right exactly as a writer about the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1797">TS</a>]

00:29:59   right to feel how they want about stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1799">TS</a>]

00:30:01   but sometimes when I look at the movie [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1801">TS</a>]

00:30:03   listings i don't see any movies I want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1803">TS</a>]

00:30:04   to go to and more and more that doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1804">TS</a>]

00:30:06   make me not like movies or hate people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1806">TS</a>]

00:30:08   who make movies but it does make me have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1808">TS</a>]

00:30:10   three or four weeks go by were like wow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1810">TS</a>]

00:30:12   this is really not for me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1812">TS</a>]

00:30:14   yeah that's what it feels like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1814">TS</a>]

00:30:15   everything is I'm the reason I'm having [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1815">TS</a>]

00:30:18   this experience is that i'm at that it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1818">TS</a>]

00:30:20   it's very personal right like i have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1820">TS</a>]

00:30:23   always been interested in what's going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1823">TS</a>]

00:30:25   on and I've always been interested in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1825">TS</a>]

00:30:27   engaging in the culture as it is now and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1827">TS</a>]

00:30:30   the end and talking about the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1830">TS</a>]

00:30:32   contemporary ideas [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1832">TS</a>]

00:30:34   but i have never been someone who's felt [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1834">TS</a>]

00:30:37   a special outraged about anything and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1837">TS</a>]

00:30:42   find myself being consumed on a daily [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1842">TS</a>]

00:30:45   basis with you know that that that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1845">TS</a>]

00:30:48   tightening in the chest and that knot in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1848">TS</a>]

00:30:51   the stomach where it's not a response to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1851">TS</a>]

00:30:55   the events that are being debated it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1855">TS</a>]

00:30:59   response to the debate her and and my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1859">TS</a>]

00:31:03   aunt and my feeling like I need to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1863">TS</a>]

00:31:05   engage in the debate and I need to be it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1865">TS</a>]

00:31:07   united we need to be in there throwing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1867">TS</a>]

00:31:09   elbows and like making sure that my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1869">TS</a>]

00:31:12   point is heard and all the stuffin you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1872">TS</a>]

00:31:15   know I did a series of events at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1875">TS</a>]

00:31:17   bumbershoot this year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1877">TS</a>]

00:31:19   oh yeah I want to hear how that went and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1879">TS</a>]

00:31:21   it was really great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1881">TS</a>]

00:31:22   it was you know I was sort of moderating [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1882">TS</a>]

00:31:24   discussions everyday and early on in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1884">TS</a>]

00:31:30   year we can depict various topics that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1890">TS</a>]

00:31:33   felt really of the moment and we had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1893">TS</a>]

00:31:37   these panel discussions where a couple [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1897">TS</a>]

00:31:40   of different people who were nominally [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1900">TS</a>]

00:31:42   experts on the topic got up and gave 10 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1902">TS</a>]

00:31:44   minute presentations and then we sat [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1904">TS</a>]

00:31:46   together and discussed the ways in which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1906">TS</a>]

00:31:48   those ideas overlapped one another and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1908">TS</a>]

00:31:52   then we took questions from the audience [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1912">TS</a>]

00:31:53   and you know it was like a like an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1913">TS</a>]

00:31:55   hour-long sort of words and ideas a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1915">TS</a>]

00:32:00   panel and two of the days went off [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1920">TS</a>]

00:32:06   really really well they were they were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1926">TS</a>]

00:32:09   the first day was why beards why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1929">TS</a>]

00:32:12   twerking why now and it was you know it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1932">TS</a>]

00:32:18   was a little bit of a culture clash I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1938">TS</a>]

00:32:20   had my friend Elon who is a producer of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1940">TS</a>]

00:32:23   The Bachelor come up and talk about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1943">TS</a>]

00:32:26   beards because he has a kind of famously [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1946">TS</a>]

00:32:27   unruly beard he's on the plane [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1947">TS</a>]

00:32:30   he's a guy on the plane with diane and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1950">TS</a>]

00:32:32   seven alright and then I i had one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1952">TS</a>]

00:32:37   the dancers for Big Freedia get up and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1957">TS</a>]

00:32:39   talk about twerking on the culture [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1959">TS</a>]

00:32:41   twerking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1961">TS</a>]

00:32:42   well it's a it was a real cultural [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1962">TS</a>]

00:32:45   exchange because this dancer is is it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1965">TS</a>]

00:32:47   from New Orleans and came up in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1967">TS</a>]

00:32:49   bounce music scene and through his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1969">TS</a>]

00:32:53   twerking skills and his bounce dancing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1973">TS</a>]

00:32:57   skills he's now seen the world right he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1977">TS</a>]

00:32:59   was a guy that probably would have been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1979">TS</a>]

00:33:01   had you know a New Orleans resident his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1981">TS</a>]

00:33:05   whole life and never been outside of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1985">TS</a>]

00:33:07   city and through bounce and that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1987">TS</a>]

00:33:10   cultural through because the world has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1990">TS</a>]

00:33:13   gotten excited about and has now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1993">TS</a>]

00:33:16   appropriated his regional culture he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/1996">TS</a>]

00:33:20   gets an opportunity to go to Paris and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2000">TS</a>]

00:33:22   and dance on television and talk for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2002">TS</a>]

00:33:24   money work for money so talking to him [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2004">TS</a>]

00:33:28   about about the world and how it is that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2008">TS</a>]

00:33:31   that his culture is so popular now in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2011">TS</a>]

00:33:36   his awareness that it's a it's a kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2016">TS</a>]

00:33:39   a moment in the Sun but but then he was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2019">TS</a>]

00:33:42   talking about how bounce is 20 years old [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2022">TS</a>]

00:33:46   already and will and it will live in New [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2026">TS</a>]

00:33:50   Orleans for an eternity [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2030">TS</a>]

00:33:52   you know he was very sanguine about it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2032">TS</a>]

00:33:54   and it was just it was a very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2034">TS</a>]

00:33:56   interesting conversation and like how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2036">TS</a>]

00:33:57   you wouldn't think those two things went [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2037">TS</a>]

00:33:59   together but that is exactly the kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2039">TS</a>]

00:34:01   program we were trying to do and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2041">TS</a>]

00:34:03   nice i mean you get a gloss on this but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2043">TS</a>]

00:34:05   it's nice to hear somebody who's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2045">TS</a>]

00:34:07   super defensive about it and it's just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2047">TS</a>]

00:34:09   glad to see people enjoying it and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2049">TS</a>]

00:34:10   seeing it spread [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2050">TS</a>]

00:34:11   yeah and I felt like he has some like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2051">TS</a>]

00:34:13   ownership on where he you know wants to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2053">TS</a>]

00:34:15   get his percentage from it right and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2055">TS</a>]

00:34:17   and to his credit and I think this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2057">TS</a>]

00:34:19   you know I mean when you get an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2059">TS</a>]

00:34:21   opportunity to talk two dancers about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2061">TS</a>]

00:34:24   culture you get a different perspective [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2064">TS</a>]

00:34:25   you know and he's a he he is primarily [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2065">TS</a>]

00:34:28   interacting with the world with his body [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2068">TS</a>]

00:34:31   and like he wants to talk about he wants [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2071">TS</a>]

00:34:34   to dance primarily and then he's willing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2074">TS</a>]

00:34:36   to talk about it and that was that was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2076">TS</a>]

00:34:39   cool and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2079">TS</a>]

00:34:41   and exciting and then the the next day I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2081">TS</a>]

00:34:44   had a brownie and a juggalo come out and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2084">TS</a>]

00:34:47   describe their cultures that devil you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2087">TS</a>]

00:34:49   say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2089">TS</a>]

00:34:49   and really yeah and the the the brownie [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2089">TS</a>]

00:34:52   was a guy you may have seen on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2092">TS</a>]

00:34:54   internet called the world's manliest [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2094">TS</a>]

00:34:57   brownie [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2097">TS</a>]

00:34:58   he's a he's a a guy that works at a in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2098">TS</a>]

00:35:01   the parts dept of a harley-davidson [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2101">TS</a>]

00:35:02   dealership in michigan and he's also a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2102">TS</a>]

00:35:06   brownie he's six foot five and 300 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2106">TS</a>]

00:35:08   pounds and he's got like a walrus [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2108">TS</a>]

00:35:12   mustache walrus mustache that guy and he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2112">TS</a>]

00:35:15   had a real pattern about he'd been on a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2115">TS</a>]

00:35:18   couple of documentary films about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2118">TS</a>]

00:35:19   bronies and he was you he already was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2119">TS</a>]

00:35:21   sort of the thought of himself as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2121">TS</a>]

00:35:23   celebrity and I and as a worldwide [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2123">TS</a>]

00:35:28   advocate for bronies but the juggalo was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2128">TS</a>]

00:35:33   just a guy from Arizona name at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2133">TS</a>]

00:35:37   dragon spell TR AG a.m. and Matt the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2137">TS</a>]

00:35:44   dragon was just a kid who was juggalo [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2144">TS</a>]

00:35:51   and had made a had made a film about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2151">TS</a>]

00:35:55   juggalos and he had never given a public [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2155">TS</a>]

00:36:01   presentation before and he got up and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2161">TS</a>]

00:36:04   started talking about juggalo lyfe and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2164">TS</a>]

00:36:08   this on the audience that I that I had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2168">TS</a>]

00:36:10   for this event you know just 250 or 300 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2170">TS</a>]

00:36:13   Seattle liberals and they really wanted [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2173">TS</a>]

00:36:19   to confront this guy and I had I had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2179">TS</a>]

00:36:22   people stand up during the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2182">TS</a>]

00:36:23   question-and-answer and like and so one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2183">TS</a>]

00:36:26   woman said i was like i'm gonna read use [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2186">TS</a>]

00:36:28   of insane clown posse lyrics now at Lana [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2188">TS</a>]

00:36:31   and I want you to defend because he you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2191">TS</a>]

00:36:35   know he was saying like juggalos a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2195">TS</a>]

00:36:37   community and we are we're good for the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2197">TS</a>]

00:36:39   world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2199">TS</a>]

00:36:40   she was like I want you to defend the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2200">TS</a>]

00:36:41   misogyny and violence in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2201">TS</a>]

