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Ep. 216: "You Could Do Less Magic"

 

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00:00:11   [Music] [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/11">TS</a>]

00:00:17   hello hi John I'm Merlin how's it going [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/17">TS</a>]

00:00:21   good it's little early [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/21">TS</a>]

00:00:23   yeah yeah you know it is it you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/23">TS</a>]

00:00:26   actually we're starting early good for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/26">TS</a>]

00:00:27   you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/27">TS</a>]

00:00:28   yeah 3 minutes early ding dong woo hoo [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/28">TS</a>]

00:00:33   that's how about the place next door how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/33">TS</a>]

00:00:36   they're like renovating for two months I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/36">TS</a>]

00:00:38   told you about this right yeah you did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/38">TS</a>]

00:00:40   oh my god citizens of banging the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/40">TS</a>]

00:00:42   out yeah there's some banging also i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/42">TS</a>]

00:00:46   mean it's gonna clear this up because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/46">TS</a>]

00:00:47   there may be some noise i will do my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/47">TS</a>]

00:00:49   usual poor attempt to mute but uh yeah I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/49">TS</a>]

00:00:53   think this play it's a shitshow the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/53">TS</a>]

00:00:55   Terran stuff i think these guys might be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/55">TS</a>]

00:00:57   a little bit off the books [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/57">TS</a>]

00:00:58   mmm the contractors they've got busy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/58">TS</a>]

00:01:02   yeah i mean for example my daughter I'd [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/62">TS</a>]

00:01:06   like to walk by and just gonna stick our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/66">TS</a>]

00:01:07   heads in to see what's going on course [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/67">TS</a>]

00:01:09   yes so we noticed that they tour of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/69">TS</a>]

00:01:11   bunch of the floor and there were lots [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/71">TS</a>]

00:01:14   of like several inches to a foot deep [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/74">TS</a>]

00:01:16   pools of water in the place which [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/76">TS</a>]

00:01:18   doesn't seem normal as part of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/78">TS</a>]

00:01:20   demolition process knowing you it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/80">TS</a>]

00:01:22   very sandy soil where you are absolutely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/82">TS</a>]

00:01:24   should be excellent drainage yeah yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/84">TS</a>]

00:01:27   you think so and but then we walked by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/87">TS</a>]

00:01:30   and there was a whole bunch of you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/90">TS</a>]

00:01:33   the orange like heavy duty extension [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/93">TS</a>]

00:01:35   cord how the budget that's sitting in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/95">TS</a>]

00:01:37   pool of water right now listen I'm no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/97">TS</a>]

00:01:40   junior high safety video but just here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/100">TS</a>]

00:01:42   to say I don't know if that's the best [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/102">TS</a>]

00:01:44   practicing construction was it plugged [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/104">TS</a>]

00:01:46   into anything like just resting my just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/106">TS</a>]

00:01:48   been storing it in the water was like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/108">TS</a>]

00:01:49   guess it's safe for me that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/109">TS</a>]

00:01:51   that's actually pretty standard yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/111">TS</a>]

00:01:53   pretty standard yet women if you if you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/113">TS</a>]

00:01:56   read the manual actually if you buy an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/116">TS</a>]

00:01:57   extension cord was right on it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/117">TS</a>]

00:01:59   stormwater don't snore at the store in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/119">TS</a>]

00:02:02   standing water storage standing water [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/122">TS</a>]

00:02:04   um listen one thing huh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/124">TS</a>]

00:02:08   you know what standing water gets the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/128">TS</a>]

00:02:10   gas face [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/130">TS</a>]

00:02:11   yeah boom you know what I i forgot to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/131">TS</a>]

00:02:14   get mine on keyboard all i have right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/134">TS</a>]

00:02:15   now Mikey Porsha get my show you my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/135">TS</a>]

00:02:17   keyboard yeah i don't know i think the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/137">TS</a>]

00:02:19   people like to hear the keyboard because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/139">TS</a>]

00:02:20   they know they know that research being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/140">TS</a>]

00:02:23   done they know that they know the work [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/143">TS</a>]

00:02:26   is getting you know what I you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/146">TS</a>]

00:02:28   let's let's let's let's clear the air [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/148">TS</a>]

00:02:30   about this because people right you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/150">TS</a>]

00:02:33   i do it right in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/153">TS</a>]

00:02:34   they were they right in a sentence [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/154">TS</a>]

00:02:35   letters yeah you know and you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/155">TS</a>]

00:02:38   everybody's got a thought in that that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/158">TS</a>]

00:02:39   ok but you know if you hear me typing or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/159">TS</a>]

00:02:42   johns talking please don't assume that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/162">TS</a>]

00:02:44   i'm bored assume that it's my job to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/164">TS</a>]

00:02:46   make the show go and have to show things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/166">TS</a>]

00:02:48   and sometimes that requires typing so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/168">TS</a>]

00:02:50   today you're really gonna hear it see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/170">TS</a>]

00:02:51   this i haven't used this one in a while [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/171">TS</a>]

00:02:52   but this is what this one sounds like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/172">TS</a>]

00:02:53   the thing that the thing that viewers [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/173">TS</a>]

00:02:58   should know is that you know it is you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/178">TS</a>]

00:03:00   cannot on this show who you cannot let [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/180">TS</a>]

00:03:03   your guard down for a second all you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/183">TS</a>]

00:03:04   kidding me you know like you couldn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/184">TS</a>]

00:03:06   get bored and start surfing the internet [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/186">TS</a>]

00:03:08   because whoa you might come back into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/188">TS</a>]

00:03:11   the conversation and we're all the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/191">TS</a>]

00:03:13   out you know we're all the way out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/193">TS</a>]

00:03:16   talking about which dog is which Beatle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/196">TS</a>]

00:03:19   you know like what if you had to do a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/199">TS</a>]

00:03:21   velvet painting of the beatles as dog on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/201">TS</a>]

00:03:23   capturing that who would be what right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/203">TS</a>]

00:03:25   you're gonna and you're going to just be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/205">TS</a>]

00:03:27   like oh sorry i was surfing the web and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/207">TS</a>]

00:03:28   I i didn't get better [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/208">TS</a>]

00:03:31   july worry I lose sleep over this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/211">TS</a>]

00:03:33   because i think a lot of people you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/213">TS</a>]

00:03:35   god bless you I'm glad you're enjoying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/215">TS</a>]

00:03:36   podcast welcome i'm glad but I worry [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/216">TS</a>]

00:03:39   sometimes that people get so used to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/219">TS</a>]

00:03:40   listen to these goddamn spoon-fed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/220">TS</a>]

00:03:43   podcasts [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/223">TS</a>]

00:03:44   wow you know in a good way like I'm glad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/224">TS</a>]

00:03:46   it's nice relaxing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/226">TS</a>]

00:03:47   sure sure this kind of shows we go like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/227">TS</a>]

00:03:50   hey we're back [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/230">TS</a>]

00:03:51   here's the thing we're talking about and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/231">TS</a>]

00:03:52   this is what we're going to talk about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/232">TS</a>]

00:03:53   here you can't do that you can't go get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/233">TS</a>]

00:03:55   a beverage and just hope you're going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/235">TS</a>]

00:03:57   catch up your mind gold you're leaving [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/237">TS</a>]

00:03:59   color in the ground [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/239">TS</a>]

00:04:00   I think a lot of the reason that people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/240">TS</a>]

00:04:02   listen to this program over and over [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/242">TS</a>]

00:04:04   four sometimes five times all the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/244">TS</a>]

00:04:06   through the entire series [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/246">TS</a>]

00:04:08   who is it the first time I listen to it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/248">TS</a>]

00:04:10   on in their car [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/250">TS</a>]

00:04:11   yeah matter like i didn't get all that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/251">TS</a>]

00:04:13   and so the second time I listen to it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/253">TS</a>]

00:04:15   while they were doing the dishes still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/255">TS</a>]

00:04:19   who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/259">TS</a>]

00:04:20   so the third time they sat in their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/260">TS</a>]

00:04:22   living rooms upstairs 3rd time they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/262">TS</a>]

00:04:23   angry the other angry there staring at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/263">TS</a>]

00:04:25   the speaker now they're not listening to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/265">TS</a>]

00:04:27   internet put it on this the speaker and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/267">TS</a>]

00:04:29   have seen accuracies their lives staring [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/269">TS</a>]

00:04:31   at the speaker yeah they realize that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/271">TS</a>]

00:04:34   wasn't enough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/274">TS</a>]

00:04:35   uh-huh but you know the sixth time you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/275">TS</a>]

00:04:37   listen you realize it's really your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/277">TS</a>]

00:04:38   fault as a listener [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/278">TS</a>]

00:04:40   well the six-time presumably you have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/280">TS</a>]

00:04:42   transcript in your hand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/282">TS</a>]

00:04:43   yeah you're listening to the program [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/283">TS</a>]

00:04:45   eyes closed in front of a speaker [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/285">TS</a>]

00:04:48   Johnny are you checking your email why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/288">TS</a>]

00:04:49   you're doing this no I'm afraid you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/289">TS</a>]

00:04:52   cannot know you gonna sit you're gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/292">TS</a>]

00:04:54   sit like a gentleman [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/294">TS</a>]

00:04:55   yeah and you're gonna listen you for all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/295">TS</a>]

00:04:57   those notes you took in your Italian [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/297">TS</a>]

00:04:58   nope you're gonna realize how much you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/298">TS</a>]

00:04:59   got wrong because you miss things is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/299">TS</a>]

00:05:02   your car is your is your child sitting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/302">TS</a>]

00:05:03   in a car seat babbling some fucking kid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/303">TS</a>]

00:05:06   nonsense to me know now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/306">TS</a>]

00:05:08   no leave it that's right are you sitting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/308">TS</a>]

00:05:11   are you waiting for the light to change [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/311">TS</a>]

00:05:12   right all the food there's a lot to get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/312">TS</a>]

00:05:15   i was at a conference this past week who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/315">TS</a>]

00:05:18   you went all the way to the sudden so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/318">TS</a>]

00:05:20   conference [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/320">TS</a>]

00:05:20   yeah the wonderful zoso conference uh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/320">TS</a>]

00:05:22   run by wonderful and bees and it was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/322">TS</a>]

00:05:26   there were a lot of podcasters there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/326">TS</a>]

00:05:28   no yeah it's it's lousy with podcast [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/328">TS</a>]

00:05:30   lousy with podcast also look at a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/330">TS</a>]

00:05:31   makers there John every single person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/331">TS</a>]

00:05:34   there was a maker who or a creative some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/334">TS</a>]

00:05:37   kind but the and and they're more on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/337">TS</a>]

00:05:41   that I'm gonna circle back to that ok [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/341">TS</a>]

00:05:43   but a lot of podcasters and also a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/343">TS</a>]

00:05:45   of podcast consumers interesting so in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/345">TS</a>]

00:05:48   way it was sort of a podcast trade fair [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/348">TS</a>]

00:05:51   huh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/351">TS</a>]

00:05:53   there are a lot of booths a you would go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/353">TS</a>]

00:05:56   around and pick up swagg each booth as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/356">TS</a>]

00:05:59   long as they could get your email [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/359">TS</a>]

00:06:00   address [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/360">TS</a>]

00:06:01   yeah sure no no that's not how it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/361">TS</a>]

00:06:03   happened at all but a lot of people want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/363">TS</a>]

00:06:04   to talk to me first of all I want to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/364">TS</a>]

00:06:05   talk to me about you that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/365">TS</a>]

00:06:07   yeah because they say oh merlin mann is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/367">TS</a>]

00:06:09   it true that and I'm like let me stop [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/369">TS</a>]

00:06:12   you right there probably [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/372">TS</a>]

00:06:14   well not awkward oh no don't you talk to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/374">TS</a>]

00:06:16   people having children is a Merlin what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/376">TS</a>]

00:06:19   this Merlin mean when he and then I say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/379">TS</a>]

00:06:21   let me stop you right there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/381">TS</a>]

00:06:22   god I have no idea this is this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/382">TS</a>]

00:06:24   literally my nightmare [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/384">TS</a>]

00:06:25   no no it's wonderful there's so many [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/385">TS</a>]

00:06:27   Merlin fans out there my god there and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/387">TS</a>]

00:06:29   they're starved for Merlin time and so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/389">TS</a>]

00:06:31   that's what I'm there for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/391">TS</a>]

00:06:33   kind of sort of Merlin problem and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/393">TS</a>]

00:06:37   but the interesting thing is talking to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/397">TS</a>]

00:06:39   other podcasters about their experience [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/399">TS</a>]

00:06:41   podcasting oh you know you know sitting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/401">TS</a>]

00:06:46   around a big table there's a big roast [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/406">TS</a>]

00:06:48   on the table but candelabra are burnin [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/408">TS</a>]

00:06:52   the wine is flowing the wine is flowing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/412">TS</a>]

00:06:54   someone's playing a lute that is we are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/414">TS</a>]

00:06:57   pretty much just out at nine tyke i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/417">TS</a>]

00:07:02   guess and then everyone has a different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/422">TS</a>]

00:07:04   experience because everyone this is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/424">TS</a>]

00:07:06   crazy thing about podcasting that a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/426">TS</a>]

00:07:08   of people don't know everyone does a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/428">TS</a>]

00:07:10   different kind of podcast everyone does [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/430">TS</a>]

00:07:11   a different kind of podcast yeah it's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/431">TS</a>]

00:07:15   it's a situation where one person's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/435">TS</a>]

00:07:18   podcast seems like it should be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/438">TS</a>]

00:07:21   instructive for another person doing a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/441">TS</a>]

00:07:25   podcast but really every podcast is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/445">TS</a>]

00:07:27   different Merlin oh my god that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/447">TS</a>]

00:07:29   actually so much like life it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/449">TS</a>]

00:07:31   strangely like life where people like to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/451">TS</a>]

00:07:33   give advice because they went through [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/453">TS</a>]

00:07:35   the mouse maze in this given way and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/455">TS</a>]

00:07:37   they found cheese and didn't die so that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/457">TS</a>]

00:07:39   pretty sure that you write a book about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/459">TS</a>]

00:07:40   it well and what what and who moved my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/460">TS</a>]

00:07:43   cheese right became a national and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/463">TS</a>]

00:07:45   international bestseller who my feeling [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/465">TS</a>]

00:07:49   about it was a lot of what people want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/469">TS</a>]

00:07:51   to talk about is podcasting was how does [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/471">TS</a>]

00:07:56   one make a living podcast well and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/476">TS</a>]

00:07:59   know what I wanted to talk about is why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/479">TS</a>]

00:08:03   is podcasting such an illegitimate art [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/483">TS</a>]

00:08:07   form because it really is up to him to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/487">TS</a>]

00:08:12   me okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/492">TS</a>]

00:08:13   oh you know what I saw many notes i just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/493">TS</a>]

00:08:15   want to say in passing us I mean it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/495">TS</a>]

00:08:17   sounds like you did talk to a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/497">TS</a>]

00:08:18   people like and you tell me the just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/498">TS</a>]

00:08:21   that I got people have many quotes from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/501">TS</a>]

00:08:22   you on the twitter which is an online [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/502">TS</a>]

00:08:24   service and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/504">TS</a>]

00:08:26   it sounds like you were talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/506">TS</a>]

00:08:27   you pushed back against the idea of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/507">TS</a>]

00:08:30   doing this because it was too felt too [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/510">TS</a>]

00:08:32   easy that was a fair this is ultimately [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/512">TS</a>]

00:08:35   the big question right I as I was / as i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/515">TS</a>]

00:08:38   was preparing to go onstage it as in all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/518">TS</a>]

00:08:42   cases when you go on stage it never [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/522">TS</a>]

00:08:44   turns out the way you planned it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/524">TS</a>]

00:08:47   one of the things i was thinking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/527">TS</a>]

00:08:48   quite a bit was that extemporaneous [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/528">TS</a>]

00:08:50   performance comes very naturally to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/530">TS</a>]

00:08:54   for a lot of people it's it's it's very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/534">TS</a>]

00:08:57   hard right they don't want to get you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/537">TS</a>]

00:09:00   know it's like everybody's nightmare [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/540">TS</a>]

