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Ep. 137: "Arsenal of Civilization"

 

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00:00:23   hello hi John Admiral mmm yeah I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/23">TS</a>]

00:00:27   Merlin how's it going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/27">TS</a>]

00:00:34   we got to put that on a shirt i wonder [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/34">TS</a>]

00:00:37   how you spell it lots of peas and bees [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/37">TS</a>]

00:00:40   things are things are good things are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/40">TS</a>]

00:00:46   good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/46">TS</a>]

00:00:47   it's a i have not been sleeping enough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/47">TS</a>]

00:00:51   oh dear I stay up late and then I wake [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/51">TS</a>]

00:00:54   up early and that's the that's a bad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/54">TS</a>]

00:00:57   combo [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/57">TS</a>]

00:00:58   uh-huh that leads to some five hours of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/58">TS</a>]

00:01:01   sleep pneus uh-huh five hours of sleep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/61">TS</a>]

00:01:05   and then several days in a row and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/65">TS</a>]

00:01:08   pretty soon you're like huh I wonder why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/68">TS</a>]

00:01:11   I feel like killing people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/71">TS</a>]

00:01:13   mm because i have been sleeping enough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/73">TS</a>]

00:01:15   homicidal of sleep deprivation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/75">TS</a>]

00:01:18   yeah now it's just the worst i mean you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/78">TS</a>]

00:01:21   know you can you can do one of those you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/81">TS</a>]

00:01:22   do a couple of those and you know and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/82">TS</a>]

00:01:24   also the thing is if your ice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/84">TS</a>]

00:01:26   I don't know if it's because you're busy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/86">TS</a>]

00:01:27   you're not busy or you're super busy but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/87">TS</a>]

00:01:29   like if you're really busy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/89">TS</a>]

00:01:31   yeah deadline and you do that you get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/91">TS</a>]

00:01:33   some kind of like an adrenaline thing we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/93">TS</a>]

00:01:36   get mad at the right thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/96">TS</a>]

00:01:37   hmm you don't mean you're like that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/97">TS</a>]

00:01:39   work well under those circumstances [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/99">TS</a>]

00:01:42   yeah but last night I was lying in bed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/102">TS</a>]

00:01:44   and by the way happy happy new year John [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/104">TS</a>]

00:01:46   who is it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/106">TS</a>]

00:01:48   oh yeah thank you as a few i had a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/108">TS</a>]

00:01:50   pretty good new year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/110">TS</a>]

00:01:51   yeah so I picture a pretty good new your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/111">TS</a>]

00:01:53   time the guy across the street that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/113">TS</a>]

00:01:56   living in the van that I realized it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/116">TS</a>]

00:02:00   name isn't vani it's gary and of course [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/120">TS</a>]

00:02:02   if you're living in a van behind a hedge [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/122">TS</a>]

00:02:04   question is Gary get married why is that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/124">TS</a>]

00:02:10   such a perfect name [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/130">TS</a>]

00:02:11   I don't know Gary and he and I have had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/131">TS</a>]

00:02:13   several encounters lately and gary has a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/133">TS</a>]

00:02:16   has that thing where you see him and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/136">TS</a>]

00:02:19   talked to him for 45 minutes and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/139">TS</a>]

00:02:21   see in the next day and and he's never [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/141">TS</a>]

00:02:23   met you before but I so i ended up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/143">TS</a>]

00:02:29   I've tried to call my across-the-street [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/149">TS</a>]

00:02:31   neighbor several times and it's what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/151">TS</a>]

00:02:33   it's a thing where the the anonymous [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/153">TS</a>]

00:02:35   voicemail [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/155">TS</a>]

00:02:36   voice answers the phone and says the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/156">TS</a>]

00:02:38   mailbox is full and then just hangs up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/158">TS</a>]

00:02:40   on you and it's and it's a weird voice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/160">TS</a>]

00:02:42   it's not the voice that you normally [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/162">TS</a>]

00:02:45   hear it's like a voice that you might [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/165">TS</a>]

00:02:47   hear if you bought your phone at a gas [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/167">TS</a>]

00:02:50   station [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/170">TS</a>]

00:02:50   yeah i got verizon voice or something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/170">TS</a>]

00:02:52   some kind of weird voice where it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/172">TS</a>]

00:02:53   up the moist message bell box you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/173">TS</a>]

00:02:56   trying to reach is full [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/176">TS</a>]

00:02:57   click and so I was like uh you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/177">TS</a>]

00:03:00   Gary's out there is the ellen is yelling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/180">TS</a>]

00:03:03   into the phone he's yelling at his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/183">TS</a>]

00:03:04   ex-wife just one o'clock in the morning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/184">TS</a>]

00:03:07   I don't wanna die I you know I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/187">TS</a>]

00:03:10   want him with the fire hose but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/190">TS</a>]

00:03:12   something's got you know like when i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/192">TS</a>]

00:03:15   started that he won't remember the next [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/195">TS</a>]

00:03:16   day likely i started to ask myself the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/196">TS</a>]

00:03:19   question [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/199">TS</a>]

00:03:19   hey what's the long game here is Gary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/199">TS</a>]

00:03:22   gonna live in the van in the front yard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/202">TS</a>]

00:03:23   of my neighbors house for another year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/203">TS</a>]

00:03:25   or two years or five years like there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/205">TS</a>]

00:03:29   a little bit starting to he's a very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/209">TS</a>]

00:03:32   angry guy and I have a little kid right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/212">TS</a>]

00:03:35   so I so I called the neighbor went to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/215">TS</a>]

00:03:37   straight to voicemail but then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/217">TS</a>]

00:03:38   miraculously she called me back [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/218">TS</a>]

00:03:41   associations she's just for folks who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/221">TS</a>]

00:03:43   haven't been following this you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/223">TS</a>]

00:03:45   pretty worried about her for awhile you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/225">TS</a>]

00:03:46   haven't seen her in a while there are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/226">TS</a>]

00:03:47   people moving in and out there appeared [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/227">TS</a>]

00:03:49   to be some parties a lot of corners [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/229">TS</a>]

00:03:50   looking good is coming in and out of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/230">TS</a>]

00:03:52   house it was a bad scene for a while and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/232">TS</a>]

00:03:55   then it calm down and you know and there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/235">TS</a>]

00:03:57   was a kind of a new normal which was at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/237">TS</a>]

00:04:00   least it's quiet on the set and the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/240">TS</a>]

00:04:02   regular characters are there but I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/242">TS</a>]

00:04:03   hadn't seen her in a long time but I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/243">TS</a>]

00:04:05   figured you know I figured if they had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/245">TS</a>]

00:04:07   if they buried her in a shallow grave [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/247">TS</a>]

00:04:10   they wouldn't just be coming and going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/250">TS</a>]

00:04:12   with with the like 7-11 bags and stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/252">TS</a>]

00:04:17   you know they'd be hightailing it or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/257">TS</a>]

00:04:19   they be stripping the copper pipes or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/259">TS</a>]

00:04:20   something right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/260">TS</a>]

00:04:22   anyway I called her she called me back [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/262">TS</a>]

00:04:23   as one o'clock in the morning she's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/263">TS</a>]

00:04:25   hey I saw that you called and I was like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/265">TS</a>]

00:04:26   hi haven't talked in a long time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/266">TS</a>]

00:04:30   she's like hi nice to hear from you it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/270">TS</a>]

00:04:33   1am and in between our two houses there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/273">TS</a>]

00:04:37   are two things there's a a laurel hedge [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/277">TS</a>]

00:04:39   that's 25 feet tall and there is a 1968 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/279">TS</a>]

00:04:45   ford van slowly rusting into the ground [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/285">TS</a>]

00:04:48   with four flat tires emulated by gary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/288">TS</a>]

00:04:52   and in the middle of the van is Gary and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/292">TS</a>]

00:04:55   gary is and there's an extension cord [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/295">TS</a>]

00:04:57   running from the van to the to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/297">TS</a>]

00:04:59   outlet on the front of her house and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/299">TS</a>]

00:05:02   gary is audible to me quite audible in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/302">TS</a>]

00:05:06   the van going got tough to get it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/306">TS</a>]

00:05:08   fuck you to you know just like having a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/308">TS</a>]

00:05:13   an explosion of Rage 470 Sam that's been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/313">TS</a>]

00:05:16   lasting for like you know long enough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/316">TS</a>]

00:05:19   it's been lasting long enough that I did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/319">TS</a>]

00:05:21   I decided I was gonna like call my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/321">TS</a>]

00:05:22   neighbor and she's like what's going on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/322">TS</a>]

00:05:25   i'm like i'm calling about Gary and she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/325">TS</a>]

00:05:27   was like yeah I mean yeah I couldn't you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/327">TS</a>]

00:05:30   know I can make it easy for me okay Gary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/330">TS</a>]

00:05:33   time and even suck air she didn't go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/333">TS</a>]

00:05:35   yeah Gary no no nothing just like yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/335">TS</a>]

00:05:38   and I think what it is is that there is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/338">TS</a>]

00:05:40   a place in her house she can go where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/340">TS</a>]

00:05:43   she doesn't hear Carrie and there and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/343">TS</a>]

00:05:47   mean there are places in my house where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/347">TS</a>]

00:05:49   I can go but what those places are not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/349">TS</a>]

00:05:51   my living room or bedroom and I'm like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/351">TS</a>]

00:05:54   Carrie is it Gary I have to be honest [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/354">TS</a>]

00:05:56   with you Gary starting to be a problem [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/356">TS</a>]

00:05:58   for me and she's like yeah and then she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/358">TS</a>]

00:06:00   does kind of soften and she's like yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/360">TS</a>]

00:06:02   Gary Gary needs to go and I'm like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/362">TS</a>]

00:06:05   don't want to be the one to say it but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/365">TS</a>]

00:06:07   you know Gary I think I really think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/367">TS</a>]

00:06:10   Gary's got to go and she was like yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/370">TS</a>]

00:06:12   he's really going to be a problem he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/372">TS</a>]

00:06:13   started to he's cussing me out now and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/373">TS</a>]

00:06:16   I'm like I know you want to help Gary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/376">TS</a>]

00:06:18   but I started out is to do you remember [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/378">TS</a>]

00:06:20   right that it started out as her kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/380">TS</a>]

00:06:22   helping rehab him [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/382">TS</a>]

00:06:24   yeah she's talked for a while she was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/384">TS</a>]

00:06:26   gonna run a little rehab house there and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/386">TS</a>]

00:06:27   then she got engaged to one of the guys [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/387">TS</a>]

00:06:29   and then the other guy sucking covered [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/389">TS</a>]

00:06:31   in his van for a year at least [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/391">TS</a>]

00:06:33   and so we had a very nice conversation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/393">TS</a>]

00:06:36   about how Gary needed to hustle up but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/396">TS</a>]

00:06:39   you know shuffle off to Buffalo and on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/399">TS</a>]

00:06:41   the one hand i'm thinking you know it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/401">TS</a>]

00:06:43   the holidays right around the new year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/403">TS</a>]

00:06:46   it's a vulnerable time for everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/406">TS</a>]

00:06:48   maybe maybe I should take a softer line [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/408">TS</a>]

00:06:52   on Gary right now and then the other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/412">TS</a>]

00:06:55   voice in my head was like what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/415">TS</a>]

00:06:57   well fuck Gary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/417">TS</a>]

00:06:59   uh everybody hits the bottom and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/419">TS</a>]

00:07:01   sometimes your bottom is that uh the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/421">TS</a>]

00:07:05   next door neighbor finally calls and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/425">TS</a>]

00:07:07   says that you that there that he's going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/427">TS</a>]

00:07:09   to send a tow truck for your van [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/429">TS</a>]

00:07:11   are you there still no yeah no no I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/431">TS</a>]

00:07:14   listen I'm thinking so is its diff it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/434">TS</a>]

00:07:18   so difficult because it's difficult when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/438">TS</a>]

00:07:20   I have those conversations I'm braced [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/440">TS</a>]

00:07:22   for it to go poorly and you know and I I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/442">TS</a>]

00:07:25   don't want to be comforted hate being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/445">TS</a>]

00:07:26   confrontational with people about stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/446">TS</a>]

00:07:28   that is right on the bubble of their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/448">TS</a>]

00:07:30   business and not my business yeah you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/450">TS</a>]

00:07:32   have so uncomfortable about I really you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/452">TS</a>]

00:07:34   know it's whether it's a teenager having [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/454">TS</a>]

00:07:36   a party or somebody parking in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/456">TS</a>]

00:07:38   driveway or whatever I just think like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/458">TS</a>]

00:07:40   how much of this is in my head [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/460">TS</a>]

00:07:41   personally how much this is in my head [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/461">TS</a>]

00:07:43   and I could just be a fucking gentleman [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/463">TS</a>]

00:07:45   and let it go and when you have a nice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/465">TS</a>]

00:07:47   conversation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/467">TS</a>]

00:07:48   I don't feel that much better because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/468">TS</a>]

00:07:49   now I really do feel like a party pooper [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/469">TS</a>]

00:07:51   want to have that conversation one also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/471">TS</a>]

00:07:53   now we broach the topic so if Gary's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/473">TS</a>]

00:07:56   still there in a week which he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/476">TS</a>]

00:07:57   absolutely is going to be then there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/477">TS</a>]

00:08:01   new uncomfortableness which is we talked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/481">TS</a>]

00:08:03   about Gary getting the Gary getting gone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/483">TS</a>]

00:08:06   and now there's the there's the there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/486">TS</a>]

00:08:13   the implication of a timeline because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/493">TS</a>]

00:08:16   we've had a conversation about it and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/496">TS</a>]

00:08:17   she's implicitly agreed that it should [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/497">TS</a>]

00:08:20   happen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/500">TS</a>]

00:08:21   yeah implicitly that it will happen yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/501">TS</a>]

00:08:24   that it will happen and so then it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/504">TS</a>]

00:08:26   like every time I see her now it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/506">TS</a>]

00:08:28   so how's it going with Gary are we where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/508">TS</a>]

00:08:31   we add on that and that is like not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/511">TS</a>]

00:08:33   that's not a relationship i want to have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/513">TS</a>]

00:08:35   with her you know I she she definitely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/515">TS</a>]

00:08:37   has an uphill climb and I mean for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/517">TS</a>]

00:08:42   year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/522">TS</a>]

00:08:42   I've I haven't said a word about it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/522">TS</a>]

00:08:44   because it because it does it falls into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/524">TS</a>]

00:08:45   that category like well it's on her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/525">TS</a>]