00:36:45   and he very gracefully and a and because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2205">TS</a>]

00:36:49   he's just in the life right he he he's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2209">TS</a>]

00:36:52   not he wasn't thinking he wasn't he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2212">TS</a>]

00:36:56   wasn't prepared to be confronted but he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2216">TS</a>]

00:36:59   handled her question the following way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2219">TS</a>]

00:37:01   he said well you know the violence and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2221">TS</a>]

00:37:04   all the like a clownish language that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2224">TS</a>]

00:37:12   they use is well first of all they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2232">TS</a>]

00:37:15   clowns we are all clowns and that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2235">TS</a>]

00:37:19   because we feel like we're the clouds of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2239">TS</a>]

00:37:20   society so a lot of it is pretend we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2240">TS</a>]

00:37:24   we're playing pretend [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2244">TS</a>]

00:37:26   but but that violence and and misogyny [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2246">TS</a>]

00:37:29   and all that stuff attracts violent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2249">TS</a>]

00:37:33   young men to juggle ilysm and then once [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2253">TS</a>]

00:37:38   they're in the community we tame them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2258">TS</a>]

00:37:42   and and show them that we are a family [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2262">TS</a>]

00:37:47   and that we and that they finally have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2267">TS</a>]

00:37:49   family and it was like you could hear [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2269">TS</a>]

00:37:53   the beacon here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2273">TS</a>]

00:37:54   a hush descends on the room and I i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2274">TS</a>]

00:37:57   think a lot of people didn't agree but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2277">TS</a>]

00:38:02   they that hear this guy was defending [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2282">TS</a>]

00:38:05   his life and uh and I it was it was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2285">TS</a>]

00:38:10   truly an example of a roomful of people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2290">TS</a>]

00:38:12   who left their with something to think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2292">TS</a>]

00:38:14   about who you know like there's a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2294">TS</a>]

00:38:17   violent young guys out there that didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2297">TS</a>]

00:38:18   have fathers and if they end up in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2298">TS</a>]

00:38:22   juggalo community [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2302">TS</a>]

00:38:23   I mean this guy's point was there are a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2303">TS</a>]

00:38:24   lot worse things that could happen and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2304">TS</a>]

00:38:27   juggalo is a is a place for them to land [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2307">TS</a>]

00:38:29   was like oh ok [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2309">TS</a>]

00:38:31   right on you know that's like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2311">TS</a>]

00:38:32   sounds like a successful event [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2312">TS</a>]

00:38:35   high fives all around ok so the last day [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2315">TS</a>]

00:38:37   the panel and I bet as it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2317">TS</a>]

00:38:41   approaching out i was thinking back nine [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2321">TS</a>]

00:38:43   months ago when I was when we were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2323">TS</a>]

00:38:45   throwing ideas around and we settled on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2325">TS</a>]

00:38:47   our ideas and I was just slapping my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2327">TS</a>]

00:38:50   head going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2330">TS</a>]

00:38:51   what were we thinking but the last day [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2331">TS</a>]

00:38:54   the panel was why cat [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2334">TS</a>]

00:38:56   why bullying why now and in trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2336">TS</a>]

00:39:01   put this panel together it turned out I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2341">TS</a>]

00:39:04   know the manager of grumpy cat he's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2344">TS</a>]

00:39:07   personal friend and he's and that's his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2347">TS</a>]

00:39:10   job he manages grumpy cat and that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2350">TS</a>]

00:39:12   that catalyst grumpy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2352">TS</a>]

00:39:13   it's the grumpy cat huh he's his manager [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2353">TS</a>]

00:39:16   I think he also manages that little some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2356">TS</a>]

00:39:22   sort of 8-bit graphic the cat with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2362">TS</a>]

00:39:26   rainbow and the triangle eyes he manages [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2366">TS</a>]

00:39:30   that cat and he manages a one other cat [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2370">TS</a>]

00:39:35   another famous Catholic busy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2375">TS</a>]

00:39:39   professional cat manager he's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2379">TS</a>]

00:39:40   professional internet cat manager so I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2380">TS</a>]

00:39:45   know I'm gonna regret laughing in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2385">TS</a>]

00:39:46   minute i think that's that's kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2386">TS</a>]

00:39:48   funny on the face of it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2388">TS</a>]

00:39:49   oh yeah and in fact he's in vancouver [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2389">TS</a>]

00:39:52   right now I hope I don't give too much [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2392">TS</a>]

00:39:53   away but he's making a grumpy cat [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2393">TS</a>]

00:39:55   christmas movie [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2395">TS</a>]

00:39:56   well yeah but uh the bullying topic i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2396">TS</a>]

00:40:03   tried to get dan Savage to be on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2403">TS</a>]

00:40:04   panel and he wrote me a very thoughtful [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2404">TS</a>]

00:40:06   email where he said I will be on any [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2406">TS</a>]

00:40:08   panel you ever ask me to be except [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2408">TS</a>]

00:40:12   bullying I do not ever want to talk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2412">TS</a>]

00:40:14   about it again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2414">TS</a>]

00:40:16   what because he's talked about a line [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2416">TS</a>]

00:40:18   yeah well he's the he's the he's the guy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2418">TS</a>]

00:40:20   is the it gets better' guy he's the good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2420">TS</a>]

00:40:22   let's get back in there gets better guy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2422">TS</a>]

00:40:25   ok it was great except he has come under [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2425">TS</a>]

00:40:28   tremendous fire as everyone in the world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2428">TS</a>]

00:40:31   does now who says anything off the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2431">TS</a>]

00:40:34   reservation out in the world and I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2434">TS</a>]

00:40:37   even know why he has come under fire [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2437">TS</a>]

00:40:39   from inside that community people yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2439">TS</a>]

00:40:41   on the goddamn bowling topic I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2441">TS</a>]

00:40:42   know why I don't I don't I didn't even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2442">TS</a>]

00:40:44   research it enough to know why he feels [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2444">TS</a>]

00:40:46   burned but he's like I don't want to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2446">TS</a>]

00:40:48   talk about anymore and I tried to get a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2448">TS</a>]

00:40:50   couple of different people and nobody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2450">TS</a>]

00:40:51   would talk about it and as as we got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2451">TS</a>]

00:40:54   closer to bumbershoot I was like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2454">TS</a>]

00:40:55   understand why no one wants to talk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2455">TS</a>]

00:40:58   about bullying in public [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2458">TS</a>]

00:41:00   and I'm wondering why I thought it was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2460">TS</a>]

00:41:02   good idea to have this on the have this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2462">TS</a>]

00:41:06   is a topic and the more I thought about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2466">TS</a>]

00:41:09   it was like oh i remember why i thought [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2469">TS</a>]

00:41:11   it was interesting because it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2471">TS</a>]

00:41:12   interesting it would be it's a very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2472">TS</a>]

00:41:15   interesting topic it's a kid why is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2475">TS</a>]

00:41:18   bullying why has it become so a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2478">TS</a>]

00:41:21   fascinating to us at this moment in time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2481">TS</a>]

00:41:23   it is occupying a huge place in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2483">TS</a>]

00:41:26   culture talking about bullying and what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2486">TS</a>]

00:41:29   is bullying and what does it represent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2489">TS</a>]

00:41:31   and I mean it's a fascinating topic and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2491">TS</a>]

00:41:35   I remember why I chose it because i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2495">TS</a>]

00:41:38   really really thought it would be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2498">TS</a>]

00:41:39   interesting but as it got closer and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2499">TS</a>]

00:41:42   tried to get a panelist to represent it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2502">TS</a>]

00:41:44   and all I got back was like no thank you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2504">TS</a>]

00:41:48   i mean i would love to work with you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2508">TS</a>]

00:41:50   anytime but please know i'm feeling I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2510">TS</a>]

00:41:52   feeling down here John is it because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2512">TS</a>]

00:41:54   talking about trying to stop bullying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2514">TS</a>]

00:41:56   makes you a target for being bullied [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2516">TS</a>]

00:41:58   well let me let me tell you what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2518">TS</a>]

00:42:01   happened so we got a woman who is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2521">TS</a>]

00:42:03   stand-up comedian from Portland who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2523">TS</a>]

00:42:06   agreed to talk about bullying and she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2526">TS</a>]

00:42:07   she got up and her presentation was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2527">TS</a>]

00:42:11   kind of polemical she cheat true on all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2531">TS</a>]

00:42:17   the received wisdom that you would find [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2537">TS</a>]

00:42:19   on twitter about you know like we all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2539">TS</a>]

00:42:23   agree that we live in a patriarchal rape [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2543">TS</a>]

00:42:26   culture where etc etc etc you know all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2546">TS</a>]

00:42:30   the all the sort of like we all agree [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2550">TS</a>]

00:42:33   statements and what follows from that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2553">TS</a>]

00:42:37   uh is this you know is the fact that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2557">TS</a>]

00:42:42   bullying is endemic in our culture and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2562">TS</a>]

00:42:46   that it is that it creates all these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2566">TS</a>]

00:42:49   terrible outcomes and that it is a that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2569">TS</a>]

00:42:51   it's even further evidence that that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2571">TS</a>]

00:42:57   that that are I guess that our culture [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2577">TS</a>]

00:43:00   is unsustainably broken and then the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2580">TS</a>]

00:43:05   audience started and I i preface the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2585">TS</a>]

00:43:07   whole event by saying like we're talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2587">TS</a>]

00:43:10   about these ideas in their contemporary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2590">TS</a>]

00:43:12   context so we're not just going to get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2592">TS</a>]

00:43:14   up here and define bullying and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2594">TS</a>]

00:43:18   argue about it it's what's interesting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2598">TS</a>]

00:43:21   about this is like why now why is this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2601">TS</a>]

00:43:23   happening now and how does this relate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2603">TS</a>]

00:43:25   you know cats are very popular on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2605">TS</a>]

00:43:28   internet right now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2608">TS</a>]

00:43:29   cats are a perennial topic they've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2609">TS</a>]

00:43:31   always cats have been around for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2611">TS</a>]

00:43:32   hundreds of thousands of years [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2612">TS</a>]

00:43:34   why are they so contemporary and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2614">TS</a>]

00:43:37   bullying to has always existed why now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2617">TS</a>]

00:43:40   you know that was the idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2620">TS</a>]