00:09:01   right you're pushed out onstage with and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/541">TS</a>]

00:09:03   you have no and you're not prepared they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/543">TS</a>]

00:09:05   say they say animals has been updated [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/545">TS</a>]

00:09:06   recently but it's been said as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/546">TS</a>]

00:09:08   conventional wisdom for a long time that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/548">TS</a>]

00:09:10   American second greatest fears death and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/550">TS</a>]

00:09:12   their first greatest fear is public [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/552">TS</a>]

00:09:13   speaking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/553">TS</a>]

00:09:14   add to that whether or not that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/554">TS</a>]

00:09:15   exactly true or accurate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/555">TS</a>]

00:09:18   add to that going out and winning it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/558">TS</a>]

00:09:20   going on that that's the stuff of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/560">TS</a>]

00:09:22   nightmares for a lot right but i think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/562">TS</a>]

00:09:23   it really is right you push out there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/563">TS</a>]

00:09:25   and and it's and your and the lights [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/565">TS</a>]

00:09:27   come on and it's a big room full of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/567">TS</a>]

00:09:28   people you don't know what you're there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/568">TS</a>]

00:09:29   to do and watching people at this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/569">TS</a>]

00:09:31   conference to get up and give speeches [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/571">TS</a>]

00:09:34   it was obvious that a lot of lot of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/574">TS</a>]

00:09:37   speaker's even though they were they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/577">TS</a>]

00:09:39   were professionally very accomplished [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/579">TS</a>]

00:09:41   everyone was very interested in what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/581">TS</a>]

00:09:42   they had to say they were full of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/582">TS</a>]

00:09:44   anxiety just about the performance of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/584">TS</a>]

00:09:47   their talk like I have to go out and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/587">TS</a>]

00:09:50   talk for 20 minutes in front of people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/590">TS</a>]

00:09:51   and so they have a PowerPoint and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/591">TS</a>]

00:09:54   they have their script and their script [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/594">TS</a>]

00:09:56   is is scrolling at their feet on a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/596">TS</a>]

00:09:59   television set and when I was watching [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/599">TS</a>]

00:10:01   for backstage a lot of times you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/601">TS</a>]

00:10:04   the speaker's very naturalistic but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/604">TS</a>]

00:10:06   there it's word-for-word kind of their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/606">TS</a>]

00:10:08   prepared text and so part of what i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/608">TS</a>]

00:10:13   wanted to talk about was look I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/613">TS</a>]

00:10:15   walking out here i have no I'm i have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/615">TS</a>]

00:10:17   really done very little preparation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/617">TS</a>]

00:10:20   about what I'm going to say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/620">TS</a>]

00:10:21   and honestly if if if I looked over to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/621">TS</a>]

00:10:25   the side of the stage after my 20 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/625">TS</a>]

00:10:27   minutes was done and there was somebody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/627">TS</a>]

00:10:28   holding a sign that said can you stretch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/628">TS</a>]

00:10:31   it for another hour [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/631">TS</a>]

00:10:32   I'd be like great like this kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/632">TS</a>]

00:10:36   thing it's not like you're like you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/636">TS</a>]

00:10:38   playing at the opening of them all right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/638">TS</a>]

00:10:41   there there's nobody is nobody's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/641">TS</a>]

00:10:44   repelling behind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/644">TS</a>]

00:10:45   stretch shirt still a visit at isn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/645">TS</a>]

00:10:49   propelling well i'm playing with no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/649">TS</a>]

00:10:50   monitors at 7am in front of the mall now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/650">TS</a>]

00:10:53   this is just me talking to you about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/653">TS</a>]

00:10:55   stuff and I could do it for hours but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/655">TS</a>]

00:10:58   the but somehow the fact that it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/658">TS</a>]

00:11:01   everyone's greatest fear and and for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/661">TS</a>]

00:11:05   most people very difficult to do doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/665">TS</a>]

00:11:08   impart any sense that doing it is like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/668">TS</a>]

00:11:18   technical skill that should be reward [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/678">TS</a>]

00:11:22   should be rewarded cook commensurate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/682">TS</a>]

00:11:25   with its difficulty right like if you if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/685">TS</a>]

00:11:29   you are a mathematician everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/689">TS</a>]

00:11:31   recognizes that that's very difficult [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/691">TS</a>]

00:11:33   they don't know how to do it and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/693">TS</a>]

00:11:35   say this is something that that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/695">TS</a>]

00:11:38   should be either rewarded for with pay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/698">TS</a>]

00:11:41   or with stature if you can run a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/701">TS</a>]

00:11:47   four-minute mile you know you get a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/707">TS</a>]

00:11:50   medal or everybody applauds but there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/710">TS</a>]

00:11:52   a sense of if you can get up and wing it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/712">TS</a>]

00:11:55   that you're getting away with murder [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/715">TS</a>]

00:11:59   somehow you know everyone's reactions [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/719">TS</a>]

00:12:01   are like Oh mm um you didn't try very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/721">TS</a>]

00:12:05   hard or you know there's a there's this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/725">TS</a>]

00:12:08   feeling or men and maybe it's just me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/728">TS</a>]

00:12:10   maybe I'm just the one carrying this but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/730">TS</a>]

00:12:13   that somehow the person that slaved for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/733">TS</a>]

00:12:16   weeks over the powerpoint demonstration [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/736">TS</a>]

00:12:19   in order that they control their anxiety [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/739">TS</a>]

00:12:22   enough to give a kind of stilted [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/742">TS</a>]

00:12:24   performance has done more work and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/744">TS</a>]

00:12:27   therefore their performances more valid [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/747">TS</a>]

00:12:30   than the person who can get up and given [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/750">TS</a>]

00:12:35   an entertaining talk without notes and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/755">TS</a>]

00:12:40   this was a this was this is something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/760">TS</a>]

00:12:41   that's always kind of been my I'm always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/761">TS</a>]

00:12:43   wrestling with this right because the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/763">TS</a>]

00:12:46   the most fun I have is doing this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/766">TS</a>]

00:12:48   podcast in some ways it's something I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/768">TS</a>]

00:12:51   very very proud of or maybe even the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/771">TS</a>]

00:12:53   most proud of but we you and I just get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/773">TS</a>]

00:12:57   on here and wing it every week and so it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/777">TS</a>]

00:13:00   also feels a little illegitimate like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/780">TS</a>]

00:13:02   cheating [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/782">TS</a>]

00:13:03   yeah that this be our that this be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/783">TS</a>]

00:13:06   something were rewarded for that this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/786">TS</a>]

00:13:08   b.i.g even considered a job over because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/788">TS</a>]

00:13:12   it's just like a two guys jacking off [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/792">TS</a>]

00:13:13   whoa [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/793">TS</a>]

00:13:15   and it's it's it's it's a skill set [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/795">TS</a>]

00:13:18   it'sit's just as difficult as as being a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/798">TS</a>]

00:13:22   good painter or something but it seems [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/802">TS</a>]

00:13:24   it seems like i don't know somehow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/804">TS</a>]

00:13:29   invalid who and I wanted to talk about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/809">TS</a>]

00:13:32   that but then when I got on stage I just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/812">TS</a>]

00:13:34   made like 40 minutes of Portland jokes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/814">TS</a>]

00:13:36   and then drop trial flip the audience [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/816">TS</a>]

00:13:38   off went and then standing out classic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/818">TS</a>]

00:13:44   Roderick you know what I mean because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/824">TS</a>]

00:13:45   that's my brand you know and that's what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/825">TS</a>]

00:13:48   people come and that's what they expect [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/828">TS</a>]

00:13:49   when you look nice today was there we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/829">TS</a>]

00:13:51   actually mostly at well at adams request [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/831">TS</a>]

00:13:56   we swore that we would make poop jokes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/836">TS</a>]

00:13:59   huh and it's got requests we swore that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/839">TS</a>]

00:14:01   we would make Portland jokes and then we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/841">TS</a>]

00:14:03   went out there and i did about 40 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/843">TS</a>]

00:14:04   minutes of Portland poop jokes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/844">TS</a>]

00:14:06   yeah it was all put Portland all poop [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/846">TS</a>]

00:14:08   you can't help yourself yeah i'll put a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/848">TS</a>]

00:14:09   little bit yeah yeah um so I don't know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/849">TS</a>]

00:14:13   you know I I thought I got thoughts [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/853">TS</a>]

00:14:15   yeah I look at people better you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/855">TS</a>]

00:14:17   really really really really put a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/857">TS</a>]

00:14:20   effort into doing these things that are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/860">TS</a>]

00:14:22   sort of that are second nature to me and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/862">TS</a>]

00:14:28   obviously like I would have to put a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/868">TS</a>]

00:14:30   of effort into doing something you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/870">TS</a>]

00:14:33   work right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/873">TS</a>]

00:14:35   that's what's really hard for me to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/875">TS</a>]

00:14:37   your very food [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/877">TS</a>]

00:14:39   this came up on the very special relayed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/879">TS</a>]

00:14:42   FM members-only edition of reconcile [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/882">TS</a>]

00:14:46   differences on what you were kind enough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/886">TS</a>]

00:14:48   to guests that came up at the end where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/888">TS</a>]

00:14:50   you're saying you wish you were you wish [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/890">TS</a>]

00:14:51   you were more than a jack-of-all-trades [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/891">TS</a>]

00:14:52   you wish you are really good at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/892">TS</a>]

00:14:54   something and our friend John syracuse [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/894">TS</a>]

00:14:55   it took me to task on this thing you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/895">TS</a>]

00:14:56   a professional musician like yeah you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/896">TS</a>]

00:14:58   you get paid you get to do stuff or not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/898">TS</a>]

00:15:01   get to do stuff I know to what do you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/901">TS</a>]

00:15:04   mean again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/904">TS</a>]

00:15:05   and then it's gonna be its own reward [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/905">TS</a>]

00:15:07   man everybody's trying to steal your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/907">TS</a>]

00:15:10   copper pipe but the but yeah I think he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/910">TS</a>]

00:15:13   made an interesting point which is that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/913">TS</a>]

00:15:14   he ran okay let me try something up this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/914">TS</a>]

00:15:16   way I think that so I I want to talk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/916">TS</a>]

00:15:19   more about a bunch of details that are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/919">TS</a>]

00:15:21   wrapped up in what you're saying that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/921">TS</a>]

00:15:23   have to do with things like how you feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/923">TS</a>]

00:15:25   about the audience is feeling about you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/925">TS</a>]

00:15:28   what are the stakes for it going wrong [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/928">TS</a>]

00:15:30   because i think that greatly changes the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/930">TS</a>]

00:15:32   equation for a lot of people but set [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/932">TS</a>]

00:15:33   that aside for a minute I think anything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/933">TS</a>]

00:15:36   that doesn't feel impossibly difficult [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/936">TS</a>]

00:15:38   to US doesn't feel like work and I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/938">TS</a>]

00:15:40   that's a problem and i'm not talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/940">TS</a>]

00:15:42   about anything here and I I this is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/942">TS</a>]

00:15:44   very back to work is kind of point to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/944">TS</a>]

00:15:45   make but i think a lot of us are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/945">TS</a>]

00:15:47   suspicious of things that aren't where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/947">TS</a>]

00:15:50   we have like I don't know if it's sunk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/950">TS</a>]

00:15:52   cost fallacy or something but where if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/952">TS</a>]

00:15:54   we put a bunch of effort time education [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/954">TS</a>]

00:15:56   and resources into one part of our life [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/956">TS</a>]

00:15:58   and that's not the part that is our job [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/958">TS</a>]

00:16:01   we feel like we're it work with feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/961">TS</a>]

00:16:05   like we're being not just not just that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/965">TS</a>]

00:16:07   were getting away with something but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/967">TS</a>]

00:16:08   that we're like almost we're being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/968">TS</a>]

00:16:12   disloyal to the time that we spend in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/972">TS</a>]

00:16:15   the past and I think that sometimes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/975">TS</a>]

00:16:16   that's great because it can make you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/976">TS</a>]

00:16:18   want to stick with it and try harder and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/978">TS</a>]

00:16:20   you know thrive but other times it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/980">TS</a>]

00:16:24   really works across purposes because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/984">TS</a>]

00:16:25   it's not just that it's easy but if it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/985">TS</a>]

00:16:27   something that feels good to do I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/987">TS</a>]

00:16:29   people are suspicious of it and that's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/989">TS</a>]

00:16:31   very privileged thing to say because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/991">TS</a>]

00:16:32   we're really we're really fortunate a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/992">TS</a>]

00:16:34   lot of ways to get to do what we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/994">TS</a>]

00:16:35   doing but I think that's true for almost [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/995">TS</a>]

00:16:37   everybody were like if you feel like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/997">TS</a>]

00:16:39   there's this some some part of us and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/999">TS</a>]

00:16:41   I'm I'm from the Midwest your mantra [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1001">TS</a>]

00:16:43   Ohio your mom is from Ohio [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1003">TS</a>]

00:16:44   I think there is a certain kind of I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1004">TS</a>]

00:16:48   don't know if it's Puritan but there's a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1008">TS</a>]

00:16:49   certain kind of Midwestern feeling that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1009">TS</a>]

00:16:51   if you're happy you're probably doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1011">TS</a>]

00:16:53   something wrong [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1013">TS</a>]

00:16:54   yeah i think it's i think it's quicker [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1014">TS</a>]

00:16:56   but but yeah i agree if you're happy you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1016">TS</a>]

00:17:01   must be doing something wrong [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1021">TS</a>]

00:17:02   that's I mean that's reductive and I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1022">TS</a>]

00:17:04   trying to make this about more than just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1024">TS</a>]

00:17:05   this podcast but yeah get the other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1025">TS</a>]

00:17:07   thing just just just to circle back that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1027">TS</a>]

00:17:09   one thing was on and we'll get back to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1029">TS</a>]

00:17:11   beatles dogs i hope but in that case [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1031">TS</a>]

00:17:13   think about this though you're going in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1033">TS</a>]

00:17:16   front of a bunch of people wear well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1036">TS</a>]

00:17:18   let's put it this way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1038">TS</a>]

00:17:19   were you worried worried worried that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1039">TS</a>]

00:17:23   the audience would not be receptive to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1043">TS</a>]

00:17:25   what you had to say what were you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1045">TS</a>]

00:17:26   concerned really like losing sleep over [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1046">TS</a>]

00:17:28   like whether people would be going into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1048">TS</a>]

00:17:31   this with a negative feeling about you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1051">TS</a>]

00:17:33   pretty loaded for bear or conversely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1053">TS</a>]

00:17:35   like were you worried that you had to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1055">TS</a>]

00:17:37   make a certain case to that particular [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1057">TS</a>]

00:17:38   audience and did that cause you stress [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1058">TS</a>]

00:17:40   before the talk I mean there's a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1060">TS</a>]

00:17:43   bit of stress now involved in getting up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1063">TS</a>]

00:17:48   and giving speeches just because the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1068">TS</a>]

00:17:53   because the atmosphere around [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1073">TS</a>]

00:17:55   mansplaining particularly middle-aged [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1075">TS</a>]

00:18:00   white men explaining middle mansplaining [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1080">TS</a>]

00:18:04   is so fraught right that there's there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1084">TS</a>]

00:18:08   are camps in which my presence at an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1088">TS</a>]

00:18:12   event is already suspect already [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1092">TS</a>]

00:18:17   problematic and so you know standing up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1097">TS</a>]

00:18:21   on stage in front of people and being my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1101">TS</a>]

00:18:23   natural self and saying hello everyone [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1103">TS</a>]

00:18:26   I'm a big middle-aged white guy didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1106">TS</a>]

00:18:29   suck a bag of different things to say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1109">TS</a>]

00:18:31   about stuff [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1111">TS</a>]

00:18:32   nice to meet you I've got ideas about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1112">TS</a>]

00:18:34   things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1114">TS</a>]

00:18:35   there's there is now a you know like an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1115">TS</a>]

00:18:40   inhibition that that there will be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1120">TS</a>]

00:18:43   people in the audience primed to be at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1123">TS</a>]

00:18:50   to be looking for a problem or or you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1130">TS</a>]