00:08:47   property and it is her business and if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/527">TS</a>]

00:08:49   gary was her boyfriend and he was in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/529">TS</a>]

00:08:52   there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/532">TS</a>]

00:08:53   drunkenly screaming into the phone every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/533">TS</a>]

00:08:55   night and be like well that's just what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/535">TS</a>]

00:08:57   happens when you live in a neighborhood [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/537">TS</a>]

00:08:58   right right but gary is it fair to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/538">TS</a>]

00:09:03   crucial distinction which is gary is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/543">TS</a>]

00:09:06   living in the front yard and the front [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/546">TS</a>]

00:09:08   yard is enough of a puppet that it's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/548">TS</a>]

00:09:11   it's still on her property but it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/551">TS</a>]

00:09:12   it is public space in the center and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/552">TS</a>]

00:09:15   John it is a van [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/555">TS</a>]

00:09:17   it's a van and it's that mean that year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/557">TS</a>]

00:09:19   is a long time for someone to live in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/559">TS</a>]

00:09:21   van it softens front yard and you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/561">TS</a>]

00:09:23   that's getting the driveway that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/563">TS</a>]

00:09:24   Gary's life choice or whatever but the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/564">TS</a>]

00:09:27   thing is the van is tucked behind this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/567">TS</a>]

00:09:28   Laurel head in a way that the cops are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/568">TS</a>]

00:09:31   not aware it's there nobody's aware it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/571">TS</a>]

00:09:32   there I thought about it the other day [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/572">TS</a>]

00:09:34   if the hedge wasn't there and it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/574">TS</a>]

00:09:36   just this rusting ass piece of shit man [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/576">TS</a>]

00:09:39   with an extension cord going in one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/579">TS</a>]

00:09:42   the windows and a guy in there yelling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/582">TS</a>]

00:09:44   into his phone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/584">TS</a>]

00:09:46   like other people would have taken [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/586">TS</a>]

00:09:48   notice but and you know and like health [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/588">TS</a>]

00:09:51   and human services or whatever would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/591">TS</a>]

00:09:53   have said are you bigger you pissing in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/593">TS</a>]

00:09:54   a bucket like where how much access does [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/594">TS</a>]

00:09:58   Gary have to the house and have and like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/598">TS</a>]

00:10:00   that's a crucial especially if your if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/600">TS</a>]

00:10:03   your chronic alcoholic like sometimes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/603">TS</a>]

00:10:05   you gotta go to the bathroom [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/605">TS</a>]

00:10:07   I just always think about fires I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/607">TS</a>]

00:10:09   know why as i get older i think about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/609">TS</a>]

00:10:11   like you know maybe Gary nods off the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/611">TS</a>]

00:10:16   marlboro red going mmm not so you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/616">TS</a>]

00:10:18   next thing you know it's a piece like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/618">TS</a>]

00:10:20   it's the keys a can of beans and his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/620">TS</a>]

00:10:23   quarters are just single because my next [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/623">TS</a>]

00:10:28   book my other next-door neighbor Patrick [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/628">TS</a>]

00:10:30   Patrick everybody's feelings Justin [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/630">TS</a>]

00:10:33   Patrick will drop a little science on me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/633">TS</a>]

00:10:35   every once awhile about Gary's like to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/635">TS</a>]

00:10:38   hear that guy here that guy out there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/638">TS</a>]

00:10:40   slamming his van door and stuff in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/640">TS</a>]

00:10:43   middle of night and I'm like oh I hear [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/643">TS</a>]

00:10:44   him Patrick go Patrick is is definitely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/644">TS</a>]

00:10:48   on he he airs on the other side of like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/648">TS</a>]

00:10:50   what happens on your property is your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/650">TS</a>]

00:10:52   business [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/652">TS</a>]

00:10:53   Patrick's also the guy that that fired a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/653">TS</a>]

00:10:56   gun in the air when some teenage kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/656">TS</a>]

00:10:57   climbed on the roof to Patrick right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/657">TS</a>]

00:11:00   talk to the talk to his teenage daughter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/660">TS</a>]

00:11:01   and so I mean I know Patrick when the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/661">TS</a>]

00:11:04   chips are down Patrick's capable of like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/664">TS</a>]

00:11:06   handling a situation if you needed to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/666">TS</a>]

00:11:09   of for Gary extraction capture him in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/669">TS</a>]

00:11:12   his underwear with a gun in the street [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/672">TS</a>]

00:11:14   something something again back and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/674">TS</a>]

00:11:16   think I think Patrick's actually you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/676">TS</a>]

00:11:17   know off the sauce to do so the whole [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/677">TS</a>]

00:11:19   neighborhood's cleaning up but the like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/679">TS</a>]

00:11:22   carries the last [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/682">TS</a>]

00:11:24   he's the last of the mohicans and uh and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/684">TS</a>]

00:11:29   I just who i mean i'm going on and that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/689">TS</a>]

00:11:32   we finally have the conversation but now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/692">TS</a>]

00:11:34   it's getting now I don't know what to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/694">TS</a>]

00:11:36   I don't you know there have been times [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/696">TS</a>]

00:11:38   when I thought that I would just run a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/698">TS</a>]

00:11:41   hose from Gary's tailpipe right into the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/701">TS</a>]

00:11:43   back window and then we solve the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/703">TS</a>]

00:11:44   problem completely but Gary never turns [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/704">TS</a>]

00:11:46   the motor on because the band doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/706">TS</a>]

00:11:48   run anymore so anyway that's at that and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/708">TS</a>]

00:11:53   that's not why I'm not sleeping the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/713">TS</a>]

00:11:55   reason I'm not sleeping is that I set up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/715">TS</a>]

00:11:58   until five o'clock in the morning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/718">TS</a>]

00:11:59   looking at ebay on my phone but right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/719">TS</a>]

00:12:03   but Gary screaming at his ex-wife isn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/723">TS</a>]

00:12:06   helping me right and I wonder what the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/726">TS</a>]

00:12:10   hell she's doing at one o'clock in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/730">TS</a>]

00:12:11   morning taking these hour-long phone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/731">TS</a>]

00:12:13   calls you know what I mean like if if I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/733">TS</a>]

00:12:15   were her I would have had to hang up the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/735">TS</a>]

00:12:17   phone after a certain after look like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/737">TS</a>]

00:12:20   the 40th raged fuck you I'd be like okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/740">TS</a>]

00:12:25   Carrie that's the thing about a about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/745">TS</a>]

00:12:28   eight what I was going to say toxic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/748">TS</a>]

00:12:31   personality but i'll say let's say an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/751">TS</a>]

00:12:33   incendiary personality whether that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/753">TS</a>]

00:12:36   in real life or on the internet or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/756">TS</a>]

00:12:38   whatever and I'll speak for myself my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/758">TS</a>]

00:12:40   reaction is to just not poke at it and i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/760">TS</a>]

00:12:42   would i would just as soon find some way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/762">TS</a>]

00:12:44   to just kind of avoid it and that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/764">TS</a>]

00:12:46   probably that's kind of what everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/766">TS</a>]

00:12:47   wants to do unless you're somebody who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/767">TS</a>]

00:12:49   is you know very convert confrontation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/769">TS</a>]

00:12:51   like if there's if I'm on the train with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/771">TS</a>]

00:12:53   my kid and somebody's having a meltdown [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/773">TS</a>]

00:12:57   yep which happened I mean you we've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/777">TS</a>]

00:13:00   we've been on the train where they had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/780">TS</a>]

00:13:02   to stop it and have the cops pull up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/782">TS</a>]

00:13:03   because the driver had to call the cops [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/783">TS</a>]

00:13:04   were basically the entire part of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/784">TS</a>]

00:13:07   car has emptied out except for you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/787">TS</a>]

00:13:09   what one homeless guy like melting down [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/789">TS</a>]

00:13:11   and screaming obscenities and swing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/791">TS</a>]

00:13:13   things around and so in that case like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/793">TS</a>]

00:13:15   there's the short certainly there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/795">TS</a>]

00:13:16   part of me that goes like that's a human [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/796">TS</a>]

00:13:17   being is suffering that somebody who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/797">TS</a>]

00:13:20   like with a little bit of medication and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/800">TS</a>]

00:13:21   a hot meal might do a little better [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/801">TS</a>]

00:13:23   my inclination is to just get my kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/803">TS</a>]

00:13:25   movie other side of the of the training [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/805">TS</a>]

00:13:26   right it's so much easier and i have to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/806">TS</a>]

00:13:29   say in general I mean you're going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/809">TS</a>]

00:13:31   live in a city that is that is a healthy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/811">TS</a>]

00:13:34   way to be because you can't fix [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/814">TS</a>]

00:13:36   everything right when you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/816">TS</a>]

00:13:38   take care of yourself you gotta go check [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/818">TS</a>]

00:13:39   your six as you say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/819">TS</a>]

00:13:41   yep but but you know I don't but there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/821">TS</a>]

00:13:43   one guys one guy in our neighborhood not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/823">TS</a>]

00:13:46   the not the chicken eating rice throwing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/826">TS</a>]

00:13:48   guy but there's one guy in our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/828">TS</a>]

00:13:49   neighborhood who like I all I had maybe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/829">TS</a>]

00:13:52   three years ago I almost came to blows [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/832">TS</a>]

00:13:53   with um I think he's deeply [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/833">TS</a>]

00:13:56   schizophrenic he sleeps in doorways and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/836">TS</a>]

00:14:00   I and he would just randomly yell things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/840">TS</a>]

00:14:03   at people and in one particular occasion [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/843">TS</a>]

00:14:05   I have a pretty thick skin for city [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/845">TS</a>]

00:14:08   stuff but he got close enough and loud [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/848">TS</a>]

00:14:10   enough when i was with my kid one time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/850">TS</a>]

00:14:11   that I kind of stepped him a little bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/851">TS</a>]

00:14:13   which as you can imagine this unusual [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/853">TS</a>]

00:14:15   for me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/855">TS</a>]

00:14:15   yeah I felt like it was a situation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/855">TS</a>]

00:14:16   where I had to stick out my chest a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/856">TS</a>]

00:14:18   little bit and get past the fog with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/858">TS</a>]

00:14:20   this guy because it felt like it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/860">TS</a>]

00:14:21   kind of like an imminent thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/861">TS</a>]

00:14:23   yeah and after that happened I got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/863">TS</a>]

00:14:26   really i would avoid him i would I did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/866">TS</a>]

00:14:30   not like the guy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/870">TS</a>]

00:14:31   yeah because he had you know I felt [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/871">TS</a>]

00:14:33   menaced by the guy you know of course [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/873">TS</a>]

00:14:35   there's a small part of me that felt bad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/875">TS</a>]

00:14:37   for him if anything happened like with a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/877">TS</a>]

00:14:39   year or so later something happened [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/879">TS</a>]

00:14:41   maybe he got picked up and put somewhere [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/881">TS</a>]

00:14:44   for a while but he got what I'm guessing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/884">TS</a>]

00:14:46   is medicated right and got healthy and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/886">TS</a>]

00:14:50   he was he would still be sitting in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/890">TS</a>]

00:14:51   front of the walgreens with his hand out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/891">TS</a>]

00:14:53   and I mean this guy Demi that we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/893">TS</a>]

00:14:55   talking like like just like you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/895">TS</a>]

00:14:58   same clothes for four months covered in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/898">TS</a>]

00:15:00   front of stuff and just filthy and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/900">TS</a>]

00:15:04   the thing was though and suddenly I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/904">TS</a>]

00:15:07   don't say his name but but eventually he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/907">TS</a>]

00:15:09   started saying like hey any chance you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/909">TS</a>]

00:15:10   could help me out today and I was like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/910">TS</a>]

00:15:12   whoa hello [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/912">TS</a>]

00:15:13   he's and I was like oh sorry man not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/913">TS</a>]

00:15:15   today which is of course what you say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/915">TS</a>]

00:15:17   but I real and i would hear him having [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/917">TS</a>]

00:15:19   conversations with people and he sounded [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/919">TS</a>]

00:15:21   like a little bit of a crank but he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/921">TS</a>]

00:15:23   wasn't dangerous anymore and yeah I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/923">TS</a>]

00:15:26   don't know I felt like shit about it I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/926">TS</a>]

00:15:28   felt terrible about it because i can't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/928">TS</a>]

00:15:30   really do that much to help this guy but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/930">TS</a>]

00:15:32   he is my official adoptive look homeless [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/932">TS</a>]

00:15:34   guy wherever I live this is my this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/934">TS</a>]

00:15:36   my policy on giving money that homeless [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/936">TS</a>]

00:15:38   people i pick exactly one person every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/938">TS</a>]

00:15:40   time I see them I give them five dollars [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/940">TS</a>]

00:15:41   and you show you chose this going to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/941">TS</a>]

00:15:43   your have adopted for for like maybe a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/943">TS</a>]

00:15:46   year and a half now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/946">TS</a>]

00:15:47   mhm and if I got a little cash or I feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/947">TS</a>]

00:15:49   like you know something to say I'm done [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/949">TS</a>]

00:15:51   in awhile just say hey Larry unit and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/951">TS</a>]

00:15:56   take it easy man [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/956">TS</a>]

00:15:56   and you know but like I I the whole in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/956">TS</a>]

00:15:59   every part of that makes me feel like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/959">TS</a>]

00:16:01   shit i feel like shit that I got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/961">TS</a>]

00:16:02   emotional with him I feel terrible that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/962">TS</a>]

00:16:04   he is a schizophrenic man living on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/964">TS</a>]

00:16:05   streets and you know where I live [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/965">TS</a>]

00:16:07   wearing them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/967">TS</a>]

00:16:07   we're really in them in the outside [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/967">TS</a>]

00:16:11   lands as they say it's nothing like what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/971">TS</a>]

00:16:12   you get if you live in the castro or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/972">TS</a>]

00:16:14   something but I don't know the whole [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/974">TS</a>]

00:16:16   thing makes me feel terrible and of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/976">TS</a>]

00:16:17   course then it just makes me more filled [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/977">TS</a>]

00:16:19   with self-doubt in the same way that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/979">TS</a>]

00:16:21   would be reluctant to call out Jerry you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/981">TS</a>]

00:16:23   know what I mean it's like there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/983">TS</a>]

00:16:25   part of me that's like me and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/985">TS</a>]

00:16:26   everybody's fucked up and there hasn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/986">TS</a>]

00:16:28   been a fire so I don't wanna be a dick [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/988">TS</a>]

00:16:30   yeah right and and this is the you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/990">TS</a>]