00:43:41   well so this woman gets up and actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2621">TS</a>]

00:43:43   does give just a definition of what she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2623">TS</a>]

00:43:45   imagines the definitely she sounds like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2625">TS</a>]

00:43:47   she unlike the others maybe she opened [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2627">TS</a>]

00:43:49   up this is good or bad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2629">TS</a>]

00:43:50   it says she opened up by reminding you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2630">TS</a>]

00:43:53   that we all agree on what describes this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2633">TS</a>]

00:43:56   problem didn't just open up that was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2636">TS</a>]

00:43:58   that was her entire presentation was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2638">TS</a>]

00:44:00   just yet fully like you said polemic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2640">TS</a>]

00:44:02   yeah was just was describing her not her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2642">TS</a>]

00:44:05   take on it because there was nothing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2645">TS</a>]

00:44:07   imaginative about it but basically just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2647">TS</a>]

00:44:09   reading hashtag bullying presumptions [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2649">TS</a>]

00:44:15   and then the audience started raising [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2655">TS</a>]

00:44:19   their hands to ask questions and i felt [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2659">TS</a>]

00:44:20   like i was at a fucking chemtrails [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2660">TS</a>]

00:44:22   conference every person stood up and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2662">TS</a>]

00:44:27   gave a five-minute long speech about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2667">TS</a>]

00:44:29   what they thought about boolean no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2669">TS</a>]

00:44:36   questions that were not even that there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2676">TS</a>]

00:44:39   wasn't even the slightest hint of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2679">TS</a>]

00:44:40   question thread into these statements i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2680">TS</a>]

00:44:42   was like being at a tea party town hall [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2682">TS</a>]

00:44:44   meeting and I'm sitting on stage and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2684">TS</a>]

00:44:47   that this hasn't happened at any other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2687">TS</a>]

00:44:49   panel that I've moderated and I'm trying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2689">TS</a>]

00:44:52   to you know I'm like okay that's great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2692">TS</a>]

00:44:54   well you know trying to interrupt and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2694">TS</a>]

00:44:55   say like is there a question in this or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2695">TS</a>]

00:44:57   do you have something at it and people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2697">TS</a>]

00:45:00   were shouting talking over me sound so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2700">TS</a>]

00:45:04   weird and then all of a sudden there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2704">TS</a>]

00:45:07   there's like an invisible divide that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2707">TS</a>]

00:45:08   starts [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2708">TS</a>]

00:45:09   down the middle of the room where think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2709">TS</a>]

00:45:11   the cat guy is kind of setting up there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2711">TS</a>]

00:45:13   like okay dokey well and he leans in and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2713">TS</a>]

00:45:17   says you know I mean it's funny because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2717">TS</a>]

00:45:19   a lot of these bullying a lot of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2719">TS</a>]

00:45:23   stuff we're um people don't know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2723">TS</a>]

00:45:25   the rules are a lot of that used to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2725">TS</a>]

00:45:28   solved in the old days by a like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2728">TS</a>]

00:45:30   basically playground playground [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2730">TS</a>]

00:45:35   democracy right if you were a bully you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2735">TS</a>]

00:45:37   got Smackdown by somebody else and maybe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2737">TS</a>]

00:45:39   a little bit of bullying is what keeps [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2739">TS</a>]

00:45:41   people in line and all of a sudden half [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2741">TS</a>]

00:45:45   the room was like yeah and the other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2745">TS</a>]

00:45:49   half of the room could not have been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2749">TS</a>]

00:45:51   more appalled and they were like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2751">TS</a>]

00:45:53   know who and I was like whoa whoa that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2753">TS</a>]

00:45:58   you know that's that's he just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2758">TS</a>]

00:46:00   contributed a sentence to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2760">TS</a>]

00:46:02   conversation it's not like we are no you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2762">TS</a>]

00:46:05   put your Spears down everybody and that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2765">TS</a>]

00:46:08   and I was as the moderator sitting on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2768">TS</a>]

00:46:10   stage just hoping that the hour would be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2770">TS</a>]

00:46:14   over [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2774">TS</a>]

00:46:15   it's at that point you know I feel after [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2775">TS</a>]

00:46:17   after 75 minutes at that point you go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2777">TS</a>]

00:46:20   like I don't know there's a way out of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2780">TS</a>]

00:46:21   this there and I was just I was I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2781">TS</a>]

00:46:24   you know anything you say is gonna be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2784">TS</a>]

00:46:27   again this is not a value thing but once [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2787">TS</a>]

00:46:28   you start once one starts feeling that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2788">TS</a>]

00:46:30   pressure you realize that anything you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2790">TS</a>]

00:46:32   say is likely to make it worse [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2792">TS</a>]

00:46:34   there's nothing you can do or you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2794">TS</a>]

00:46:35   gonna sound dismissive of people you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2795">TS</a>]

00:46:37   gonna you're gonna sound like you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2797">TS</a>]

00:46:39   taking one side more seriously than the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2799">TS</a>]

00:46:40   other and even in deciding like okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2800">TS</a>]

00:46:42   there's obviously two sides here you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2802">TS</a>]

00:46:44   going to give a lot of weight to one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2804">TS</a>]

00:46:46   side just by acknowledging that it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2806">TS</a>]

00:46:47   exists that's right you know what I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2807">TS</a>]

00:46:49   it's like the whole network TV thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2809">TS</a>]

00:46:51   I've always trying to find the two sides [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2811">TS</a>]

00:46:52   to every issue it's just somebody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2812">TS</a>]

00:46:54   agreeing that there could be a second [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2814">TS</a>]

00:46:56   side of this makes it extremely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2816">TS</a>]

00:46:57   controversial yeah and-and-and that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2817">TS</a>]

00:46:59   woman had set up the setup fill the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2819">TS</a>]

00:47:01   whole structure of it like well we all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2821">TS</a>]

00:47:04   agree that we live in a patriarchal rape [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2824">TS</a>]

00:47:06   culture even matter people on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2826">TS</a>]

00:47:08   defensive [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2828">TS</a>]

00:47:09   well but the thing is like it to at just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2829">TS</a>]

00:47:11   to illustrate what you're saying if you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2831">TS</a>]

00:47:12   say well there are two sides to that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2832">TS</a>]

00:47:15   the only other side to that is that we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2835">TS</a>]

00:47:17   do live in a patriarchal rape culture [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2837">TS</a>]

00:47:19   and you're denying it in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2839">TS</a>]

00:47:21   like that's the only like you think of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2841">TS</a>]

00:47:23   actually I don't accept the terms of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2843">TS</a>]

00:47:24   your argument i want to argue with you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2844">TS</a>]

00:47:26   but we're not going to start with that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2846">TS</a>]

00:47:28   has to look it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2848">TS</a>]

00:47:29   yeah and as the moderator it was you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2849">TS</a>]

00:47:32   know I she she had a 10-minute [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2852">TS</a>]

00:47:34   presentation and by the time she was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2854">TS</a>]

00:47:35   done like I couldn't I thought my job [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2855">TS</a>]

00:47:38   was not to debate or my job was just a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2858">TS</a>]

00:47:40   physical facilitate the conversation and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2860">TS</a>]

00:47:43   so it's like right okay I mean yeah it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2863">TS</a>]

00:47:47   like we all agree on cheez-its except we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2867">TS</a>]

00:47:49   don't all agree on cheese but if you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2869">TS</a>]

00:47:52   don't you know if you if you don't agree [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2872">TS</a>]

00:47:54   with cheese in within the context of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2874">TS</a>]

00:47:56   that argument you are basically a cop in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2876">TS</a>]

00:47:59   Ferguson um and so anyway it was it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2879">TS</a>]

00:48:03   an example of when I walked out of that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2883">TS</a>]

00:48:06   panel i felt very emotionally raw and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2886">TS</a>]

00:48:12   it had transported me back to the place [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2892">TS</a>]

00:48:14   on the internet that I least wanted to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2894">TS</a>]

00:48:17   be and I felt for a couple of hours like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2897">TS</a>]

00:48:19   this totally new sensation which was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2899">TS</a>]

00:48:24   maybe i am not i can maybe I maybe the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2904">TS</a>]

00:48:32   culture is moving in a direction that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2912">TS</a>]

00:48:34   can't go you know I felt for a for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2914">TS</a>]

00:48:38   brief moment like it was 1969 and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2918">TS</a>]

00:48:41   somebody was standing somebody was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2921">TS</a>]

00:48:44   confronting me on the street and saying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2924">TS</a>]

00:48:46   don't trust anyone over 30 and I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2926">TS</a>]

00:48:49   like wait a minute I'm 45 and I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2929">TS</a>]

00:48:51   trustworthy and the and the response was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2931">TS</a>]

00:48:54   just like nope [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2934">TS</a>]

00:48:56   the end up right now you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2936">TS</a>]

00:48:57   counter-revolutionary yeah right having [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2937">TS</a>]

00:48:59   and now we call you a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2939">TS</a>]

00:49:00   counterrevolutionary you're over 30 and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2940">TS</a>]

00:49:02   that's where we've drawn the line and so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2942">TS</a>]

00:49:04   and and and it you know as as history [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2944">TS</a>]

00:49:07   has shown don't trust anyone over 30 was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2947">TS</a>]

00:49:11   a dumb idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2951">TS</a>]

00:49:12   I mean it was it fulfilled the purpose [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2952">TS</a>]

00:49:14   of it but as a rallying cry it can seem [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2954">TS</a>]

00:49:18   very sensible especially if you're doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2958">TS</a>]

00:49:20   a lot of illegal activities like at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2960">TS</a>]

00:49:22   time doing the felony of smoking pot you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2962">TS</a>]

00:49:25   probably don't want to trust that many [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2965">TS</a>]

00:49:26   people over 30 but as a view of life it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2966">TS</a>]

00:49:28   does not have longevity right if you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2968">TS</a>]

00:49:30   lucky that it's a moment it's a moment [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2970">TS</a>]

00:49:33   in history [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2973">TS</a>]

00:49:34   in 1968 i'm sure it made a ton of sense [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2974">TS</a>]

00:49:37   but yeah if you hold on to that as a as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2977">TS</a>]

00:49:40   a as a guide [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2980">TS</a>]