00:18:53   know and they're one end and at the last [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1133">TS</a>]

00:18:56   at this XOXO there was up there was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1136">TS</a>]

00:19:00   person who to me very clearly came [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1140">TS</a>]

00:19:06   already angry and found a way to fit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1146">TS</a>]

00:19:11   like and tweeted halfway through my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1151">TS</a>]

00:19:13   presentation about my unexamined [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1153">TS</a>]

00:19:16   privilege halfway through a presentation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1156">TS</a>]

00:19:18   that you know she she did not bother 22 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1158">TS</a>]

00:19:23   and she didn't tweet at the end right so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1163">TS</a>]

00:19:25   maybe by the end she had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1165">TS</a>]

00:19:28   she had heard things in the second half [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1168">TS</a>]

00:19:30   of the presentation that made her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1170">TS</a>]

00:19:32   realize that the first half of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1172">TS</a>]

00:19:34   presentation was set up and then the you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1174">TS</a>]

00:19:38   know the message of the second half [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1178">TS</a>]

00:19:39   relieves the tension of the first half [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1179">TS</a>]

00:19:42   it's a big part of performance so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1182">TS</a>]

00:19:45   halfway through she's already tweeting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1185">TS</a>]

00:19:46   about my own examine privilege and my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1186">TS</a>]

00:19:49   feeling is that she came into the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1189">TS</a>]

00:19:50   conference either having already [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1190">TS</a>]

00:19:53   underlined by name as a person that she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1193">TS</a>]

00:19:56   was going to you know was going to do a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1196">TS</a>]

00:19:59   up a critique of on these on this topic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1199">TS</a>]

00:20:03   right i mean she was she was already mad [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1203">TS</a>]

00:20:06   that i was there and then up and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1206">TS</a>]

00:20:09   someone can Fred I think it's the same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1209">TS</a>]

00:20:11   woman confronted me later in the middle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1211">TS</a>]

00:20:14   of a in like got up and came over and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1214">TS</a>]

00:20:16   yelled at me in the audience because I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1216">TS</a>]

00:20:19   got up to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1219">TS</a>]

00:20:20   i got up at the end of someone else's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1220">TS</a>]

00:20:22   presentation did a little bit of a Kanye [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1222">TS</a>]

00:20:24   like Taylor I'm gonna let you finish but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1224">TS</a>]

00:20:28   I just have an anecdote here that'll and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1228">TS</a>]

00:20:30   you know again I'm a performer was it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1230">TS</a>]

00:20:33   was someone you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1233">TS</a>]

00:20:34   no no I mean that the person you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1234">TS</a>]

00:20:35   conning know uh but they are fellow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1235">TS</a>]

00:20:39   performer and I'm there as a paper [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1239">TS</a>]

00:20:42   former and my job is to perform and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1242">TS</a>]

00:20:45   know what to provide oh what a good [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1245">TS</a>]

00:20:46   performances right I'm not I know I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1246">TS</a>]

00:20:50   not stepping on anybody it was a had an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1250">TS</a>]

00:20:52   anecdote it was apropos it everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1252">TS</a>]

00:20:56   liked it but this person same person i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1256">TS</a>]

00:20:58   think you know came over and gave me a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1258">TS</a>]

00:21:02   in a in an exaggerated stage whisper [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1262">TS</a>]

00:21:05   which seemed to be trying to draw [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1265">TS</a>]

00:21:07   attention to herself [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1267">TS</a>]

00:21:09   they gave me a lecture about how I how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1269">TS</a>]

00:21:12   rude i had been in you know in standing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1272">TS</a>]

00:21:16   up and making a comment to the room and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1276">TS</a>]

00:21:19   she was entirely incorrect and again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1279">TS</a>]

00:21:25   felt like she came into the event loaded [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1285">TS</a>]

00:21:27   for bear looking for a reason you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1287">TS</a>]

00:21:30   so there is a certain amount of that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1290">TS</a>]

00:21:32   when I'm preparing to give a talk at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1292">TS</a>]

00:21:35   XOXO for instance where I'm like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1295">TS</a>]

00:21:38   know is there going to be something in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1298">TS</a>]

00:21:40   my eye you know I know there's not gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1300">TS</a>]

00:21:43   be anything in my presentation but is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1303">TS</a>]

00:21:45   there just something in my main you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1305">TS</a>]

00:21:48   something in just my in my person that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1308">TS</a>]

00:21:53   someone in the audience is going to find [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1313">TS</a>]

00:21:55   it is going to trigger something is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1315">TS</a>]

00:21:58   going to trigger someone else just in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1318">TS</a>]

00:22:00   the way that i carry myself in the sharp [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1320">TS</a>]

00:22:02   my voice in my casualness in the fat in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1322">TS</a>]

00:22:05   the very fact that i am comfortable [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1325">TS</a>]

00:22:07   standing up in front of a room that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1327">TS</a>]

00:22:09   alone is evidence of my status as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1329">TS</a>]

00:22:15   white male in a patriarchal culture and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1335">TS</a>]

00:22:18   so my comfort is a priori on offense and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1338">TS</a>]

00:22:25   reflecting on my comfort in anything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1345">TS</a>]

00:22:28   other than an apologetic tone for its [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1348">TS</a>]

00:22:32   very existence is an offense so but I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1352">TS</a>]

00:22:36   don't have any question about my ability [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1356">TS</a>]

00:22:39   to extemporaneously entertain an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1359">TS</a>]

00:22:42   audience or to begin a story take it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1362">TS</a>]

00:22:46   through a through a journey down a set [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1366">TS</a>]

00:22:48   of Rapids and at the end of the story [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1368">TS</a>]

00:22:52   you know have it have performed an arc [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1372">TS</a>]

00:22:56   and and at the end there's some some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1376">TS</a>]

00:22:59   resolution and it feels like a complete [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1379">TS</a>]

00:23:01   complete work and it's like a play with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1381">TS</a>]

00:23:04   acts so I know how to do that and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1384">TS</a>]

00:23:06   don't either i'm not up in the middle of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1386">TS</a>]

00:23:08   the night going i hope that I don't get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1388">TS</a>]

00:23:10   halfway through and and blank or I hope [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1390">TS</a>]

00:23:14   you know that the audit that I'm not up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1394">TS</a>]

00:23:16   there dying you know that stuff doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1396">TS</a>]

00:23:19   really worry I've died a thousand deaths [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1399">TS</a>]

00:23:21   in front of a crowd and it's that it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1401">TS</a>]

00:23:24   doesn't i'm not scared of right if i'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1404">TS</a>]

00:23:27   laying jokes out there and the and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1407">TS</a>]

00:23:29   laughter is tepid and it and it feels [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1409">TS</a>]

00:23:33   like boy I really lost this audience a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1413">TS</a>]

00:23:35   long time ago i still can get them back [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1415">TS</a>]

00:23:39   you get him back just by saying boy lost [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1419">TS</a>]

00:23:41   you guys a long time ago and my little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1421">TS</a>]

00:23:44   family and conversely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1424">TS</a>]

00:23:46   pandering to what you perceive to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1426">TS</a>]

00:23:50   some part of the audience that I'm gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1430">TS</a>]

00:23:54   put this pandering to there's no way to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1434">TS</a>]

00:23:57   inoculate yourself is the way I would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1437">TS</a>]

00:23:58   put it is that you know I think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1438">TS</a>]

00:24:00   sometimes when I'm talking to people who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1440">TS</a>]

00:24:02   are thinking about doing a thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1442">TS</a>]

00:24:04   whatever that thing is one of the things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1444">TS</a>]

00:24:07   I feel like I've learned it's never easy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1447">TS</a>]

00:24:09   but you have to just accept that there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1449">TS</a>]

00:24:13   are always going to be people who just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1453">TS</a>]

00:24:15   don't like you and they don't like what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1455">TS</a>]

00:24:18   this is very very simple but this is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1458">TS</a>]

00:24:20   kind of thing where I think people need [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1460">TS</a>]

00:24:22   to hear this i know i need to hear this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1462">TS</a>]

00:24:23   is that sometimes there are going to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1463">TS</a>]

00:24:25   people who just like on your very best [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1465">TS</a>]

00:24:27   day the best that you're capable of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1467">TS</a>]

00:24:29   they still just basically don't like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1469">TS</a>]

00:24:31   it doesn't make him a bad person it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1471">TS</a>]

00:24:32   doesn't make them prejudice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1472">TS</a>]

00:24:34   I'm that way about some people there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1474">TS</a>]

00:24:35   just some people like you know guy fieri [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1475">TS</a>]

00:24:37   gonna tell you like his persona bugs me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1477">TS</a>]

00:24:39   but he seems like a genuinely nice guy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1479">TS</a>]

00:24:40   but I don't like his persona I would not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1480">TS</a>]

00:24:43   seek out his programming and that's why [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1483">TS</a>]

00:24:45   sometimes gets to be a joke on here but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1485">TS</a>]

00:24:47   along trying to say is that like what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1487">TS</a>]

00:24:49   you what you can't do is you don't cut [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1489">TS</a>]

00:24:52   muscle on the parts of your personality [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1492">TS</a>]

00:24:55   or your performance style that are that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1495">TS</a>]

00:24:59   are a big part of who you are and what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1499">TS</a>]

00:25:01   you do like sometimes you know I'm not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1501">TS</a>]

00:25:03   the biggest fan of magic tricks and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1503">TS</a>]

00:25:05   illusions but I would never want to go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1505">TS</a>]

00:25:07   to a show where the person onstage [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1507">TS</a>]

00:25:08   decides they're gonna do less magic in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1508">TS</a>]

00:25:10   order to make me happy because that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1510">TS</a>]

00:25:12   not what the show is about but that said [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1512">TS</a>]

00:25:14   I want to circle back to this later when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1514">TS</a>]

00:25:15   you're done but the this is this is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1515">TS</a>]

00:25:17   thing that's different though is you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1517">TS</a>]

00:25:19   know I i think a big part of your one's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1519">TS</a>]

00:25:21   confidence going on stages at the very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1521">TS</a>]

00:25:24   least like if this thing goes totally [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1524">TS</a>]

00:25:26   wrong if it goes terrible if I feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1526">TS</a>]

00:25:28   misunderstood if I say something dumb in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1528">TS</a>]

00:25:30   a way I didn't mean to say like what are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1530">TS</a>]

00:25:32   the stakes and I think that feeling of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1532">TS</a>]

00:25:34   steaks is a big part of what makes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1534">TS</a>]

00:25:37   people very reluctant to do anything in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1537">TS</a>]

00:25:39   front of other people and it's also what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1539">TS</a>]

00:25:41   causes people to not just prepare but to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1541">TS</a>]

00:25:43   maybe over-prepare until they eventually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1543">TS</a>]

00:25:45   squeeze every bit of personality and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1545">TS</a>]

00:25:48   potential for the human soul of what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1548">TS</a>]

00:25:49   they're doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1549">TS</a>]

00:25:50   I'm not going to criticize that like if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1550">TS</a>]

00:25:52   you're at apple and you are in a group [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1552">TS</a>]

00:25:55   whose I don't know whatever the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1555">TS</a>]

00:25:58   definition of not a successful group it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1558">TS</a>]

00:26:00   up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1560">TS</a>]

00:26:00   this and you have to get up in front of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1560">TS</a>]

00:26:01   a bunch of people who are used to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1561">TS</a>]

00:26:02   fantastic presentations about successful [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1562">TS</a>]

00:26:04   products and you've got to be the one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1564">TS</a>]

00:26:06   who goes up in your pack your PowerPoint [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1566">TS</a>]

00:26:08   deck goes wrong and you have to report [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1568">TS</a>]

00:26:09   that results I'd be nervous about that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1569">TS</a>]

00:26:11   too [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1571">TS</a>]

00:26:12   it's nice to be in a place where you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1572">TS</a>]

00:26:13   feel like I can be the person I want to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1573">TS</a>]

00:26:15   be in front of these people with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1575">TS</a>]

00:26:17   level of preparation i think is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1577">TS</a>]

00:26:18   appropriate and do what I think is best [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1578">TS</a>]

00:26:20   to put on a good show and you're a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1580">TS</a>]

00:26:21   performer that's like--that's what they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1581">TS</a>]

00:26:22   bring you in for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1582">TS</a>]

00:26:24   but i think the challenge is and and you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1584">TS</a>]

00:26:26   know and and XOXO is a is a place where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1586">TS</a>]

00:26:30   the where that the temperatures turned [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1590">TS</a>]

00:26:34   up a little bit on this which is that at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1594">TS</a>]

00:26:37   XOXO me talking to this group of people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1597">TS</a>]

00:26:41   that are largely my peers the stakes are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1601">TS</a>]

00:26:46   one thing but because it's going on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1606">TS</a>]

00:26:50   internet and because it's never a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1610">TS</a>]

00:26:54   hundred percent clear what the what the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1614">TS</a>]

00:26:57   of the moment issue is now it's possible [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1617">TS</a>]

00:27:03   that you could because we see it all the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1623">TS</a>]

00:27:04   time someone gets up and gives what they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1624">TS</a>]

00:27:06   think is in a an innocent or innocuous [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1626">TS</a>]

00:27:10   presentation that they are expecting is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1630">TS</a>]

00:27:14   going to be received one way or or could [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1634">TS</a>]

00:27:16   we also stipulate it's it's something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1636">TS</a>]

00:27:18   where you maybe even took pains to have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1638">TS</a>]

00:27:21   it not be something that's broadly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1641">TS</a>]

00:27:24   offensive maybe then you maybe you think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1644">TS</a>]

00:27:26   you're saying something from maybe even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1646">TS</a>]

00:27:27   a vulnerable point about yourself that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1647">TS</a>]

00:27:30   you don't you know you're absolutely not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1650">TS</a>]

00:27:32   there to hurt anybody's feelings or to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1652">TS</a>]

00:27:34   exercise privilege right i mean isn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1654">TS</a>]

00:27:36   that part of it is like even if you feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1656">TS</a>]

00:27:37   like you've prepared for that you still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1657">TS</a>]

00:27:39   can't really be prepared for that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1659">TS</a>]

00:27:40   cannot because I mean I think you can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1660">TS</a>]

00:27:43   buy doing exactly what you just said [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1663">TS</a>]

00:27:46   which is just sort of do less magic but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1666">TS</a>]

00:27:49   if you are trying to if you're trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1669">TS</a>]

00:27:52   do something original and unusual and do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1672">TS</a>]

00:27:55   something in within your character that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1675">TS</a>]

00:27:57   where you're you are pushing boundaries [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1677">TS</a>]

00:27:59   which is a thing that we always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1679">TS</a>]

00:28:00   particularly as artists you need to push [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1680">TS</a>]

00:28:03   boundaries that is that is the game [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1683">TS</a>]

00:28:06   that's how we advance the whole story [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1686">TS</a>]

00:28:10   the human story push boundaries [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1690">TS</a>]

00:28:12   but but you get into a posture where [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1692">TS</a>]

00:28:15   we're bound Ruiz are thought of as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1695">TS</a>]

00:28:19   different thing or or respecting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1699">TS</a>]

00:28:21   boundaries is also a like a prime [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1701">TS</a>]

00:28:24   directive and how to push boundaries and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1704">TS</a>]

00:28:27   respect boundaries at the same time I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1707">TS</a>]

00:28:29   mean every person is trying to do it in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1709">TS</a>]

00:28:31   a different way but you can never know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1711">TS</a>]

00:28:34   is whether your offhand comment your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1714">TS</a>]

00:28:37   awkward attempt to recover from a joke [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1717">TS</a>]

00:28:40   you're um you know you're panicked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1720">TS</a>]

00:28:43   response to a ejaculation from the crowd [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1723">TS</a>]

00:28:47   that caught you off guard that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1727">TS</a>]

00:28:49   didn't expect whether that is going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1729">TS</a>]

00:28:51   be looped and put into the world and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1731">TS</a>]

00:28:54   you're going to be the next one that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1734">TS</a>]

00:28:57   pilloried and that's the thing you just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1737">TS</a>]

00:28:59   can't all you can do now is trust that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1739">TS</a>]

00:29:03   all the years that you've spent on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1743">TS</a>]