00:16:34   the the famous old adage and I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/994">TS</a>]

00:16:37   know whether it was Churchill or Mark [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/997">TS</a>]

00:16:38   Twain or dingus khan or Descartes who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/998">TS</a>]

00:16:42   said hard heart of the conservative and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1002">TS</a>]

00:16:45   liberal yeah right yeah right here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1005">TS</a>]

00:16:48   tonight is not a liberal by the time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1008">TS</a>]

00:16:49   he's a young man [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1009">TS</a>]

00:16:50   yeah hard-hearted anyone is not a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1010">TS</a>]

00:16:52   conservative by the time their forties [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1012">TS</a>]

00:16:54   soft-headed yeah was that Benjamin [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1014">TS</a>]

00:16:56   Disraeli who was that I've heard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1016">TS</a>]

00:16:57   attributed to Churchill yeah it's really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1017">TS</a>]

00:16:59   more talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1019">TS</a>]

00:17:00   it's I think it's probably it's probably [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1020">TS</a>]

00:17:02   Mark Twain talking the Churchill for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1022">TS</a>]

00:17:04   Remy um but it's one of those it's one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1024">TS</a>]

00:17:06   of those problems of like when you're a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1026">TS</a>]

00:17:08   young person it is it's a your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1028">TS</a>]

00:17:12   sympathies abound and you and you want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1032">TS</a>]

00:17:17   to live in a world where none of those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1037">TS</a>]

00:17:19   things you know it's it's not possible [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1039">TS</a>]

00:17:21   for people to fall through the cracks [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1041">TS</a>]

00:17:23   like that you feel it very invested in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1043">TS</a>]

00:17:26   the social compact why what you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1046">TS</a>]

00:17:30   they're there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1050">TS</a>]

00:17:30   why is this man left to what you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1050">TS</a>]

00:17:34   why can't he be helped and then as you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1054">TS</a>]

00:17:37   get older and older like get the hell [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1057">TS</a>]

00:17:39   off my lawn [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1059">TS</a>]

00:17:40   Rand and you start to feel even mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1060">TS</a>]

00:17:43   certainly I have started to feel as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1063">TS</a>]

00:17:46   someone who has a young person actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1066">TS</a>]

00:17:48   slept on park benches quite a bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1068">TS</a>]

00:17:50   increasingly as time goes on I feel like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1070">TS</a>]

00:17:53   some of these problems are intractable [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1073">TS</a>]

00:17:54   mental health problems social the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1074">TS</a>]

00:17:58   social compact is not airtight and a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1078">TS</a>]

00:18:04   of these problems you know do not have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1084">TS</a>]

00:18:07   simple solutions i mean my mom spent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1087">TS</a>]

00:18:09   years walking around town adopting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1089">TS</a>]

00:18:12   homeless people to the to the point that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1092">TS</a>]

00:18:14   she would bring them home with her and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1094">TS</a>]

00:18:16   reestablish contact with their families [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1096">TS</a>]

00:18:19   and and you know go through these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1099">TS</a>]

00:18:22   elaborate processes get them on their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1102">TS</a>]

00:18:25   medication find them work all these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1105">TS</a>]

00:18:27   things and then six months and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1107">TS</a>]

00:18:30   transformation was incredible and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1110">TS</a>]

00:18:32   have these you have these moments with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1112">TS</a>]

00:18:34   her we're just like you are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1114">TS</a>]

00:18:35   irri absolute angel and look what's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1115">TS</a>]

00:18:38   happened that this guy used to be a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1118">TS</a>]

00:18:41   sitting in front of the supermarket like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1121">TS</a>]

00:18:43   with drool down his face and now he's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1123">TS</a>]

00:18:45   like wearing a tie he's going to work [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1125">TS</a>]

00:18:48   he's lucid and ended up and and turns [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1128">TS</a>]

00:18:50   out an amazing guy and then nine months [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1130">TS</a>]

00:18:53   later he decided on his own volition to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1133">TS</a>]

00:18:58   stop taking his medication and and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1138">TS</a>]

00:19:02   he lose his job and then a few months [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1142">TS</a>]

00:19:04   later he's living under the freeway [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1144">TS</a>]

00:19:06   again and you get that other sense of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1146">TS</a>]

00:19:09   frustration of like wow that was a that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1149">TS</a>]

00:19:11   was a year it was not just a year's work [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1151">TS</a>]

00:19:14   sort of up to end up right back where we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1154">TS</a>]

00:19:17   started but also the emotional journey [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1157">TS</a>]

00:19:20   of like yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1160">TS</a>]

00:19:22   wow I don't anybody know my mom would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1162">TS</a>]

00:19:24   come out of those experiences feeling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1164">TS</a>]

00:19:25   like I don't anymore feel like I can i I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1165">TS</a>]

00:19:29   don't know how to help [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1169">TS</a>]

00:19:30   it's not that I don't feel like I can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1170">TS</a>]

00:19:32   help but like giving the guy five [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1172">TS</a>]

00:19:34   dollars for a bottle of wine is one form [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1174">TS</a>]

00:19:36   of it trying to get him in touch with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1176">TS</a>]

00:19:38   his family back in Ohio is another form [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1178">TS</a>]

00:19:40   of it and and ultimately the thing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1180">TS</a>]

00:19:43   most people do which is sorry man [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1183">TS</a>]

00:19:45   or worse is another form of it and and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1185">TS</a>]

00:19:50   don't know the solution isn't easy and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1190">TS</a>]

00:19:53   in particular with my neighbors you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1193">TS</a>]

00:19:56   my neighborhood is what we would have in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1196">TS</a>]

00:20:00   the past referred to as a respectable [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1200">TS</a>]

00:20:02   lower mid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1202">TS</a>]

00:20:03   class neighborhood everybody there is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1203">TS</a>]

00:20:06   itself there's a working-class diverse [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1206">TS</a>]

00:20:08   working-class neighborhood the first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1208">TS</a>]

00:20:09   working-class neighborhood where where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1209">TS</a>]

00:20:11   people are you know they don't have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1211">TS</a>]

00:20:13   disposable income to really care for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1213">TS</a>]

00:20:16   their yards or houses in a in a in a way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1216">TS</a>]

00:20:20   that he would drive through and say like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1220">TS</a>]

00:20:23   wow these this neighborhoods got curb [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1223">TS</a>]

00:20:25   appeal but people are minding their own [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1225">TS</a>]

00:20:28   business and they're making their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1228">TS</a>]

00:20:29   payments and they are you know they are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1229">TS</a>]

00:20:31   solid and fair number of people who own [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1231">TS</a>]

00:20:34   their house [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1234">TS</a>]

00:20:35   I think everybody in the neighborhood [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1235">TS</a>]

00:20:37   does with the you know with the with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1237">TS</a>]

00:20:40   exception of those houses where there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1240">TS</a>]

00:20:42   are a lot of people living sexy so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1242">TS</a>]

00:20:44   unusual today [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1244">TS</a>]

00:20:45   well and that's one of the differences [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1245">TS</a>]

00:20:47   of a of of Seattle and Portland compared [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1247">TS</a>]

00:20:51   to a lot of American cities which is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1251">TS</a>]

00:20:54   that there aren't really there are there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1254">TS</a>]

00:20:57   aren't really ghettos here and there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1257">TS</a>]

00:20:59   single-family homes and there are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1259">TS</a>]

00:21:01   neighborhoods that are rich in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1261">TS</a>]

00:21:02   neighborhoods that are poor and there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1262">TS</a>]

00:21:03   are some housing projects but even those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1263">TS</a>]

00:21:06   housing projects are built to look and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1266">TS</a>]

00:21:09   emulate a single-family home [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1269">TS</a>]

00:21:12   neighborhoods winding streets and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1272">TS</a>]

00:21:14   basketball hoops at that at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1274">TS</a>]

00:21:16   cul-de-sac and San Francisco the only [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1276">TS</a>]

00:21:18   way you can tell sometimes is very large [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1278">TS</a>]

00:21:20   signs and very bright lights [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1280">TS</a>]

00:21:22   that's right the the arc lights used to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1282">TS</a>]

00:21:25   be the way you could tell now in seattle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1285">TS</a>]

00:21:27   has done away with that like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1287">TS</a>]

00:21:29   concentration camp lighting and even the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1289">TS</a>]

00:21:33   even the poorest neighborhoods in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1293">TS</a>]

00:21:34   city kind of just have have have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1294">TS</a>]

00:21:36   neighborhood five but but you know the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1296">TS</a>]

00:21:39   conflict between me and Gary for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1299">TS</a>]

00:21:41   instance or you know or my interest in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1301">TS</a>]

00:21:44   the house across the street is also tied [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1304">TS</a>]

00:21:47   up in a lot of class issues where I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1307">TS</a>]

00:21:50   totally super concerned about being the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1310">TS</a>]

00:21:54   you know about being someone who's moved [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1314">TS</a>]

00:21:56   into the neighborhood of things I've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1316">TS</a>]

00:21:57   lived in that house longer than they've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1317">TS</a>]

00:22:00   lived in that house right i mean it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1320">TS</a>]

00:22:01   not like I moved into their neighborhood [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1321">TS</a>]

00:22:04   but but the question of like a ok [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1324">TS</a>]

00:22:08   like here there's gotta be something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1328">TS</a>]

00:22:12   there's got to be some level of decorum [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1332">TS</a>]

00:22:13   here that doesn't include for instance [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1333">TS</a>]

00:22:17   that party where people were just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1337">TS</a>]

00:22:19   ransacking the house but at the same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1339">TS</a>]

00:22:23   time it's like I don't know maybe I've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1343">TS</a>]

00:22:25   been to a lot of parties where would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1345">TS</a>]

00:22:26   have looked to an outsider like like we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1346">TS</a>]

00:22:29   were just stripping the house and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1349">TS</a>]

00:22:32   wasn't that at all and you know and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1352">TS</a>]

00:22:36   I I no longer have the another thing you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1356">TS</a>]

00:22:39   another mistake you can make in in youth [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1359">TS</a>]

00:22:42   is thinking that because you slept on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1362">TS</a>]

00:22:44   some park benches for for a few nights [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1364">TS</a>]

00:22:46   that you have real insight into what it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1366">TS</a>]

00:22:50   is to be poor and um and I no longer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1370">TS</a>]

00:22:54   make that mistake of of assuming that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1374">TS</a>]

00:22:57   like I map you know that with it i'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1377">TS</a>]

00:22:59   inside their heads and that we all share [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1379">TS</a>]

00:23:01   like a common life experience right but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1381">TS</a>]

00:23:06   I'm you know I mean what I'm a homeowner [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1386">TS</a>]

00:23:08   and and and i also feel a little bit of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1388">TS</a>]

00:23:11   that hit that creeping republicanism of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1391">TS</a>]

00:23:15   like I'm a homeowner I mean just to say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1395">TS</a>]

00:23:17   those words in respect to what your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1397">TS</a>]

00:23:20   neighbors are doing across the street [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1400">TS</a>]

00:23:21   bike as a homeowner I feel like we need [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1401">TS</a>]

00:23:25   to we need to start up having like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1405">TS</a>]

00:23:29   homeowner meanings where we we go around [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1409">TS</a>]

00:23:32   go around the room and say like okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1412">TS</a>]

00:23:34   who's got a guy living in a van in his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1414">TS</a>]

00:23:36   front yard anybody right how many people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1416">TS</a>]

00:23:39   let's see a show of hands but you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1419">TS</a>]

00:23:41   there is that the phrase that went [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1421">TS</a>]

00:23:42   around a lot and then one of the many [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1422">TS</a>]

00:23:44   many malcolm gladwell isms that has been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1424">TS</a>]

00:23:47   kind of or partly or mostly disproven [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1427">TS</a>]

00:23:50   broken windows syndrome [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1430">TS</a>]

00:23:51   yeah you know well i mean the thing is i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1431">TS</a>]

00:23:53   understand that the part that was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1433">TS</a>]

00:23:54   disproven about broken windows syndrome [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1434">TS</a>]

00:23:56   was not the part that if there's a few [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1436">TS</a>]

00:24:00   broken windows you get more broken [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1440">TS</a>]

00:24:02   windows the part that seems a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1442">TS</a>]

00:24:03   disproven is that fixing those windows [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1443">TS</a>]

00:24:06   does make a substantial difference right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1446">TS</a>]

00:24:10   but I i mean i'll just say this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1450">TS</a>]

00:24:12   totally anecdotal but i think the first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1452">TS</a>]

00:24:14   part is still very true [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1454">TS</a>]

00:24:15   yeah just like what you put up with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1455">TS</a>]

00:24:16   becomes ok [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1456">TS</a>]

00:24:17   and then once that's ok then more stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1457">TS</a>]

00:24:21   that's not so great because ok as well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1461">TS</a>]

00:24:22   yes it is new and look no further than [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1462">TS</a>]

00:24:24   the place where you walk in and put your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1464">TS</a>]

00:24:26   mail down you come in you put your mail [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1466">TS</a>]

00:24:27   down that used to be a working surface [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1467">TS</a>]

00:24:29   and now it's covered with male like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1469">TS</a>]

00:24:31   takes a week and i think it's i think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1471">TS</a>]

00:24:33   it's true i mean like you know do you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1473">TS</a>]

00:24:35   want to be in the neighborhood where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1475">TS</a>]

00:24:36   it's ok for somebody just have a van in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1476">TS</a>]

00:24:38   the yard and somebody's a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1478">TS</a>]

00:24:39   unstable living in it for a year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1479">TS</a>]

00:24:41   yeah yeah my dad called that that table [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1481">TS</a>]

00:24:44   the magic table because if you put [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1484">TS</a>]

00:24:45   something down on the top of it within a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1485">TS</a>]

00:24:49   couple of weeks it would be at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1489">TS</a>]

00:24:51   bottom of the pile and that seemed to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1491">TS</a>]

00:24:52   magic to him and then his solution was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1492">TS</a>]

00:24:56   at a certain point when it because when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1496">TS</a>]

00:24:57   it was teetering the pile was teetering [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1497">TS</a>]

00:24:59   he would sweep it all into a cardboard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1499">TS</a>]

00:25:01   box put the cardboard box at the bottom [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1501">TS</a>]

00:25:03   of a closet and then wait and if that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1503">TS</a>]

00:25:07   the way you got it yeah then wait 30 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1507">TS</a>]

00:25:09   years and died haha that's hot i still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1509">TS</a>]

00:25:12   do that idea that with our microwave we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1512">TS</a>]

00:25:14   open the door the microwave and a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1514">TS</a>]