00:49:42   you're gonna be really sad on your 30th [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2982">TS</a>]

00:49:44   birthday and it's anything amazing how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2984">TS</a>]

00:49:47   few subtleties you you'll find things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2987">TS</a>]

00:49:49   that began as things people shouted [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2989">TS</a>]

00:49:51   right and then i have this moment where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2991">TS</a>]

00:49:54   I felt like oh maybe this is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2994">TS</a>]

00:49:56   contemporary version of that it is meant [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2996">TS</a>]

00:49:58   to be a scorched-earth policy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/2998">TS</a>]

00:50:01   you're either on one side of the this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3001">TS</a>]

00:50:05   whole like constellation of issues and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3005">TS</a>]

00:50:09   if you're if you're on the one side of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3009">TS</a>]

00:50:12   it then you're uh then you are on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3012">TS</a>]

00:50:15   right side of history and if you're on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3015">TS</a>]

00:50:17   any other side any one of 50 other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3017">TS</a>]

00:50:20   potential viewpoints are all rejected [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3020">TS</a>]

00:50:22   because there's only one but there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3022">TS</a>]

00:50:25   only one way of linking all these ideas [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3025">TS</a>]

00:50:28   together and well that's a shame though [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3028">TS</a>]

00:50:31   I mean I I can only go by what you said [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3031">TS</a>]

00:50:33   but it's a shame that it was presented [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3033">TS</a>]

00:50:34   in that way because of all the things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3034">TS</a>]

00:50:36   you're talking about that seems like one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3036">TS</a>]

00:50:38   that could potentially people could find [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3038">TS</a>]

00:50:40   I'll get having made a slight difference [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3040">TS</a>]

00:50:41   agreements but there's the kind of thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3041">TS</a>]

00:50:43   most people kind of agree on which is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3043">TS</a>]

00:50:45   something that's something we'd rather [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3045">TS</a>]

00:50:46   not have why is that interesting today [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3046">TS</a>]

00:50:48   in a way that it wasn't 30 years ago [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3048">TS</a>]

00:50:50   and why is that challenging today and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3050">TS</a>]

00:50:52   was the way it wasn't 30 years ago which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3052">TS</a>]

00:50:53   is of a much more nuanced question it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3053">TS</a>]

00:50:56   a fascinating [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3056">TS</a>]

00:50:57   it's a fascinating topic icons my excuse [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3057">TS</a>]

00:50:59   for what it's worth at my kids school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3059">TS</a>]

00:51:00   she's in first grade now and that last [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3060">TS</a>]

00:51:03   year and this year there's like these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3063">TS</a>]

00:51:04   two like real big tentpole things that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3064">TS</a>]

00:51:06   are school both of which i think pretty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3066">TS</a>]

00:51:07   great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3067">TS</a>]

00:51:08   what is this thing called restorative [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3068">TS</a>]

00:51:09   practices which sounds really fruity but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3069">TS</a>]

00:51:11   it's basically just this idea of trying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3071">TS</a>]

00:51:13   to learn to settle agreements by talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3073">TS</a>]

00:51:14   about what actually happened instead of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3074">TS</a>]

00:51:16   like yelling at people and its really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3076">TS</a>]

00:51:17   neat it's actually ever need any other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3077">TS</a>]

00:51:19   one is bullying and you can tell that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3079">TS</a>]

00:51:20   every third-grader that place has made a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3080">TS</a>]

00:51:22   poster that's on the walls about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3082">TS</a>]

00:51:23   bullying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3083">TS</a>]

00:51:24   it's just everywhere really advise that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3084">TS</a>]

00:51:26   this is a little I don't know it's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3086">TS</a>]

00:51:27   all that useful just saying no to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3087">TS</a>]

00:51:28   bullying sure that really solves it but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3088">TS</a>]

00:51:30   the thing is they want the school once [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3090">TS</a>]

00:51:32   you understand the bullying is not okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3092">TS</a>]

00:51:34   here that's on every wall [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3094">TS</a>]

00:51:36   I don't know with the net result of that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3096">TS</a>]

00:51:37   is but I'm telling you this is a as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3097">TS</a>]

00:51:39   current as today's headlines [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3099">TS</a>]

00:51:41   I think that the I think that the net [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3101">TS</a>]

00:51:42   result is that a lot of kids that are 10 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3102">TS</a>]

00:51:44   years old right now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3104">TS</a>]

00:51:45   if you said have you you know is they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3105">TS</a>]

00:51:48   bullying in your school they would they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3108">TS</a>]

00:51:50   would go what know something about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3110">TS</a>]

00:51:52   looking on the sides [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3112">TS</a>]

00:51:53   yeah there's no bullying at all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3113">TS</a>]

00:51:55   and-and-and in it in a way considering [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3115">TS</a>]

00:51:59   how much bullying there was that when we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3119">TS</a>]

00:52:01   were kids that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3121">TS</a>]

00:52:04   you know that's I think a tremendous [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3124">TS</a>]

00:52:07   advance [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3127">TS</a>]

00:52:08   except except what you know the dark [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3128">TS</a>]

00:52:11   side of that is like like our art I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3131">TS</a>]

00:52:14   are they prosecuting kids like are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3134">TS</a>]

00:52:17   adults hyper-vigilant over them me in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3137">TS</a>]

00:52:20   way that one piece of that one piece of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3140">TS</a>]

00:52:22   it is the basic educational process of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3142">TS</a>]

00:52:26   saying something over and over often [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3146">TS</a>]

00:52:28   enough and having different people say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3148">TS</a>]

00:52:29   that the same way off enough over and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3149">TS</a>]

00:52:31   over that it does start to see more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3151">TS</a>]

00:52:32   conventional wisdom so God willing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3152">TS</a>]

00:52:34   would be it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3154">TS</a>]

00:52:35   that's not gonna have a huge effect on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3155">TS</a>]

00:52:36   some of his father's beating them up at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3156">TS</a>]

00:52:37   home and want to come into school and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3157">TS</a>]

00:52:38   find somebody shrimpy to hit that's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3158">TS</a>]

00:52:40   much more complicated problem that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3160">TS</a>]

00:52:42   doesn't come down to as easy as stop [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3162">TS</a>]

00:52:44   bullying but but somebody somebody in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3164">TS</a>]

00:52:47   middle school high school college for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3167">TS</a>]

00:52:51   chance somebody out there started that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3171">TS</a>]

00:52:53   bullying some time for some reason it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3173">TS</a>]

00:52:55   didn't that the just didn't probably [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3175">TS</a>]

00:52:57   come out of you know spontaneous [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3177">TS</a>]

00:53:01   generation so I mean I think they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3181">TS</a>]

00:53:03   trying to you know put down the seeds [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3183">TS</a>]

00:53:05   and I don't think I don't see it like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3185">TS</a>]

00:53:06   used to you know you don't see just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3186">TS</a>]

00:53:08   because the way kids are supervised [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3188">TS</a>]

00:53:09   today it's different but I mean yeah I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3189">TS</a>]

00:53:11   mean who knows who knows the the dread [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3191">TS</a>]

00:53:13   you have is a little kid know when I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3193">TS</a>]

00:53:14   walk around this corner i'm going to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3194">TS</a>]

00:53:16   facing this thing and that happens every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3196">TS</a>]

00:53:18   day right probably have you know it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3198">TS</a>]

00:53:20   happening [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3200">TS</a>]

00:53:21   wherewhere kid is gonna throw rocks at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3201">TS</a>]

00:53:22   you or or or put your head in the toilet [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3202">TS</a>]

00:53:25   or whatever Oscars next to their lockers [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3205">TS</a>]

00:53:27   lockers never not gonna be next year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3207">TS</a>]

00:53:28   locker they're always going to have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3208">TS</a>]

00:53:29   three or four friends there and they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3209">TS</a>]

00:53:31   always gonna have a little relaxation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3211">TS</a>]

00:53:33   time by treating you like less than a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3213">TS</a>]

00:53:35   person and that's writing that happens [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3215">TS</a>]

00:53:36   every day and we thought we I mean much [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3216">TS</a>]

00:53:39   I've had that Shirin and so have I and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3219">TS</a>]

00:53:42   guess I guess the the part of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3222">TS</a>]

00:53:44   conversation that's interesting to me is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3224">TS</a>]

00:53:46   like throughout the whole second half of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3226">TS</a>]

00:53:50   the 20th century we have had a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3230">TS</a>]

00:53:52   social engineering projects [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3232">TS</a>]

00:53:55   that we that we introduced into the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3235">TS</a>]

00:54:01   school's right we're trying to solve [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3241">TS</a>]

00:54:03   problems as adults [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3243">TS</a>]

00:54:06   we're trying to solve problems in our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3246">TS</a>]

00:54:07   adulthood by going not back to our own [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3247">TS</a>]

00:54:11   childhoods but into the schools of of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3251">TS</a>]

00:54:14   kids now and saying like okay well there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3254">TS</a>]

00:54:17   are a lot of racial problems in America [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3257">TS</a>]

00:54:20   and so we're going to put kids on buses [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3260">TS</a>]

00:54:24   and send them all the way across town [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3264">TS</a>]

00:54:26   and we're going to we're going to enter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3266">TS</a>]

00:54:28   we're going to forcibly integrate the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3268">TS</a>]

00:54:30   schools and in so doing we are going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3270">TS</a>]

00:54:33   solve the racial problems in America and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3273">TS</a>]

00:54:36   it's an example of adults not knowing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3276">TS</a>]

00:54:38   how to solve that problem in the adult [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3278">TS</a>]

00:54:41   world and not being willing to make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3281">TS</a>]

00:54:44   those changes in their own lives but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3284">TS</a>]

00:54:46   instead deciding that what we're going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3286">TS</a>]

00:54:49   to do is go into the schools and we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3289">TS</a>]

00:54:51   going to we're going to force the kids [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3291">TS</a>]

00:54:53   to resolve the issue by this kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3293">TS</a>]

00:54:57   social engineer I exactly was gonna say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3297">TS</a>]

00:54:59   it's a kind of benevolent benevolent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3299">TS</a>]

00:55:01   like you're trying to do so but you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3301">TS</a>]

00:55:03   doing it from a good place [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3303">TS</a>]

00:55:04   yeah and it's a beautiful it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3304">TS</a>]