00:29:05   balance beam learning how to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1745">TS</a>]

00:29:07   gymnastics is going to save you in that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1747">TS</a>]

00:29:11   moment but i see i see people take the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1751">TS</a>]

00:29:13   stage and that their panic is not just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1753">TS</a>]

00:29:17   like what if you know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1757">TS</a>]

00:29:19   what if i walk out onstage and I look [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1759">TS</a>]

00:29:21   down and I'm not wearing any clothes but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1761">TS</a>]

00:29:23   it's also like what if i get out there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1763">TS</a>]

00:29:25   and in the middle of a thing that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1765">TS</a>]

00:29:26   going great i say the wrong thing either [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1766">TS</a>]

00:29:32   because it's written in my speech and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1772">TS</a>]

00:29:35   didn't realize that it's that the word I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1775">TS</a>]

00:29:37   choses is a word that two days ago [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1777">TS</a>]

00:29:40   became incredibly fraught or because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1780">TS</a>]

00:29:45   somebody in the crowd goes that's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1785">TS</a>]

00:29:48   funny and I reply to them just in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1788">TS</a>]

00:29:54   spirit of the moment and that you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1794">TS</a>]

00:29:57   and the and that becomes a thing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1797">TS</a>]

00:29:59   even if it worked in the room you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1799">TS</a>]

00:30:02   what I mean like even if everybody at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1802">TS</a>]

00:30:03   the place gets it and goes yeah but it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1803">TS</a>]

00:30:07   changes it changes the temperature [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1807">TS</a>]

00:30:09   well but but if the one person in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1809">TS</a>]

00:30:13   room that as you described earlier who [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1813">TS</a>]

00:30:14   just isn't going to like you no matter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1814">TS</a>]

00:30:16   what your their guy fieri if that person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1816">TS</a>]

00:30:19   is is built or came with a plan [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1819">TS</a>]

00:30:24   and his tape recording you and put it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1824">TS</a>]

00:30:26   online and either in context or out and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1826">TS</a>]

00:30:31   says look at this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1831">TS</a>]

00:30:32   I mean a lot of times you can put [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1832">TS</a>]

00:30:34   somebody's comments completely in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1834">TS</a>]

00:30:35   context it's not always a question of of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1835">TS</a>]

00:30:37   d contextualizing you put a completely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1837">TS</a>]

00:30:40   in context but if you put if you put a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1840">TS</a>]

00:30:43   like a scroll underneath that says [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1843">TS</a>]

00:30:46   everything you know everything that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1846">TS</a>]

00:30:48   being said here is offensive [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1848">TS</a>]

00:30:50   you can call you can you can take the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1850">TS</a>]

00:30:54   context you can change the context just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1854">TS</a>]

00:30:56   by captioning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1856">TS</a>]

00:30:59   oh yeah bye-bye hang a lantern on am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1859">TS</a>]

00:31:01   yeah right so it's like if I was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1861">TS</a>]

00:31:03   watching this video without any [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1863">TS</a>]

00:31:05   background music I would feel like this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1865">TS</a>]

00:31:08   was an interesting scene but all of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1868">TS</a>]

00:31:10   sudden there's there's background music [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1870">TS</a>]

00:31:13   flown in the form of critical context or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1873">TS</a>]

00:31:16   or it you know just like here the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1876">TS</a>]

00:31:19   strings are getting all tense now and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1879">TS</a>]

00:31:22   all the sudden these words have a all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1882">TS</a>]

00:31:26   the sudden these words are now either [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1886">TS</a>]

00:31:27   offensive or have a different meaning [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1887">TS</a>]

00:31:29   so so yeah the stakes the potential [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1889">TS</a>]

00:31:34   stakes have changed for every kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1894">TS</a>]

00:31:37   one of these things and I'm not worried [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1897">TS</a>]

00:31:42   about it at in my core you know because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1902">TS</a>]

00:31:47   because there's a very real risk and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1907">TS</a>]

00:31:51   you know I felt it just between you and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1911">TS</a>]

00:31:53   me and and sort of with everybody in our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1913">TS</a>]

00:31:55   in our peer group specifically of white [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1915">TS</a>]

00:31:59   middle-aged guys making things that we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1919">TS</a>]

00:32:02   all recognize that at some point or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1922">TS</a>]

00:32:05   another we may be up on the cross [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1925">TS</a>]

00:32:10   it's it's part of the it's just part of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1930">TS</a>]

00:32:15   the new reality and lots of people have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1935">TS</a>]

00:32:18   spent a lot of time up on the cross in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1938">TS</a>]

00:32:21   the past and Israeli s though not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1941">TS</a>]

00:32:25   necessarily I mean Jesus was a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1945">TS</a>]

00:32:27   middle-aged white guy he's the first one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1947">TS</a>]

00:32:30   is middle-aged for his time I think yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1950">TS</a>]

00:32:31   yeah right because people don't live to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1951">TS</a>]

00:32:33   be 60 although i heard that that was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1953">TS</a>]

00:32:35   that's recently dispel turns out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1955">TS</a>]

00:32:37   but you know what I'm saying like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1957">TS</a>]

00:32:39   think I do i mean i-i I boy I got mixed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1959">TS</a>]

00:32:45   super mixed not feelings just thoughts [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1965">TS</a>]

00:32:48   about about a lot of this stuff i mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1968">TS</a>]

00:32:50   one thing to keep in mind is that I try [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1970">TS</a>]

00:32:53   to keep I'm not trying to school you but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1973">TS</a>]

00:32:54   one thing I try to keep in mind is that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1974">TS</a>]

00:32:56   we one thing that makes a potentially [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1976">TS</a>]

00:33:00   makes our American experiment good is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1980">TS</a>]

00:33:04   that there are people that will always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1984">TS</a>]

00:33:05   be opposed to each other and that's okay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1985">TS</a>]

00:33:07   i mean this gets a little bit to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1987">TS</a>]

00:33:09   whole you know we can all agree on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1989">TS</a>]

00:33:10   cheese thing where we feel this need to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1990">TS</a>]

00:33:12   find something in common when well you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1992">TS</a>]

00:33:14   know if we are antithetical e opposed to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1994">TS</a>]

00:33:16   this one's to a certain given point like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1996">TS</a>]

00:33:19   we have to accept that that's that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/1999">TS</a>]

00:33:20   part of the conversation and that maybe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2000">TS</a>]

00:33:23   we maybe neither one of us should say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2003">TS</a>]

00:33:25   things we don't think are true in order [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2005">TS</a>]

00:33:26   to look like we're being collegio that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2006">TS</a>]

00:33:30   that's a big part of it the any other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2010">TS</a>]

00:33:32   part of it is that there's i'm looking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2012">TS</a>]

00:33:34   at the wikipedia page for a term i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2014">TS</a>]

00:33:37   learned in this election cycle oppo [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2017">TS</a>]

00:33:39   which is short for opposition research [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2019">TS</a>]

00:33:41   and it's the kind of dossiers that get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2021">TS</a>]

00:33:43   compiled on people it's you know along [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2023">TS</a>]

00:33:45   the lines of like somebody following a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2025">TS</a>]

00:33:46   candidate around with a camera recording [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2026">TS</a>]

00:33:48   every single thing they say and then you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2028">TS</a>]

00:33:50   know being able to go in and highlight [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2030">TS</a>]

00:33:51   you know for certain [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2031">TS</a>]

00:33:53   yeah i mean but the thing is that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2033">TS</a>]

00:33:54   that's I mean I guess the thing is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2034">TS</a>]

00:33:57   though like is that bad is that bad that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2037">TS</a>]

00:33:59   there are people who just don't like us [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2039">TS</a>]

00:34:01   or don't like a given person for four [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2041">TS</a>]

00:34:03   reasons to the cultural could be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2043">TS</a>]

00:34:05   political [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2045">TS</a>]

00:34:06   I mean sometimes that means racism but a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2046">TS</a>]

00:34:08   lot of time it doesn't it just means [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2048">TS</a>]

00:34:10   that's just that's just not for me or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2050">TS</a>]

00:34:12   the way that this person presents is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2052">TS</a>]

00:34:13   antithetical to the stuff that I believe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2053">TS</a>]

00:34:15   in is that means either one of us has to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2055">TS</a>]

00:34:17   change [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2057">TS</a>]

00:34:18   not necessarily I don't think I mean I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2058">TS</a>]

00:34:22   not trying to say i'm not trying to say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2062">TS</a>]

00:34:24   put the KKK up at XOXO that's a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2064">TS</a>]

00:34:26   letters but i'm trying to say i like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2066">TS</a>]

00:34:28   that's part of being a grown-up is just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2068">TS</a>]

00:34:30   realizing that like you should your this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2070">TS</a>]

00:34:32   is not seventh grade you guys don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2072">TS</a>]

00:34:34   change your personality to please [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2074">TS</a>]

00:34:37   whoever happens to be in the room or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2077">TS</a>]

00:34:38   you're never going to become an actual [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2078">TS</a>]

00:34:39   person i think that the I think that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2079">TS</a>]

00:34:43   we're in a state and I was thinking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2083">TS</a>]

00:34:45   about this the other day we used to live [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2085">TS</a>]

00:34:49   in a world in which the media ostensibly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2089">TS</a>]

00:34:53   tried to be nonpartisan independent [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2093">TS</a>]

00:34:56   tried to be fair and balanced and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2096">TS</a>]

00:35:02   there's a ton of media critique that you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2102">TS</a>]

00:35:08   know over the years explain to us like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2108">TS</a>]

00:35:10   the media was not fair and balanced the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2110">TS</a>]

00:35:12   video was operating you know that i'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2112">TS</a>]

00:35:15   talking mainstream media in a in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2115">TS</a>]

00:35:18   closed system but he just in in older [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2118">TS</a>]

00:35:21   times just called the press the press [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2121">TS</a>]

00:35:23   right like the people who were for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2123">TS</a>]

00:35:25   example not reporting on you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2125">TS</a>]

00:35:27   results health state sure or Kennedy's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2127">TS</a>]

00:35:31   Addison's disease yeah but with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2131">TS</a>]

00:35:36   presumption I think of a world kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2136">TS</a>]

00:35:39   close to the one we're living in now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2139">TS</a>]

00:35:40   where there's a lot more access the B we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2140">TS</a>]

00:35:45   can see more deeply you could not you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2145">TS</a>]

00:35:48   could not hide Kennedy's Addison's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2148">TS</a>]

00:35:50   disease now right because they're just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2150">TS</a>]

00:35:52   there are a lot of people that aren't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2152">TS</a>]

00:35:54   part of the the tiny little club anymore [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2154">TS</a>]

00:35:57   that lets see that is newsworthy and our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2157">TS</a>]

00:36:00   and it would be capable of reporting but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2160">TS</a>]

00:36:03   what I don't think we I don't think 25 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2163">TS</a>]

00:36:06   years ago media prognosticator 'he's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2166">TS</a>]

00:36:08   could have seen could have foreseen a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2168">TS</a>]

00:36:12   world in which media now is deeply and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2172">TS</a>]

00:36:18   universally biased like every single [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2178">TS</a>]

00:36:21   media outlet nobody's pretending to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2181">TS</a>]

00:36:25   unbiased anymore it's it's quite the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2185">TS</a>]

00:36:26   opposite [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2186">TS</a>]

00:36:27   every single everything everybody is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2187">TS</a>]

00:36:30   reporter and everybody is putting a real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2190">TS</a>]

00:36:32   stamp on it and I'm i was thinking like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2192">TS</a>]

00:36:34   is universally biased media in some ways [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2194">TS</a>]

00:36:40   accomplishing a lack of bias or or like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2200">TS</a>]

00:36:46   your ability to put you take if you take [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2206">TS</a>]

00:36:50   all the reporting as a whole [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2210">TS</a>]

00:36:51   yeah if you take it I wasn't trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2211">TS</a>]

00:36:53   like insert false equivalency into every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2213">TS</a>]

00:36:55   single person's coverage you look at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2215">TS</a>]

00:36:57   this as many many different voices that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2217">TS</a>]

00:36:59   understandably have a point of view [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2219">TS</a>]

00:37:00   yeah and that ultimately if you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2220">TS</a>]

00:37:03   trying up a more nuanced idea of what is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2223">TS</a>]

00:37:10   what actually transpired is it go is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2230">TS</a>]

00:37:13   accomplishable right you can look at it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2233">TS</a>]

00:37:15   you can look at all of the reporting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2235">TS</a>]

00:37:18   across a wide spectrum and get maybe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2238">TS</a>]

00:37:20   even a better picture of what happened [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2240">TS</a>]

00:37:23   then if you're if five people are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2243">TS</a>]

00:37:25   they're trying to be on by its not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2245">TS</a>]

00:37:27   historically what papers in the UK have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2247">TS</a>]

00:37:29   done [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2249">TS</a>]

00:37:29   I mean it has not historically been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2249">TS</a>]

00:37:31   certain papers even to this day that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2251">TS</a>]

00:37:33   Guardian tends to be more liberal than [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2253">TS</a>]

00:37:35   theirs isn't how it's worked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2255">TS</a>]

00:37:37   historically there there it's like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2257">TS</a>]

00:37:40   was more they were more openly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2260">TS</a>]

00:37:42   contentious but they were still major I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2262">TS</a>]

00:37:46   mean they get it you needed resources to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2266">TS</a>]

00:37:50   be able to be heard and resources always [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2270">TS</a>]

00:37:54   come with strings attached and now we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2274">TS</a>]

00:37:56   just don't have that right you don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2276">TS</a>]

00:37:58   need you don't need any resources if [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2278">TS</a>]

00:38:02   you're the one person sitting there with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2282">TS</a>]

00:38:03   your cell phone when a comet streaks [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2283">TS</a>]

00:38:06   across the sky yet that you did your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2286">TS</a>]

00:38:09   footage will find a place in the world [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2289">TS</a>]

00:38:12   right here mean youyou that will be on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2292">TS</a>]

00:38:15   the news tomorrow even if you're the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2295">TS</a>]

00:38:18   only one that caught it and that doesn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2298">TS</a>]

00:38:20   you don't have you're not a reporter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2300">TS</a>]

00:38:21   you're not getting you're not out there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2301">TS</a>]

00:38:24   working your beach and that's something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2304">TS</a>]

00:38:27   there's a distinction there that started [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2307">TS</a>]

00:38:29   i'm gonna get in the nineteen eighties [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2309">TS</a>]

00:38:29   which is if you had a portable video [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2309">TS</a>]

00:38:33   camera [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2313">TS</a>]

00:38:34   you could be the one who is actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2314">TS</a>]

00:38:35   recording the media and res like you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2315">TS</a>]

00:38:39   basically Ronnie can King right but the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2319">TS</a>]

00:38:42   things you've always been there has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2322">TS</a>]

00:38:44   always been the opportunity for you to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2324">TS</a>]

00:38:45   be interviewed as a witness of a thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2325">TS</a>]

00:38:47   but as the witness of a thing I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2327">TS</a>]

00:38:49   need a semiotic air your Europe you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2329">TS</a>]

00:38:52   basically part of the story now but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2332">TS</a>]

00:38:54   you're not the one who's actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2334">TS</a>]

00:38:55   bringing the evidence of that to the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2335">TS</a>]

00:38:57   public [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2337">TS</a>]

00:38:58   right right it's still not still like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2338">TS</a>]

00:39:00   point of view you're the person who says [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2340">TS</a>]

00:39:02   I saw the accident and this is what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2342">TS</a>]

00:39:03   happened well I saw the accident and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2343">TS</a>]

00:39:05   this is what happened [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2345">TS</a>]

00:39:06   whereas I think there is that we tend to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2346">TS</a>]

00:39:08   give more weight to something like you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2348">TS</a>]

00:39:10   know that the Bigfoot tape right i mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2350">TS</a>]

00:39:12   like when you're able to go out and say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2352">TS</a>]

00:39:13   you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2353">TS</a>]

00:39:14   i recorded this that has primacy and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2354">TS</a>]

00:39:16   that's something that didn't exist as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2356">TS</a>]

00:39:18   widely before release the eighties [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2358">TS</a>]