00:25:16   leather man and a bill fall off and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1516">TS</a>]

00:25:18   like that's it and I guess I sweep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1518">TS</a>]

00:25:19   everything into a box and put it in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1519">TS</a>]

00:25:21   closet [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1521">TS</a>]

00:25:22   this is my legacy that the stuff with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1522">TS</a>]

00:25:24   internet this is not good for our Happy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1524">TS</a>]

00:25:27   New Year episode but you know the stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1527">TS</a>]

00:25:29   about dealing with folks who have like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1529">TS</a>]

00:25:30   serious you know mental and chemical [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1530">TS</a>]

00:25:33   stuff you know you hear these stories [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1533">TS</a>]

00:25:34   about we need to talk about the family [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1534">TS</a>]

00:25:36   and getting in touch with the family and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1536">TS</a>]

00:25:38   there are a lot of families who quietly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1538">TS</a>]

00:25:40   have somebody in their family who is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1540">TS</a>]

00:25:42   kind of in and out of the system on and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1542">TS</a>]

00:25:45   off of the streets for decades [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1545">TS</a>]

00:25:47   I mean you don't you don't have to poke [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1547">TS</a>]

00:25:49   around very far to find somebody who has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1549">TS</a>]

00:25:51   a brother or maybe has a mother for that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1551">TS</a>]

00:25:53   matter who is just kind of there are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1553">TS</a>]

00:25:57   definitely part of the family tree but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1557">TS</a>]

00:25:59   there's no amount of quote-unquote [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1559">TS</a>]

00:26:03   helping them that anybody can can do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1563">TS</a>]

00:26:07   that will actually fix the problem and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1567">TS</a>]

00:26:09   they're just in and out of the system [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1569">TS</a>]

00:26:10   all the time and those people are happy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1570">TS</a>]

00:26:12   people but they there's a certain kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1572">TS</a>]

00:26:14   of resolution [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1574">TS</a>]

00:26:15   it's like when the wire I know when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1575">TS</a>]

00:26:17   bubbles goes to his sister's house is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1577">TS</a>]

00:26:18   like I cleaned up like here's a key and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1578">TS</a>]

00:26:20   go in the basement I don't ever want to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1580">TS</a>]

00:26:21   see you like that's right you fuck me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1581">TS</a>]

00:26:24   enough times exactly i'm never going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1584">TS</a>]

00:26:26   believe you get eventually eventually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1586">TS</a>]

00:26:27   the time comes off and your back under [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1587">TS</a>]

00:26:29   the bridge it's like it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1589">TS</a>]

00:26:31   just it's so much more complicated than [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1591">TS</a>]

00:26:32   anybody if you're not around it all the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1592">TS</a>]

00:26:35   time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1595">TS</a>]

00:26:36   IES certainly i'm not an expert on it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1596">TS</a>]

00:26:39   but I do know that something like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1599">TS</a>]

00:26:41   homelessness is way more it is at some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1601">TS</a>]

00:26:44   level very much an economic issue but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1604">TS</a>]

00:26:46   there's a lot more to it than that it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1606">TS</a>]

00:26:48   might be economics but you know you've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1608">TS</a>]

00:26:50   been to the haight there's no there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1610">TS</a>]

00:26:52   lot of people living on the street in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1612">TS</a>]

00:26:54   the hate or like the Panhandle along [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1614">TS</a>]

00:26:56   pretty sure we'll probably be in college [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1616">TS</a>]

00:26:58   in the next five years they've been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1618">TS</a>]

00:27:00   chosen to be like a skate rat they've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1620">TS</a>]

00:27:04   joined the proletariat and they who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1624">TS</a>]

00:27:05   knows they might come out of it a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1625">TS</a>]

00:27:07   people if it is purely economical they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1627">TS</a>]

00:27:09   do not want to go to a shelter that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1629">TS</a>]

00:27:10   where you get stabbed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1630">TS</a>]

00:27:12   yeah it's you know anyway i mean the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1632">TS</a>]

00:27:15   confusing thing about it is that a on a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1635">TS</a>]

00:27:17   one-on-one level we've all had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1637">TS</a>]

00:27:19   experiences where you where you say like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1639">TS</a>]

00:27:21   oh this and it isn't just mental illness [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1641">TS</a>]

00:27:24   homelessness drug abuse but situations [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1644">TS</a>]

00:27:27   where you go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1647">TS</a>]

00:27:28   this is an interactive well intractable [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1648">TS</a>]

00:27:30   track to political intractable Thank You [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1650">TS</a>]

00:27:35   intractable problem i've tried you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1655">TS</a>]

00:27:39   like my kid is a drug addict I've tried [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1659">TS</a>]

00:27:41   this have tried that I've tried I've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1661">TS</a>]

00:27:43   tried tough love I've tried love love [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1663">TS</a>]

00:27:45   I've tried help i've tried external [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1665">TS</a>]

00:27:48   training a certain tried ignoring it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1668">TS</a>]

00:27:50   yeah I've tried all the fins and each of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1670">TS</a>]

00:27:54   us has had experiences and all families [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1674">TS</a>]

00:27:57   and all individual people have had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1677">TS</a>]

00:27:58   experiences and and even just with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1678">TS</a>]

00:28:00   people where like I've been trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1680">TS</a>]

00:28:02   explain to them for five years that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1682">TS</a>]

00:28:06   living paycheck to paycheck is is like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1686">TS</a>]

00:28:11   risky proposition and that they should [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1691">TS</a>]

00:28:13   put 50 bucks in the bank every time they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1693">TS</a>]

00:28:16   get a paycheck and if they did that for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1696">TS</a>]

00:28:18   a year then they have a little bit of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1698">TS</a>]

00:28:19   money and they wouldn't feel so insecure [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1699">TS</a>]

00:28:20   and he try and explain that to somebody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1700">TS</a>]

00:28:23   for 3 years 5 years and you realize like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1703">TS</a>]

00:28:25   oh nothing i'm doing here can help this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1705">TS</a>]

00:28:29   person does not want to know this they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1709">TS</a>]

00:28:32   don't want to hear it and they keep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1712">TS</a>]

00:28:34   spending every paycheck they get and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1714">TS</a>]

00:28:36   then they keep having financial crises [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1716">TS</a>]

00:28:38   and they keep acting like it's a big [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1718">TS</a>]

00:28:41   mystery and that and that there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1721">TS</a>]

00:28:43   something unfair about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1723">TS</a>]

00:28:44   you know that like why does everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1724">TS</a>]

00:28:46   else get to like go on vacation it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1726">TS</a>]

00:28:49   like well as some people save their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1729">TS</a>]

00:28:51   money and you don't and but the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1731">TS</a>]

00:28:53   problem is we understand those on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1733">TS</a>]

00:28:54   personal on a personal level but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1734">TS</a>]

00:28:57   whenever we start talking as a society [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1737">TS</a>]

00:29:00   in a culture about those problems taken [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1740">TS</a>]

00:29:04   to a larger scale than all of a sudden [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1744">TS</a>]

00:29:05   it becomes much harder to say some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1745">TS</a>]

00:29:08   problems are unsolvable because we have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1748">TS</a>]

00:29:12   such faith in ourselves and in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1752">TS</a>]

00:29:15   technology and in our and in our thought [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1755">TS</a>]

00:29:18   technologies we have such faith [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1758">TS</a>]

00:29:20   particularly in the nineteenth and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1760">TS</a>]

00:29:22   twentieth centuries that we can solve [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1762">TS</a>]

00:29:25   all problems and it's just a matter of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1765">TS</a>]

00:29:28   applying the Right theory and the right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1768">TS</a>]

00:29:30   engine and and things become politicized [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1770">TS</a>]

00:29:33   so then it its it's not just that that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1773">TS</a>]

00:29:38   these people that there's a problem with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1778">TS</a>]

00:29:40   drug abuse but it's a problem of with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1780">TS</a>]

00:29:42   drug abuse and the other political party [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1782">TS</a>]

00:29:45   has the wrong attitude about it and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1785">TS</a>]

00:29:48   it's a battle and the implication is if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1788">TS</a>]

00:29:52   the other if the other side of the coin [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1792">TS</a>]

00:29:54   here wasn't resisting the reforms that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1794">TS</a>]

00:29:58   we have in mind right we would have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1798">TS</a>]

00:29:59   solved this problem a long time ago and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1799">TS</a>]

00:30:02   it's like well every time some a new [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1802">TS</a>]

00:30:03   Congress gets elected we apply all the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1803">TS</a>]

00:30:06   the new reforms of that the last party [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1806">TS</a>]

00:30:08   was standing in the in the way of and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1808">TS</a>]

00:30:12   and the problem never get solved [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1812">TS</a>]

00:30:14   it's very difficult as a society to say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1814">TS</a>]

00:30:18   well all we can do is manage this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1818">TS</a>]

00:30:22   problem and we're never not and not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1822">TS</a>]

00:30:25   everyone is always and not everyone can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1825">TS</a>]

00:30:27   be healthy and not everyone can be not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1827">TS</a>]

00:30:30   every problem can get solved and so what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1830">TS</a>]

00:30:32   what's the best management of it and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1832">TS</a>]

00:30:34   Seattle just started doing a thing a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1834">TS</a>]

00:30:37   couple of years ago where they built a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1837">TS</a>]

00:30:38   they built the sort of a hotel for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1838">TS</a>]

00:30:42   chronic alcoholics where they gave him [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1842">TS</a>]

00:30:46   an allotment of booze every day I've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1846">TS</a>]

00:30:48   heard about this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1848">TS</a>]

00:30:49   I've heard about these different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1849">TS</a>]

00:30:50   programs of like it actually costs less [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1850">TS</a>]

00:30:53   money in the long run to set somebody up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1853">TS</a>]

00:30:56   somewhere to put them into this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1856">TS</a>]

00:30:57   system yeah right i mean they're they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1857">TS</a>]

00:30:59   just like these are the people bet that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1859">TS</a>]

00:31:02   the three times a month are getting lift [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1862">TS</a>]

00:31:05   at you know transported to the emergency [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1865">TS</a>]

00:31:08   room in an ambulance and every one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1868">TS</a>]

00:31:11   those times across eight thousand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1871">TS</a>]

00:31:13   dollars and they spend the night in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1873">TS</a>]

00:31:14   hospital and that cost eight thousand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1874">TS</a>]

00:31:16   dollars and we could put him in a hotel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1876">TS</a>]

00:31:20   and give them a a leader of alcohol a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1880">TS</a>]

00:31:23   day and that would just cost us two [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1883">TS</a>]

00:31:26   thousand dollars a month and they would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1886">TS</a>]

00:31:29   be happy and that company cold and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1889">TS</a>]

00:31:32   started Hamsterdam but that's exactly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1892">TS</a>]

00:31:34   that's right and there you know and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1894">TS</a>]

00:31:36   problem is like the activists classes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1896">TS</a>]

00:31:39   don't know what to do with that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1899">TS</a>]

00:31:40   information because on the one hand it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1900">TS</a>]

00:31:42   much more humane but on the other hand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1902">TS</a>]

00:31:44   it seems again like its management [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1904">TS</a>]

00:31:47   no one is suggesting that these people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1907">TS</a>]

00:31:49   are going to get better right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1909">TS</a>]

00:31:51   it's just like here's your leader of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1911">TS</a>]

00:31:53   booze and the key to your room and try [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1913">TS</a>]

00:31:56   not to like try not to bleed on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1916">TS</a>]

00:31:58   toilet seat in the morning and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1918">TS</a>]

00:32:01   there's nothing pretty about it but but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1921">TS</a>]

00:32:04   human beings are our I don't know this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1924">TS</a>]

00:32:08   is that this is one of the major themes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1928">TS</a>]

00:32:09   above my life is like yeah how far from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1929">TS</a>]

00:32:13   animals are we really yeah i mean i-i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1933">TS</a>]

00:32:19   just have a similar maybe slightly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1939">TS</a>]

00:32:21   different my if there's anything that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1941">TS</a>]

00:32:23   feel like has been both super useful and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1943">TS</a>]

00:32:27   extremely vexing in my journey to try to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1947">TS</a>]

00:32:29   figure out whatever you wanna call it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1949">TS</a>]

00:32:31   productivity creativity just problem [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1951">TS</a>]

00:32:33   solving and there's a lot of things I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1953">TS</a>]

00:32:35   think we mentioned i mention this to a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1955">TS</a>]

00:32:37   few weeks going in an episode but you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1957">TS</a>]

00:32:40   know it's I feel like any solution [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1960">TS</a>]

00:32:43   that's uncomplicated is probably not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1963">TS</a>]

00:32:45   true and probably not real it's like if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1965">TS</a>]

00:32:47   you haven't found something complicated [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1967">TS</a>]

00:32:48   yet you are near the truth if you if it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1968">TS</a>]

00:32:51   seems if it seems simple you're not done [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1971">TS</a>]

00:32:53   looking you have already on happily ever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1973">TS</a>]

00:32:55   after and so you're or you are or you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1975">TS</a>]

00:32:58   are meticulously avoiding looking at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1978">TS</a>]

00:33:00   things you don't want to look at a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1980">TS</a>]

00:33:02   hundred percent and that's why I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1982">TS</a>]

00:33:04   now this might be a little bit too neat [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1984">TS</a>]

00:33:06   i might be guilty of my own thing here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1986">TS</a>]

00:33:08   but you know it'sit's you have to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1988">TS</a>]

00:33:10   understand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1990">TS</a>]

00:33:11   and that everything in life is an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1991">TS</a>]

00:33:12   engineering problem there's probably at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1992">TS</a>]

00:33:14   least three different vectors to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1994">TS</a>]

00:33:15   everything and anytime you try to solve [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1995">TS</a>]

00:33:18   one problem one way the one of the first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/1998">TS</a>]

00:33:21   questions to ask yourself especially if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2001">TS</a>]

00:33:23   you're a lawmaker oars or you know a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2003">TS</a>]

00:33:25   public person is how much am i doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2005">TS</a>]

00:33:28   about this just change the way that it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2008">TS</a>]

00:33:30   looks [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2010">TS</a>]

00:33:31   yeah because if you want to just change [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2011">TS</a>]

00:33:32   the way something looks there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2012">TS</a>]

00:33:34   thousand different angles you can take [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2014">TS</a>]

00:33:35   you can cook the books you can put [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2015">TS</a>]

00:33:37   people in and moving over to Hamsterdam [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2017">TS</a>]

00:33:39   likes all kinds of ways that you can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2019">TS</a>]