00:55:06   beautiful idea the kids you know the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3306">TS</a>]

00:55:08   thing that's so hard for me to accept [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3308">TS</a>]

00:55:10   somebody likes to think of himself as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3310">TS</a>]

00:55:12   trying to do the right thing and being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3312">TS</a>]

00:55:13   principled is I know that if I say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3313">TS</a>]

00:55:16   something to someone not just my kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3316">TS</a>]

00:55:18   that anybody if I say that something is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3318">TS</a>]

00:55:20   important or I say that I believe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3320">TS</a>]

00:55:22   something I could see that hundreds even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3322">TS</a>]

00:55:25   seriously hundreds of times i could say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3325">TS</a>]

00:55:27   brush your teeth before bed but you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3327">TS</a>]

00:55:29   what if I don't brush my teeth every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3329">TS</a>]

00:55:31   night before bed and have them see that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3331">TS</a>]

00:55:33   that's cognitive dissonance and yeah it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3333">TS</a>]

00:55:35   hurts my credibility and more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3335">TS</a>]

00:55:36   importantly show you that's not how the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3336">TS</a>]

00:55:38   world works [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3338">TS</a>]

00:55:39   so like when I was in in Tallahassee [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3339">TS</a>]

00:55:41   know this is nothing its people Florida [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3341">TS</a>]

00:55:44   please relax but I don't think I can't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3344">TS</a>]

00:55:45   think of a single person i interacted [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3345">TS</a>]

00:55:47   with who would have thought themselves [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3347">TS</a>]

00:55:48   on the face of it as a racist and yet i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3348">TS</a>]

00:55:51   can tell you including me when I moved [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3351">TS</a>]

00:55:53   to san francisco i think i told you this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3353">TS</a>]

00:55:55   but it was maybe two months before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3355">TS</a>]

00:55:57   something that was a weird niggling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3357">TS</a>]

00:56:00   thing on the honors kind of the corner [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3360">TS</a>]

00:56:02   of my consciousness became very clear [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3362">TS</a>]

00:56:04   which is I went Wow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3364">TS</a>]

00:56:06   there are so many not white people in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3366">TS</a>]

00:56:09   positions of power here everyday a kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3369">TS</a>]

00:56:11   that grows up in our town sees asian [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3371">TS</a>]

00:56:13   people who are in power they see black [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3373">TS</a>]

00:56:15   people who are in power you have a black [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3375">TS</a>]

00:56:16   boss and I'm just here to tell you that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3376">TS</a>]

00:56:18   that was not something you saw every day [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3378">TS</a>]

00:56:21   in places where i lived in ohio and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3381">TS</a>]

00:56:23   florida you see it but it wouldn't it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3383">TS</a>]

00:56:25   would seem weird enough that you didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3385">TS</a>]

00:56:27   make you change your vision of things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3387">TS</a>]

00:56:28   but i did not see the point of the point [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3388">TS</a>]

00:56:30   I'm going on about is that like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3390">TS</a>]

00:56:32   stuff will not seem real until you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3392">TS</a>]

00:56:34   actually see it when people just keep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3394">TS</a>]

00:56:36   telling you that that's the thing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3396">TS</a>]

00:56:37   should happen over and over like in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3397">TS</a>]

00:56:40   petri dish of an elementary school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3400">TS</a>]

00:56:41   it's really different from spinning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3401">TS</a>]

00:56:43   noticing what people are pulling each [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3403">TS</a>]

00:56:44   other as much as they used to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3404">TS</a>]

00:56:46   I'm finding a different way to work this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3406">TS</a>]

00:56:47   out i have a black boss and she's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3407">TS</a>]

00:56:49   actually pretty great right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3409">TS</a>]

00:56:51   whatever what you see everyday is what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3411">TS</a>]

00:56:53   I'm saying at the those projects i mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3413">TS</a>]

00:56:58   like integration was a culture wide [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3418">TS</a>]

00:57:01   project we were trying we were trying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3421">TS</a>]

00:57:03   two hundred different things you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3423">TS</a>]

00:57:06   affirmative action and and a bra and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3426">TS</a>]

00:57:09   well and busing and affirmative action i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3429">TS</a>]

00:57:13   think was a very positive like had very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3433">TS</a>]

00:57:15   positive results i'm not sure about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3435">TS</a>]

00:57:17   busting and and primarily it's because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3437">TS</a>]

00:57:20   we added a tremendous layer of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3440">TS</a>]

00:57:24   inconvenience to something that was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3444">TS</a>]

00:57:26   already inconvenient which is getting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3446">TS</a>]

00:57:28   your kid up and going to school busing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3448">TS</a>]

00:57:29   was bussing nothing was an unsuccessful [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3449">TS</a>]

00:57:31   hack because it is successful hack right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3451">TS</a>]

00:57:35   within encoding is something that takes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3455">TS</a>]

00:57:38   an annoying problem and solves it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3458">TS</a>]

00:57:40   potentially in elegant way that was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3460">TS</a>]

00:57:42   very in elegant solution that basically [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3462">TS</a>]

00:57:44   made it clearer than ever will be that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3464">TS</a>]

00:57:46   you're going to be fucking super [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3466">TS</a>]

00:57:47   inconvenience by this but may that there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3467">TS</a>]

00:57:49   is a basic inequality that we can't fix [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3469">TS</a>]

00:57:51   and so we have to reset where the pieces [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3471">TS</a>]

00:57:53   on the board and have you agree that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3473">TS</a>]

00:57:55   that's making it better [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3475">TS</a>]

00:57:56   even they are fixing your basic problem [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3476">TS</a>]

00:57:58   and and so that the I mean it in the in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3478">TS</a>]

00:58:02   the long term we have so much less [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3482">TS</a>]

00:58:05   bullying now in the culture than we did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3485">TS</a>]

00:58:08   even when we lose internet stuff done [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3488">TS</a>]

00:58:13   you sure about that i mean the thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3493">TS</a>]

00:58:16   about the admin internet bullying is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3496">TS</a>]

00:58:20   that the internet is just a giant [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3500">TS</a>]

00:58:22   bullying cesspool I mean I'm a 45 year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3502">TS</a>]

00:58:25   old man i would go on the internet every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3505">TS</a>]

00:58:27   day and feel in one way or another [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3507">TS</a>]

00:58:28   bullied and a lot of the bullying is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3508">TS</a>]

00:58:31   from people who would describe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3511">TS</a>]

00:58:33   themselves as primarily as victims you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3513">TS</a>]

00:58:36   know like it's the it's the oldest trick [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3516">TS</a>]

00:58:38   in the book to get on the internet and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3518">TS</a>]

00:58:40   say I am a victim of this oppressive [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3520">TS</a>]

00:58:42   culture and so I am so mad that i'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3522">TS</a>]

00:58:45   going to be that i'm going to be hateful [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3525">TS</a>]

00:58:47   to everybody i encounter today at and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3527">TS</a>]

00:58:50   that is and that is and that's like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3530">TS</a>]

00:58:53   the argument against that is that are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3533">TS</a>]

00:58:56   you miss Andres now I mean are you like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3536">TS</a>]

00:58:59   that the the idea that the idea that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3539">TS</a>]

00:59:02   this woman presented which is that he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3542">TS</a>]

00:59:07   had a perceived imbalance of power is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3547">TS</a>]

00:59:11   equal to an actual imbalance of power [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3551">TS</a>]

00:59:13   and so a person can be a person who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3553">TS</a>]

00:59:18   perceived themselves to be in a position [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3558">TS</a>]

00:59:20   of less power [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3560">TS</a>]

00:59:22   [Music] [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3562">TS</a>]

00:59:23   it might as well be that that person is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3563">TS</a>]

00:59:25   in a position of less power and I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3565">TS</a>]

00:59:28   like listening to a presentation I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3568">TS</a>]

00:59:30   like no that is in that is exactly wrong [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3570">TS</a>]

00:59:32   like just to perceive yourself to have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3572">TS</a>]

00:59:35   less power is not anything just because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3575">TS</a>]

00:59:38   you feel it doesn't mean it's real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3578">TS</a>]

00:59:40   in the words of Radiohead and and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3580">TS</a>]

00:59:44   think the internet is full of people who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3584">TS</a>]

00:59:46   are like I perceive myself to be a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3586">TS</a>]

00:59:48   victim of everything and so you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3588">TS</a>]

00:59:50   every time I go on the internet I'm on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3590">TS</a>]

00:59:53   I'm on a daily crusade to lecture [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3593">TS</a>]

00:59:55   everybody hey I have an encounter with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3595">TS</a>]

00:59:58   to go from place to place [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3598">TS</a>]

00:59:58   to go from place to place [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3598">TS</a>]

01:00:00   place to place just pedantically [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3600">TS</a>]

01:00:02   schooling fools right and left and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3602">TS</a>]

01:00:04   just like oh my god you're just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3604">TS</a>]

01:00:06   spreading you are spreading evil but is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3606">TS</a>]

01:00:09   like people are going to remember that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3609">TS</a>]

01:00:11   lesson you were meant to be teaching [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3611">TS</a>]

01:00:12   they're going to remember that you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3612">TS</a>]

01:00:13   kind of an unpleasant person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3613">TS</a>]

01:00:15   yeah and so the internet is a giant is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3615">TS</a>]

01:00:18   just a giant Hudson that's an ugly place [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3618">TS</a>]

01:00:20   now it's not a place I want to be but I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3620">TS</a>]

01:00:22   think ultimately is there less bullying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3622">TS</a>]

01:00:25   in the world in our world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3625">TS</a>]

01:00:28   yes is there less bullying is there less [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3628">TS</a>]

01:00:31   bullying in seattle than there is in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3631">TS</a>]

01:00:33   oklahoma city probably is there less [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3633">TS</a>]

01:00:36   bullying in oklahoma city than there is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3636">TS</a>]

01:00:38   in lagos yes in almost certainly like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3638">TS</a>]

01:00:42   his bullying still rife in in the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3642">TS</a>]

01:00:48   outskirts neighborhoods in Shanghai yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3648">TS</a>]

01:00:51   i bet it is because I i guess this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3651">TS</a>]

01:00:55   one of the this is one of the big [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3655">TS</a>]

01:00:56   questions of of like secularism is that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3656">TS</a>]