00:39:20   probably the nineties right but i think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2360">TS</a>]

00:39:23   the the the other side and the thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2363">TS</a>]

00:39:26   that we're now in a I don't know whether [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2366">TS</a>]

00:39:30   this is a transitional moment or whether [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2370">TS</a>]

00:39:33   it's this is this is the thing about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2373">TS</a>]

00:39:35   transitional moments right you don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2375">TS</a>]

00:39:36   know whether this is just a five-year [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2376">TS</a>]

00:39:39   blip or whether this is the beginning of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2379">TS</a>]

00:39:41   a new way of thinking and in most cases [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2381">TS</a>]

00:39:43   i think it's both right it's both a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2383">TS</a>]

00:39:45   five-year blip and also five years from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2385">TS</a>]

00:39:49   now we're going to be on the other side [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2389">TS</a>]

00:39:50   of this and will be somewhere different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2390">TS</a>]

00:39:52   than we would have been but everybody's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2392">TS</a>]

00:39:54   a pundit now everybody's x everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2394">TS</a>]

00:39:57   thinks that they're hot take is also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2397">TS</a>]

00:40:01   newsworthy and that's what makes the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2401">TS</a>]

00:40:07   that's what makes the moment so pregnant [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2407">TS</a>]

00:40:10   like that and and I thought about this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2410">TS</a>]

00:40:13   relative to this woman coming up to me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2413">TS</a>]

00:40:16   in the audience and trying to dress me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2416">TS</a>]

00:40:19   down for a thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2419">TS</a>]

00:40:20   ultimately what happened was i did a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2420">TS</a>]

00:40:23   performance and she didn't like the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2423">TS</a>]

00:40:25   performance and in that sense it's just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2425">TS</a>]

00:40:29   like you say you don't have to be liked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2429">TS</a>]

00:40:30   by everybody there's always going to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2430">TS</a>]

00:40:32   somebody that doesn't like Guy Fieri and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2432">TS</a>]

00:40:35   they're not going to like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2435">TS</a>]

00:40:36   performance but her sense of her own [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2436">TS</a>]

00:40:40   importance or her sense of her role in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2440">TS</a>]

00:40:43   that situation was not like I didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2443">TS</a>]

00:40:45   like that performance but rather she saw [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2445">TS</a>]

00:40:49   herself as the I mean her job in that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2449">TS</a>]

00:40:53   situation was to school me and shame me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2453">TS</a>]

00:40:58   and correct the wrong and she had no [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2458">TS</a>]

00:41:03   agency there she wasn't a stakeholder [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2463">TS</a>]

00:41:05   she was just purchased a observer but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2465">TS</a>]

00:41:08   all of a sudden she adopted it was now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2468">TS</a>]

00:41:13   her responsibility to on behalf of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2473">TS</a>]

00:41:16   people onstage fellow performers on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2476">TS</a>]

00:41:19   behalf of them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2479">TS</a>]

00:41:20   she needed now to write this injustice [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2480">TS</a>]

00:41:24   and that's new and and it isn't simply [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2484">TS</a>]

00:41:31   like I don't I didn't like that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2491">TS</a>]

00:41:34   I'm i don't like that performer I didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2494">TS</a>]

00:41:36   like that performance and in the past [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2496">TS</a>]

00:41:38   you would go home and you dried-up you'd [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2498">TS</a>]

00:41:40   write up a blog post or you would write [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2500">TS</a>]

00:41:42   an article for the local newspaper that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2502">TS</a>]

00:41:46   said this was a performance I thought it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2506">TS</a>]

00:41:48   was bad but to add that other elements [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2508">TS</a>]

00:41:53   of you know i am a i'm a crusader [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2513">TS</a>]

00:41:57   personally for and and both working as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2517">TS</a>]

00:42:04   as a like a media member and also as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2524">TS</a>]

00:42:10   what is this other what what is this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2530">TS</a>]

00:42:13   other job you know the job of the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2533">TS</a>]

00:42:20   like the the sort of puritanical the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2540">TS</a>]

00:42:27   the one picking up the first stone you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2547">TS</a>]

00:42:30   know almost but I mean here's the thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2550">TS</a>]

00:42:32   is the part of his shifting the idea of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2552">TS</a>]

00:42:36   what we consider a political space so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2556">TS</a>]

00:42:38   you know the kinds of folks who started [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2558">TS</a>]

00:42:40   let's say in particular you can have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2560">TS</a>]

00:42:41   people who were striking for union [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2561">TS</a>]

00:42:45   issues in previous generations or in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2565">TS</a>]

00:42:48   sixties and seventies people who are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2568">TS</a>]

00:42:50   protesting whether that is segregation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2570">TS</a>]

00:42:53   or protesting nuclear proliferation but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2573">TS</a>]

00:42:57   you know there are people who took an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2577">TS</a>]

00:42:59   active role in saying like i need to to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2579">TS</a>]

00:43:03   paraphrase that guy from berkeley you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2583">TS</a>]

00:43:04   know throw yourself upon the gears [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2584">TS</a>]

00:43:06   it's my job here to go in and disrupt [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2586">TS</a>]

00:43:08   what's happening here because and again [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2588">TS</a>]

00:43:11   we can all disagree on whether it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2591">TS</a>]

00:43:12   appropriate or not but I'm just saying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2592">TS</a>]

00:43:13   there was a time when you could say look [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2593">TS</a>]

00:43:15   you know I I don't want to have a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2595">TS</a>]

00:43:17   nuclear reactor my backyard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2597">TS</a>]

00:43:19   I'm going to chain myself to a fence or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2599">TS</a>]

00:43:21   the kind of folks who would say like I'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2601">TS</a>]

00:43:22   gonna go put a daisy into the the police [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2602">TS</a>]

00:43:25   officers rifle with whatever but it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2605">TS</a>]

00:43:27   just that now today it feels like and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2607">TS</a>]

00:43:30   don't have a strong super strong opinion [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2610">TS</a>]

00:43:32   but I'm just suggesting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2612">TS</a>]

00:43:33   that now the politics has moved from you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2613">TS</a>]

00:43:37   know Superfund sites two stages and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2617">TS</a>]

00:43:40   people who want to throw themselves upon [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2620">TS</a>]

00:43:41   the gears and levers are by the are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2621">TS</a>]

00:43:44   taking sent a similar role to what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2624">TS</a>]

00:43:46   people would have done to protest in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2626">TS</a>]

00:43:47   different time whether I agree with them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2627">TS</a>]

00:43:49   or not they feel so strongly about this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2629">TS</a>]

00:43:51   that they can't allow this to go on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2631">TS</a>]

00:43:52   interrupted yeah is I mean I guess what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2632">TS</a>]

00:43:57   I mean there's not really a question [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2637">TS</a>]

00:43:58   there do you see any analog between what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2638">TS</a>]

00:44:00   people were doing in previous [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2640">TS</a>]

00:44:01   generations to whether that's the lights [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2641">TS</a>]

00:44:03   you know attacking mechanical devices or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2643">TS</a>]

00:44:06   whether that's people saying you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2646">TS</a>]

00:44:08   I'm gonna sit at this lunch counter do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2648">TS</a>]

00:44:10   you see if you don't you see that as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2650">TS</a>]

00:44:11   part of some extension of a protest to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2651">TS</a>]

00:44:13   say I'm just doing it in a different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2653">TS</a>]

00:44:14   place now I well I mean I i see exactly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2654">TS</a>]

00:44:20   the point you're making [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2660">TS</a>]

00:44:21   and I wonder and i think it's i think [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2661">TS</a>]

00:44:23   it's related to the fact that right now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2663">TS</a>]

00:44:27   it's very clear to members of our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2667">TS</a>]

00:44:36   community though the left-right that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2676">TS</a>]

00:44:42   we're living in a world in which blacks [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2682">TS</a>]

00:44:47   and Hispanics and women and transgender [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2687">TS</a>]

00:44:50   people are being oppressed by a white [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2690">TS</a>]

00:44:56   patriarchal of like uber culture and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2696">TS</a>]

00:45:01   when you listen to the Trump supporters [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2701">TS</a>]

00:45:03   they are equally convinced that white [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2703">TS</a>]

00:45:10   Christian America is being violently [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2710">TS</a>]

00:45:14   oppressed by the like Mochaccino [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2714">TS</a>]

00:45:20   coalition of liberal intellectual media [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2720">TS</a>]

00:45:24   Hollywood well yeah that's that that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2724">TS</a>]

00:45:28   the tease out is it sits cysts they see [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2728">TS</a>]

00:45:31   that as systemic oppression [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2731">TS</a>]

00:45:34   yeah but that we are that the left is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2734">TS</a>]

00:45:37   the is the majority is them is the mega [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2737">TS</a>]

00:45:40   culture and that they're that the white [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2740">TS</a>]

00:45:43   Christian America is is increasingly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2743">TS</a>]

00:45:46   like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2746">TS</a>]

00:45:47   being violently suppressed and when you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2747">TS</a>]

00:45:53   start to listen to everyone's story now [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2753">TS</a>]

00:45:55   in the u.s. he realized that every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2755">TS</a>]

00:45:58   single person every single political [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2758">TS</a>]

00:46:01   group every every entity has a narrative [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2761">TS</a>]

00:46:05   in which they are being victimized and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2765">TS</a>]

00:46:11   oppressed by a majority out and and it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2771">TS</a>]

00:46:18   leaves me with the feeling that not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2778">TS</a>]

00:46:21   every single person is not every group [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2781">TS</a>]

00:46:23   of people in America can be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2783">TS</a>]

00:46:25   simultaneously oppressed by a by a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2785">TS</a>]

00:46:27   majority but that is the that is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2787">TS</a>]

00:46:32   current it's not it's not just a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2792">TS</a>]

00:46:35   vocabulary and it's not an expedient [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2795">TS</a>]

00:46:38   political system it's a it's heartfelt [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2798">TS</a>]

00:46:41   belief and from our side [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2801">TS</a>]

00:46:44   it's very clear it in the minutiae right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2804">TS</a>]

00:46:48   in each individual case of police [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2808">TS</a>]

00:46:51   brutality or of all the injustice 'as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2811">TS</a>]

00:46:55   rape culture and cetera [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2815">TS</a>]

00:46:57   each one of those things in its [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2817">TS</a>]

00:46:59   specificity it's very clear who the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2819">TS</a>]

00:47:01   oppressor is and what our job as the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2821">TS</a>]

00:47:05   oppressed or representatives of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2825">TS</a>]

00:47:08   oppressed or allies of the oppressed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2828">TS</a>]

00:47:10   like where where our work should be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2830">TS</a>]

00:47:12   where to focus our efforts right but you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2832">TS</a>]

00:47:16   listen to the other side of the aisle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2836">TS</a>]

00:47:19   and in the specificity of their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2839">TS</a>]

00:47:23   oppression there's just exactly the same [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2843">TS</a>]

00:47:26   conviction that in this instance and in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2846">TS</a>]

00:47:29   that instance and in that instance the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2849">TS</a>]

00:47:32   oppression is so clear and so dramatic [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2852">TS</a>]

00:47:36   and so threatening and they are also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2856">TS</a>]

00:47:39   stringing together a narrative extremely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2859">TS</a>]

00:47:43   compelling to themselves that those that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2863">TS</a>]

00:47:47   the specificity of those things [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2867">TS</a>]

00:47:51   spells a you know a widespread culture [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2871">TS</a>]

00:47:58   of intolerance that's coming from the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2878">TS</a>]

00:48:00   other side of the aisle and so although [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2880">TS</a>]

00:48:04   I absolutely see like the analogy you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2884">TS</a>]

00:48:06   making to the anti-war movement with the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2886">TS</a>]

00:48:09   civil rights movement where people are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2889">TS</a>]

00:48:10   our see an injustice and are trying to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2890">TS</a>]

00:48:12   change themselves to to the gates of the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2892">TS</a>]

00:48:15   weapons plant that is there percent i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2895">TS</a>]

00:48:19   think that is absolutely people's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2899">TS</a>]

00:48:21   perception of their of the work that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2901">TS</a>]

00:48:23   they're doing but it's happening it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2903">TS</a>]

00:48:26   more and more granular all the time [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2906">TS</a>]

00:48:29   until you meet people who use who are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2909">TS</a>]

00:48:34   also i mean like again not to not to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2914">TS</a>]

00:48:37   just keep dumping on this this one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2917">TS</a>]

00:48:39   individual but she was a white woman at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2919">TS</a>]

00:48:41   a at a conference you had to apply to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2921">TS</a>]

00:48:44   attend that cost a lot of money to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2924">TS</a>]

00:48:47   attend but she was perceiving herself [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2927">TS</a>]

00:48:51   not only as a victim but also as a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2931">TS</a>]

00:48:53   defender of other people that she was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2933">TS</a>]

00:48:58   imposing victimhood on you get the sense [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2938">TS</a>]

00:49:01   that this is happening is the way you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2941">TS</a>]

00:49:03   describing this kind of sounds like it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2943">TS</a>]

00:49:05   blanket party on John you get the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2945">TS</a>]

00:49:06   feeling this person was there to do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2946">TS</a>]

00:49:07   other things of this sort with different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2947">TS</a>]

00:49:10   ideas and causes or do you think she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2950">TS</a>]

00:49:13   just was specifically wanted to take you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2953">TS</a>]

00:49:16   out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2956">TS</a>]

00:49:16   I I mean who knows I'm it's not like I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2956">TS</a>]

00:49:21   went and read her Twitter feed but her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2961">TS</a>]

00:49:23   her comments to me in both instances [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2963">TS</a>]

00:49:26   were um you know like presupposed a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2966">TS</a>]

00:49:32   truth that didn't exist like she was [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2972">TS</a>]

00:49:34   judging me based on my appearance and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2974">TS</a>]

00:49:38   presumed from my appearance and my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2978">TS</a>]

00:49:41   position at the festival that I was all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2981">TS</a>]

00:49:44   these things that she was against her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2984">TS</a>]

00:49:46   and she came into the festival already [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2986">TS</a>]

00:49:50   against those things and found a way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2990">TS</a>]

00:49:53   that we found a way to it to fit my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2993">TS</a>]

00:49:56   behavior however little it resembled [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2996">TS</a>]

00:49:59   what she thought it was you know into [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/2999">TS</a>]

00:50:01   into that matrix [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3001">TS</a>]

00:50:03   but I see it at in trying to make sense [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3003">TS</a>]

00:50:08   in trying to parse our our our current [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3008">TS</a>]

00:50:11   political situation like I hear that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3011">TS</a>]

00:50:13   same kind of like confidence indignation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3013">TS</a>]

00:50:22   from people that I disagree with it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3022">TS</a>]

00:50:25   totally and I'm talking about people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3025">TS</a>]

00:50:27   that think that the that the white race [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3027">TS</a>]

00:50:28   is under attack but the tone and the and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3028">TS</a>]

00:50:33   the victimhood is like a note for knows [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3033">TS</a>]

00:50:37   coming from the same emotional place and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3037">TS</a>]

00:50:42   that's why I feel like this is a this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3042">TS</a>]

00:50:45   a transitional moment right we cannot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3045">TS</a>]

00:50:47   continue along a path where we each [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3047">TS</a>]

00:50:51   individually become more and more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3051">TS</a>]

00:50:53   convinced that we are being sailed by at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3053">TS</a>]

00:50:57   you know by every other group of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3057">TS</a>]

00:50:58   stakeholders you know that we it's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3058">TS</a>]

00:51:01   sustainable [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3061">TS</a>]

00:51:02   it's a it's a moment and eventually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3062">TS</a>]

00:51:05   people are going to have to start and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3065">TS</a>]

00:51:08   this is part of I think acknowledging [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3068">TS</a>]

00:51:10   your privilege which is that each [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3070">TS</a>]

00:51:13   individual group is going to have to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3073">TS</a>]

00:51:15   start acknowledging their own power and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3075">TS</a>]

00:51:17   acknowledging it in its appropriate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3077">TS</a>]

00:51:20   context and saying you know like I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3080">TS</a>]

00:51:23   NOT a victim I am empowered there are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3083">TS</a>]