00:33:41   change the appearance of something it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2021">TS</a>]

00:33:42   just that once you try to actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2022">TS</a>]

00:33:44   change anything you realize you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2024">TS</a>]

00:33:45   actually changing or another way to put [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2025">TS</a>]

00:33:48   it rather than changing is your uh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2028">TS</a>]

00:33:49   pending you are chaotic sizing probably [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2029">TS</a>]

00:33:53   five or six different things unintended [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2033">TS</a>]

00:33:55   consequences and like these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2035">TS</a>]

00:33:56   what is it you really want to change so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2036">TS</a>]

00:33:58   the phrase i always use in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2038">TS</a>]

00:33:59   productivity stuff is ask yourself if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2039">TS</a>]

00:34:01   you're solving the right problem at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2041">TS</a>]

00:34:03   right level for the right reasons as if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2043">TS</a>]

00:34:05   you don't like those up all you're gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2045">TS</a>]

00:34:06   do is it's all optics it's all just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2046">TS</a>]

00:34:08   changing how it looks and so the thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2048">TS</a>]

00:34:10   is if you're mostly sad because you see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2050">TS</a>]

00:34:12   homeless people on the street your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2052">TS</a>]

00:34:14   solution one solution might be to give [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2054">TS</a>]

00:34:15   him five dollars for wine another [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2055">TS</a>]

00:34:17   solution might be to put them all into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2057">TS</a>]

00:34:18   some kind of a camp you know but like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2058">TS</a>]

00:34:21   are you really trying to solve and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2061">TS</a>]

00:34:23   can't ever solve the total problem of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2063">TS</a>]

00:34:26   class status and economics in America so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2066">TS</a>]

00:34:28   at what level will you try to solve that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2068">TS</a>]

00:34:30   yeah and then you have to if you scope [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2070">TS</a>]

00:34:32   that correctly you can have successes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2072">TS</a>]

00:34:34   but they won't be permanent successes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2074">TS</a>]

00:34:35   they won't be easy successes and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2075">TS</a>]

00:34:37   won't be complete successes and that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2077">TS</a>]

00:34:39   what everybody thinks they want they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2079">TS</a>]

00:34:40   think if we can't do this completely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2080">TS</a>]

00:34:42   perfectly it's not worth doing and so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2082">TS</a>]

00:34:45   anyway that's a little bit better and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2085">TS</a>]

00:34:46   that is computed that that that's what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2086">TS</a>]

00:34:48   that is absolutely another another angle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2088">TS</a>]

00:34:52   to it which is that no one wants no one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2092">TS</a>]

00:34:55   no one is satisfied with that with a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2095">TS</a>]

00:34:58   half victory right because because so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2098">TS</a>]

00:35:02   much of the so much of these questions [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2102">TS</a>]

00:35:04   is what energizes the whole political [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2104">TS</a>]

00:35:08   machine in America like if if if a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2108">TS</a>]

00:35:12   problem if we call a problem solved [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2112">TS</a>]

00:35:15   uh then the the fundraising engine dries [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2115">TS</a>]

00:35:19   up and the and the the outrage engine [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2119">TS</a>]

00:35:23   drives up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2123">TS</a>]

00:35:24   and so so they're the these these ideas [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2124">TS</a>]

00:35:29   these big ideas and people's lives [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2129">TS</a>]

00:35:31   really ultimately our are pitted against [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2131">TS</a>]

00:35:34   one another in order to keep this big [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2134">TS</a>]

00:35:38   machine of the of the chattering classes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2138">TS</a>]

00:35:42   and the legislative classes it employed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2142">TS</a>]

00:35:45   and it what amazes me about the Congress [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2145">TS</a>]

00:35:48   is that they find a way to every year up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2148">TS</a>]

00:35:54   make a bunch of new laws and hits like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2154">TS</a>]

00:35:57   there are a lot of laws already [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2157">TS</a>]

00:35:59   the question is so infrequently that we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2159">TS</a>]

00:36:02   need a new law and that standard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2162">TS</a>]

00:36:06   applying the standard of like it making [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2166">TS</a>]

00:36:10   a new law should be a last resort and so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2170">TS</a>]

00:36:15   there's a lot of work that the Congress [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2175">TS</a>]

00:36:17   can do the the big glamorous work that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2177">TS</a>]

00:36:20   they do is make a new law right and we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2180">TS</a>]

00:36:24   just keep making new laws and our the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2184">TS</a>]

00:36:27   old laws are like all these skin flakes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2187">TS</a>]

00:36:30   carpeting the bed where the Congress [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2190">TS</a>]

00:36:32   lays where they don't they don't work [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2192">TS</a>]

00:36:35   anymore we don't look at the fact that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2195">TS</a>]

00:36:36   it's that this this legacy of crafty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2196">TS</a>]

00:36:38   laws go whether remember there were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2198">TS</a>]

00:36:40   people 100 or 50 or 25 years ago had the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2200">TS</a>]

00:36:43   same right idea let's go make a law [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2203">TS</a>]

00:36:44   that's right exactly and and and we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2204">TS</a>]

00:36:47   don't as a we're not very reflective as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2207">TS</a>]

00:36:49   a people we don't look back at our at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2209">TS</a>]

00:36:51   our legacy at our recent history even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2211">TS</a>]

00:36:54   and say were these attempts like let me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2214">TS</a>]

00:36:58   use the power of metaphor for these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2218">TS</a>]

00:37:01   attempts that we made 25 years ago 50 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2221">TS</a>]

00:37:04   years ago were they successful and in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2224">TS</a>]

00:37:06   what ways were they successful but also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2226">TS</a>]

00:37:07   in what ways where they were they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2227">TS</a>]

00:37:10   failures utter failures and why would we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2230">TS</a>]

00:37:12   go down that road again a hundred times [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2232">TS</a>]

00:37:15   a thousand times and it's that we are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2235">TS</a>]

00:37:19   boy we are imperfect and and unlikable [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2239">TS</a>]

00:37:23   little fucking pig bugs [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2243">TS</a>]

00:37:27   god dammit season games i'm looking out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2247">TS</a>]

00:37:30   the window right now at the at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2250">TS</a>]

00:37:31   freeway on-ramp but I'm just like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2251">TS</a>]

00:37:32   goddamn you pigs and you know the other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2252">TS</a>]

00:37:36   part of this that man it's just it's so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2256">TS</a>]

00:37:38   beyond obvious but man that's the stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2258">TS</a>]

00:37:40   we always miss is like you know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2260">TS</a>]

00:37:42   vast percentage of the time do we think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2262">TS</a>]

00:37:44   laws need to be made because other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2264">TS</a>]

00:37:45   people need to be stopped from doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2265">TS</a>]

00:37:47   something there's nobody there are very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2267">TS</a>]

00:37:49   very few people out there who are saying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2269">TS</a>]

00:37:51   that they need a lot past about them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2271">TS</a>]

00:37:52   there are very few people who say you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2272">TS</a>]

00:37:54   know what I'm pretty irresponsible in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2274">TS</a>]

00:37:56   this one area so I should have some kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2276">TS</a>]

00:37:58   of threat of criminal or civil law [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2278">TS</a>]

00:38:01   introduced so that I'll become a better [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2281">TS</a>]

00:38:02   person I'd always gets me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2282">TS</a>]

00:38:05   yeah but we're always were always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2285">TS</a>]

00:38:08   looking for all these other people who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2288">TS</a>]

00:38:09   have caused our problems and then we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2289">TS</a>]

00:38:11   want to live past about them and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2291">TS</a>]

00:38:13   there's this entire inefficient arm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2293">TS</a>]

00:38:15   inefficient arms inefficient limbs of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2295">TS</a>]

00:38:17   government are expected to sweep out and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2297">TS</a>]

00:38:19   do that in a way that's going to be fair [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2299">TS</a>]

00:38:22   yeah fucking people oh my god there they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2302">TS</a>]

00:38:26   are they're all out there they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2306">TS</a>]

00:38:27   wandering around over there stopping at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2307">TS</a>]

00:38:30   stop lights when the light turns green [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2310">TS</a>]

00:38:33   and they go they take the whole width of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2313">TS</a>]

00:38:35   the walkway just so and you know in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2315">TS</a>]

00:38:40   pole at the at the level of being a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2320">TS</a>]

00:38:44   parent and watching watching a child [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2324">TS</a>]

00:38:48   kind of navigate the the very first sort [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2328">TS</a>]

00:38:51   of human first real human interaction [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2331">TS</a>]

00:38:54   when they're little babies right there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2334">TS</a>]

00:38:56   just sort of like how there they are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2336">TS</a>]

00:38:57   look at him go like throw some food in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2337">TS</a>]

00:38:59   their crate and put a blanket over it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2339">TS</a>]

00:39:01   and and then we'll see him in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2341">TS</a>]

00:39:04   morning but you know when when uh when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2344">TS</a>]

00:39:08   my daughter has she started now to have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2348">TS</a>]

00:39:10   interactions at school that I recognized [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2350">TS</a>]

00:39:12   as human interactions and ones that like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2352">TS</a>]

00:39:17   oh this is her first encounter with this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2357">TS</a>]

00:39:19   and assigned a certain kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2359">TS</a>]

00:39:22   interaction that she'll have thousands [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2362">TS</a>]

00:39:24   of times that are literally thousands of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2364">TS</a>]

00:39:26   times and this is essentially it's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2366">TS</a>]

00:39:27   first one and she looks mean she goes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2367">TS</a>]

00:39:29   what's going on here and I think I wish [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2369">TS</a>]

00:39:32   I could tell you because everybody i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2372">TS</a>]

00:39:35   know myself included once to kneel down [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2375">TS</a>]

00:39:38   and say listen here's what's going on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2378">TS</a>]

00:39:39   and here's how you deal with it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2379">TS</a>]

00:39:41   but the reality is i am still in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2381">TS</a>]

00:39:44   situation that you're in and I still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2384">TS</a>]

00:39:46   don't know how to deal with it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2386">TS</a>]

00:39:48   alright yeah and there's no there's no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2388">TS</a>]

00:39:50   easy way for me to say this and there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2390">TS</a>]

00:39:53   certainly no way for me to say this that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2393">TS</a>]

00:39:55   it will not be just a dumb cliché but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2395">TS</a>]

00:39:59   like there's just so much stuff in life [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2399">TS</a>]

00:40:01   that is simply not fair [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2401">TS</a>]

00:40:03   yeah probably every little kid has an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2403">TS</a>]

00:40:05   innate sense of justice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2405">TS</a>]

00:40:07   that's what that's what they call the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2407">TS</a>]

00:40:08   goat nature's president haha every child [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2408">TS</a>]

00:40:14   every child every child has an innate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2414">TS</a>]

00:40:17   sense that of fairness that mostly leans [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2417">TS</a>]

00:40:21   toward them so it's one of the most [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2421">TS</a>]

00:40:22   powerful instincts that they have is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2422">TS</a>]

00:40:25   itself a reservation instinct and it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2425">TS</a>]

00:40:27   fairness to them instinct [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2427">TS</a>]

00:40:29   there's there's there's not there's they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2429">TS</a>]

00:40:31   haven't evolved enough and very few of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2431">TS</a>]

00:40:33   us have evolved enough to go well let's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2433">TS</a>]

00:40:34   make sure everybody got something here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2434">TS</a>]

00:40:36   it was definitely a sense of like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2436">TS</a>]

00:40:37   person that they got a balloon they got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2437">TS</a>]

00:40:39   a balloon they got a balloon [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2439">TS</a>]

00:40:41   I better have a balloon coming yeah you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2441">TS</a>]

00:40:43   know what we got ice cream like I should [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2443">TS</a>]

00:40:45   get ice cream or just that the yeah i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2445">TS</a>]

00:40:47   mean one of the things that were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2447">TS</a>]

00:40:48   experiencing is like well other kids [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2448">TS</a>]

00:40:51   throw tantrums in front of their parents [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2451">TS</a>]

00:40:53   and say no and and push their hand in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2453">TS</a>]

00:40:56   their parents face and why shouldn't I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2456">TS</a>]

00:41:00   don't have cancer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2460">TS</a>]

00:41:02   a hundred percent and I've I've I've got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2462">TS</a>]

00:41:04   a drumbeat that is such fucking weak [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2464">TS</a>]

00:41:07   sauce but it's the only thing I can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2467">TS</a>]

00:41:09   always say which is you know like for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2469">TS</a>]

00:41:12   example we're still standing at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2472">TS</a>]

00:41:13   crosswalk and as happens people start [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2473">TS</a>]

00:41:16   walking before the signal has changed me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2476">TS</a>]

00:41:19   and she starts walking I say no we we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2479">TS</a>]

00:41:21   walk when it's safe for us to walk do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2481">TS</a>]

00:41:24   not rely on what other people do or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2484">TS</a>]

00:41:26   don't do to help you decide what's right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2486">TS</a>]

00:41:27   and safe so you know we're going to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2487">TS</a>]

00:41:30   this in our own way because that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2490">TS</a>]

00:41:31   that's who we are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2491">TS</a>]

00:41:32   there are people that we are is that we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2492">TS</a>]

00:41:34   do the right thing we don't do this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2494">TS</a>]

00:41:36   thing because there's a lot we don't do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2496">TS</a>]

00:41:37   this thing because we know that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2497">TS</a>]

00:41:39   certainly could be part of it but we do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2499">TS</a>]

00:41:40   this because this is who we are and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2500">TS</a>]

00:41:43   don't and I feel like such a such an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2503">TS</a>]

00:41:45   idiot like such a such a 00 limp-wristed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2505">TS</a>]

00:41:47   liberal when I say that but I i hope [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2507">TS</a>]

00:41:50   that that becomes true in the same way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2510">TS</a>]

00:41:52   that I hope it's true when I say it to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2512">TS</a>]

00:41:54   my face [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2514">TS</a>]

00:41:54   self to get my I say to myself for that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2514">TS</a>]

00:41:57   too [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2517">TS</a>]

00:41:57   we could cross you can't cross 50 times [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2517">TS</a>]

00:41:59   and we would go against the light and we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2519">TS</a>]

00:42:01   probably be fine but that's not who we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2521">TS</a>]

00:42:02   are going to be it's the core of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2522">TS</a>]

00:42:04   civilization it i mean that internal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2524">TS</a>]

00:42:07   governing is the basis of the idea that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2527">TS</a>]

00:42:10   we should we should all be philosopher [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2530">TS</a>]

00:42:12   Kings that we should live in no I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2532">TS</a>]