01:01:03   if we establish that we are members of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3663">TS</a>]

01:01:07   the animal kingdom which the secular [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3667">TS</a>]

01:01:11   half of the of the world you know has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3671">TS</a>]

01:01:15   been a lot of time trying to say like we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3675">TS</a>]

01:01:17   are part of the system we are animals we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3677">TS</a>]

01:01:20   are not God beings we are not separate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3680">TS</a>]

01:01:24   from our environment we are not we are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3684">TS</a>]

01:01:26   we are not significantly different from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3686">TS</a>]

01:01:32   animals that we can afford to rule over [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3692">TS</a>]

01:01:36   the world without consequence but the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3696">TS</a>]

01:01:40   flip side of that is nowhere in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3700">TS</a>]

01:01:43   animal kingdom is anything fair and we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3703">TS</a>]

01:01:48   are looking at ourselves as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3708">TS</a>]

01:01:50   simultaneously members of this of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3710">TS</a>]

01:01:57   natural system and also imposing upon [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3717">TS</a>]

01:02:00   ourselves [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3720">TS</a>]

01:02:02   incredibly unnatural thought [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3722">TS</a>]

01:02:04   technologies and that is if that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3724">TS</a>]

01:02:08   fascinating and wonderful because a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3728">TS</a>]

01:02:12   of those thought technologies that take [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3732">TS</a>]

01:02:14   us out of the animal kingdom have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3734">TS</a>]

01:02:16   improved our lot in life and are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3736">TS</a>]

01:02:20   improving the world but now but i would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3740">TS</a>]

01:02:23   suggest never presume that any of those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3743">TS</a>]

01:02:26   things are real or that any of those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3746">TS</a>]

01:02:29   things reflect reality they are they are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3749">TS</a>]

01:02:32   experiments they are attempts and so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3752">TS</a>]

01:02:37   like when you talk about it like and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3757">TS</a>]

01:02:39   wanting to try on and I idea like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3759">TS</a>]

01:02:41   jacket yeah so we're we're trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3761">TS</a>]

01:02:43   eliminate bullying even though bullying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3763">TS</a>]

01:02:46   is in the animal kingdom in the natural [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3766">TS</a>]

01:02:49   world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3769">TS</a>]

01:02:50   bullying is one of the foundational [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3770">TS</a>]

01:02:52   methods like every single animal family [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3772">TS</a>]

01:02:59   uses precisely bullying as a way of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3779">TS</a>]

01:03:05   organizing itself bigger animals squash [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3785">TS</a>]

01:03:09   little animals the two you know the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3789">TS</a>]

01:03:12   litter of kittens establishes their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3792">TS</a>]

01:03:14   their their dominance chain like pigs do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3794">TS</a>]

01:03:19   it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3799">TS</a>]

01:03:20   chickens do it it's a pecking order [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3800">TS</a>]

01:03:23   I mean everything we all of our language [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3803">TS</a>]

01:03:25   for that stuff comes from watching [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3805">TS</a>]

01:03:29   animals do it and every animal doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3809">TS</a>]

01:03:32   so if our end game is to eliminate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3812">TS</a>]

01:03:34   bullying what is it mean it isn't just a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3814">TS</a>]

01:03:40   small little inconvenience that we are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3820">TS</a>]

01:03:45   that we should be ashamed of and like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3825">TS</a>]

01:03:47   that that should that we should continue [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3827">TS</a>]

01:03:51   to be outraged and appalled by we should [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3831">TS</a>]

01:03:54   be able to look at it and say this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3834">TS</a>]

01:03:55   one of the fundamental principles of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3835">TS</a>]

01:03:57   animal life and we are trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3837">TS</a>]

01:04:00   dispense with it we are trying to change [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3840">TS</a>]

01:04:04   and evolve so that bullying is not the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3844">TS</a>]

01:04:08   way that we order our systems [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3848">TS</a>]

01:04:10   but it is absolutely in everything and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3850">TS</a>]

01:04:16   so to change it is not just a question [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3856">TS</a>]

01:04:20   of like go into the schools and put [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3860">TS</a>]

01:04:21   posters on the walls and indoctrinated [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3861">TS</a>]

01:04:24   the kids so that they don't think of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3864">TS</a>]

01:04:25   bullying anymore it's not a small thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3865">TS</a>]

01:04:27   the book kids are seeing bullying in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3867">TS</a>]

01:04:30   every walk of life and in every in every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3870">TS</a>]

01:04:34   aspect of human culture and so if if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3874">TS</a>]

01:04:37   this is our project [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3877">TS</a>]

01:04:38   I just wish that we could talk about it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3878">TS</a>]

01:04:40   in this bigger sense of like okay if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3880">TS</a>]

01:04:44   we're gonna if we're going to evolve [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3884">TS</a>]

01:04:46   into the Grays like like I'm all for it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3886">TS</a>]

01:04:51   let's go but if you're but what are you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3891">TS</a>]

01:04:54   going to replace bullying with because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3894">TS</a>]

01:04:57   if you go into the offices of Vogue [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3897">TS</a>]

01:04:59   magazine i guarantee you there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3899">TS</a>]

01:05:01   bullying at every desk if you go into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3901">TS</a>]

01:05:03   the west wing of the White House [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3903">TS</a>]

01:05:05   bullying is everywhere and it's encoded [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3905">TS</a>]

01:05:09   and the more white collar you make it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3909">TS</a>]

01:05:11   the more the the subtler it gets but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3911">TS</a>]

01:05:14   subtle bullying is fucking bullying so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3914">TS</a>]

01:05:18   so it just it feels a little bit like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3918">TS</a>]

01:05:21   the the posters on the walls of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3921">TS</a>]

01:05:23   schools and the and the attention that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3923">TS</a>]

01:05:26   were paying two kids to eradicate what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3926">TS</a>]

01:05:28   we think is this you know this bullying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3928">TS</a>]

01:05:31   is another to me and in a way up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3931">TS</a>]

01:05:35   potential busing idea which is just like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3935">TS</a>]

01:05:38   we're going to go into the schools and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3938">TS</a>]

01:05:40   we we can't fix this problem in our own [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3940">TS</a>]

01:05:42   culture [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3942">TS</a>]

01:05:43   we're not even capable of seeing it for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3943">TS</a>]

01:05:45   what it is but we don't but we all have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3945">TS</a>]

01:05:48   painful memories of being bullied as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3948">TS</a>]

01:05:49   kid and so we're going to go down into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3949">TS</a>]

01:05:51   the schools and create a kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3951">TS</a>]

01:05:54   fahrenheit 451 scenario where at where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3954">TS</a>]

01:06:00   no one is able to say what things are no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3960">TS</a>]

01:06:03   one is able to acknowledge reality and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3963">TS</a>]

01:06:07   kids are going to be 19 years old and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3967">TS</a>]

01:06:09   they're going to come out of these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3969">TS</a>]

01:06:10   schools and be like bullying is bad i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3970">TS</a>]

01:06:12   have never bullied anyone nor have I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3972">TS</a>]

01:06:13   ever been bullied [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3973">TS</a>]

01:06:15   but it's all you know it's all just a I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3975">TS</a>]

01:06:20   like a soup of lives mi i think i could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3980">TS</a>]

01:06:25   get what you're saying but I just have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3985">TS</a>]

01:06:27   one angle on it though which is that i'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3987">TS</a>]

01:06:30   reminded of the times I've gone and talk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3990">TS</a>]

01:06:32   to companies and I always have an easy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3992">TS</a>]

01:06:34   laugh when I talk about the signs the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3994">TS</a>]

01:06:35   people leave by the coffee machine you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3995">TS</a>]

01:06:38   know where the signs I have your mom [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/3998">TS</a>]

01:06:40   doesn't work here and how there's I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4000">TS</a>]

01:06:42   think they have to affect those have are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4002">TS</a>]

01:06:44   pretty consistent i am I don't wanna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4004">TS</a>]

01:06:46   argue whether bullying is snatching [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4006">TS</a>]

01:06:48   animal thing maybe it is i think we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4008">TS</a>]

01:06:49   might be using that word a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4009">TS</a>]

01:06:51   differently but what I will say is its [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4011">TS</a>]

01:06:53   when you put up a sign in the in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4013">TS</a>]

01:06:56   kitchen arm to no one in particular a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4016">TS</a>]

01:06:59   shame song is Yeah right right where you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4019">TS</a>]

01:07:02   like you're an asshole because you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4022">TS</a>]

01:07:03   not doing this thing that I'm telling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4023">TS</a>]

01:07:04   you we all agreed we should do which may [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4024">TS</a>]

01:07:08   or may not be true you know the fact is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4028">TS</a>]

01:07:10   if you worry about the cleanliness of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4030">TS</a>]

01:07:11   the kitchen it means a lot to you to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4031">TS</a>]

01:07:12   keep it clean you know what fair enough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4032">TS</a>]

01:07:14   you're probably aa above the 50 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4034">TS</a>]

01:07:16   percentile of people who clean the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4036">TS</a>]

01:07:17   kitchen i'll even give you that one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4037">TS</a>]

01:07:19   the problem is when you put that sign up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4039">TS</a>]

01:07:20   the the effects that you have that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4040">TS</a>]

01:07:22   think i mighta shown and not talk about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4042">TS</a>]

01:07:24   some other shows but I never showed you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4044">TS</a>]

01:07:25   a lot of dogs poop in a park near our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4045">TS</a>]

01:07:28   house and at one point somebody had gone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4048">TS</a>]

01:07:29   up and put signs around the entire [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4049">TS</a>]

01:07:31   perimeter of the reservoir with noting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4051">TS</a>]

01:07:34   how many piles of poop they had counted [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4054">TS</a>]

01:07:36   in the last month the people had left [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4056">TS</a>]

01:07:37   their it's sort of like this workplace [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4057">TS</a>]

01:07:39   has this noise without a poop [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4059">TS</a>]

01:07:41   yeah but think about that for a second [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4061">TS</a>]

01:07:43   and I just as I is my mind at my age [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4063">TS</a>]

01:07:45   goes through what the actual effect of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4065">TS</a>]

01:07:48   that will be icy several things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4068">TS</a>]

01:07:49   happening and i think this is related to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4069">TS</a>]