00:51:28   challenges i still feel disenfranchised [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3088">TS</a>]

00:51:32   but that dissing front that but that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3092">TS</a>]

00:51:34   disenfranchisement I feel in this area [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3094">TS</a>]

00:51:37   is not like a is not a massive [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3097">TS</a>]

00:51:43   conspiracy to disenfranchise me it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3103">TS</a>]

00:51:45   simply that I'm encountering people that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3105">TS</a>]

00:51:48   disagree or that you know that my power [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3108">TS</a>]

00:51:50   is truncated in this way and in that or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3110">TS</a>]

00:51:52   was historically but actually I do have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3112">TS</a>]

00:51:55   a lot of power now i am a you know I'm a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3115">TS</a>]

00:51:57   middle-class university student or I am [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3117">TS</a>]

00:52:00   a you know I'm a successful business [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3120">TS</a>]

00:52:02   person or I am i I'm just a blogger but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3122">TS</a>]

00:52:06   my voice is heard in a way that that in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3126">TS</a>]

00:52:09   the past [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3129">TS</a>]

00:52:10   no one of my stature could have been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3130">TS</a>]

00:52:13   heard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3133">TS</a>]

00:52:13   and-and-and that that's the next level [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3133">TS</a>]

00:52:16   of examining privilege [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3136">TS</a>]

00:52:18   well yeah that or acknowledging its not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3138">TS</a>]

00:52:21   just examining it's like it's like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3141">TS</a>]

00:52:23   nobody I mean acknowledging part is huge [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3143">TS</a>]

00:52:25   but I mean that's and I think it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3145">TS</a>]

00:52:27   actually super instructive it's been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3147">TS</a>]

00:52:29   really it's been a good tonic for me as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3149">TS</a>]

00:52:31   much as I push back initially it's been [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3151">TS</a>]

00:52:34   a good tonic for me as a human being but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3154">TS</a>]

00:52:36   i wanna just say one thing here on from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3156">TS</a>]

00:52:39   admittedly admittedly from a remove [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3159">TS</a>]

00:52:41   because i'm not super involved in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3161">TS</a>]

00:52:43   conversation but i think it's been it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3163">TS</a>]

00:52:46   been very interesting to remove watch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3166">TS</a>]

00:52:50   the evolution discussion about feminism [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3170">TS</a>]

00:52:52   which started out for a long time is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3172">TS</a>]

00:52:55   mostly white women and their allies and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3175">TS</a>]

00:52:58   over time there's a different strain [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3178">TS</a>]

00:53:00   that developed of white people black [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3180">TS</a>]

00:53:03   feminism and a very very different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3183">TS</a>]

00:53:06   strain of latina feminism and a real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3186">TS</a>]

00:53:08   different approach for that and like do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3188">TS</a>]

00:53:10   you want to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3190">TS</a>]

00:53:10   how is this inclusive is this the angle [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3190">TS</a>]

00:53:12   you know that's just the whole idea that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3192">TS</a>]

00:53:14   feminism is not some spray on approach [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3194">TS</a>]

00:53:16   to quality but it's actually [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3196">TS</a>]

00:53:18   fundamentally different way of thinking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3198">TS</a>]

00:53:19   about the world an idea that has the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3199">TS</a>]

00:53:21   biggest people are still getting their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3201">TS</a>]

00:53:22   head around i remember you know the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3202">TS</a>]

00:53:24   gender studies class i had college first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3204">TS</a>]

00:53:26   being presented with that idea at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3206">TS</a>]

00:53:29   age of about twenty be pretty blown away [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3209">TS</a>]

00:53:31   because i always thought oh blah pra [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3211">TS</a>]

00:53:33   that's just that's so silly like we know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3213">TS</a>]

00:53:35   how do we need to do this just that idea [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3215">TS</a>]

00:53:37   that fits that I mean and how I just I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3217">TS</a>]

00:53:41   I'm very intrigued by that idea that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3221">TS</a>]

00:53:44   even white women in that instance are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3224">TS</a>]

00:53:47   going to have to look at a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3227">TS</a>]

00:53:49   unexamined hot precepts about what they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3229">TS</a>]

00:53:53   believe and historically have existed a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3233">TS</a>]

00:53:54   certain way in order not simply to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3234">TS</a>]

00:53:57   accommodate other people but to truly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3237">TS</a>]

00:54:00   understand that for me to really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3240">TS</a>]

00:54:02   understand the nature of this thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3242">TS</a>]

00:54:03   we're mostly my kind of voice of has had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3243">TS</a>]

00:54:05   privacy it's really important for me to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3245">TS</a>]

00:54:08   open my idea of what this thing is and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3248">TS</a>]

00:54:11   that means sitting listening to other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3251">TS</a>]

00:54:12   people who historically have been out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3252">TS</a>]

00:54:14   there saying i wanted i wanna defend and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3254">TS</a>]

00:54:17   I want to support whose position i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3257">TS</a>]

00:54:20   assume i'm taking care of and then they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3260">TS</a>]

00:54:22   come up and a lot of you know black [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3262">TS</a>]

00:54:23   ladies come up and go you know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3263">TS</a>]

00:54:24   actually we would do this a real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3264">TS</a>]

00:54:26   different way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3266">TS</a>]

00:54:27   Latina ladies come up and say you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3267">TS</a>]

00:54:28   what we would do this a real different [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3268">TS</a>]

00:54:29   way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3269">TS</a>]

00:54:30   that's AII that's something where every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3270">TS</a>]

00:54:32   time i hear about that I'm really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3272">TS</a>]

00:54:33   intrigued and it's not a snarky way at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3273">TS</a>]

00:54:35   all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3275">TS</a>]

00:54:35   it's another way of saying like you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3275">TS</a>]

00:54:37   when we talk about if there's anything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3277">TS</a>]

00:54:39   any part of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3279">TS</a>]

00:54:40   well the most important part of is a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3280">TS</a>]

00:54:42   white guys learn to suck it up and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3282">TS</a>]

00:54:43   realize that we're not the king of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3283">TS</a>]

00:54:44   everything left side that I really feel [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3284">TS</a>]

00:54:46   that way but the second part of it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3286">TS</a>]

00:54:48   what you're describing that's where the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3288">TS</a>]

00:54:49   guys you need to learn this more than [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3289">TS</a>]

00:54:50   anybody else but it doesn't stop there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3290">TS</a>]

00:54:52   by any stretch and I think if there's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3292">TS</a>]

00:54:54   anything that's a little bit damaging [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3294">TS</a>]

00:54:56   and destructive it's to sit on a perch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3296">TS</a>]

00:54:58   and feel like we finally understood how [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3298">TS</a>]

00:54:59   a situation works it's the softness and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3299">TS</a>]

00:55:01   openness to understanding how other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3301">TS</a>]

00:55:03   people have a point of view about these [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3303">TS</a>]

00:55:05   things that that helps these ideas [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3305">TS</a>]

00:55:07   become something more than just this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3307">TS</a>]

00:55:09   this striding political position it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3309">TS</a>]

00:55:11   becomes a way of what's up as you say [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3311">TS</a>]

00:55:13   about technology it's a way of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3313">TS</a>]

00:55:14   understanding the world in a way that is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3314">TS</a>]

00:55:16   really illuminating yeah and connect can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3316">TS</a>]

00:55:18   be can be a wonderful thing so I'm not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3318">TS</a>]

00:55:21   trying to pass off the hole where you go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3321">TS</a>]

00:55:22   prove which 2i got the most boy believe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3322">TS</a>]

00:55:24   me I i I'm getting that but it is it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3324">TS</a>]

00:55:27   intriguing to watch and you know and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3327">TS</a>]

00:55:29   then to see how that will evolve [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3329">TS</a>]

00:55:31   where is it you know it's we think about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3331">TS</a>]

00:55:34   that d punching up and punching down and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3334">TS</a>]

00:55:37   you know at what point is interrupting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3337">TS</a>]

00:55:39   that show not punching up you know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3339">TS</a>]

00:55:42   I mean I'm absolutely and I think I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3342">TS</a>]

00:55:44   think to your point like there is still [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3344">TS</a>]

00:55:47   a tremendous energy within white [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3347">TS</a>]

00:55:50   feminists that fails to I mean that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3350">TS</a>]

00:55:54   very defensive when confronted by [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3354">TS</a>]

00:55:57   feminists of color right like that like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3357">TS</a>]

00:56:00   like that is that kind of the tension [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3360">TS</a>]

00:56:03   within feminism is fascinating to watch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3363">TS</a>]

00:56:05   but like the the approach right in this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3365">TS</a>]

00:56:09   cultural moment of acknowledging [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3369">TS</a>]

00:56:11   privilege and being and in a way being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3371">TS</a>]

00:56:15   ashamed of that that first moment of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3375">TS</a>]

00:56:18   like oh my god i didn't know how much [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3378">TS</a>]

00:56:20   privilege i had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3380">TS</a>]

00:56:21   and I'm ashamed that i was operating in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3381">TS</a>]

00:56:24   the world thinking that I was thinking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3384">TS</a>]

00:56:28   that I have the same challenges that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3388">TS</a>]

00:56:29   everybody else did [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3389">TS</a>]

00:56:30   when in fact i had quite a few [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3390">TS</a>]

00:56:33   advantages that it just never occurred [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3393">TS</a>]

00:56:35   to me i had um and that that idea of it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3395">TS</a>]

00:56:42   of saying wow I have a lot of advantages [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3402">TS</a>]

00:56:46   that I wasn't aware of and that and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3406">TS</a>]

00:56:50   taking away the the element of of um [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3410">TS</a>]

00:56:55   really of shame about it but also of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3415">TS</a>]

00:56:59   saying like that i mean each individual [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3419">TS</a>]

00:57:02   person has advantages even out of a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3422">TS</a>]

00:57:06   cultural context that that we weren't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3426">TS</a>]

00:57:09   taught to think that any of us really to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3429">TS</a>]

00:57:13   wake up in the morning and count our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3433">TS</a>]

00:57:14   advantages and and acknowledge like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3434">TS</a>]

00:57:19   gracefully and with humility that not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3439">TS</a>]

00:57:23   everybody has those advantages and those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3443">TS</a>]

00:57:25   aren't limited to advantages of gender [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3445">TS</a>]

00:57:27   or race and that is a very I think up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3447">TS</a>]

00:57:31   its on the path to a very much more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3451">TS</a>]

00:57:34   spiritual culture at and right now we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3454">TS</a>]

00:57:38   in a in this moment where a lot of our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3458">TS</a>]

00:57:43   intellectual capital is being kind of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3463">TS</a>]

00:57:45   expended both sort of pillorying other [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3465">TS</a>]

00:57:51   people for privileged that they aren't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3471">TS</a>]

00:57:53   acknowledging and ourselves for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3473">TS</a>]

00:57:56   privileged that in a lot of cases we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3476">TS</a>]

00:57:58   having been made aware of it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3478">TS</a>]

00:58:00   we're now trying to address at all times [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3480">TS</a>]

00:58:02   right or or to the best of our ability [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3482">TS</a>]

00:58:04   but you can't you can't seed power right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3484">TS</a>]

00:58:08   and you know where you have to you have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3488">TS</a>]

00:58:11   to take power and that's Machiavelli but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3491">TS</a>]

00:58:15   it is an untrue right power that's given [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3495">TS</a>]

00:58:17   to you by somebody else is power that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3497">TS</a>]

00:58:20   they still hold and if if it's being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3500">TS</a>]

00:58:24   granted to you it doesn't belong to you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3504">TS</a>]

00:58:27   power is something that he sees and and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3507">TS</a>]

00:58:32   hold and that's both individually and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3512">TS</a>]

00:58:36   Colt and you know in cultures but the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3516">TS</a>]

00:58:39   next step for us all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3519">TS</a>]

00:58:41   i think is to say you know what I mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3521">TS</a>]

00:58:43   it's we look over at the white [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3523">TS</a>]

00:58:45   Christians and say you guys are you guys [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3525">TS</a>]

00:58:49   have all the advantages right you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3529">TS</a>]

00:58:52   them your ostensibly the majority and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3532">TS</a>]

00:58:55   all these oil workers down in Louisiana [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3535">TS</a>]

00:58:56   who are living on food stamps are like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3536">TS</a>]

00:58:58   what the fuck are you talking about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3538">TS</a>]

00:59:00   we feel a sale that every at every level [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3540">TS</a>]

00:59:03   and part of our part of our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3543">TS</a>]

00:59:07   acknowledgement of our privilege is also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3547">TS</a>]

00:59:09   to sort of it like acknowledge their [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3549">TS</a>]

00:59:11   lack of it and and that isn't confined [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3551">TS</a>]

00:59:16   right i mean every day now I wake up and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3556">TS</a>]

00:59:20   not only reflect on my own privilege but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3560">TS</a>]

00:59:22   reflect on the many many ways that every [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3562">TS</a>]

00:59:26   person even even the richest guy in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3566">TS</a>]

00:59:29   Seattle wakes up and feels under assault [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3569">TS</a>]

00:59:31   somehow like nobody had a nobody had a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3571">TS</a>]

00:59:35   good day yesterday moving away right and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3575">TS</a>]

00:59:39   we've talked about that quite a bit [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3579">TS</a>]

00:59:40   the the fact that bill gates's day [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3580">TS</a>]

00:59:45   yesterday was probably pretty hard and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3585">TS</a>]

00:59:48   part of being human part of being a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3588">TS</a>]

00:59:54   successful human is to accept that and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3594">TS</a>]

00:59:56   and have sympathy for him to have sex [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3596">TS</a>]

00:59:56   and have sympathy for him to have sex [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3596">TS</a>]

01:00:00   empathy for everybody that you encounter [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3600">TS</a>]

01:00:01   and that's why you don't see shitty [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3601">TS</a>]

01:00:04   things to people on the internet it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3604">TS</a>]

01:00:07   why you don't it's why you're not a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3607">TS</a>]

01:00:09   gamer Gator but it's also important to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3609">TS</a>]

01:00:12   not wake up in a in like a a feeling of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3612">TS</a>]

01:00:15   of like hyper righteous liberal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3615">TS</a>]

01:00:18   superiority because everybody's having a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3618">TS</a>]

01:00:21   bad time but you know there's another [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3621">TS</a>]

01:00:24   part of this state's I that's really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3624">TS</a>]

01:00:27   complicated i wish i could talk about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3627">TS</a>]

01:00:28   this at a time other than we just talked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3628">TS</a>]

01:00:30   about a lot of political and cultural [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3630">TS</a>]

01:00:31   things but there's another part of this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3631">TS</a>]

01:00:33   which is that they're there is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3633">TS</a>]

01:00:34   regardless of the side that you're on I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3634">TS</a>]

01:00:37   do feel like there's a very strong [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3637">TS</a>]

01:00:38   culture of telling people what they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3638">TS</a>]

01:00:40   doing wrong [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3640">TS</a>]

01:00:41   these days to sort of your favorite [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3641">TS</a>]

01:00:42   topic for so long it is really like to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3642">TS</a>]

01:00:45   say you know what the internet is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3645">TS</a>]

01:00:47   constantly telling you that you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3647">TS</a>]

01:00:48   enjoying life wrong but here's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3648">TS</a>]

01:00:49   problem [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3649">TS</a>]

01:00:50   so they're doing the internet wrong yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3650">TS</a>]

01:00:51   but like it's in this i'm trying to make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3651">TS</a>]

01:00:53   a slight bridge to the personal which is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3653">TS</a>]

01:00:55   an impossible bridge to make because the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3655">TS</a>]

01:00:58   person has become very political [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3658">TS</a>]

01:00:59   so in a if if we could just play along [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3659">TS</a>]

01:01:03   with me for a minute that we have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3663">TS</a>]

01:01:05   developed into a more gotcha culture of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3665">TS</a>]

01:01:07   trying to find what somebody's doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3667">TS</a>]

01:01:09   wrong [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3669">TS</a>]

01:01:09   the one downside of that is that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3669">TS</a>]

01:01:12   stakes for changing have become a lot [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3672">TS</a>]

01:01:14   higher and there is less and less [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3674">TS</a>]

01:01:17   incentive to want to fix something about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3677">TS</a>]