00:42:14   the whole premise plus writings fake it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2534">TS</a>]

00:42:17   till you make it with the whole premise [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2537">TS</a>]

00:42:19   of a civil society is that we each are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2539">TS</a>]

00:42:21   internally governed and so don't need I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2541">TS</a>]

00:42:25   don't need restrictive laws i mean both [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2545">TS</a>]

00:42:28   there are versions of that on both sides [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2548">TS</a>]

00:42:30   of the political spectrum which which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2550">TS</a>]

00:42:33   presumes the best about people and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2553">TS</a>]

00:42:37   used to be that there was a lot more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2557">TS</a>]

00:42:39   energy devoted to that idea in our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2559">TS</a>]

00:42:41   culture where we where we said to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2561">TS</a>]

00:42:45   ourselves and to one another like this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2565">TS</a>]

00:42:47   is not what we do it's not we're not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2567">TS</a>]

00:42:49   we're not not committing a crime because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2569">TS</a>]

00:42:51   we're afraid of getting caught or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2571">TS</a>]

00:42:53   because there's a video camera watching [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2573">TS</a>]

00:42:55   us we're not committing a crime because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2575">TS</a>]

00:42:57   we do we do not commit crimes right and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2577">TS</a>]

00:43:00   this is the problem with the the whole [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2580">TS</a>]

00:43:01   of the the whole torture thing the whole [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2581">TS</a>]

00:43:04   bush-cheney doctrine in American [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2584">TS</a>]

00:43:07   politics is that we squandered we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2587">TS</a>]

00:43:11   squandered that it on a global political [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2591">TS</a>]

00:43:15   level the title of our good deeds and a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2595">TS</a>]

00:43:21   measure of moral authority just was just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2601">TS</a>]

00:43:24   50 years that just went out the 60 just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2604">TS</a>]

00:43:26   mount the window just smoked it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2606">TS</a>]

00:43:28   everytime everytime we we built a well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2608">TS</a>]

00:43:30   or rebuild something we blew up like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2610">TS</a>]

00:43:33   that all went away when people saw how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2613">TS</a>]

00:43:34   foolish it we were yeah and and that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2614">TS</a>]

00:43:37   that's true on a micro level 2 and all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2617">TS</a>]

00:43:39   around us every day you know this is why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2619">TS</a>]

00:43:43   this is why we're always harping on this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2623">TS</a>]

00:43:45   stuff of like the little the little shit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2625">TS</a>]

00:43:47   like don't take your shoes off on a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2627">TS</a>]

00:43:48   airplane don't wear your fedora into a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2628">TS</a>]

00:43:53   restaurant don't stand there with your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2633">TS</a>]

00:43:56   earphones in and it you know and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2636">TS</a>]

00:44:00   piss on my shoes or whatever and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2640">TS</a>]

00:44:01   not because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2641">TS</a>]

00:44:03   there but it's not because it's illegal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2643">TS</a>]

00:44:06   right i mean all the people that are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2646">TS</a>]

00:44:08   like why shouldn't i wear my pajamas on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2648">TS</a>]

00:44:10   an airplane it's like I mean it's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2650">TS</a>]

00:44:13   illegal is true and like that and that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2653">TS</a>]

00:44:17   basically like they're starting point [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2657">TS</a>]

00:44:19   like it's not illegal it's a free [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2659">TS</a>]

00:44:21   country and it's like right but like if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2661">TS</a>]

00:44:23   you don't maintain standards and i would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2663">TS</a>]

00:44:25   suggest high standards personally then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2665">TS</a>]

00:44:29   you can key then you're living in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2669">TS</a>]

00:44:31   world where if it's not illegal it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2671">TS</a>]

00:44:32   going to get done and how would you like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2672">TS</a>]

00:44:34   it if your neighbors felt that way to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2674">TS</a>]

00:44:36   you know how would you like it if the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2676">TS</a>]

00:44:37   people that you're encountering were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2677">TS</a>]

00:44:39   also just making decisions based on what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2679">TS</a>]

00:44:41   was legal or not I mean it's your living [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2681">TS</a>]

00:44:44   in your living in chaos and we are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2684">TS</a>]

00:44:46   descending culturally we really are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2686">TS</a>]

00:44:49   there there is there is an a we have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2689">TS</a>]

00:44:52   lost a lot and we've gained a lot up in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2692">TS</a>]

00:44:56   the last lesson we're losing a lot of I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2696">TS</a>]

00:44:59   feel this personally as I have to go and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2699">TS</a>]

00:45:03   be around other people less as a matter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2703">TS</a>]

00:45:05   of course I noticed in myself as I have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2705">TS</a>]

00:45:07   to remember to try and do the right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2707">TS</a>]

00:45:08   thing but you know what level do you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2708">TS</a>]

00:45:11   want to do you want to attack it out but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2711">TS</a>]

00:45:13   I think I feel like as a culture just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2713">TS</a>]

00:45:15   observing people are either becoming [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2715">TS</a>]

00:45:18   less mindful about how to act and how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2718">TS</a>]

00:45:23   did how to be jostled by other people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2723">TS</a>]

00:45:24   and be okay how to like just deal with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2724">TS</a>]

00:45:27   even that whether it's like getting on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2727">TS</a>]

00:45:29   and off at the train knowing how to wait [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2729">TS</a>]

00:45:31   in line at the store like everybody's so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2731">TS</a>]

00:45:34   fucking mad all the time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2734">TS</a>]

00:45:36   yeah and I'm so this is the self [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2736">TS</a>]

00:45:38   contradictory because we are the authors [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2738">TS</a>]

00:45:40   of keep moving and get out of the way to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2740">TS</a>]

00:45:41   keep moving it out of the way is at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2741">TS</a>]

00:45:43   heart of it like that's the most basic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2743">TS</a>]

00:45:44   like what what greater kindness in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2744">TS</a>]

00:45:46   world could there be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2746">TS</a>]

00:45:48   that's absolutely right that then to get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2748">TS</a>]

00:45:50   keep moving and get out of the way we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2750">TS</a>]

00:45:52   really know 100 off don't make huff and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2752">TS</a>]

00:45:54   puff noises in line don't do that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2754">TS</a>]

00:45:56   slower traffic moves right not because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2756">TS</a>]

00:45:59   there's a sign but because not customer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2759">TS</a>]

00:46:01   mean not because we're mean but because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2761">TS</a>]

00:46:03   what that what that suggests what that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2763">TS</a>]

00:46:05   implies is that you are looking in your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2765">TS</a>]

00:46:07   mirrors conscious that there are other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2767">TS</a>]

00:46:09   people on the road [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2769">TS</a>]

00:46:10   and you are trying to get out of the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2770">TS</a>]

00:46:12   of somebody who's got a different who's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2772">TS</a>]

00:46:15   got a different tempo and that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2775">TS</a>]

00:46:16   courtesy right that's I mean this is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2776">TS</a>]

00:46:19   thing about tipping your hat right of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2779">TS</a>]

00:46:21   what when we talked about that several [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2781">TS</a>]

00:46:24   episodes ago i was reminded about the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2784">TS</a>]

00:46:28   power of tipping your hat that I had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2788">TS</a>]

00:46:30   kind of it in the in the the daily grind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2790">TS</a>]

00:46:34   of the city had had neglected to tip my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2794">TS</a>]

00:46:38   hat all the time right I had I had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2798">TS</a>]

00:46:41   resorted to tipping my hat just when I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2801">TS</a>]

00:46:43   was opening opening the door for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2803">TS</a>]

00:46:45   somebody in a hotel but for the most [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2805">TS</a>]

00:46:47   part walking around with my hat on my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2807">TS</a>]

00:46:49   head [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2809">TS</a>]

00:46:50   passing people in the street even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2810">TS</a>]

00:46:52   looking at them in nodding I was leaving [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2812">TS</a>]

00:46:54   aside that little gesture the fingers to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2814">TS</a>]

00:46:58   the brim of the Hat and a little like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2818">TS</a>]

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00:48:04   his pockets and you can see from his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2884">TS</a>]

00:48:06   body language that like she is these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2886">TS</a>]

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00:48:12   taller than I am and he's a black guy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2892">TS</a>]

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00:48:19   ready for this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2899">TS</a>]

00:48:21   like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2901">TS</a>]

00:48:23   pass that we're gonna have to make and i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2903">TS</a>]

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00:48:42   have made the choice to not look at me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/2922">TS</a>]

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00:50:20   dorky there wasn't a third party across [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3020">TS</a>]

00:50:22   the street smoke a cigarette who was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3022">TS</a>]

00:50:24   gonna shout out like how you guys are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3024">TS</a>]

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00:50:29   moment and it's all in that like I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3029">TS</a>]

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00:50:33   at me was was brave and then that little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3033">TS</a>]

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00:50:42   civilization which is like I receive [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3042">TS</a>]

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00:52:18   it I see it but the thing about being in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3138">TS</a>]

00:52:21   school that I with little kids that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3141">TS</a>]

00:52:24   realizes is it's it's a it's a it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3144">TS</a>]

00:52:27   reinforces the other thing which is that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3147">TS</a>]

00:52:29   we cannot perfectly understand ourselves [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3149">TS</a>]

00:52:31   and the whole premise that's been in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3151">TS</a>]

00:52:34   place ever since I was a kid in our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3154">TS</a>]

00:52:36   culture that the banner is still flown [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3156">TS</a>]

00:52:39   by so many people that we are completely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3159">TS</a>]

00:52:43   makeable by culture [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3163">TS</a>]

00:52:46   and that weekend that all of these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3166">TS</a>]

00:52:48   things about our house it's like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3168">TS</a>]

00:52:50   recipe if you get the ingredients right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3170">TS</a>]

00:52:52   and bake it just the right amount of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3172">TS</a>]

00:52:53   time you become a good cultured person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3173">TS</a>]

00:52:55   yeah.well or or in particular just like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3175">TS</a>]

00:52:57   the differences between the genders it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3177">TS</a>]

00:52:59   a it's a it's another one of these kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3179">TS</a>]

00:53:02   of issues where it's like oh all these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3182">TS</a>]

00:53:04   things all these character [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3184">TS</a>]

00:53:06   characteristics that people exhibit are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3186">TS</a>]

00:53:09   in culture ated in us right male [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3189">TS</a>]

00:53:11   violence and a and infamous helplessness [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3191">TS</a>]

00:53:16   female helplessness and all these things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3196">TS</a>]

00:53:17   that just seemed like if we could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3197">TS</a>]

00:53:19   perfectly engineer our culture and if we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3199">TS</a>]

00:53:24   could eradicate these ideas that we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3204">TS</a>]

00:53:27   could eradicate these systems from our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3207">TS</a>]

00:53:29   culture that we would be able to achieve [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3209">TS</a>]

00:53:31   again like the end goal of like perfect [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3211">TS</a>]

00:53:34   equality and then you watch little kids [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3214">TS</a>]

00:53:37   and you're like oh my god there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3217">TS</a>]

00:53:38   nothing engineered about it like they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3218">TS</a>]

00:53:40   they're just there are so many of our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3220">TS</a>]

00:53:44   human traits that are in a tin us and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3224">TS</a>]

00:53:48   not even I mean a lot of them we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3228">TS</a>]

00:53:51   attribute to gender and they aren't even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3231">TS</a>]

00:53:54   there just human traits across a wide [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3234">TS</a>]

00:53:57   spectrum and impossible to to codify [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3237">TS</a>]

00:54:01   impossible to engineer either in or out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3241">TS</a>]

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00:54:08   reciprocating cultures of shame and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3248">TS</a>]

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00:54:15   truck by getting in there and monkeying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3255">TS</a>]

00:54:17   and trying to intervene him and this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3257">TS</a>]

00:54:19   the thing about like little kids hit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3259">TS</a>]

00:54:21   each other and you can't let him do it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3261">TS</a>]

00:54:23   you say hey we can't hit each other in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3263">TS</a>]

00:54:25   here and they look at you like you're an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3265">TS</a>]

00:54:27   idiot because of course you can hit each [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3267">TS</a>]

00:54:29   other like they just did it they just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3269">TS</a>]

00:54:31   showed you how to hit somebody did you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3271">TS</a>]

00:54:32   ever try it it works great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3272">TS</a>]

00:54:35   that person was trying to get my doll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3275">TS</a>]

00:54:36   and I him and now that I stopped what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3276">TS</a>]

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00:54:47   hit each other because we don't allow it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3287">TS</a>]

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00:54:53   be in a state of perpetual violence with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3293">TS</a>]

00:54:55   each other because we all feel that way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3295">TS</a>]

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00:55:00   and then it's like except I don't want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3300">TS</a>]

00:55:02   to get hit myself and I it's really like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3302">TS</a>]

00:55:05   it does come back to a little bit of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3305">TS</a>]

00:55:06   fair play on some level I well it in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3306">TS</a>]

00:55:10   sense that only in the sense that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3310">TS</a>]

00:55:13   don't want to get hit yourself that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3313">TS</a>]

00:55:15   idea of fair play being that the smaller [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3315">TS</a>]

00:55:20   smaller kid gets it worse than the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3320">TS</a>]

00:55:24   bigger kid if everybody's allowed to hit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3324">TS</a>]

00:55:26   each other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3326">TS</a>]

00:55:27   I mean that's the beginning of sort of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3327">TS</a>]

00:55:28   fairness rather than just sort of we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3328">TS</a>]

00:55:32   don't we don't hit each other because we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3332">TS</a>]

00:55:34   don't like to be hit but also this other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3334">TS</a>]

00:55:36   idea of like we can't let the big kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3336">TS</a>]

00:55:38   get his way over the little kid just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3338">TS</a>]

00:55:40   because he's big and you know that's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3340">TS</a>]

00:55:43   very human-like I think I think animals [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3343">TS</a>]

00:55:46   don't I mean you know like orangutang [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3346">TS</a>]

00:55:50   four lions understand the concept of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3350">TS</a>]

00:55:52   don't just bite your friend because he's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3352">TS</a>]

00:55:56   gonna bite you like that's a pretty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3356">TS</a>]

00:55:58   simple idea but the human idea of like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3358">TS</a>]

00:56:01   don't we're not gonna we're all going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3361">TS</a>]

00:56:04   agree that it's not fair for the big kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3364">TS</a>]

00:56:07   to get his way more often than the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3367">TS</a>]

00:56:10   little kid that's a thing that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3370">TS</a>]

00:56:12   animals don't share with us [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3372">TS</a>]

00:56:14   that's a that's the beginning of human [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3374">TS</a>]

00:56:16   that's the beginning of society and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3376">TS</a>]