01:07:50   what you're talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4070">TS</a>]

01:07:51   there's on the one hand there's going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4071">TS</a>]

01:07:53   be a whole bunch of people like a ton of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4073">TS</a>]

01:07:55   people who don't have dogs who could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4075">TS</a>]

01:07:57   like what a stupid sign what's wrong [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4077">TS</a>]

01:07:59   with these people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4079">TS</a>]

01:08:00   I don't like poop either but what a dumb [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4080">TS</a>]

01:08:01   sign this is gonna be a lot of people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4081">TS</a>]

01:08:03   with dogs who pick up their dogs poop [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4083">TS</a>]

01:08:06   we're going hey why are you yelling at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4086">TS</a>]

01:08:08   me i'm already doing that if anything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4088">TS</a>]

01:08:10   that's gonna make them less you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4090">TS</a>]

01:08:11   they're not you that this is how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4091">TS</a>]

01:08:13   enforcement works you know a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4093">TS</a>]

01:08:14   reinforcement that's gonna make them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4094">TS</a>]

01:08:16   probably more likely to not want to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4096">TS</a>]

01:08:17   because they don't feel applauded for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4097">TS</a>]

01:08:19   doing what's been done they feel yelled [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4099">TS</a>]

01:08:21   at by this by this warrior who's gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4101">TS</a>]

01:08:23   tell them that that's what they should [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4103">TS</a>]

01:08:24   be doing and you know what the most [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4104">TS</a>]

01:08:25   importantly arguably i will bet you x 2 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4105">TS</a>]

01:08:28   don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4108">TS</a>]

01:08:28   that's that 11 out of 13 people who do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4108">TS</a>]

01:08:32   let their dog shit anywhere are not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4112">TS</a>]

01:08:35   going to change a single thing as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4115">TS</a>]

01:08:37   result of seeing that side it will have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4117">TS</a>]

01:08:38   that arrow will have fallen very far [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4118">TS</a>]

01:08:40   away from its target that the sign that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4120">TS</a>]

01:08:42   you put in the kitchen that ends up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4122">TS</a>]

01:08:44   yelling at ninety percent of the office [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4124">TS</a>]

01:08:45   is not going to change the one or two [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4125">TS</a>]

01:08:47   people who are doing that thing so that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4127">TS</a>]

01:08:51   i think is part of the problems when you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4131">TS</a>]

01:08:53   start out and I you know again I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4133">TS</a>]

01:08:54   care [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4134">TS</a>]

01:08:55   everything works in different ways with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4135">TS</a>]

01:08:56   different people but I think it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4136">TS</a>]

01:08:58   important to remember that when you set [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4138">TS</a>]

01:08:59   something up with anybody set something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4139">TS</a>]

01:09:01   up as an adversarial relationship i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4141">TS</a>]

01:09:03   understand why we do that it's very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4143">TS</a>]

01:09:05   natural especially if you feel like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4145">TS</a>]

01:09:07   you've been aggrieved by something or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4147">TS</a>]

01:09:08   you know something's happening you very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4148">TS</a>]

01:09:10   understanding to to come out of the box [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4150">TS</a>]

01:09:12   mad about that the thing I think it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4152">TS</a>]

01:09:14   important to remember to take bullying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4154">TS</a>]

01:09:16   for example there's going to be three [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4156">TS</a>]

01:09:18   maybe three large amounts 33 mainly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4158">TS</a>]

01:09:21   three kinds of kids there's a kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4161">TS</a>]

01:09:22   kids that are not bullying anybody on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4162">TS</a>]

01:09:24   any conceivable level there are the kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4164">TS</a>]

01:09:26   of kids who are unrepentant fucking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4166">TS</a>]

01:09:28   bullies that hope for home assign is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4168">TS</a>]

01:09:30   going to change absolutely nothing right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4170">TS</a>]

01:09:32   but the one that those signs might reach [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4172">TS</a>]

01:09:34   the people that i'm most interested in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4174">TS</a>]

01:09:35   this very very quiet little percentage [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4175">TS</a>]

01:09:38   of people who didn't know that there is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4178">TS</a>]

01:09:40   something they might think about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4180">TS</a>]

01:09:40   differently and maybe despite being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4180">TS</a>]

01:09:42   fucking yelled at every turn about how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4182">TS</a>]

01:09:44   to act they discovered there's a way I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4184">TS</a>]

01:09:46   could change my behavior a little bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4186">TS</a>]

01:09:48   they would make the world a little bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4188">TS</a>]

01:09:49   better and it doesn't make me less [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4189">TS</a>]

01:09:50   strong to do that that's the people i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4190">TS</a>]

01:09:52   admire and that's why i always think if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4192">TS</a>]

01:09:54   you go into something yelling you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4194">TS</a>]

01:09:56   going to have a smaller and smaller [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4196">TS</a>]

01:09:57   amount of that super interesting third [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4197">TS</a>]

01:09:59   group who sometimes can be very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4199">TS</a>]

01:10:01   influential people but if you come out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4201">TS</a>]

01:10:03   of box like yelling at everybody and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4203">TS</a>]

01:10:04   having a system having a program in mind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4204">TS</a>]

01:10:07   and basically explain to everybody what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4207">TS</a>]

01:10:09   the problem is before they had an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4209">TS</a>]

01:10:10   opportunity to understand it you always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4210">TS</a>]

01:10:12   lose the chance of the subtle people who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4212">TS</a>]

01:10:14   might have changed what they do because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4214">TS</a>]

01:10:16   now they feel like they're being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4216">TS</a>]

01:10:18   victimized by being yelled at or you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4218">TS</a>]

01:10:20   know what i mean i think that when you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4220">TS</a>]

01:10:22   think about although it doesn't lead to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4222">TS</a>]

01:10:24   anything getting that much better it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4224">TS</a>]

01:10:25   just leads to us becoming more callous [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4225">TS</a>]

01:10:27   about thinking who else is wrong about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4227">TS</a>]

01:10:29   this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4229">TS</a>]

01:10:29   yeah this is what I'm saying how think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4229">TS</a>]

01:10:31   about all the much more interesting ways [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4231">TS</a>]

01:10:33   of reaching that subtle group of people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4233">TS</a>]

01:10:35   then putting up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4235">TS</a>]

01:10:37   science in the kitchen yeah basically [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4237">TS</a>]

01:10:39   Stalinist signs all around instructing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4239">TS</a>]

01:10:43   everyone on how to live and I and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4243">TS</a>]

01:10:45   guess I guess what it boils down to to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4245">TS</a>]

01:10:47   me is that the endgame for for everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4247">TS</a>]

01:10:52   for any school of thought if you ask [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4252">TS</a>]

01:10:54   somebody to to describe their plan like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4254">TS</a>]

01:10:58   why do they have a certain school of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4258">TS</a>]

01:11:00   thought they will give you a utopian [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4260">TS</a>]

01:11:03   answer right the endgame is someday in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4263">TS</a>]

01:11:06   the future when everyone realizes the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4266">TS</a>]

01:11:10   truth of this premise and if everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4270">TS</a>]

01:11:14   realizes the truth of this premise then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4274">TS</a>]

01:11:16   we will be living in a world of peace [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4276">TS</a>]

01:11:18   and harmony and done it often comes down [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4278">TS</a>]

01:11:21   to one phrase on both either any of 50 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4281">TS</a>]

01:11:23   different sides you can almost always in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4283">TS</a>]

01:11:25   America today boil it down to one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4285">TS</a>]

01:11:27   statement which is I want people to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4287">TS</a>]

01:11:29   free and it's amazing how often that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4289">TS</a>]

01:11:32   line could be subsumed in the rhetoric [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4292">TS</a>]

01:11:34   of pretty much anybody and it kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4294">TS</a>]

01:11:36   makes sense but there's nobody there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4296">TS</a>]

01:11:38   no George Lincoln Rockwell there's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4298">TS</a>]

01:11:40   that many people out there that actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4300">TS</a>]

01:11:41   want America to be fascist even people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4301">TS</a>]

01:11:44   you know the people who are saying i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4304">TS</a>]

01:11:45   don't want to spend money for more than [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4305">TS</a>]

01:11:47   highways and defense or whatever like if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4307">TS</a>]

01:11:50   you're also a hardcore libertarian boys [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4310">TS</a>]

01:11:53   principal zero of that is I want people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4313">TS</a>]

01:11:55   to be free [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4315">TS</a>]

01:11:56   I want me to be free right and the panel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4316">TS</a>]

01:11:59   who want to say well let's have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4319">TS</a>]

01:12:00   scholarships for people they want people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4320">TS</a>]

01:12:02   to be free because they're saying in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4322">TS</a>]

01:12:04   past this is not worked out these people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4324">TS</a>]

01:12:05   have not even had a chance to come to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4325">TS</a>]

01:12:06   the table that's gonna help them be free [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4326">TS</a>]

01:12:08   but there's nobody there almost nobody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4328">TS</a>]

01:12:10   out there who thinks that what they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4330">TS</a>]

01:12:11   doing is making people less free and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4331">TS</a>]

01:12:14   and the and so the so the problem is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4334">TS</a>]

01:12:16   that every one of those scenarios [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4336">TS</a>]

01:12:17   involves wanting everybody to be free [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4337">TS</a>]

01:12:21   and all we have to do to accomplish that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4341">TS</a>]

01:12:23   is just that everyone not be free in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4343">TS</a>]

01:12:27   this one small way which is that we all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4347">TS</a>]

01:12:28   agree on cheese [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4348">TS</a>]

01:12:31   and and if everybody would just get in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4351">TS</a>]

01:12:35   line about this one thing that we could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4355">TS</a>]

01:12:37   all be free and ultimately that is why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4357">TS</a>]

01:12:40   every single ideology is true because if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4360">TS</a>]

01:12:45   we all agreed on anything then yes we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4365">TS</a>]

01:12:50   would be in we would be able to create a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4370">TS</a>]

01:12:54   socialist workers paradise or a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4374">TS</a>]

01:12:57   libertarian free-market paradise or a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4377">TS</a>]

01:13:00   you know uh a white homeland and I De [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4380">TS</a>]

01:13:03   Niro it gets so narrow it's like a no-no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4383">TS</a>]