01:01:22   yourself if it makes it look like you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3682">TS</a>]

01:01:24   a flip-flopper or being disloyal or your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3684">TS</a>]

01:01:27   capitulating and and so while I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3687">TS</a>]

01:01:29   understand the need for stridency and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3689">TS</a>]

01:01:30   lots of things on a personal basis the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3690">TS</a>]

01:01:32   part that I struggle with is and I you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3692">TS</a>]

01:01:35   know I'm not trying to tell anybody to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3695">TS</a>]

01:01:36   do it differently [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3696">TS</a>]

01:01:37   I'm just I'm just this is just a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3697">TS</a>]

01:01:38   personal feeling is that it is it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3698">TS</a>]

01:01:40   difficult when you do feel like you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3700">TS</a>]

01:01:42   doing what you can in whatever way and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3702">TS</a>]

01:01:47   it's understandably not always going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3707">TS</a>]

01:01:49   be it's never going to be enough for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3709">TS</a>]

01:01:51   some folks but i guess the thing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3711">TS</a>]

01:01:54   I'd love to see it evolve toward is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3714">TS</a>]

01:01:56   where a conversation about something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3716">TS</a>]

01:01:57   like privilege goes from being the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3717">TS</a>]

01:01:59   opportunity where you admit that you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3719">TS</a>]

01:02:01   wrong about everything to chance for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3721">TS</a>]

01:02:03   personal growth and the chance for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3723">TS</a>]

01:02:05   personal growth requires that you allow [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3725">TS</a>]

01:02:07   yourself to become kind of vulnerable [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3727">TS</a>]

01:02:09   even publicly vulnerable and I think the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3729">TS</a>]

01:02:11   risk to go straight back to talk in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3731">TS</a>]

01:02:14   front of a crowd i think the risk of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3734">TS</a>]

01:02:16   being publicly vulnerable is really [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3736">TS</a>]

01:02:17   tough for a lot of people on every side [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3737">TS</a>]

01:02:19   of every aisle and the more the more [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3739">TS</a>]

01:02:24   pitched these things become and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3744">TS</a>]

01:02:27   higher the stakes it feels like you are [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3747">TS</a>]

01:02:29   giving a part of yourself away [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3749">TS</a>]

01:02:31   personally by admitting there's anything [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3751">TS</a>]

01:02:33   that you could do better and I i know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3753">TS</a>]

01:02:36   that that is a second or third stage for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3756">TS</a>]

01:02:39   for a lot of kinds of changing growth to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3759">TS</a>]

01:02:41   get to that point that there has to be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3761">TS</a>]

01:02:42   this certain kind of you know nearly [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3762">TS</a>]

01:02:45   violent political confrontation to make [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3765">TS</a>]

01:02:47   things happen but like I'm looking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3767">TS</a>]

01:02:49   forward to the point where it will be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3769">TS</a>]

01:02:50   okay to admit that you have feelings one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3770">TS</a>]

01:02:54   way or another and have a conversation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3774">TS</a>]

01:02:55   about that and that not go straight to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3775">TS</a>]

01:02:58   the political had that nut goes straight [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3778">TS</a>]

01:02:59   to the like here's the highlight reel of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3779">TS</a>]

01:03:01   how this person is a garbage person [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3781">TS</a>]

01:03:04   because they changed their mind about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3784">TS</a>]

01:03:05   something on either or any side and as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3785">TS</a>]

01:03:08   you know as long as it's this difficult [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3788">TS</a>]

01:03:10   to talk about something and have it be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3790">TS</a>]

01:03:12   an idea that you try on like a suit as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3792">TS</a>]

01:03:14   you like to say as long as that has such [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3794">TS</a>]

01:03:18   potential Giants takes to it it's hard [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3798">TS</a>]

01:03:20   for anybody to talk honestly and for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3800">TS</a>]

01:03:22   anything in any side to go you know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3802">TS</a>]

01:03:24   I got that part wrong even if you're the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3804">TS</a>]

01:03:26   person who's trying to castigate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3806">TS</a>]

01:03:27   somebody on the other side was doing it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3807">TS</a>]

01:03:28   wrong you know if you were wrong about [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3808">TS</a>]

01:03:30   them doing it wrong [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3810">TS</a>]

01:03:31   are you gonna admit that you doing that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3811">TS</a>]

01:03:33   no because you're just as invested in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3813">TS</a>]

01:03:35   that as the other person has now doubled [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3815">TS</a>]

01:03:37   down on their investment in that thing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3817">TS</a>]

01:03:39   and that doesn't get us anywhere because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3819">TS</a>]

01:03:41   that's then that's why this election [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3821">TS</a>]

01:03:43   year is partly why it's so disgusting [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3823">TS</a>]

01:03:46   and hard to watch [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3826">TS</a>]

01:03:47   it's nuts we all just dug in further and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3827">TS</a>]

01:03:50   further and further and nobody's allowed [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3830">TS</a>]

01:03:52   to be a little bit broken for a while in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3832">TS</a>]

01:03:53   the service of becoming fixed the reason [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3833">TS</a>]

01:03:57   i feel that this is a that this is a a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3837">TS</a>]

01:03:59   momentary space is that in a lot of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3839">TS</a>]

01:04:05   things like this I always sort of asked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3845">TS</a>]

01:04:07   what's the what's your endgame like in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3847">TS</a>]

01:04:10   calling attention to people's privilege [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3850">TS</a>]

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01:04:30   like no advantage no group of people has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3870">TS</a>]

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01:04:49   certain groups of people are privileged [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/3889">TS</a>]

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01:13:35   that's what the tone of that was hey [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4415">TS</a>]

01:13:38   here's something you're going to find [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4418">TS</a>]

01:13:40   empirically interesting you're going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4420">TS</a>]

01:13:41   hear a bunch of people talk and then the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4421">TS</a>]

01:13:43   talent show ya talkin and you're welcome [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4423">TS</a>]

01:13:46   to bring your family would be a great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4426">TS</a>]

01:13:47   getaway for you that's a nice offer and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4427">TS</a>]

01:13:49   i said uh is a pig or is this an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4429">TS</a>]

01:13:52   experience [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4432">TS</a>]

01:13:54   thanks for thinking of me ! John and the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4434">TS</a>]

01:14:00   reply is its kind of all of the above [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4440">TS</a>]

01:14:03   that's not acoustic storytelling small [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4443">TS</a>]

01:14:09   stipend with a family getaway [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4449">TS</a>]

01:14:13   oh i see you're so lucky right you get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4453">TS</a>]

01:14:16   to go out and play your music [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4456">TS</a>]

01:14:18   yeah and so I wrote back and said well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4458">TS</a>]

01:14:22   it does sound very much like I am being [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4462">TS</a>]

01:14:26   asked to perform a show because I'm not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4466">TS</a>]

01:14:31   just a guitar strum er I'm also a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4471">TS</a>]

01:14:35   storyteller so to say like play a few [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4475">TS</a>]

01:14:39   songs tell some stories like the one [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4479">TS</a>]

01:14:42   thing doesn't mitigate the other right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4482">TS</a>]

01:14:46   like the storytelling isn't something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4486">TS</a>]

01:14:48   that casual of fires the guitar player [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4488">TS</a>]

01:14:51   it's all about the framing the way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4491">TS</a>]

01:14:53   they're framing it is this they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4493">TS</a>]

01:14:55   trying to frame this in a very specific [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4495">TS</a>]

01:14:57   way [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4497">TS</a>]

01:14:58   yeah come on out detective frame it as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4498">TS</a>]

01:15:01   you are very fortunate to be invited to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4501">TS</a>]

01:15:03   this particular teddy bear picnic and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4503">TS</a>]

01:15:06   you know on top of it all dude it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4506">TS</a>]

01:15:08   gonna it's an experience and you can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4508">TS</a>]

01:15:10   bring your family owned part [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4510">TS</a>]

01:15:12   we're gonna give you money too can you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4512">TS</a>]

01:15:14   believe it a little bit you know some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4514">TS</a>]

01:15:15   gas money to get up there [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4515">TS</a>]

01:15:17   bring your family because you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4517">TS</a>]

01:15:21   that's how generous we are ya now I went [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4521">TS</a>]

01:15:24   online and I looked at this firm they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4524">TS</a>]

01:15:25   have like 40 plus employees and this is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4525">TS</a>]

01:15:31   a big resort somewhere up in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4531">TS</a>]

01:15:33   mountains that they're taking over for [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4533">TS</a>]

01:15:34   this event and you know when you just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4534">TS</a>]

01:15:37   look at the people on that they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4537">TS</a>]

01:15:39   everybody's kind of a chief something [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4539">TS</a>]

01:15:41   officer who's like 40 people and they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4541">TS</a>]

01:15:43   all have you know Chief development [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4543">TS</a>]

01:15:45   somebody but they did just really gets [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4545">TS</a>]

01:15:48   them you get the impression that the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4548">TS</a>]

01:15:49   that the lowest-paid person at this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4549">TS</a>]

01:15:51   place works amazing makes eighty-five [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4551">TS</a>]

01:15:52   thousand dollars here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4552">TS</a>]

01:15:53   yeah and it goes up from there right the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4553">TS</a>]

01:15:55   chief creative officer whoever this guy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4555">TS</a>]

01:15:57   is obviously is making a $250,000 here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4557">TS</a>]

01:16:00   and I haven't heard back with the small [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4560">TS</a>]

01:16:04   stipend is but i'm guessing two hundred [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4564">TS</a>]

01:16:07   fifty dollars uh-huh right isn't that in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4567">TS</a>]

01:16:10   about the small stipend area i said [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4570">TS</a>]

01:16:13   small stipend is definitely a thousand [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4573">TS</a>]

01:16:14   dollars [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4574">TS</a>]

01:16:15   yeah well i think a lot a lot under yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4575">TS</a>]

01:16:18   and so you have a stipend or an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4578">TS</a>]

01:16:21   honorarium you think I think I'd rather [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4581">TS</a>]

01:16:23   than honorarium says a lot that's a very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4583">TS</a>]

01:16:25   lieutenant-colonel kind of thing to get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4585">TS</a>]

01:16:26   a stipend is like this will let you get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4586">TS</a>]

01:16:29   some bottled water there are some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4589">TS</a>]

01:16:30   vending machines [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4590">TS</a>]

01:16:32   here's a little stipend it's like it's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4592">TS</a>]

01:16:34   like a per deem uh-huh but so I ran this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4594">TS</a>]

01:16:37   email by all the other podcasters at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4597">TS</a>]

01:16:41   festival who are all people that get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4601">TS</a>]

01:16:44   asked to give this kind of speech or [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4604">TS</a>]

01:16:47   this kind of thing was like hey come on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4607">TS</a>]

01:16:49   out yeah to our event you'll have an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4609">TS</a>]

01:16:53   uncomfortable bed in a weird room we get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4613">TS</a>]

01:16:57   it you'll be basically onstage the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4617">TS</a>]

01:17:00   entire time because everybody else at [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4620">TS</a>]

01:17:03   this event works together and they're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4623">TS</a>]

01:17:05   all bored of each other and we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4625">TS</a>]

01:17:06   inviting you because you're you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4626">TS</a>]

01:17:08   like cause everybody knows you and your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4628">TS</a>]

01:17:10   top of the list of people to invite and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4630">TS</a>]

01:17:13   so from the moment you wake up in the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4633">TS</a>]

01:17:14   morning you're going to be performing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4634">TS</a>]

01:17:15   and then you're going to put on a show [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4635">TS</a>]

01:17:18   for us and a and it's going to be great [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4638">TS</a>]

01:17:22   and then we're all going to sit around [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4642">TS</a>]

01:17:24   and I know you don't drink so you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4644">TS</a>]

01:17:28   there will be some Martinelli's apple [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4648">TS</a>]

01:17:30   juice there for you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4650">TS</a>]

01:17:31   well we all get drunk around the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4651">TS</a>]

01:17:33   campfire yeah it's going to be amazing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4653">TS</a>]

01:17:35   he performed campfire sucks for ya and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4655">TS</a>]

01:17:37   then you play the game and then you just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4657">TS</a>]

01:17:39   bring it out because of course you want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4659">TS</a>]

01:17:40   to bring in the guitar out with you and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4660">TS</a>]

01:17:42   if you say no everybody's gonna go all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4662">TS</a>]

01:17:44   so you're you know absolutely going to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4664">TS</a>]

01:17:49   bring the guitar out there and then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4669">TS</a>]

01:17:50   hopefully someone else will also play [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4670">TS</a>]

01:17:53   the guitar and we'll get drunk enough [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4673">TS</a>]

01:17:55   that you can have them the guitar and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4675">TS</a>]

01:17:56   like a knife like they are you a little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4676">TS</a>]

01:17:57   bit here course where is it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4677">TS</a>]

01:17:59   if I could ask just what state in [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4679">TS</a>]

01:18:01   Washington State up in the mountains [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4681">TS</a>]

01:18:03   where is it like a hour or less away [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4683">TS</a>]

01:18:06   let's call it an hour and a half ok so [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4686">TS</a>]

01:18:09   two hours big part there there's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4689">TS</a>]

01:18:10   extensive travel involved right [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4690">TS</a>]

01:18:14   um well that who I don't know when [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4694">TS</a>]

01:18:18   people ask me things like that at the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4698">TS</a>]

01:18:20   hell i wean myself off this but i will [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4700">TS</a>]

01:18:23   be candid with you John [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4703">TS</a>]

01:18:24   there was a time when somebody ask me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4704">TS</a>]

01:18:27   something like that i would say to them [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4707">TS</a>]

01:18:29   would you do this for the same amount of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4709">TS</a>]

01:18:33   money and if they said yes I absolutely [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4713">TS</a>]

01:18:38   would I said well that's even worse [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4718">TS</a>]

01:18:41   yeah because you really don't value your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4721">TS</a>]

01:18:43   time you must not realize how much money [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4723">TS</a>]

01:18:45   you should be making out what you're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4725">TS</a>]

01:18:46   doing if you would do that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4726">TS</a>]

01:18:48   so now you're dealing and your little [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4728">TS</a>]

01:18:50   dishonest you're dishonest would you go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4730">TS</a>]

01:18:52   and do your job here when you maybe [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4732">TS</a>]

01:18:55   that's a thing for a while there was the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4735">TS</a>]

01:18:56   whole like I'm gonna go to a conference [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4736">TS</a>]

01:18:57   guy thing like I just go and I give [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4737">TS</a>]

01:19:00   talks about deep doop doop doop but man [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4740">TS</a>]

01:19:03   that's still that still gets my dander [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4743">TS</a>]

01:19:05   up why don't we have a conversation like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4745">TS</a>]

01:19:07   adults about this if you want to hire me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4747">TS</a>]

01:19:09   like what we have that discussion but [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4749">TS</a>]

01:19:11   the fact that you keep bringing it back [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4751">TS</a>]

01:19:12   to the campfire spaghetti party we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4752">TS</a>]

01:19:14   going to have forget it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4754">TS</a>]

01:19:16   yeah so and so i have so i have so what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4756">TS</a>]

01:19:18   was the response of the others [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4758">TS</a>]

01:19:19   I don't ask the podcasters everybody [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4759">TS</a>]

01:19:21   rolled their eyes because everybody gets [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4761">TS</a>]

01:19:23   you mean we've all this is not a new [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4763">TS</a>]

01:19:25   conversation will talk about this all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4765">TS</a>]

01:19:26   the time all the hilarious letters we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4766">TS</a>]

01:19:29   get asking us to perform for free [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4769">TS</a>]

01:19:31   and uh oh and often a thing like this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4771">TS</a>]

01:19:34   where it's a you know this is a design [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4774">TS</a>]

01:19:36   firm that is they're going to pay [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4776">TS</a>]

01:19:37   twenty-five thousand dollars for a food [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4777">TS</a>]

01:19:43   and sundries this event right answer is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4783">TS</a>]

01:19:45   an internal event i think it is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4785">TS</a>]

01:19:48   yeah i think if I loved about that's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4788">TS</a>]

01:19:50   other part to ask is how much are you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4790">TS</a>]

01:19:51   charging anything for people to come to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4791">TS</a>]