00:56:20   that's so you know so much stuff follows [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3380">TS</a>]

00:56:23   from that that we're going to school [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3383">TS</a>]

00:56:26   were going to intervene and and one of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3386">TS</a>]

00:56:30   the things is that the little kid little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3390">TS</a>]

00:56:35   kid do it as traditionally develop [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3395">TS</a>]

00:56:39   strategies to deal with being being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3399">TS</a>]

00:56:41   swatted by the big kid right the little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3401">TS</a>]

00:56:43   kid develops other skills and those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3403">TS</a>]

00:56:46   other skills are part of the part of how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3406">TS</a>]

00:56:49   culture is built culture is kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3409">TS</a>]

00:56:51   built by little kids who developed other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3411">TS</a>]

00:56:54   skills to avoid being swatted by big [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3414">TS</a>]

00:56:56   kids and when we intervene [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3416">TS</a>]

00:57:00   I mean this is it's just it's a it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3420">TS</a>]

00:57:02   like you're saying it's all an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3422">TS</a>]

00:57:03   engineering problem [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3423">TS</a>]

00:57:04   and if you intervene to correct correct [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3424">TS</a>]

00:57:06   one thing that you you know one little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3426">TS</a>]

00:57:09   leaky pipe you see that it's all part of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3429">TS</a>]

00:57:12   a system and who knows who knows [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3432">TS</a>]

00:57:16   yeah I i guess so i i'm kinda I'm kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3436">TS</a>]

00:57:19   of glad it's it's not okay for big kids [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3439">TS</a>]

00:57:22   to hit little kids but personally but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3442">TS</a>]

00:57:25   I'm what worries me and what I've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3445">TS</a>]

00:57:28   worried about is the just the necessary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3448">TS</a>]

00:57:31   hypocrisy of showing a kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3451">TS</a>]

00:57:34   hey look here's something i can show you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3454">TS</a>]

00:57:36   some things we're doing this kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3456">TS</a>]

00:57:38   behavior instead of that kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3458">TS</a>]

00:57:39   behavior is something you'll instantly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3459">TS</a>]

00:57:40   understand anything right we say to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3460">TS</a>]

00:57:42   someone there's there's a natural order [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3462">TS</a>]

00:57:43   of things where if you say please and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3463">TS</a>]

00:57:45   thank you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3465">TS</a>]

00:57:46   you will make people happy and you will [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3466">TS</a>]

00:57:47   get away with stuff this is a good thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3467">TS</a>]

00:57:49   learn to say please and thank you it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3469">TS</a>]

00:57:50   just it's a really nice thing and in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3470">TS</a>]

00:57:52   time you'll learn that that's a nice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3472">TS</a>]

00:57:53   idea you could say things like it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3473">TS</a>]

00:57:55   better to be fair rather than not fair [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3475">TS</a>]

00:57:57   but then we also have to do these things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3477">TS</a>]

00:57:59   that seem completely unfair [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3479">TS</a>]

00:58:01   last night I had with my daughter got up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3481">TS</a>]

00:58:03   after she got into bed and my wife and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3483">TS</a>]

00:58:05   were watching TV and she came in she was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3485">TS</a>]

00:58:08   mad because she couldn't watch TV [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3488">TS</a>]

00:58:09   so what what do I say when I say when I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3489">TS</a>]

00:58:11   say which is like it well it's your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3491">TS</a>]

00:58:12   bedtime now our bedtimes later we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3492">TS</a>]

00:58:14   watching TV like you know should I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3494">TS</a>]

00:58:16   apologize for that no but that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3496">TS</a>]

00:58:19   inherently unfair to a little kid and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3499">TS</a>]

00:58:21   don't know but just from their point of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3501">TS</a>]

00:58:23   view that's absolutely unfair like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3503">TS</a>]

00:58:25   guys get to go have fun and I have to go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3505">TS</a>]

00:58:26   to bed you get to use your iPad whenever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3506">TS</a>]

00:58:28   you want and I don't like that's really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3508">TS</a>]

00:58:30   hypocritical on the face of it and it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3510">TS</a>]

00:58:33   but you know so I guess what I'm saying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3513">TS</a>]

00:58:34   is I think what's complicated is we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3514">TS</a>]

00:58:37   asking kids on the one hand to see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3517">TS</a>]

00:58:38   certain kinds of things as being natural [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3518">TS</a>]

00:58:41   law and like is not just a good idea to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3521">TS</a>]

00:58:43   do it that way isn't it just a good idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3523">TS</a>]

00:58:45   to close the refrigerator door so we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3525">TS</a>]

00:58:46   don't waste energy and stuff like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3526">TS</a>]

00:58:47   and then other times we have to say well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3527">TS</a>]

00:58:49   except there are times when the thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3529">TS</a>]

00:58:51   that seems really natural is actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3531">TS</a>]

00:58:53   the opposite of that and you just need [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3533">TS</a>]

00:58:55   to learn that right that some of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3535">TS</a>]

00:58:57   right i try to you know I don't have an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3537">TS</a>]

00:58:59   answer to that I think some of those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3539">TS</a>]

00:59:00   things confusing some of those things we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3540">TS</a>]

00:59:01   need you to just learn like as in just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3541">TS</a>]

00:59:04   memorize this rule and and one day it'll [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3544">TS</a>]

00:59:07   make sense and some things it's like we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3547">TS</a>]

00:59:09   want you to learn the concept that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3549">TS</a>]

00:59:11   governs this as a thank you but don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3551">TS</a>]

00:59:14   get in a white van that i still find [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3554">TS</a>]

00:59:16   that very complicated thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3556">TS</a>]

00:59:17   right right well and the thing is that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3557">TS</a>]

00:59:19   don't you know I watching watching this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3559">TS</a>]

00:59:21   experience with kids [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3561">TS</a>]

00:59:23   uh my instinct is to extrapolate it to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3563">TS</a>]

00:59:26   adults because I feel like ninety-nine [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3566">TS</a>]

00:59:27   percent of adults interactions are kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3567">TS</a>]

00:59:29   interactions that are just extrapolated [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3569">TS</a>]

00:59:31   to like interactions plus iphones yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3571">TS</a>]

00:59:34   kid interactions plus the the arrogance [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3574">TS</a>]

00:59:37   of feeling like because you've been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3577">TS</a>]

00:59:38   alive for 25 more years your spew [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3578">TS</a>]

00:59:41   understand things any better [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3581">TS</a>]

00:59:43   and the thing is that I to believe that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3583">TS</a>]

00:59:48   the big kids shouldn't be able to hit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3588">TS</a>]

00:59:50   the little kid like I believe that is an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3590">TS</a>]

00:59:53   evolution and I don't think that that I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3593">TS</a>]

00:59:56   think that that rule is true in America [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3596">TS</a>]

00:59:58   and inns in debt [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3598">TS</a>]

00:59:58   and inns in debt [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3598">TS</a>]

01:00:00   mark and in in in germany and in you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3600">TS</a>]

01:00:05   know like in certain places in the world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3605">TS</a>]

01:00:08   but i don't think that that rule is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3608">TS</a>]

01:00:11   necessarily true in Russia or the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3611">TS</a>]

01:00:13   Ukraine or Serbia right now let alone in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3613">TS</a>]

01:00:16   a bit places that I haven't been but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3616">TS</a>]

01:00:21   have suspicions about right and and but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3621">TS</a>]

01:00:24   but what I don't what I mission using [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3624">TS</a>]

01:00:26   it's unrealistic in some cultures to say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3626">TS</a>]

01:00:28   that that's a natural law [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3628">TS</a>]

01:00:29   oh I don't think is a natural law and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3629">TS</a>]

01:00:31   this is the point I'm making the big kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3631">TS</a>]

01:00:33   should not hit the little kid is not a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3633">TS</a>]

01:00:35   natural law it is that it is a thought [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3635">TS</a>]

01:00:38   technology and the problem with us in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3638">TS</a>]

01:00:41   America is that a hundred years ago we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3641">TS</a>]

01:00:43   still recognize that that was the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3643">TS</a>]

01:00:44   thought technology and we were proud of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3644">TS</a>]

01:00:47   having invented this idea and it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3647">TS</a>]

01:00:50   part of you know it was part of our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3650">TS</a>]

01:00:52   legacy of Western Europe that we had off [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3652">TS</a>]

01:00:57   you know honor and you didn't hurt the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3657">TS</a>]

01:00:58   little guy and you you know women and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3658">TS</a>]

01:01:01   children first off the boat like these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3661">TS</a>]

01:01:03   were concepts that we were justifiably [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3663">TS</a>]

01:01:07   proud of because they were inventions [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3667">TS</a>]

01:01:10   there's nothing natural about that ok [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3670">TS</a>]

01:01:13   and in and if you let human beings go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3673">TS</a>]

01:01:18   even a little bit that though that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3678">TS</a>]

01:01:21   see even in modern cultures that those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3681">TS</a>]

01:01:24   rules are not that that that's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3684">TS</a>]

01:01:26   pretty far down the road you know the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3686">TS</a>]

01:01:29   big man still is in charge in most of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3689">TS</a>]

01:01:34   the world still here and we're all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3694">TS</a>]

01:01:37   sharing the same internet but it doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3697">TS</a>]

01:01:40   change the fact that he walk into a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3700">TS</a>]

01:01:42   village somewhere and you see that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3702">TS</a>]

01:01:45   big guys in charge and the little guy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3705">TS</a>]

01:01:47   comes up to me and says hey but I any [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3707">TS</a>]

01:01:48   kind of wax him and everybody goes oh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3708">TS</a>]

01:01:51   shit you know right thats that is that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3711">TS</a>]

01:01:54   the that's the that's the law the normal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3714">TS</a>]

01:01:57   law so the fact that we have the fact [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3717">TS</a>]

01:01:59   that we've made these advances these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3719">TS</a>]

01:02:01   cultural advances we have the idea we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3721">TS</a>]

01:02:04   have in we've expanded the idea of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3724">TS</a>]

01:02:06   fairness [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3726">TS</a>]

01:02:07   what is it has also happened to us in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3727">TS</a>]

01:02:10   the last hundred years is that we've [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3730">TS</a>]

01:02:11   stopped [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3731">TS</a>]

01:02:12   recognizing that those are and not even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3732">TS</a>]

01:02:16   the last hundred years we've stopped [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3736">TS</a>]

01:02:18   recognizing that those are thought [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3738">TS</a>]

01:02:21   technologies and started to talk about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3741">TS</a>]

01:02:23   them as though their natural rights and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3743">TS</a>]

01:02:25   if you if you if you start making policy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3745">TS</a>]

01:02:27   if you start living your own life [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3747">TS</a>]

01:02:29   according to this expanded idea of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3749">TS</a>]

01:02:33   natural rights that's what causes causes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3753">TS</a>]

01:02:37   a tremendous amount of confusion a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3757">TS</a>]

01:02:39   of figure you're gonna have a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3759">TS</a>]

01:02:41   cognitive dissonance have a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3761">TS</a>]

01:02:42   talking two incidents and a lot of a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3762">TS</a>]

01:02:44   of out it's a lot of outrage because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3764">TS</a>]

01:02:47   you're standing there saying how dare [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3767">TS</a>]

01:02:49   you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3769">TS</a>]

01:02:50   and you're saying that because you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3770">TS</a>]

01:02:52   believe that that somehow the the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3772">TS</a>]

01:02:57   intrinsic level of Justice is a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3777">TS</a>]

01:03:01   higher than it is and what you're what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3781">TS</a>]

01:03:03   you're not doing is giving credit to all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3783">TS</a>]

01:03:06   the work that went into establishing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3786">TS</a>]

01:03:08   that bulwark against all against all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3788">TS</a>]

01:03:12   against a Hobbesian world and all that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3792">TS</a>]

01:03:16   work is our legacy and I and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3796">TS</a>]

01:03:18   understand the culturally there's a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3798">TS</a>]

01:03:21   we spent a lot of effort to kind of tear [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3801">TS</a>]

01:03:24   down the Western European colonial the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3804">TS</a>]

01:03:29   idea that civilization came from the you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3809">TS</a>]

01:03:36   know from the english courts or whatever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3816">TS</a>]

01:03:38   but in in stripping away all of that and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3818">TS</a>]

01:03:44   saying like no no we need to we need to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3824">TS</a>]

01:03:46   incorporate all the the traditions of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3826">TS</a>]

01:03:48   every culture we don't want to live in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3828">TS</a>]

01:03:51   this sort of dominant mode [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3831">TS</a>]

01:03:54   we've forgotten that some of those some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3834">TS</a>]

01:03:58   of those traditions of of chivalry and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3838">TS</a>]

01:04:01   english law were novel only occurred in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3841">TS</a>]

01:04:06   one place are now widely adopted but are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3846">TS</a>]

01:04:09   ultimately a an artificial overlay that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3849">TS</a>]

01:04:13   if we want if we believe in we need to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3853">TS</a>]

01:04:16   we need to protect [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3856">TS</a>]

01:04:18   and that begins with understanding that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3858">TS</a>]

01:04:20   it is it's like air conditioning that we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3860">TS</a>]

01:04:26   invented it it it demonstrable he makes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3866">TS</a>]

01:04:28   life better but if we don't maintain it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3868">TS</a>]

01:04:31   then it stops working again and when the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3871">TS</a>]

01:04:35   air conditioning goes off it doesn't do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3875">TS</a>]

01:04:37   any good to sit in a hot room and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3877">TS</a>]

01:04:39   scream but that the air conditioning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3879">TS</a>]

01:04:42   went off you have to get up and fix the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3882">TS</a>]

01:04:44   air conditioning and that is that's true [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3884">TS</a>]

01:04:46   of that's true really of a system of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3886">TS</a>]

01:04:49   justice to that was that was some really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3889">TS</a>]

01:04:53   good explaining you know what you get a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3893">TS</a>]

01:04:55   bell [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3895">TS</a>]

01:04:56   I'm good that's a little bit of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3896">TS</a>]

01:04:57   mansplaining yeah we get what I want you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3897">TS</a>]

01:05:03   to mansplain something to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3903">TS</a>]

01:05:04   sure I do not oh my god i'm gonna get so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3904">TS</a>]

01:05:08   many angry letter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3908">TS</a>]

01:05:09   oh god please I do not have this woman i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3909">TS</a>]

01:05:13   do not understand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3913">TS</a>]

01:05:15   Harry Nilsson oh oh you're gonna get a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3915">TS</a>]

01:05:18   sad letter i'm gonna get so many sad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3918">TS</a>]