01:13:06   engineer would take somebody seriously [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4386">TS</a>]

01:13:08   if they said we want to this jet will [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4388">TS</a>]

01:13:11   fly super far as long as it doesn't have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4391">TS</a>]

01:13:13   to carry a bunch of heavy fuel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4393">TS</a>]

01:13:14   yeah right exactly know how we need to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4394">TS</a>]

01:13:16   re-engineer these other points of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4396">TS</a>]

01:13:19   is not going to change one factor about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4399">TS</a>]

01:13:20   anything without changing everything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4400">TS</a>]

01:13:22   else about the entire project so with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4402">TS</a>]

01:13:24   bullying the premise seems to be we need [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4404">TS</a>]

01:13:27   to eradicate bullying when really the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4407">TS</a>]

01:13:30   question is how do you make a good world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4410">TS</a>]

01:13:33   where there's always going to be two [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4413">TS</a>]

01:13:37   percent bullies like yes you could make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4417">TS</a>]

01:13:41   a perfect world if you eliminated [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4421">TS</a>]

01:13:43   bullies but there are always going to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4423">TS</a>]

01:13:45   two percent bullies and so how do you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4425">TS</a>]

01:13:49   minimize the creation of bullies and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4429">TS</a>]

01:13:50   impact of their behavior [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4430">TS</a>]

01:13:52   yeah and and at what happens with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4432">TS</a>]

01:13:53   bullying is that it is that there's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4433">TS</a>]

01:13:56   bully is the bad guy right but there are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4436">TS</a>]

01:13:58   the five friends that maybe would be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4438">TS</a>]

01:14:01   maybe would be off making projects with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4441">TS</a>]

01:14:04   construction paper but somehow if when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4444">TS</a>]

01:14:07   bullying is ok those five friends jump [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4447">TS</a>]

01:14:10   on the bandwagon every and die exactly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4450">TS</a>]

01:14:12   it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4452">TS</a>]

01:14:14   it's what you're talking about you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4454">TS</a>]

01:14:15   wanted you want to get those three [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4455">TS</a>]

01:14:16   friends that maybe follow the guy if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4456">TS</a>]

01:14:21   he's bullying but also would follow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4461">TS</a>]

01:14:22   somebody if they were dancing and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4462">TS</a>]

01:14:24   want to say like don't follow the below [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4464">TS</a>]

01:14:26   fully follow the dancer like that's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4466">TS</a>]

01:14:29   that's the culture that we're trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4469">TS</a>]

01:14:32   create what is that culture created by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4472">TS</a>]

01:14:35   putting posters up in the in the coffee [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4475">TS</a>]

01:14:37   room [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4477">TS</a>]

01:14:38   no it's not apple seeds i don't think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4478">TS</a>]

01:14:40   people almost ever see themselves in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4480">TS</a>]

01:14:43   those things make it basically selfish [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4483">TS</a>]

01:14:45   the American thing part of our the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4485">TS</a>]

01:14:46   American experiment that I don't think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4486">TS</a>]

01:14:48   we see ourselves in signs [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4488">TS</a>]

01:14:51   no we see otherwise the other people who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4491">TS</a>]

01:14:54   are rightly or wrongly being accused of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4494">TS</a>]

01:14:56   making things worse for us [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4496">TS</a>]

01:14:57   yeah if the sign said if the sign said [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4497">TS</a>]

01:15:00   it has been four days since someone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4500">TS</a>]

01:15:02   named Merlin smoked a cigar in this park [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4502">TS</a>]

01:15:04   you would look at that sign and you'd be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4504">TS</a>]

01:15:06   like huh that's interesting i wonder how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4506">TS</a>]

01:15:08   many Merlin's there are smoking cigars [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4508">TS</a>]

01:15:09   in this part of hazardous get your dicks [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4509">TS</a>]

01:15:11   those dicks as you let up a cigar in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4511">TS</a>]

01:15:13   park [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4513">TS</a>]

01:15:14   no we never see ourselves in science [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4514">TS</a>]

01:15:15   because that's not that because the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4515">TS</a>]

01:15:17   challenge of creating a world of human [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4517">TS</a>]

01:15:21   beings is to not think about a utopia [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4521">TS</a>]

01:15:26   the challenge is to is to treat every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4526">TS</a>]

01:15:29   situation individually and to do the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4529">TS</a>]

01:15:32   difficult work of you know if if we if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4532">TS</a>]

01:15:35   everybody practice no child left behind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4535">TS</a>]

01:15:38   the schools would be producing geniuses [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4538">TS</a>]

01:15:41   but the problem is it's a utopian idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4541">TS</a>]

01:15:43   it doesn't work because you can't apply [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4543">TS</a>]

01:15:45   it you can't have one textbook that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4545">TS</a>]

01:15:47   works in every school in the country you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4547">TS</a>]

01:15:49   can't have one premise about bullying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4549">TS</a>]

01:15:52   every single kid is different and that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4552">TS</a>]

01:15:55   is impossible it's impossibly hard to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4555">TS</a>]

01:15:58   create a uniform culture and this I this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4558">TS</a>]

01:16:04   attempt to impose like a super structure [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4564">TS</a>]

01:16:07   and say everybody is the same we are all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4567">TS</a>]

01:16:11   the end this is true of us all in in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4571">TS</a>]

01:16:15   pursuit of a utopia a utopian end where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4575">TS</a>]

01:16:19   if we can we can eradicate this then we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4579">TS</a>]

01:16:22   will all be living in the light and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4582">TS</a>]

01:16:24   just it's it's the it's the way in which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4584">TS</a>]

01:16:27   every ideology is exactly the same as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4587">TS</a>]

01:16:29   every other one and they all are you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4589">TS</a>]

01:16:33   know they all crash on the rocks as soon [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4593">TS</a>]

01:16:37   as they encounter one person who doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4597">TS</a>]

01:16:39   want to go to doesn't want to go along [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4599">TS</a>]

01:16:41   and I am that person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4601">TS</a>]

01:16:45   I do not want to go and I and so I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4605">TS</a>]

01:16:50   getting off the internet [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4610">TS</a>]

01:16:51   yeah or or I'm you know or I'm gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4611">TS</a>]

01:16:55   definitely curate the topics of any [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4615">TS</a>]

01:16:57   public discussion i have a little bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4617">TS</a>]

01:17:00   better so that I am exist your farewell [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4620">TS</a>]

01:17:04   to the Troops so that I am dealing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4624">TS</a>]

01:17:06   exclusively with caps and twerking and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4626">TS</a>]

01:17:11   and a sympathetic judge and a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4631">TS</a>]

01:17:14   sympathetic fellow and not at all with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4634">TS</a>]

01:17:17   that you know with whatever the the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4637">TS</a>]

01:17:20   hot-button issues are right now where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4640">TS</a>]

01:17:22   people are trying to you know work bored [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4642">TS</a>]

01:17:24   where social engineering where that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4644">TS</a>]

01:17:26   where the diamond tip of social [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4646">TS</a>]

01:17:28   engineering is is etching its groove in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4648">TS</a>]

01:17:32   our in our cultural moment you know I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4652">TS</a>]

01:17:34   don't believe that it works unless it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4654">TS</a>]

01:17:42   super train in which case it absolutely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4662">TS</a>]

01:17:44   works but has to work function [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4664">TS</a>]

01:17:46   it's not like an optional the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4666">TS</a>]

01:17:48   traditional third anniversary gift is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4668">TS</a>]

01:17:50   leather series so I was thinking of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4670">TS</a>]

01:17:53   getting some chaps I'm a gun belt you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4673">TS</a>]

01:17:57   might look good with a gun belt several [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4677">TS</a>]

01:17:58   times i have been in a situation where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4678">TS</a>]

01:18:00   there have been chaps available to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4680">TS</a>]

01:18:03   really yeah classic and at whole havin [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4683">TS</a>]

01:18:07   ass exposing chaps they're one of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4687">TS</a>]

01:18:10   great moments for me and a thrift store [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4690">TS</a>]

01:18:12   was in this in the little cowboy town of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4692">TS</a>]

01:18:16   Monroe Washington I was dating a girl at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4696">TS</a>]

01:18:19   the time who was very like a she was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4699">TS</a>]

01:18:22   well she was a Firedancer that was her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4702">TS</a>]

01:18:25   job a a naked Firedancer to be specific [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4705">TS</a>]

01:18:30   Wow and she had a lot of tattoos and she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4710">TS</a>]

01:18:33   was very exotic and beautiful girl and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4713">TS</a>]

01:18:37   was dating her at the time and I was in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4717">TS</a>]

01:18:38   monroe and i found in a thrift store [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4718">TS</a>]

01:18:42   they're a pair of white fringed chaps in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4722">TS</a>]

01:18:48   a petite size so brother and I bought [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4728">TS</a>]

01:18:53   them for her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4733">TS</a>]

01:18:54   and they were spectacular oh my any fit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4734">TS</a>]

01:18:58   if they fit her perfect she wanted to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4738">TS</a>]

01:19:00   wear them and she did want to wear them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4740">TS</a>]

01:19:02   oh my god and we want to honor my friend [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4742">TS</a>]

01:19:05   I really did and I you know I won't say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4745">TS</a>]

01:19:07   anymore about it except that it was a it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4747">TS</a>]

01:19:10   was a great man how many of those are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4750">TS</a>]

01:19:11   there even in the world and that i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4751">TS</a>]

01:19:13   should find them and that they should [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4753">TS</a>]

01:19:14   fit and that she would like them and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4754">TS</a>]

01:19:17   so kinky Cinderella yeah it really was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4757">TS</a>]

01:19:19   it was the glass slipper of our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4759">TS</a>]

01:19:21   relationship and so after that I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4761">TS</a>]

01:19:26   like well maybe I should have some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4766">TS</a>]

01:19:28   chance haha and I I think you hit a new [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4768">TS</a>]

01:19:33   journey vika I and I am and I've had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4773">TS</a>]

01:19:37   several chaps come my way and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4777">TS</a>]

01:19:41   problem is that what that um that when i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4781">TS</a>]

01:19:46   wear chaps it is just like I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4786">TS</a>]

01:19:50   reanimating the cow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4790">TS</a>]

01:19:58   [Music] [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmENrQ77I/4798">TS</a>]