01:19:53   this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4793">TS</a>]

01:19:53   no i think it's i think it's just a a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4793">TS</a>]

01:19:57   getaway for staff such as the first [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4797">TS</a>]

01:19:59   design people to go in and we'll walk [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4799">TS</a>]

01:20:01   with Wolves [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4801">TS</a>]

01:20:02   yeah and just you know and that's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4802">TS</a>]

01:20:03   thing we're just gonna talk we're gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4803">TS</a>]

01:20:04   share creative sup second hang out and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4804">TS</a>]

01:20:07   shit man and the and the shell real [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4807">TS</a>]

01:20:09   chill the presumption that I'm gonna get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4809">TS</a>]

01:20:12   as much out of talking to these people [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4812">TS</a>]

01:20:16   i I'm gonna get as much out of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4816">TS</a>]

01:20:18   spitballing with them about creative [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4818">TS</a>]

01:20:22   stuff as they're going to get out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4822">TS</a>]

01:20:24   spitballing that stuff with me right i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4824">TS</a>]

01:20:26   mean i went to it did I went to an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4826">TS</a>]

01:20:28   advertising agency at one point not very [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4828">TS</a>]

01:20:29   long ago that was owned by some some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4829">TS</a>]

01:20:31   friends and they said hey what if we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4831">TS</a>]

01:20:34   just gave you a desk here and i said [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4834">TS</a>]

01:20:38   this was a big firm and I said an odd [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4838">TS</a>]

01:20:42   thing to say I said how do you mean they [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4842">TS</a>]

01:20:43   were like we'll just give you like a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4843">TS</a>]

01:20:45   desk up here at the executive level on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4845">TS</a>]

01:20:48   which is a separate floor and your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4848">TS</a>]

01:20:50   includes can hang out and do whatever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4850">TS</a>]

01:20:52   yeah and you can come and just use the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4852">TS</a>]

01:20:54   space and just be around and hang out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4854">TS</a>]

01:20:58   and I was like and I mean what goes [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4858">TS</a>]

01:21:01   along with the desk card are you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4861">TS</a>]

01:21:02   offering me like a job [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4862">TS</a>]

01:21:05   Wow now I mean it's more like just here [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4865">TS</a>]

01:21:07   so we have extra space you come and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4867">TS</a>]

01:21:11   was like I come and we sit around with [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4871">TS</a>]

01:21:14   our wheelchairs wheeling around throwing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4874">TS</a>]

01:21:17   pencils at the ceiling and then that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4877">TS</a>]

01:21:20   turns into a big ad campaign for you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4880">TS</a>]

01:21:22   guys and I'm and I lucked out in having [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4882">TS</a>]

01:21:25   a desk that's a different than your you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4885">TS</a>]

01:21:28   know like critique of the privilege [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4888">TS</a>]

01:21:30   thing so if this goes really well if you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4890">TS</a>]

01:21:32   just give me a desk or whatever [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4892">TS</a>]

01:21:35   yeah we'll know that that has turned out [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4895">TS</a>]

01:21:37   great in a year because what happened [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4897">TS</a>]

01:21:41   well and the thing is every time I went [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4901">TS</a>]

01:21:42   by there they would walk me through [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4902">TS</a>]

01:21:44   their latest campaigns and be like what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4904">TS</a>]

01:21:46   you think of that and i would say well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4906">TS</a>]

01:21:48   that word right there is a little corny [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4908">TS</a>]

01:21:51   or did you ever consider this or that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4911">TS</a>]

01:21:54   maybe like nice so yeah there's a reason [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4914">TS</a>]

01:21:58   they want me there to give that give me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4918">TS</a>]

01:22:00   a free desk but because we're all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4920">TS</a>]

01:22:03   creatives it just seems like let's just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4923">TS</a>]

01:22:05   get in the creative space and just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4925">TS</a>]

01:22:07   create drama can and so that's the you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4927">TS</a>]

01:22:10   know like I'm going to go up to this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4930">TS</a>]

01:22:11   mountain event and we're going to just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4931">TS</a>]

01:22:14   brainstorm with each other about some [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4934">TS</a>]

01:22:16   creative shit you know would help me is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4936">TS</a>]

01:22:18   that i SAT with the with my guitar in a [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4938">TS</a>]

01:22:20   room and wrote some songs like that's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4940">TS</a>]

01:22:22   what I am a part of the whole point of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4942">TS</a>]

01:22:24   this man is getting away from the money [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4944">TS</a>]

01:22:25   chive that are the point man we gotta [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4945">TS</a>]

01:22:28   get off campus just like fucking just [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4948">TS</a>]

01:22:31   freaked out a little man just freaked [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4951">TS</a>]

01:22:32   out so David Reed david reese said i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4952">TS</a>]

01:22:35   would ask for ten thousand dollars and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4955">TS</a>]

01:22:36   settle for 75 did he sing it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4956">TS</a>]

01:22:38   he didn't look with six i would ask four [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4958">TS</a>]

01:22:41   thousand dollars beep boop boop and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4961">TS</a>]

01:22:45   was like you know the tent the the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4965">TS</a>]

01:22:47   $10,000 is definitely that that's the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4967">TS</a>]

01:22:50   line where you are saying go fuck [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4970">TS</a>]

01:22:52   yourself unless you come back and say oh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4972">TS</a>]

01:22:56   you have now made us realize what this [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4976">TS</a>]

01:23:00   actually is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4980">TS</a>]

01:23:01   you're the asshole you got invited to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4981">TS</a>]

01:23:02   Thanksgiving dinner and you want to give [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4982">TS</a>]

01:23:03   them a fucking invoice yeah what a dick [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4983">TS</a>]

01:23:06   that's right I'm i was allowed to bring [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4986">TS</a>]

01:23:07   my family all my god that they even said [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4987">TS</a>]

01:23:10   you could bring your family we could all [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4990">TS</a>]

01:23:12   stay in one in one room [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4992">TS</a>]

01:23:14   this week's winner is basically a free [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4994">TS</a>]

01:23:15   vacation John it's a prevarication and I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4995">TS</a>]

01:23:18   think and I think what you know i mean [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/4998">TS</a>]

01:23:20   in my I would never write this in an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5000">TS</a>]

01:23:22   email to them but you know what i would [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5002">TS</a>]

01:23:24   what I would say if one of them were [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5004">TS</a>]

01:23:26   listening to podcasts [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5006">TS</a>]

01:23:28   is it i like to choose my own vacation [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5008">TS</a>]

01:23:32   yeah it's funny how that works yeah I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5012">TS</a>]

01:23:34   can I'm perfectly capable of of finding [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5014">TS</a>]

01:23:37   a way to vacation with my family I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5017">TS</a>]

01:23:39   need that opportunity in lieu of money [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5019">TS</a>]

01:23:43   but it's it's strange when you get it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5023">TS</a>]

01:23:47   and it can this came through this didn't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5027">TS</a>]

01:23:49   come directly from the chief creative [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5029">TS</a>]

01:23:52   officer he knows a friend of mine who's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5032">TS</a>]

01:23:55   in the in the show business and sent it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5035">TS</a>]

01:23:59   to her and she sent it to me with her [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5039">TS</a>]

01:24:02   own little like this sounds like if I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5042">TS</a>]

01:24:03   did I don't know if this is up your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5043">TS</a>]

01:24:05   alley but this sounds like a fun [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5045">TS</a>]

01:24:06   opportunity right and so I'm not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5046">TS</a>]

01:24:09   replying to him i'm replying to her and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5049">TS</a>]

01:24:12   so I have now the potential to alienate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5052">TS</a>]

01:24:15   not just the guy but my friend because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5055">TS</a>]

01:24:19   he sent it to her like hey can you use [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5059">TS</a>]

01:24:24   your God can you use your magic to God [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5064">TS</a>]

01:24:26   rates not a public library you know the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5066">TS</a>]

01:24:29   thing is shame on them if you're you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5069">TS</a>]

01:24:31   know if you're a public library if your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5071">TS</a>]

01:24:33   macintosh user group like if your st. [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5073">TS</a>]

01:24:35   Jude's you know you could write to John [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5075">TS</a>]

01:24:38   Rother can say hey look what you want to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5078">TS</a>]

01:24:39   come here and play some music [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5079">TS</a>]

01:24:40   we have any money but we'd love for you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5080">TS</a>]

01:24:42   to come yeah or you could say you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5082">TS</a>]

01:24:44   basically pay for flight that's I don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5084">TS</a>]

01:24:46   mind that i don't mind getting that from [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5086">TS</a>]

01:24:47   somebody that admits that this is what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5087">TS</a>]

01:24:49   this is this is this what I don't like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5089">TS</a>]

01:24:51   is being made to feel like a turd [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5091">TS</a>]

01:24:52   because you're trying to do a business [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5092">TS</a>]

01:24:54   negotiation as though you're my [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5094">TS</a>]

01:24:56   brother-in-law that's such fucking weak [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5096">TS</a>]

01:24:59   sauce [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5099">TS</a>]

01:25:00   well and that's the creative and threw [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5100">TS</a>]

01:25:02   it through somebody else they've got an [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5102">TS</a>]

01:25:03   inner interlocutor here who's now she's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5103">TS</a>]

01:25:05   put her up on the line [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5105">TS</a>]

01:25:07   well and lamps if i write back and go [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5107">TS</a>]

01:25:09   haha this sounds like a gig at you know [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5109">TS</a>]

01:25:12   like she then then that's in our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5112">TS</a>]

01:25:15   relationship [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5115">TS</a>]

01:25:17   yep that now she's like um well okay I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5117">TS</a>]

01:25:20   guess [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5120">TS</a>]

01:25:21   sorry sorry I gave you this sorry I [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5121">TS</a>]

01:25:24   forward this to you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5124">TS</a>]

01:25:26   it's like will i'm not mad at you i'm [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5126">TS</a>]

01:25:29   just like like you and I should be on [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5129">TS</a>]

01:25:31   the same page here like my eating a hate [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5131">TS</a>]

01:25:34   being put in that position I really i [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5134">TS</a>]

01:25:36   have come to resent the whole like can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5136">TS</a>]

01:25:39   you contact this person for me then [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5139">TS</a>]

01:25:41   no offense but that whole idea of like [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5141">TS</a>]

01:25:43   we're basically vouch for me a near [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5143">TS</a>]

01:25:46   stranger to like taking the two times [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5146">TS</a>]

01:25:48   your you communicate with this person is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5148">TS</a>]

01:25:50   kind of famous will you use one of those [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5150">TS</a>]

01:25:52   two times to basically vouch for me even [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5152">TS</a>]

01:25:54   though you hardly know me at all of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5154">TS</a>]

01:25:55   course i would i'm not an animal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5155">TS</a>]

01:25:57   yeah so gross well so anyway and I that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5157">TS</a>]

01:26:00   sounds well just sitting here talking [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5160">TS</a>]

01:26:02   I you know I right now there's an email [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5162">TS</a>]

01:26:04   pendant ok i sent i sent an email saying [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5164">TS</a>]

01:26:07   yeah the more i read this the more it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5167">TS</a>]

01:26:09   sounds like they want me to perform well [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5169">TS</a>]

01:26:11   which is a thing which is what i do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5171">TS</a>]

01:26:13   professionally [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5173">TS</a>]

01:26:14   yeah the storytelling is actually also [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5174">TS</a>]

01:26:18   my job that's not a that's not [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5178">TS</a>]

01:26:20   professionals not friends sessional yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5180">TS</a>]

01:26:22   that's not a fun thing that I'm gonna [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5182">TS</a>]

01:26:24   just like hey here's an idea that we had [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5184">TS</a>]

01:26:27   have you ever considered telling stories [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5187">TS</a>]

01:26:29   in between your song we think you'd be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5189">TS</a>]

01:26:30   great at that man perfect said she can [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5190">TS</a>]

01:26:33   you bring your family i have thought of [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5193">TS</a>]

01:26:34   that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5194">TS</a>]

01:26:35   so I said that back to her now I she has [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5195">TS</a>]

01:26:37   not replied and maybe her lack of reply [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5197">TS</a>]

01:26:41   is you know is an email she sent back to [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5201">TS</a>]

01:26:44   him saying actually this doesn't seem [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5204">TS</a>]

01:26:46   like it's going to work or maybe she's [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5206">TS</a>]

01:26:48   sitting in her office like I'm too busy [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5208">TS</a>]

01:26:50   to deal with this shit how did I get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5210">TS</a>]

01:26:51   stuck in between this but some of that [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5211">TS</a>]

01:26:54   is rubbing off on me right she's now got [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5214">TS</a>]

01:26:56   a she's she's got a feeling like I'm too [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5216">TS</a>]

01:26:59   busy to deal with this roderick should [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5219">TS</a>]

01:27:01   have just said yes or he should have [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5221">TS</a>]

01:27:04   just said let me deal with this but he [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5224">TS</a>]

01:27:06   replied to me instead of to them because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5226">TS</a>]

01:27:09   i sent it to him instead of giving his [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5229">TS</a>]

01:27:12   email to them i don't know you know what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5232">TS</a>]

01:27:14   I mean like they're I do i do it sits [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5234">TS</a>]

01:27:16   awkwardness all the way down and if she [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5236">TS</a>]

01:27:18   doesn't reply [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5238">TS</a>]

01:27:19   problem solved if she replies and says [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5239">TS</a>]

01:27:21   this isn't i mean i should i should get [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5241">TS</a>]

01:27:24   out of this or you know if you don't [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5244">TS</a>]

01:27:25   want to do it reply to them i'm gonna be [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5245">TS</a>]

01:27:27   like you I don't they never emailed me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5247">TS</a>]

01:27:29   so but you know it's it and if they do [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5249">TS</a>]

01:27:34   i'm gonna say i would love to do this 10 [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5254">TS</a>]

01:27:37   grand seems fair [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5257">TS</a>]

01:27:38   beep boop that and then we'll see what [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5258">TS</a>]

01:27:40   they say no we were thinking two hundred [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5260">TS</a>]

01:27:42   fifty dollars [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5262">TS</a>]

01:27:43   oh well you don't really you don't value [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5263">TS</a>]

01:27:44   very highly me LOL [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5264">TS</a>]

01:27:46   rewrite this email for you uh we want [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5266">TS</a>]

01:27:49   you to stop everything that you're doing [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5269">TS</a>]

01:27:51   in your life to go beyond a place on the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5271">TS</a>]

01:27:53   planet for the amount of time that we [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5273">TS</a>]

01:27:54   declare and we have almost no budget is [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5274">TS</a>]

01:27:57   that something you'd be super into yeah [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5277">TS</a>]

01:27:58   yeah when this is important this is the [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5278">TS</a>]

01:28:01   thing that we're doing because we're [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5281">TS</a>]

01:28:03   gonna deduct the whole thing because [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5283">TS</a>]

01:28:04   it's professional development for and [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5284">TS</a>]

01:28:07   and our staff like this does qualify as [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5287">TS</a>]

01:28:12   a perk for them because they work [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5292">TS</a>]

01:28:15   60-hour weeks and we're taking them up [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5295">TS</a>]

01:28:19   to a hotel for free that's nice so it [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5299">TS</a>]

01:28:21   seems I probably within within our [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5301">TS</a>]

01:28:24   company washroom like a real good deal [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5304">TS</a>]

01:28:27   ever thought about being a storyteller [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5307">TS</a>]

01:28:29   me [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5309">TS</a>]

01:28:30   mm give it some thought I'm not sure I'd [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5310">TS</a>]

01:28:33   be good at it huh [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5313">TS</a>]

01:28:34   what are you doing this weekend uh you [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5314">TS</a>]

01:28:37   know it's funny my weekend Cirque kind [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5317">TS</a>]

01:28:39   of full up looking forward to bring your [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5319">TS</a>]

01:28:42   guitar [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5322">TS</a>]

01:28:47   [Music] [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5327">TS</a>]

01:28:48   holy shit i can feel like it's my god [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5328">TS</a>]

01:28:51   and my family [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5331">TS</a>]

01:28:52   what oh my god [<a href="https://overcast.fm/+BmEOxzDv4/5332">TS</a>]