01:05:21   letters [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3921">TS</a>]

01:05:21   well you're gonna get several set [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3921">TS</a>]

01:05:22   letters from one guy could think of I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3922">TS</a>]

01:05:24   can think of a few guys that are going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3924">TS</a>]

01:05:25   to send me some settlers on gone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3925">TS</a>]

01:05:27   head-to-head on Harry Nilsson before we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3927">TS</a>]

01:05:28   because we've gone we we've gone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3928">TS</a>]

01:05:30   head-to-head on so many things you have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3930">TS</a>]

01:05:32   in a civil society and you realize [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3932">TS</a>]

01:05:34   that's a conversation you guys can't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3934">TS</a>]

01:05:35   even have that but here's the thing i'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3935">TS</a>]

01:05:37   not against Harry Nilsson I everything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3937">TS</a>]

01:05:40   that he does i love obviously love his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3940">TS</a>]

01:05:43   voice I love is don't get why he's so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3943">TS</a>]

01:05:45   big i love his hits right but the thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3945">TS</a>]

01:05:49   that everybody talks about his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3949">TS</a>]

01:05:51   songwriting his miraculous songwriting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3951">TS</a>]

01:05:53   it seems to me that he is just sort of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3953">TS</a>]

01:05:57   me and ring both is both of both uh like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3957">TS</a>]

01:06:03   lyrically and melodically meandering [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3963">TS</a>]

01:06:06   down a path where he's kind of singing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3966">TS</a>]

01:06:08   some some thoughts it with a sort of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3968">TS</a>]

01:06:11   sing song melody and you know you get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3971">TS</a>]

01:06:15   halfway through the song you get to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3975">TS</a>]

01:06:16   end of the song and it's like huh well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3976">TS</a>]

01:06:18   yeah i'm sure i like that that was that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3978">TS</a>]

01:06:23   was good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3983">TS</a>]

01:06:23   over but but i do not have a i do not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3983">TS</a>]

01:06:27   have this feeling that he is at that he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3987">TS</a>]

01:06:29   is at the dawn [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3989">TS</a>]

01:06:30   of a certain kind of pop that didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3990">TS</a>]

01:06:35   exist before I mean maybe I Asia maybe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3995">TS</a>]

01:06:37   it's that it didn't exist before and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3997">TS</a>]

01:06:39   I've grown up since then and so I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/3999">TS</a>]

01:06:42   see the novelty that maybe was a parent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4002">TS</a>]

01:06:45   in 1969 or something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4005">TS</a>]

01:06:47   I think it's the all Merlin man's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4007">TS</a>]

01:06:49   playing this to you and part of it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4009">TS</a>]

01:06:50   the rise of the documentary mean the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4010">TS</a>]

01:06:54   documentary that will almost certainly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4014">TS</a>]

01:06:56   feature chuck klosterman thurston moore [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4016">TS</a>]

01:06:58   and flee at some point [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4018">TS</a>]

01:07:00   good girl be there good as you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4020">TS</a>]

01:07:02   what's up a log was quietly passed in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4022">TS</a>]

01:07:05   the days after nine eleven that they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4025">TS</a>]

01:07:06   have to be in every music documentary [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4026">TS</a>]

01:07:08   where you know Martin Scorsese sitting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4028">TS</a>]

01:07:11   in a theater meaning under me like a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4031">TS</a>]

01:07:13   maybe haha like what's playing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4033">TS</a>]

01:07:17   I you know it's funny though cause like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4037">TS</a>]

01:07:19   you know we will i started watching the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4039">TS</a>]

01:07:20   documentary last night on nas and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4040">TS</a>]

01:07:22   making of illmatic which I've listened [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4042">TS</a>]

01:07:24   to about twice or three times i listen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4044">TS</a>]

01:07:27   to mostly because of jay-z and their you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4047">TS</a>]

01:07:29   know their feud [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4049">TS</a>]

01:07:30   it's a really really good record I can't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4050">TS</a>]

01:07:32   like I couldn't wrap it to you the way I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4052">TS</a>]

01:07:34   could like a public enemy record but I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4054">TS</a>]

01:07:36   just thinking as I watched that was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4056">TS</a>]

01:07:37   really well done beautifully made [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4057">TS</a>]

01:07:39   watch the first few minutes of it to my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4059">TS</a>]

01:07:40   daughter woke up I just want to ask you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4060">TS</a>]

01:07:42   did I have the option that you would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4062">TS</a>]

01:07:43   wrap me public enemy records [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4063">TS</a>]

01:07:45   chuckles it if i invite if I had known I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4065">TS</a>]

01:07:48   had that option I would have asked for a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4068">TS</a>]

01:07:49   lot sooner 1989 the number or another [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4069">TS</a>]

01:07:52   summer sound of the fucking drama music [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4072">TS</a>]

01:07:54   in your heart because I know you got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4074">TS</a>]

01:07:55   soul brothers and sisters John Wayne [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4075">TS</a>]

01:07:58   most never meant shit to mean straight [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4078">TS</a>]

01:08:01   up raises that sucker was simple [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4081">TS</a>]

01:08:02   Elvis Elvis was here at the most that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4082">TS</a>]

01:08:04   right well done John Wayne to else was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4084">TS</a>]

01:08:07   hero to most but he never meant shit to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4087">TS</a>]

01:08:08   me straight up great stocking stuffer [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4088">TS</a>]

01:08:10   simple and plain by the fucking man John [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4090">TS</a>]

01:08:12   way and i'm hoping bucket on prime x [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4092">TS</a>]

01:08:14   plus I'm am most of my heroes don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4094">TS</a>]

01:08:16   appear on no stamps [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4096">TS</a>]

01:08:17   yes boy did I ever listened to that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4097">TS</a>]

01:08:19   record a lot but you know if you don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4099">TS</a>]

01:08:23   understand I got no problem [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4103">TS</a>]

01:08:24   understanding what I'm saying is it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4104">TS</a>]

01:08:27   it's funny because think about like okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4107">TS</a>]

01:08:29   because the heavily lauded recent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4109">TS</a>]

01:08:31   documentaries that were that are like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4111">TS</a>]

01:08:33   you know good like the 20 feet from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4113">TS</a>]

01:08:35   stardom about backup singers my muscle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4115">TS</a>]

01:08:38   shoals nom [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4118">TS</a>]

01:08:40   there's been a lot of these like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4120">TS</a>]

01:08:41   high-profile not netflix created [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4121">TS</a>]

01:08:43   documentaries [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4123">TS</a>]

01:08:44   then our about weed or food that where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4124">TS</a>]

01:08:48   you watch them and the thing is even if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4128">TS</a>]

01:08:49   you don't know anything about that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4129">TS</a>]

01:08:51   person like what other ones the things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4131">TS</a>]

01:08:54   things about Daniel Johnston like almost [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4134">TS</a>]

01:08:56   nobody's heard Daniel Johnston what they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4136">TS</a>]

01:08:58   think of them as ask this character but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4138">TS</a>]

01:09:00   you're talking about him there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4140">TS</a>]

01:09:01   something about like once somebody makes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4141">TS</a>]

01:09:03   a documentary about you like in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4143">TS</a>]

01:09:06   well-made documentary you kind of can't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4146">TS</a>]

01:09:09   help it disappear into that artists even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4149">TS</a>]

01:09:10   if you've never heard them before [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4150">TS</a>]

01:09:12   wonder if that's part of it I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4152">TS</a>]

01:09:14   sounds to me like you're saying you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4154">TS</a>]

01:09:15   saying Nelson maybe he goes somewhere up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4155">TS</a>]

01:09:17   with an eric carmen look a good pop [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4157">TS</a>]

01:09:19   songwriter but not like well yeah but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4159">TS</a>]

01:09:21   it's the thing I mean a long time but I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4161">TS</a>]

01:09:23   mean I understand like the resurgence [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4163">TS</a>]

01:09:25   based on on like like people are looking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4165">TS</a>]

01:09:28   back in time and try and we're doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4168">TS</a>]

01:09:30   kind of a northern soul thing except [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4170">TS</a>]

01:09:32   with our own culture everything like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4172">TS</a>]

01:09:35   what are some of the great the great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4175">TS</a>]

01:09:37   songwriters that we never heard of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4177">TS</a>]

01:09:39   let's go back fine like the good ones [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4179">TS</a>]

01:09:41   but in 1970 like randy newman and but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4181">TS</a>]

01:09:46   they just the way I say his name randy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4186">TS</a>]

01:09:49   newman and and Brian Wilson when the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4189">TS</a>]

01:09:53   plant is still talking very forgiving [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4193">TS</a>]

01:09:58   you baby but here's got to go dive guide [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4198">TS</a>]

01:10:01   internationally civilization that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4201">TS</a>]

01:10:04   becoming really should but all those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4204">TS</a>]

01:10:09   guys they all love Nelson let you know I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4209">TS</a>]

01:10:12   think he is and I'm not slagging here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4212">TS</a>]

01:10:15   but i think i think of him kind of like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4215">TS</a>]

01:10:17   Nick Drake or maybe kind of like oh shit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4217">TS</a>]

01:10:22   i just hadn't lost it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4222">TS</a>]

01:10:23   maybe to a certain extent Jimmy Webb me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4223">TS</a>]

01:10:26   where these characters that were very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4226">TS</a>]

01:10:27   unusual for their time but nick drake [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4227">TS</a>]

01:10:31   what you like two records if you go to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4231">TS</a>]

01:10:33   records with them about nick drake is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4233">TS</a>]

01:10:35   Jake's you got it like you know I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4235">TS</a>]

01:10:37   it's he had one sound and this is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4237">TS</a>]

01:10:39   thing about a sound right if you make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4239">TS</a>]

01:10:41   too if you make two records and even one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4241">TS</a>]

01:10:43   of them just has a sound all the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4243">TS</a>]

01:10:45   through it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4245">TS</a>]

01:10:46   yeah it's like that's all he needed to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4246">TS</a>]

01:10:47   do he just invented a sound and then he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4247">TS</a>]

01:10:49   can go or not invented but he he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4249">TS</a>]

01:10:53   perfected a sound and then he can get on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4253">TS</a>]

01:10:55   the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4255">TS</a>]

01:10:56   load and go across the water mhm uh the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4256">TS</a>]

01:10:58   thing about the thing about Nelson is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4258">TS</a>]

01:11:00   that every song is different and so it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4260">TS</a>]

01:11:04   not clear what the you know what the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4264">TS</a>]

01:11:06   connection is he didn't invent a sound [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4266">TS</a>]

01:11:09   right he's got a great voice but he's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4269">TS</a>]

01:11:12   he and I don't know I i have to spend [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4272">TS</a>]

01:11:15   more time now where do you stand on what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4275">TS</a>]

01:11:17   do you stand on Sage on deck you feeling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4277">TS</a>]

01:11:22   try to get some other documentary people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4282">TS</a>]

01:11:25   or scott walker you gotta feeling on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4285">TS</a>]

01:11:26   Scott Walker documentary I haven't seen [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4286">TS</a>]

01:11:30   Scott Walker document hello brother you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4290">TS</a>]

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01:11:35   fucking balls in the air [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4295">TS</a>]

01:11:36   Scott Walker you're saying is not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4296">TS</a>]

01:11:37   walking from the Walker brothers and so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4297">TS</a>]

01:11:39   basically in the Walker brothers he did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4299">TS</a>]

01:11:41   those righteous brothers style songs [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4301">TS</a>]

01:11:43   covers and then like the last Walker [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4303">TS</a>]

01:11:46   brothers record was pretty fucking weird [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4306">TS</a>]

01:11:48   then he went solo and each subsequent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4308">TS</a>]

01:11:50   record of his has been more like totally [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4310">TS</a>]

01:11:52   bananas in the documentary you can see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4312">TS</a>]

01:11:55   him recording he recorded about every 10 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4315">TS</a>]

01:11:57   years now and so that the percussion [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4317">TS</a>]

01:11:59   involves like getting a side of beef and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4319">TS</a>]

01:12:00   stuff and it's harrowing and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4320">TS</a>]

01:12:03   delightful you know you know you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4323">TS</a>]

01:12:05   the singer the unique you've heard of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4325">TS</a>]

01:12:07   you know it's yellow area for sure [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4327">TS</a>]

01:12:09   uh ah I feel like I need to I need to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4329">TS</a>]

01:12:15   watch some more music documentaries one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4335">TS</a>]

01:12:16   thing we're gonna do this music month [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4336">TS</a>]

01:12:18   you know what we should we should just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4338">TS</a>]

01:12:21   make this music month we should talk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4341">TS</a>]

01:12:22   about you like a whole time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4342">TS</a>]

01:12:24   yeah I i do I feel like I feel like as i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4344">TS</a>]

01:12:28   am thinking about starting to rejoin the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4348">TS</a>]

01:12:33   songwriting game and wondering like what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4353">TS</a>]

01:12:37   my place in it is and what I what I have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4357">TS</a>]

01:12:41   to contribute to the songwriting a pile [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4361">TS</a>]

01:12:46   get your dienophile you know watching [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4366">TS</a>]

01:12:50   these guys uh and and and gals who do it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4370">TS</a>]

01:12:54   successfully and find their own way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4374">TS</a>]

01:12:58   through you know like I mean I I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4378">TS</a>]

01:13:02   understand Joni Mitchell either but i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4382">TS</a>]

01:13:05   definitely understand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4385">TS</a>]

01:13:08   that without Joni Mitchell there would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4388">TS</a>]

01:13:09   be no Sheryl Crow and without show crow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4389">TS</a>]

01:13:15   where would we be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4395">TS</a>]

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01:13:26   college to a more gets up every morning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4406">TS</a>]

01:13:31   and writes a song that's what he does [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4411">TS</a>]

01:13:33   Randy Newman gets up every morning as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4413">TS</a>]

01:13:35   cup of coffee as a bagel when he goes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4415">TS</a>]

01:13:38   down to the studio and he writes songs [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4418">TS</a>]

01:13:39   until it until it's quittin time went to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4419">TS</a>]

01:13:42   bid leave now feeling kind of fell to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4422">TS</a>]

01:13:45   get a good movement bells [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4425">TS</a>]

01:13:47   when you gonna up that he means the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4427">TS</a>]

01:13:51   sheepdog at the punch-out machine [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4431">TS</a>]

01:13:54   hey Frank during a Randy area [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4434">TS</a>]

01:14:00   ok that's good but Scott Walker 30 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4440">TS</a>]

01:14:05   century man [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEMcBPok/4445">TS</a>]